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emmaodet:
The cost of raising the child will be divided between the parties involved.
70/30 or 60/40 is my ideal formula; the man taking the higher expenses

You see yourself, you can't even man up to take full responsibility of your child, no wonder you prefer the system of go your ways.

Have you ever seen where a woman's blood is taken for DNA test ❓

Castrate him

StPete:
Just because u don’t want to give does not warrant you to curse yourself with negative words. Giving is not by force.

Negative words indeed, the lawyers that lies to win a case, are they not using their talents

emmaodet:
Instead of passing through the stress of detaching a dick or fixing a meter to the pvsssy, is it not better, safer, cost-effective to scrap marriage and encourage Pump and Dump?
Let us all just date, fvck and sleep around without the stress of monitoring each other or shouldering unnecessary woman's bill

Do we rule out marriage with is

Do we rule out child bearing with this

If we don't rule out child bearing, who bears the cost of taking care of the child

Who does the child look up to

StPete:
This is a very negative and distasteful advice. OP strictly do not adhere to these words before you use your own mouth to bring yourself bad luck.

Just keep posting your father that you will or better yet, cut him off for a while

So you don't know that people keep telling people things are hard so that you won't ask them of anything

Stay there

DONFASZY:
Police came there later after like 30 mins and say i am the third victim

They shot one a day before dec 5th

D distraction is just my bigger pain


A whole me for lagos


I just brought throw pillows in that same traffic with my door glass down


Regrets

Ohhh sorry, the throw pillow took your attention away

Joseph08:
I have been thinking recently on the best option to take concerning my international passport.
I travelled to UK on a student Visa for Msc and was given 2yrs to stay in UK.
My international passport was supposed to expire 2016 but I travelled 2013 when the Msc program was starting.
But after the program I was supposed to come back to Nigeria 2015, I overstayed and came back 2018. Man need to hustle you know Lol.
I could not come back with the expired international passport to Nigeria, I had to renew my passport in UK before coming back since it had already expired. So I was stamped-in on arrival to Nigeria.
Now I'm planning to travel to USA or Canada, please I need an advice on the best option to take concerning my international passport; should I declare the renewed passport missing and get another passport or can I still use the passport to apply for a Visa? Considering the fact that I overstayed in UK.
Or I should declare the one I travelled with containing my Visa to UK missing and apply for a Visa with the renewed passport alone containing the stamped-in? Then tell them at the Embassy that I lost my passport in the UK so I had to renew my passport.
Please I need advice from experienced people.. Thanks.

You are applying to another embassy not UK

Even if you tell them that your passport is lost, they will ask you your departure date as at when you travelled and your arrival date with the airline you travelled with

All they need is to email the airline to give them crew manifestation for that day of your trip

Just apply, if your luck shines you will be given a visa

Next time don't over stay just go and come and reapply of which you will be given

If you over stay, there is the possibility that you will be given a 10yrs ban

johnsonpal:
Please no front page!!

I need mature advice guys, I am 28yrs old, first born of 3. I have been responsible for myself as long as I can remember and partly responsible for my siblings too. A week doesn't go by without my Dad not requesting for money for one project/debt to another and most times I do but of recent it getting too much, it not like i'm rich or something, I am just trying to make something out of myself but this demands is causing a serious strain on me mentally. Note, I am responsible for my siblings too.

My sisters wedding was barely 2 weeks ago and I was responsible for over 50% of the cost, my plan after the wedding I will be allowed to atleast breath before the request start coming in again so I thought, just this morning I woke to missed call and texts from my father requesting for 60k for his house projects. I can't even remember this man EVER giving me 10k for myself, He is always emotionally blackmailing him because he sent me to a private uni(he barely paid the school fees then).

This is really affecting me physiologically .I can't even stay a week without any family issue. I checked my blood pressure last week and it was 140/120. Can i cut this man off before he kills me with responsibilities ? At my age I think this is too much! my mum and sibling are understanding

You don't have to allow this man to frustrate your future

The more you pay attention to him the more he wrecks you down

Use diplomacy on him

If he ask of money again, tell him you took loan to support your sister wedding and you have to pay it up with 80% of your salary

Get your mum involved in this new approach and let your mum knows that your Dad continues demand has been affecting your efforts

Instead of calling him regularly, send an sms to great him and tell him that you are sorry for not reaching him that things are not moving forward

Whenever he calls you, your response first is things are difficult so that, that alone will suppress any impending demands from you

Anytime he callset him know that things are tough even before he ask you how you are doing

Lastly, don't ever let him know your plans and moves again, hence Fort

Keep him in the dark and start planning now that you have the channel to make money

DONFASZY:
Just got robbed@ agege capitol railway crossing bridge of my new iphone 7+ 128gb wit all my good memories
08023958005 nt available


If any uses his hands to hit hard on your car


Dont lower your door glasses


Go to a safe plc and ignore the unwanted argumens in traffic


They draw your attention and the other one take any thin in your car frm the other side

