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Lonelypacifist6:
Why are y'all empty like this? with the length of the post you still failed to answer the question must you twist narratives? Barrel full of void.

Ladies are empty yet twice a month, you go to the empty pussy to release tension, that's shows that a man's world is incomplete with out having one around

Lonelypacifist6:
Why are y'all empty like this? with the length of the post you still failed to answer the question must you twist narratives? Barrel full of void.

It's because you are a beast that's why you are dragging an issue of gender with a lady


You are just not comfortable because you want a lady to stick to a guy who doesn't want to make progress

Academicwizman:
An 11 year old girl (my niece) needs serious medical help. She is a very intelligent girl who is a victim of circumstance beyond her control. I was informed two weeks ago by my brother that her child needs medical attention. I also had various challenges that I am facing. I sent some money to the father to take care of her not knowing that it is a very serious case. While travelling to Awka (Unizik) for my PhD programme, I decided to check on my brother at Sagamu to know the state of her daughter's health. What I saw was really devastating and I had no means to really help at this time. Medical doctors, nurses and well-wishers here, please help!

I advised that we take her to hospital to no avail. He has strong conviction that the hand will be cut off if medical attention is sought in hospital and opted for traditional treatment. Please help in saving a soul of the poor girl. Here are the pictures of the girl that I took this morning. The pictures are dark because I took it this morning before leaving for Awka. Nairalanders, save a soul.

Tell them to snap a better picture no one can see what you want them to see with that darkness

Before it got to this stage, it must have started like a little wound

Instead of them to seek medical attention at a tender stage, they resort to herbalist

A herbalist will never tell you he won't do it, he will give you false impression that he can do it because you don't expect him to die of hunger

Taking that child to herbalist was the greatest problem her parents caused for her not even the sickness it self

The herbalist must have used dirty items coupled with dirty hands and dirty environment to inflict that hand, it's already infected no doubt because of the careless exposure

They were afraid to go to hospital because she might get an amputation that's why they stuck to a herbalist, as it is now the herbalist can't handle it again and the herbalist doesn't have the machine to amputate her hand

Finally that same hospital the parents would have gone to at the onset is where they will finally go to save her life

Well until she goes to places like igbobi or reputable government hospital

We can't access the damage

That money that was not available at the initial stage to give her proper medication will be available to save her life by cutting off the hand

Gberigbe Road will wait till infinity, abi ❓

DenreleDave:
Most times it's a case of infatuation or lust more dan love.& it wears off after the sex.love is based of more than sex,(tho sec is very important) but there are other important factors uld probly only find out after the sex.


I feel as if this thread up here is in favour or ladies. They are trying to paint men as the evil one, meaning afywr sex, we leave a relationship. But ladies, trust me, they will never tell you the truth.

Why do ladies cheat after they realise that there boyfriend is broke or going broke?

Lillyval, RedCreme21
FCBboy, HMarshal
Sandra8, frozen70
MissGhosted, jgoldie
Onyi22, GrabHisBalls
Obontami, HannahHitler

Just like you said "lust"

A lady will not cheat you, if really true love exist in the first place

OK if you want to pick on women that cheats when a guy gets broke

What about you guys that despite being engaged to a woman still cheats with out remorse, don't you know it hurst women?

Just the way it hurts you guys when you are broke, that's the same way it hurts us when you leave us for another lady

Until men starts detaching thier third legs and give to women to hold and men puts a reader like a meter in the women pussy

No one will rest in this issue

AceOfRed:
Please I need legal or customary advice from experienced people.

My dad built a house in the early 80s; a 5 bedroom bungalow, that's before he got married. As at the time he completed the building, he was about to get married, while his 2 brothers were still single then. Because my dad was not based in my town, he gave all his 2 brothers 1 room each to stay in, as they were bachelors. My family occupies 3 rooms ensuite, while my uncles occupy the other two rooms, with a detached kitchen and toilet.

As time went on, they later got married, but still kept living in the single rooms. Now they have families, with my oldest cousin being in his 20s.

The problem is that the relationship between my dad and his brothers has deteriorated terribly over the past years to the extent that my uncle's and their wives now threaten my parents with murder and diabolical acts. In fact, I can't put on text the many issues that have arose between my parents and my uncles.

Now, my dad wants them to vacate his house but they bluntly refused saying that they will live there for as long as they wish. As the first son, he has divided their ancestral lands amongst them, but they have refused to put up there.

Their continued stay in that house has become a huge source of worry and headache to my parents. There is no day that one issue or the other doesn't come up.

