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vybzkartel:
My friends husband is threatening her with divorce
His reason is that, he has dreamt three times seeing her sleeping with another man. He claims his dreams always are true and that he has caught her.

Please, is this divorce justified? The other funny thing is, this my embattled lady friend wants me to marry her if she is divorced .

Love never existed in their marriage, so any stupid dream can result to separation

If she wants you to marry her and you love her then it will work for both of you

ZzZzzzzzzzzzzzz:
What's the worst thing to be addicted to than sex? All my life, deep inside me, I have tried to downplay the fact that I love sex. But I have come to realize it's no use trying to lie to myself.

If you are wondering, I am 29years old. I have an insatiable appetite for sex and I initially didn't want to categorize it as a problem but now I see it like am cursed.
I don't even know! maybe it was because of my early exposure to sex. I had my first sexual encounter while I was 7 or there about. I have tried to find a reason to my addiction or super high libido/sex drive.

My past relationships has been marred with accusation that I love sex. And that was why most of the women I thought I could love left me. And yesterday was the height of it all.

A week ago, my girl and I had sex and she said she was tired but I kissed her, laugh and continued. That was the last time I saw her. She came on whatsapp and sent me a very long text. I ignored the message and went to her place. At the entrance of their house there was a saloon there. A lady I met that day smiled and said "how many round you wan go?", then the two apprentice with her that day smiled too. I was dumbfounded because she had no reason to be discussing our sexual life with people ". I didn't get to see her that day.

I thought since I had a high libido I was going to find someone that matches me too, but at the moment, I have every reason to conclude i am Addicted To sex... I am starting to feel it's a curse. Is there a solution to this? I just want a way out

Having urges for sex is not a strange thing, but not being able to control it is what makes it a problem

Having sex with a woman should be pleasuring to her not for her to be getting tired on it, that means you are doing 5 in one

Since you have enough time to think about sex and wants it, get married, you are now of age, get her pregnant in the process and when she puts to bed, I know you won't allow her to rest, start again to load her

By the time you have children all over and you can't afford to feed them and still save for rainny days

Then I will consider you as a man with lack of future plans

That's is when you will know that your woman has her own attitude that will frustrate your dick to go flaccid at her sight

EFULEFU1:
How expensive is it , please

I don't think you are serious with this

But if really you are serious, take her to a dentist

It will involve so many processes

For whatever reason her parents left her like that uptil now is bad parenting

icenti:
I bought Hisense not quite long from their showroom in icm. It's automatic single loader wash and spin. It doesn't consume power and it's stress free using it since you don't have to switch loader. Both washing raising and spinning are done in the same tub automatically. Paid about 67

Waooo, makes good sense, thanks

EzendiEgo1:
Hi good evening guys

I know this my question might sound as if am a novice in sex game.

I had a sex with a lady last week using two condoms for extra protection but my fear is that can she be pregnant after using condom to have sex with her. Because today she's showing sign of sickness.

Please I need answers here

If you are very sure you used condom and there was no lickage

Whatever signs she is showing, the pregnancy does not belong to you, may be she was already pregnant before having sex with you and wants to impose it on you

Tell her to her face that she knows you used condom and there was no lickage, so she should take the pregnancy to the original owner

Why is it that the most reched, horrible and ugly looking people are the people that have time to go to herbalist to do charms to distroy people

Dirkcoyt:
Why did I get this mention man?

What do you want from frozen ❓

mabea:
Twin tube is better

Thanks for your good advice, I will visit their showroom at town planning way, I may meet them on promo

mabea:
As someone who is in d industry thermocool remains one of best as long as washing machine is concern. Very strong. Low voltage. I don't work for them but they good with REF and WM

OK, good then

Must I go for the twin tube, can't I get a single tube to do all, still on manual

mabea:
Buy Hiar Thermocool

Thanks too, give me reasons based on your experience

meezynetwork:
Thermocool. Even small tiger gen can power it. Very durable

Really, is it that durable though I don't intend using small generator but at leat the regular family generator of 3kv

amyik:
Yes its manual, it's been great not been repaired before. I think it was bought from Panasonic show room. Then was 46k,. 2O15

Thanks very much for this

TrollKiller:
please help me. I am confused here.
I have a guy, like this guy na my personal person. One of my few close pardi that i have.
This guy has a sister, this girl is drop dead gorgeous. Very comely and friendly. Fun to be around.
Its just that there is a problem. His sis has been giving me green lights (i have confirmed this multiple times) for over a year. She likes to get physical with me and calls me big head, ode etc. She is also very curious about my relationship life (which is pretty inert)

The problem is that i like her too, but i am a guy that fvcks up with ladies and such that if a lady fvcks up i will just dump and move. I just dont wanna put my friendship with that my bro at risk cause he cares so much about his sis and if i behave with her like i always do it could Bleep our friendship up.

