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iamme1234:
Wise one from u

Well understood

She doesn’t says she isnt enjoying it besides am so romantic to the point of licking

Always complain about the size

Thanks

Butterscotch92:
I know I'm going to receive a lot of bashing here but I don't mind as I'm looking for solution. I've been following other related threads on the topic and it seems most men don't forgive women that cheated on them.

I cheated on my man. This happened over a year ago when the relationship was going through a rough patch. Actually I didn't set out to cheat and never planned it.

In fact the person it happened with was a person I was confiding in when I was trying to get solutions to my relationship issues.

This person was my married colleague that I joined to work in his car. I thought I could get mature advice by telling him. I was weak and emotionally down and on one of such days of crying to him it happened in his car.

It happened like 3 more times because I go to work with him and come back with him. But I was overcome with guilt (because he was married and for cheating) that I had to stop. But my mistake was that I didn't cut him off completely.

I remained cordial friends with him since he is a colleague and I stopped joining his car. He also moved to another branch. He called occasionally to try his luck but I never gave in. Somehow my man became suspicious by his calls and one thing led to the other and I had to confess.

My man said he has forgiven but can't get back together again. I have been following other threads with similar topics and I saw that men find it very hard to forgive a woman that once cheated.

In this case I'm truly sorry, I have learnt my lessons and I can never make that kind of mistake again. I don't love the man in question, I never wanted anything from him apart from advice from the onset, I stopped on my own, I only remained friends because he was my colleague. I love my man and will do anything to keep him and win his trust back. I'm not a cheat by nature.

I'm heartbroken and filled with guilt and regret. I can't talk to anyone in my circle for fear of condemnation because I'm wrong in every area.

Please is there any hope for me? How do I go about winning him back? How do I convince him that I truly regret my actions? How do I help him heal?

You have confessed to him and apologise to him, if he is fir you, he will come back to you

He too may have not been faithful too

But gather your self and build your emotions

She is actually the one that applied for that make up

NwsBoy:
That is why I said unless they are getting married for the sake of love..

My dear there was no need for that statement

If one doesn't get married for love at that age, is it for money ❓

Roozzaay:
People with low IQ always thinks relationship/love/marriage is only about sex and nothing more.

You are absolutely right

Naijmobile:
https://naijmobile.com/imo-state-young-man-kills-family-members/

I support what the community did to him

Police can't even help in this circumstance

NwsBoy:
Wow...
Marriage......hmm
D man will not enjoy because his dick is old and also Down there(the woman) is weak and the elasticity is beyond imagination.... infact non of them will enjoy knacking....unless they are getting married for love..

Well...This year have been amazing anyway!!

Read the silly and senseless comment you made

Pray not to be lonely in life not even at that age

Companionship is one thing you can't deny yourself off, if not, you are better off dead

Love can be found at any age and it remains sweet as ever

seanblaise:
Good evening guys, I trust you all had an amazing day.

I have a problem which has been bothering me for a while now. I recently landed a job few months ago. The pay is not all that wonderful. When I add my other allowances, it sums up to 90k per month. I have been squating with a friend for some time now so am planning on getting my own apartment next year when I save up some money.

The only beauty about my job is that it gives you a lot of free time. I can be done with work as early as 1:30pm and go home.

I am thinking of going back to school for my M.Sc in UNILAG but as it is, I am my own sponsor. I have a first degree in Biochemistry.

Should I go back to school or continue working?
Does UNILAG offer part time options for students in my line of study?

Save enough money to get an apartment for yourself

Put the few things you know you will need

Go to Unilag and find out the cost of the program

Save times two of the amount

Start the program

For the fact that you will be living alone, control your self over women and spending so that you can achieve your full academic dreams

After that you can plan to settle down

Keep friends that are focused and stay away from friends without vision

tellsblinks:
Hello
Good evenings house.

Am new to this and truth be told I have no idea about car. My mum told me that she wants to buy a car and she doesn't know which to buy.

The car should be tokumbo to avoid problems
The car can as well be Nigeria used bit please with no problem at all.

So I decided to ask the gurus in the house, what car can my mum buy??

We're just 5 in the family

Pls bear the following in mind

Go to Berger at Mile 2 and do eye and window shopping to get an idea of prices if car for that amount

Don't go now, go after New year celebrations

I will rather prefer she buys tokumbo because this might be her first experience being a woman, let her not start now to start experience car wahala at the beginning

Let her not go for car above 2.0 because the bigger the capacity of car the more the problem

I won't like her to go for any Nigeria car because she may not get a good Nigeria car that will last without the problems coming up after one month of purchase, unless the person is someone that is soo close to her that will not sell bad market to her

Small normal car if 1.8/2.0 is best for her

If she buys a dent car, the cost of repairing and painting is up to additional 100,000 but if its tokumbo dent am OK with that but Nigeria dent, its a no

Terry G, has tried very well to come out and apologise to his woman

It takes humbleness from a man who appreciate his woman to do this

With this public apology, she will accept him for another chance

You know when a woman is keeping silent, worse things are going through her mind

He should have been asked to perform surgery on himself let's see how he does it

Rivers state with its bad news has been on break since

Now they are back with their murder and blood flowing news

No one is blaming the trader who released two bags of rice in this hard time with out seeing the money

openbook:
Hello everyone. I will appreciate it if home owners and experts in the house can give me a rough estimate to deck a 32ft by 46ft (9.8m by 14.0m) duplex in Ibadan. I have completed the foundation and the first floor walls.
I do not want to jump into the next stage which is decking without having an idea of the cost.
Any helpful information will be greatly appreciated.