My dad has reported them severally to the 'umunna', but this hasn't yielded any benefit. As members of the umunna are people of questionable judgement. They keep telling my dad to wait till my uncle's build their own house, but they are not even interested in building anything, as they have made it clear that they will live with my parents, just to be monitoring them.

You see why I don't support this idea of bringing your brothers to leave in the same house

There is no way you will give someone comfort and expect him to just leave his comfort

I suggest, if there are family vacant lands within
Let him build a room each and let them pack in their even if it means using police since the kins men are biased over it

Just a room of 12/12 and a little shelter for cooking

They can poo in the Bush if they can't get a pit toilet

You see, if these idiots don't pack out and your father is no more, they will face you guys

So the best way if for him to eject them out with whatever means

His sacrifice will be to build a room each for them to pack in

If he builds room and parlour he has given them over comfort

Just a room each

As they are with you guys, no room for family privacy and they are already monitoring spirits

There is nothing wrong with someone expressing her heart desires, every one needs a partner for love

gbagyiza:
You have not been married that's why u r saying all this. I don't support domestic violence but i tell u most women r troublesome. Most of d genesis of all these problems lies on the pressure a woman always put on man. Women should be supporters, encouragers n learn to live with their husbands happily in d face of financial challenges. But when the man is passing through a difficult time, they will be pressurizing him n making trouble every day. Truth be told things r not easy with people now in this country.

Only a weakling will be pressurised

This are not easy in the country, there was never a tune it was caused by a woman

Any man that can't tolerate women just the way mothers tolerate new born with their constant cry, is not yet set for marriage

Marriage is for matured minds

hotwax:
Let's put ur brain to test.

Have u ever wonder why olosho, runs girl pay hefty cash for virginal tightening therapies?

Do u know why white women go for CS instead of virginal delivery? Because they know virginal delivery will widening that hole.

Tiny dick..thats meant to insult me right..but lol no...it will hurt me if my dick is actually tiny

The same way you think women pay to get their pussy tightened is exactly the same way a man with small dick gets frustrated just thinking how small his dick is

The same way a man with small dick feels Inferior being naked while the light is on with a woman because he doesn't want her to see the size of his dick, he would rather concentrate on fingering until when he is about to cum, he will slide the tinny dick in, forgetting that the woman is already aroused and waiting to grip it not knowing that its presence wasn't felt, do you think she will come back? no ❗ meanwhile you have left her half way, she would seek an alternative guy to help you finish the job

The same way a man spends fortune to increase the size of his dick because he will be scared to loose a woman

Since you have a small dick, I know how depressing it could be, that's why i say look for virgins and stick to her to avoid you further embarrassing situations

Why do men, do everything they can to prevent their wives going out, it's in the power of a dick, if you can't dick your wife well, some one will dick her to her full satisfaction

Munzy14:
Lol... How u think u are smarter than other ladies baffles me.

Well it's online sha, where student act like professor..

In this gender issue, am the Prof and you are the student

Munzy14:
Women are their own worst enemy...


In one comment, u gave ur fellow ladies low life and dullards?....


Well na u know, i don't even come close to dull women let alone the other one.

So ur hypothesis failed on arrival.

You think you made sense dating girls who doesn't have sense of challenges

Munzy14:
Wait for Frozen70 and logobelt seems they have an encyclopedia of understanding how to woo a lady volume 6...

Lol

LOGOBELT:

Lol

Munzy14:
Tough?.... lol I disagree. very easy for me.


Different approach to different ladies... Not all ladies are smart to read a prospective boyfriend..

You have made me to understand that all this while, you have been approaching low life who are dullards

So that you can have your ways

Munzy14:
Frozen when ur heart is not open......I. hope urs is open and aren't Madonna track?...

so people na read book to woo a woman?

Woing a woman is a tough task

As you prepare to present your self to woe her

She is reading everything about you from your appearance to your speach

Jgoldie:
i once dumped a guy....i liked him very very much,i was always wet when i went to his place.
one thing i noticed everytime i visit was he was always drinking "afato" ,koboko",dadubule",
The d day eventually came and he didn't last 2 minute.
I was so disappointed, i didn't pick his call afterwards and i started avoiding him.
He tried his possible best to get us on track ,we had it twice again and was still the same scenario but mehn i lost interest,I am so sorry gbenga...i didn't want to hurt your feelings ....

pls don't quote me o" i just survived lagos traffic"

No woman will like to have an indomie guy on bed

He must have been having erectile dysfunction and doing self myself medication

His type might be among men that their sperms swims down after sex, goushing instead of staying until you wash it off.