I am feeling bad here


Iphone is useless to dem n d foolish buyer but 128gb have all my mermories with pics and video and work load and all app i am using for my business


Police shoukd be stationed there because i tried to chase them all both yet i have other phones and valuables in the jeep

Got info that i was the third victim today and police killed one of this traffic robbers yesterday

Sorry for the lose and thanks be to God for everything

Next time back up your phone data to your email accounts

When driving, if the ac is not on alway wind up three quarter of the window

You as a responsible man is thinking of some important things that may take your conscious mind away

And him or them will be busy monitoring the ones that are subconsciously carried away

They are already doomed and ready to die any moment since they don't have loved ones to think of

coker007:
So last night my younger brother and I got talking about life, religion and progress,
Most times I'm the one leading the conversations; we'll talk about some of the things listed above and i'll share my ideas ( I'm an introvert I don't enjoy talking)
So yesterday he (my younger brother) struck a topic on the parable of the workers in the vineyard ( it's in Mathew chapter 20) and our convo took off from there, we got talking about our belief our hopes our loss and our aspirations
Like I said earlier I'm usually the one speaking most times but it turned out my brother had a lot to say
He was talking about he's aspirations and how he would like to find his passion and all when the topic turned changed and we got talking about ideas and he started talking about this big business plan that may a may it may not be the future but you could sutrly tell it's huge he was talking when suddenly he was like ' I can't be telling you my plans' and he stood up and left me there....I was heart broken and confused
My younger brother and I both Live together we both work and I'm mostly the one offering things up for our benefit, I share everything I'm able to lay my grasp on equally with him I fancy myself as fair and loyal
But it turns out my brother is keeping things from me when we are at a time when we need each other the most, he's being discreet while I lay all my cards on the table for both of us
I've come to the conclusion that he's selfish and he'll betray me when the time comes
But what i'm hurting about is my feelings itsi making me very indecisive and anxious I really don't know what to do or how to react
I need opinions, advice and instructions

P.S: I purposely didn't talk about my parents and other siblings we are detached from them on purpose. We took the train pass for ride or die, but it turns out my younger brother isn't really on board he's tryna pull a front here �

He must have been watching you and your attitude towards everything

He has a lot of plans with him and most of them are secret but not harmful to you

He is planning to achieve success more than you but he us not God that determines everyone ones faith

I will advise you to learn how to keep your own secret and start working harder in academic or any area you find yourself

Be focused and be serious so that any other plans he would have been nursing, you will be miles ahead of him

Luckymee:
Hey! Yeah, sup Fam
Please , help a brother by reading this and making a comment.. Abusive comments is allowed ( no problems)It's part of my way to success..

... I've gotta change ID for privacy.

I was offered an admission to study a course I don't like around 2016.. I decided to take the offer because I don't wanna stay at home...
I'm the only one among my siblings that attended a state university (OOU) others went to a private university..

So in summary, I don't love plant science, i hardly go for some test or exams.
My colleagues only see me during exam period ( They were like tagging me as a big"G" boy which I'm not.. only spending my dad's money).. But I was a brilliant boy.
100lv & 200 , when there's lecture, it's either I'm flexing at home or balling inside the school..

But at the end of 200lv 2nd semester, I had a CGPA of 1.34.( I wasn't bothered, who cares/ I Once told my lecturer who is now a professor that the course sucks, I don't like it..)

Dad talked, mum talked, dad almost transferred Me to a private school but later told me to Carry my cross .(I was Still putting up an i really don't care attitude).

But by the beginning of 300lv 1st semester, so many things changed..
I had a cousin, who Is now a pharmaceutical graduate .
He told me things that stick to my brain..
He said, if I failed , people won't say it was because I disliked the course, they would simply say I was a disgrace..

So at the end of 300lv second semester after reading heavily getting enough"A" and "B" , My CGPA rose from 1.34 to 1.90 , please Fam , can I Still graduate with a 2.40 cpga?
It's Just a 4 year's course.

Thanks Fam.. Love y'all.

Well you tried by reading harder to raise your gp

You can go to your head of department to find out if you can add more courses to your own course so tgat your gp can get to 2.50

Then if you continue with the spirit and speed you took for reading your books, you may be close to that

chigoizie7:
Hmmm.

Keep it up

Thanks

Shegzy8:
Babe do not take everything you see online serious. So many say what they can't do and others do what they can't say.

Thanks for the info

chigoizie7:
Lol, if that is how you see it sweetheart, don’t complain when you are only seen as nothing else but a sex object, a toy in the hands of men. Mind you, toys are always and easily discarded when they outlive it’s usefulness.

That's why they say women are made for men

Children are made for women

Lonelypacifist6:
Does that mean they should start shitting other men even when they're not the architect of their misadventures?