I am confused.

Stay clear

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Very simple, just get a fake HIV test results and show her

Before then keep treating her well and just tell her you are feeling sick and hit all over your body

After showing her the results, she will be shocked and advice her to do her own test to know her status

Then initiate sex with her without condom she will refuses, that means it has worked for you

Tell her to keep your HIV test result secret meanwhile start planning to pack out

Don't allow her to advise you to take native medicine ohhh

Since a mere sight of a woman can make you to masturbate

That means it can happen in the street, bustop, gathering, school and so on

Get a girl friend if you can't discipline yourself

Depressed101:
Nairalanders pls come to my rescue as I have always come to people's rescue in topics related to co-existing with other people..

I am the first son of my family, I have a sister who is one year younger than I am.

For a very long time now, in fact from time immemorial, my mother has always taught my sister that it is

"ONLY ONE YEAR GAP BETWEEN THE BOTH OF US" - SO THEFORE THE SENIOR RESPECT THAT SHOULD BE ACCORDED TO ME SHOULD BE MINIMAL.


So fast forward to today. I am owing her some money for about two months now. And promised to pay her infact I have paid half of the money despite all the expenses on me in the family. She asked me to give her part of the money today, I told her I didn't have money, that the 15k with me is not mine. That I will give her 3k to hold hand, even tho it will cause me great inconveniences. She threatened to take the money, the whole 15k. I told her to stop that nonsense and I went to the bathroom to take my bath. On coming out of the bathroom, I noticed that my wallet was tempered with. The 15k Is no where to be found. I asked my Lil sis, she said it was sister that touched it.. I ran outside with my towel, and called out to my sister, but she walked off without turning back...

I cried inside my heart, because I know she didn't really need that money right then... I felt bitter, I don't even know what to do.... I found a way to sort for another 15k.

This is not the first time she has done something of similar behavior, and I brushed it off, afterall she's my sister...

Right now I am outside a beer parlour watching a match and typing this.. I am not feeling fine at all.. I am feeling bitter. Until now I always forget quickly what they do to me...


I don't know how to confront her when I get home. Whether to caution her verbally, or give her a slap.. Whether to keep mute and suck it up as usual and wait for when I am ready leave that house cos I understand that too much familiarity can breed disrespect. I have plans to leave before January.


What should I do..


I live with my mother and this sister and other of my little siblings. And I pay the house rent of where we live.

Sorry for the hurt

It's time for you to start your own life if being separated with your own apartment

It might not sound easy but a bold step will make you plan well

You don't need to confront her, just be yourself and never ever borrow from her so tgat you won't experience rancour because your mum will take side with her

Start saving to have your own apartment and if the present rent expires, you and them can share the bill or they look for a smaller apartment since you have packed out

Don't quarrel vabaly with her but keep her at arms length and still relate with them all

amyik:
I use scan frost for 5 years now. Double tub.

Waooo, so what has been your experience and is it manual because am scared with the problems of full automatic and at what cost, pictures pls

Wherever you are borrowing from is not the issue

But paying as promised with out delay is the key

Banks can give you loan and be on ground to get it back from you because its a debt you must pay

Family, we'll it depends on your relationship with the family, some have good wishes while some have bad wishes and they will still borrow you, but your inability to make good of it or not being able to pay back as promised or not paying at all

It will spread like wild fire and every extended family will know about it

Where is your shop located, can you send me WhatsApp let's chat 07033598552

NoGender:
This na lie!!!

Oga it's only you that know what you're looking for —and hoping to achieve with this ridiculously orchestrated lie.

Girls wey no dey use eye hear big prick and last long, if you like dm this man and fix a rendezvous, when them cut ya neck this December you go hear whee!

How can somebody married to a woman that has opened leg to push three good children with big-big head complain about size of prick.

Are we playing here sef?