TourismMan:
So a guy we used to watch football matches together got married around November last year and I was happy for him cos he was already 40 something. I'm so shocked to have learnt days ago that the marriage crashed in less than 3 months. In fact, the informant told me the marriage packed up precisely in the month of March this year for undisclosed reasons.

Honestly, cases like this scare us the singles big time. To me, no marriage is better than broken marriage. What has become our marriage these days?

For the fact that he waited until he was 40 years to get married shows that he has attitude issues

mrpoul:
I'm Confused, I Don't Want To Lose Her

There is this girl that I met in lecture theater, we sat down together, we chatted but it was concerning the lecture.

After the lecture, I disappeared because I'm this kind of very shy person, I didn't know what to talk to her aside the lecture.

So I saw her on Facebook, I added her and chatted her, up. It happen that evening I wanted to go eat in a restaurant, I told her she can join me jokingly. Surprisingly, she came, we talked but it was mostly about me and herself. After, we finished eating, I told her to come and know my place, but when she came I was nervous and she did not stay up to 5 mins. I told her we need to go, that her roomie maybe worried about her. The next day when she saw me in school, she was excited to see me.

After then our communication sucks, I will call her and be asking all this boring questions, before I know it, sometimes she will see my chat and will not reply. Now I'm confuse, I don't know what to do again. I don't wanna lose her.

What do you suggest I do from here? pardon my grammatical blunder.

If you don't gain your confidence and courage as a man to woe a lady, you are gone ❗❗❗

Tell her how you feel about her and its either she accepts or not

But if you are still a virgin, give yourself time and read books on how to win a ladies heart

hotwax:
Because relationships are based on lies.

I dumped a lady last month too...after sex.

She told me she only had sex once in her life. Infact the day she was disvirgined was the last sex she had.

When we had sex last month, her hole was so wide I was wondering if she has gave birth before.

A woman pussy is elasticated, no matter how she puts to bed, it returns back to its formal position

But if you have a small dick, go for virgins and stick to her so that it would have mastered your small dick

I've been wondering, you just met your dream kind of man/woman, first few days you both fond of each other, chatting, calling and texting each other, as a guy everything you say is funny, as a woman you re washed with compliments, sweet talks, you guys hang out and all that. Next thing he invites you over or as a guy you invite her over.
Then the real deal happens, sex!!!!!!!

Then next thing no more calls, even as a lady you no more find him funny, then wide communication gap sets in, next thing is just hello, hi and it ends there.

What exactly could be responsible for this my country men and women??

So many factors could be responsible for this

For a lady, he may not be romantic after all

His skills may not be upto what you expect

Some men don't know the power of fore plawamd the buttons or areas to concentrate on

He may have a small dick

He may be a 3 minute man

He may have unpleasant odour that's so irritating

As for guys,

She may be lousy, guys don't like lousy girls

She may not be connecting as expected during sex

She may not be responding to the touching from the guy

She may be the type that is not soo demanding tgat because the guy has over spent on her, may wish to just have her and dump her

She would have been too difficult for him to get and by the time she accepts the guy is only planning to go in with one way ticket and that's all
.

Jasen1:
And you want GIG GUU and transport companies to be happy with you

Even if he brings out luxurious buses

It can never affect those transporters you mentioned

To me giving them free bus is not the issue, the issue is how to come out in January

How will this issue be handled now, if its a man that stabbed her he will be forced to pay her bride price

Now that is the other way, I suggest his corpse to be dressed in suit, make him to stand and the woman has to wear wedding gown and be wedded with him

The shame and stigma alone, will be better she dies

Once they start doing virginity test for contestants, I will support what ever rules guiding it

But disqualifing her while some of them have done several abortions is wrong

Use Virginity test and shows us what you got

SMJay:
Yes his married.

Pack in, they will vacate because of the inconvenience

Tobadessss:
Frozen, I have met a babe that practically prepared a "relationship CV"...I can tell you her expectations are high for the generation of men we have today.

No one will tell her to adjust when the time comes

Even a deaf man that can't hear train sound, will see with his eyes that train is approaching

Harlequeen:
I opened this account because my main one is pretty popular.