One man's attitude can be used to judge others which will definitely affect the innocent ones

Same this is applicable to women

Iwin101:
definitely not, but what can one do? When you watch your loved one suffer and can't do a thing. If I had assets worth selling, I wouldn't be talking about this.

I understand, but remember that you need to be strong and healthy too

God will make away just keep praying

Lonelypacifist6:
She didn't give me any support it was a one sided relationship all the Ladies that I've been with, even the ones under my employ just wanna ruin a MAN to penury.

That's the same experience women goes through from men, that just wants their pussy alone and not loving them

Shegzy8:
So why were you acting like only men cheat. Let's be liberal and shouldn't be gender biased.

I wasn't acting like men cheats

But he the op said why do women cheat when he knows that both genders cheats but one is more pronounced than the other

Maniashow:
I have done series of test (including full blood count and Malaria parasite) and nothing is wrong with me.
The thing is my body is always hot including my feet, I don't sleep well and am having serious headache with is affecting my eye balls.

I don't drink and I don't smoke.

What can I do?

There must be something disturbing your peace of mind which is affecting your overall health

Talk to yourself

dairykidd:
Why u dey try to derail naa.. ahh

Am not derailing, am on tract if you have been following from onset

chigoizie7:
One of the entitled l*******s that believes their pussy is a job opportunity.

If you think so, then that's why you can't stop going there as their customer

Lonelypacifist6:
You mean the services I gave to her.

Are you referring to the support she gave you

Shegzy8:
Feel?
Are you an alien � or where do you reside?
We see it, we know it.
What makes you feel men cheat?

That same reason men cheats is the exact reason women cheats

Lonelypacifist6:
Yeah it'll save me from future hurts.

Continue and make sure you don't stop because if you do, then you have gone to eat what you vomited

Shegzy8:
Not for or against anything said by you or them. I'm not in support of anyone but I quoted you on purpose for saying men should leave there third leg(dick) in the hands of there wives, how dumb can that be.
Saying all those as if women do not cheat in there numbers.

Tell me one reason you guys feel that women cheats ❓

Lonelypacifist6:
They ladies we've supported what's the out come? They still ask for divorce or cheat.

It depends on what you mean by support

The services she gave to you, what was the reward?

Iwin101:
Funds are needed urgently for my sibling to undergo a critical surgery abroad, I don't know any other way to go, I do hope I can have a useful organ that i can flip for cash that won't threaten my own existence.

I will be reading.

Thanks

Hmmm do you think trading your organ is the best ❓

Is that how you intend living with a half organ ❓

And if you start failing, who will tread his or hers for you ❓

Academicwizman:
I just heard about it myself. I didn't know that the situation was that bad until I got there yesterday. It was an eyesore and stinking very badly. The father (my brother) told me that the girl's mother concealed it from him until the situation got worse. The mother, according to what I was told, was using roadside medicine store to treat the girl. My brother informed me about 2 weeks ago and I sent some money to take care of the wound (I didn't know it was that bad). Surprisingly, he spent the money pursuing traditional remedy. The way I look at the wound, it appears nothing was done to it.

In fact, I could no longer travel. I had to come back to my base.

Well it's a pity

When couples can not communicate properly, so many things can be affected

Beat options is to take her to hospital

Follow them to the hospital not sending them

When you get there, she will be subjected to series of test and you will witness the out come and hear from the doctor

Whatever the doctor decides is final

Just bear in mind that you will sacrifice money during the hospital visit

Hopefully she may not get amputated

Shegzy8:
Tell your brother to give his dick to his wife. So you mean women do not cheat ba?

You just jumped into a tread a want to make a comment

Go and read from the very point it started

Men cheats women cheats

True love doesn't cheat

Lonelypacifist6:
I'm not a beat whatever that is and I wouldn't want any woeman to stay with a MAN who's not making progress, but if the going has been going and then things take a wrong turn you're supposed to be there for moral support but NO woemen would be woemen and wenches would be wenches.

If you are emphasising that a woman is expected to a man through thick and thin, yes that's normal but gor you to drag a woman issue that they are nothing, then I will argue from now till you give up

But remember, you men too don't support women who waited for the fruit of the womb even when it's glaring that the guy has a low sperm count

But like I said from the on set, true love is difficult to find

Lonelypacifist6:
Who Ever says s MAN'S world is incomplete without s woeman is Stupid, Whatever the pussy can do the hand and intimacy gadgets can do too.

If you have been using your hands and intimacy gadgets

It will save you from the hurt when a lady leaves a guy because he has no money

It will save you the shame of loosing your girl friend to another man who will handle her and treat her like a lady

Then by the time you are done using your hands to damage the viens that runs through your dick and you can't get erection with our drugs

Another man will do your work for you

If you can use your hand, anytime they are discussing about women and their love life, remain quiet because you are an invalid candidate

Everyone looses strength and stability at a certain stage of their life

Tagging women is not a proper way of delivering your message, men experience theirs too

You should have generalised it

Anyway those you are referring to can only experience it to understand