You got it wrong when you say how can she push three kids and still complain of his dick

A man must learn how to use his dick well

That op loves sex and may be firing so hard on her with the big dick of his even after she has been exhausted with the stress those kids gives her at home

If you use your dick well , big or small size, you will make a woman asking for it

To me, your wife is using the issue of having enough kids to stay away from you just because you have a dick but don't know how to use it

No matter how big it us, if you romance your woman to the point of melting honestly she won't even know when the dick is penetrating because she is already in exctasy

You like sex but you don't have enough time to spend on fore play

You disturb her a lot about sex and she us declining because you are concerned about yourself not how to get her wet down there

You may not even be romantic so what will hey her wet just like that

Sit her down and dialogue the issue in a very passionate way and ask her, how best you can handle her

As for your woman outside, she also loves sex and needs a man

Don't be shocked if she tells you that she is pregnant and abortion is not an option for you

You will end up keeping the pregnancy

But bear in mind that you have divided your family among two women

Managing one is a task, having two with children is an uphill task

You decides

KIkiofure:
Hello Nairalanders..
I had to create this account to conceal my identity..

I have been through rough times in life and have been very careful of sex. After I got disvirgned I stayed away from sex, stayed celibate and concentrated on my work and school till I met a guy.. So we talked and we're into each other we had sex, anytime we hadsex I make sure I am careful of been pregnant but that day after sex I didn't take anything because he swore he didnt come in me(Greatest mistake of my life) now I missed my period went for scan and blood test and tested Positive.

I told him but his response wasn't welcoming, I have tried all medication I know to abort this baby but the baby is too stubborn, the child doesn't wanna come out.. I haven't told anyone yet..
I have let my mum down and myself, this wasn't what I ever wanted for my life.

Now since this child is stubborn Pls advise me, I'm not sure the guy wanna be involved in this child life ...
How will I break the new to my mum? How will the society see me? I have let God and my mum down despite my stance on premarital sex Is there any NGO that can assist me?
Please Royalroy front Page ..i need advise.

You have done all risky thing to remove the pregnancy, but the stubborn child refuse

Don't you think that you are harming yourself

What's your business with what people will say, you are not the first and won't be the last

If you really love the guy, inform him and keep the pregnancy

But if you don't really love him, go to hospital and stop self medication before you harm your self

Homeyfav:
LG automatic and semi-automatic washing machines price in Nigeria
https://www.priceinnigeria.ng/lg-automatic-semi-automatic-washing-machines/

Pls advice me on whats the difference between automatic and semi automatic washing machine

I prefer Thermocool products for a family of 5 but not particular reason for choosing that product

kellidoo:
Nexus 6.5kg washing machine is good although I use a single tub 4.5kg ( washing only,no spinning)...

But the 6.5kg is (6.5kg wash and 4kg spin)

Thanks for this, can it be powered by Elemax generator

Pls house advice me on what type of washing machine top loader to buy and what the kg size for a normal family

What product should I go for and considering that I will be using a normal 3kv generator Elemax

If you have pictures pls post for better understanding

sd6:
You guys are great, am taking delivery of the washer tomorrow. My wife has already heaped the dirty clothes. I paid 33k for it. Hope I have the same experience(worked well) you all had.

Sorry to take you back

What's your experience with your themarcool washing machine , I need one and am making research on which of the top loader kg size I can go for because of generator am going to use if there is no light

Loladearewa01:
I am a staunch introvert, the kind that stays at home all day I really hate small talks and I can't talk to people for more than 5minutes.

When I call a lady hardly can we talk for a minute. Infact I hate calling. Now I had this experience when I visited my aunty and an ex of mine happen to stay in the same compound.

I noticed her boo calls her for like 2hours and she's always laughing with him. This was when I started realising my mistake when I was with her I hardly call and communicate and this has been happening with most of the ladies I meet and things are not working out.

Is there anyone with similar experience?

Are you asking for a semilar experience or a way out

Lack of communication is as bad as infidelity

Talk to your self and come out of the caged attitude you built for your self

Women talks by nature and wants to be with men who will entertain them with talks

Assuming you don't like to talk and she doesn't like to talk and both of you are at home, no light ?

That means the house will be as quiet as grave yard

ArticleBeast:
I don't sleep with people wife even girlfriend. It is death. The last guy that did this to me he was half body paralyzed and the girl wasn't able to conceive even in marriage until the family came to beg and pour schnapps. You don't cheat on some people. If I start dating you, I lay all my cards openly.

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Pour schnapps as the demi god that you are

ArticleBeast:
Some men sha... A man sleeping with my wife... Both of them will die. It is easy

Is it applicable to you

lonelydora:
What do men see in other people's wives?

There are so many single girls around town

Let everyone try to find a good lover in every relationship and this mess will stop