I've had this issue and don't know what's wrong.
I can't seem to get into a new relationship. I am now 25, about serving, working a normal job

My dating history is not too rich. I dated just one guy for 2 years, i became sexually active with him, we enjoyed each other, but things didn't work out. I tried to be better, have moved on, and he has too. This was mid last year. I have been celibate since then not because i don't like sex, but because i had time to think, i read a lot of books, listened to a lot of relationship counselors on YouTube, reddit, Nairaland and so on. I decided to approach dating differently, with my head and not my heart . i would vet men out who were not in line with some basic standards, to avoid fuckboys and meet high quality men. He should be well spoken, either with a career or into trade, accomplished, way older by at least 10 yrs(no i don't have daddy issues, i just like mature guys because i think like a mature person) he could also have plans to leave the country, because i plan to do that also.


Here's the issue, the men that express interest in me do not fit this criteria. They seem to have no plan for their lives. I get this impression that they are broke, they recycle the same lines all the time, i usually see their bull sh1t tactics a mile away. some are in the army(i can't date men in the armed forces, they lifestyle is not what i want for myself, cannot date doctors either for the same reason)others are artisans, some are plain hustlers who just do whatever to eat. I have a soft spot for ambitious men, and i have not seen a lot in the area that i am in. I have been advised by my friends to try highbrow areas like lekki or VI or go to church, but i don't believe in religion.

But whenever i see these men, i am not attracted to them. I have even tried online dating with some male nairalanders, but i get disinterested easily. I get turned off when someone asks for my normal pics, it is quite frustrating. There's that fear that some of these men could use my pics to masturbate or one other creepy purpose. I block them if they ask for nudes. But the issue is, it is quite exhausting to keep chatting with someone without seeing them in person and some of these guys just want to smash and run which i won't allow. No man will have access to my vagina and womb without investment and commitment. Eventually it becomes hard to keep up communication and we just fizzle out like that.

I am not under pressure to marry from my parents, infact my dad says he won't allow his daughters marry until they clock 28 and i am the first. He wants us to have a career and a life before moving with a man. I just want to know if what i am doing is right?

To be honest, i just want some words of advice and encouragement, you can ask me questions if you want. This approach of mine? Is it the right thing? Am i being too smart for my own good? Am i afraid of commitment?

From my understanding, your expectations are high and its even higher than those that are already working and willing to assist a man to raise a home

Don't be fastidious because the race is still ahead

Go and review most if your requirements and expectations from men to a standard level

Your target now is how to serve and start making incomes so that those classes of men you desire will line up for your consent

akaahs:
Yeah, thanks and Jah bless

You are welcome

Labragadaya:
Please I Need Advise Urgently!

Pls I just registered this handle to avoid any form of backlash.

Here's my issue, I graduated in 2015 and I've been doing several things to keep body and soul together. However, late this year I got a teaching job in my states Civil service. The pay is somewhere BTW 45 to 50k and my place of assignment is in a rural area.

Pls also note that I do not have an education certificate which if I do not acquire soonest might cost me some years in promotions and maybe my job eventually.

On the other hand, I would like to pursue and build my career in the discipline I studied in school (a technical inclined course)and also further my education here (masters degree) which might provide me with better job opportunities and my teaching job provides ample time for this.

Well, the cause of my present dilemma is this - Recently, I got shortlisted for a job as a contract staff in a bank. I have just been deployed and I've been directed to resume within the week. The pay is around 85k per month plus other benefits.

Right now, I am confused if I should stick with the govt teaching job or I should go for the contract bank work which initially is for a period of 1 year after which it might be renewed (dicey). Pls I need the advice of people who have been in my shoe or in it currently? Which do I go for? What do I do?

lala pls move to front page

Just for the fact that the banking job is for one year and or subject to renewal

Pls take a teaching job which is more permanent but be prepared to upgrade yourself with time because of future promotions

akaahs:
nice from u. please oo, what ll u say about a man loving his wife more than that she loves him?

That's the best form of love

Do you know why

You will do everything to make her and the kids happy

Your happiness is in her and the children

No matter how naughty she can be, you won't even notice it because love covers all

The thought of her misbehaving is zero because what women need is love and she can't get it better else where

Her prayer points are centered on you that even if you are not as committed as she is in prayers, her's alone is enough to move your life forward ever

She will never have any reason to compare your love with any thing and she will never ever compromise her live for you considering the sacrifice of your love

happney65:
I trust muslims..They will declare a fatwa on her head ASAP....Christians are mumu naaa,we can say anything to them..try that shittt with Islam..she would be stoned or killed one time

Etinosa,Kindly take up this challenge..

Religion of Piss..

A slowpoke like you is calling Christians mumu

A beast like you is proud to say you Muslim can say anything to Christians but can't be tried with your devilish religion

You are a devil's advocate

Face your faceless religion with your intended murder

GEOANDSONS:
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