From my own experience, get about 25tones of granite, it will be useful for your pillars, lintel, decking and lintel or upper flow

Make sure its gotten from quarry and not road side granite, it will pay you more with bigger quantities, here Weare talking about #150k or more

But your iron rods in tones not in singles, it will pay you more but you may use up to 11/2 tones of 16mm and 21/2 tones of 12mm depending on the quotation given to you

Get a trailer supply of 130 bags of cement, it will help from down lintel, pillars and decking with pillars also

I will advise you get a carpenter that will charge you to deck with his wood and bamboo, why because, if you chose to buy the planks for decking, after that it's useless in your hand and will be stollen by other residents and you will still pay him to mount the decking and still pay him to remove the decking because it can't remain there

But if he charges you for the whole job, he knows where and how to get his woods from a previously decjed building, he will just buy few to replace damaged ones and after 3wks, it's set for removal, you don't need to beg him because he will remove it and reuse it for another customer

While the carpenter is knacking the decking the electrician will be laying pipes for wiring tgat us if you prefer conduit wiring then the plumber will be laying pipes if you prefer conduit piping

Now bear in mind that the beauty of conduit wiring is that all wires will go inside the blocks and decking then for conduit pipes, I don't lije it because if their is any lickage, you have to keep breaking till you get to the spot and repair but it's the most beautiful of plumbing because you won't see pipes littered around the building walls

Always program your building towards dry season from November to April to avoid delays of your work and most concretes drys quicker during dry season

Remember that if you have the money, as you deck, you pour water on it the next day any the next other day you Start laying upper floors

While the carpenter is removing the decking plank, you negotiate with him, he will charge you and use same woods to do the internal pillars and lintel

It will save you the cost of hiring motor to transport the woods for lintel and pillars when you can use it immediately

And when you are ready for roofing, let your carpenter charge you for roofing and nogging of celin the same time

As you are putting the wood for roofing a d nogging, put your zink at once if not the weather effects may bend the wood while waiting for money to get the zink

That's all for now

Princesscutes1:
I and my God follow

Mu stands for me, na stands for and, chim stands for my God

Meaning me and my God are together

Alooone:
Since I gave birth to my son, it has been one sickness to another.... Some people are after my life... Please I need a very. Strong and powerful native doctor because the person am dealing with is also armed diabollically

You just told us about the people that are after your life but not what transpired

Give us the story let's know if it's spiritual or just srupidy

As for your son, hand him over to God, he will cure him

heendrix:
I'm sure you'll be an Ipob man

spits on you and everything that concerns you. retarrd swine

Ipod this Ipod that, why are you so bittered about them ❓

Kylekent59:
This is very gory.

The only way to survive now is to pretend. When money shows, don't show yourself or claim chair man. Just be on a low key.

It shall never be well with the killers.

Why am I having the impression that this man would have been robbed before he's bing killed.

A proper investigation should be carried out, his last call, who he sent money to last, last transfer by him, and also a thumb print scanner should be used on the whole car and the touches on his body to know the real killers.

You are talking as if every Nigeria Biometric data is with the police Ballistic section

Police already know what to do to get his killers

With Road safety you can get his phone number through the engine number and plate number

From their to the network provider to get record of his last 20 calls, conversations and messages

What a lost

Just take his car number and engine number to Road safety his contact details will appear in their system

brownnikky16:
Read More>>>>HERE

When I say never underestimate the power of a woman, it's things like this that made me to say so

A full fledged man can be manipulated to the extent of keeping the whole family stand still including himself

Una done see am naw ❗❗❗

Innobee99:
I met this lady in 2015 though she was very young and still young. She's 21 while am 28. I love and cherish her so much and despite her flaws she's the one I find comfortable to spend my days with. We have been having a lot of relationship issues which we do settle.

There are many issues she puts on which I won't want to mention here cuz I overlook her flaws and focus on her good side.

The problem is it seems she's not ready for marriage at all or maybe because she's still young and want to fulfill her youthful desires. Always want to be a slay Queen, contesting for beauty pageants even without my knowledge.

I have talked to her severally about my desire to marry her but only nod her head in affirmation but I think she's really not ready.

OK, last year we had a serious issue which we broke up cuz it was a real family war. But we later came back to together again despite I was not at fault and cuz of the love I have for her, I went to her mum to apologize over the issue so we can be one again. I told this lady to also visit my mum and apologize too but she has been procrastinating for a year now. She has not visited my family house over the year. Whenever I confront her on why she don't want to reconcile with my family, she will give flimsy excuses of been busy. How can one be busy for a whole one year to say sorry even if it's on phone.

Now, I met a lady few months ago, and I love her so much and she's ready to settle down with me next year December. And I knw this my stubborn babe is a very jealous type and I don't knw how to handle the issue and let her go since I have seen someone who's ready to settle down with me.

My babe is only interested in u flexing with her like taking her out to eateries, lodging her in a hotel for fun, buying her gifts without spending her own kobo on u (I can swear to that). Last year, I spent alot on her birthday but wen it was my birthday, the total of what she got for me was N700. N200 perfume and N500 Nivea Roll on. But that's not my business sha.

For example, this new babe requested me to give her 2k to make her hair for an event in Church which I bluntly ignored her just to test her, not that I don't have the money. Can u believe that this babe have even forgotten she asked me the money? And she talks to me perfectly on phone. She was like babe, if u don't have money don't stress urself ooooo, I'll repackage my hair and still look good to Church. If u don't send my babe money before the due time, she'll stop calling u.

The new babe is not after money or material things. Though I'll send her a reasonable amount today. Unlike my babe, who will bring down hell if u don't send her money before the deadline. Can u believe that in August, she had already brought her christmas list to me to check?

To cut all these short, I need mature mind on what to do on this cuz am confused. U can pour ur insults cuz I don't even bother abt that as far as I get the advise I want.

Stay blessed my beautiful NL family.

Congratulations for getting an option

Your former babe has something to do with her self and you, stopping her means you will be greatly affected

Every one has a dream and no one understands it better than the dreamer

So allow her to flex its not her fault she is seeing the future from a different perspective

Don't remind her of her apology to your family, it doesn't count for her

As this December is ending, use diplomacy and pull out so that you won't be sleeping with her yet you have gotten another one, it doesn't really work that way

As for your new babe, since she is better if than the former, start fashioning or moulding her to the standard you want her to be be

A lady who is prepared for marriage, will be humble and submissive to your instructions, so far you do that in a most respectable and organised manner

Good luck

doctore212:
Abeg make him carry 2 Olosho, he will recover faster.

It is even scientifically proven that Oloshos help in brain restructuring

Why is it that every time, the only thing your brain responds to is olosho

Women never do you something

nairafame:
Source: https://www.google.com/amp/s/punchng.com/pupils-attack-delta-teacher-after-allegedly-taking-drugs/amp/

They should just be expelled from school at the completion of second term

With that alone it will take them one year to get another school meaning they have lost one whole and that alone is a set back

That is if they care

ChieduJoshua081:
Can you people ever stop comparing people for once? Everytime comparism. are we now in the world to compete with people?

They are just for entertainment purposes

BeLookingIDIOT:
As long as Ipob suffers,no prob.

Just be looking at the ipod like idiot

That's what your moniker says

Despirado121:
https://www.dailytrust.com.ng/anglican-church-bans-brochure-asoebi-in-burials.html

Brochures are good for memories and pictures

But for aso-ebi, I agree with you

Though it's a means of raising funds not creating expenses

AnonPoet:
https://leaders.ng/internal-crisis-hits-bayelsa-apc-as-party-chieftains-kick-against-gejonathans-overbearing-influence-on-transition-committee/

I love Good luck Jonathan

People see him as a weakly but to me, he is a complete gentleman anytime

You can't see him talk any how, that's if he will talk

The wife does all his talking and she doesn't care who her speech is favourable to, all she knows is that she will definitely find her way in any situation

bdchange:
With what has being said so far you are still talking about Love...haba wetin concern love for this matter?

I like this question

Maybe she loves the guy more, when a woman loves you, she will be submissive to a fault

Maybe the guy loves her but not ready to raise a family emotionally and financially

motionarena:
Can You Marry A Girl that Pierce Her Nose And Has Multiple Earrings?

Hi guys

You know it has now been a norm for most women and girls to have multiple piercings in their nose and ears.

I really don't know what they see in it.

Well i have dis girlfriend we have been dating for a while and i plan to marry her. She works with a software company and she is very intelligent.

She returned from a trip and i noticed she had 3 sets of earrings in one ear and also had a tiny piercing on her nose.

I was devastated and asked her why she did it and said it means nothing that she just felt like.

Now am thinking of ending the relationship as i regard girls that do such as loose and runz girls.

Am i overreacting or taking the right move

She has upgraded and stepped up her style and system of living

The issue now is can you cope with this upgrade

Some ladies are really crazy and good for dating and not for marriage

While those for marriage are not the carzy type that are good for dating but they are good for marriage

Use this analysis and place her where she belongs

lilwetdick:
MR EAZI has been dating Temi Otedola for how many years now and he has not even think of breaking up, that is the problem with poor boys in relationship, they always act like they dont have option, if MR EAZI was dating chinedu sister (nkechi) down the street of okoko, he for don chop mouth and run commot

MR EAZI has become temi submissive servant and slave, you see that is the magic of having a rich girl friend, you have no place to go, you cant offend her and cheat because the day you do that, that will be the end of all financial juice, Mr EAZI knows that and wont risk that because the moment he tries to misbehave, he becomes an upcoming artist struggling to make ends meet

Like wise we have female gold-digger samewise we have men gold-diggers.

i can swear on my Goat, that if all the alpha men and mgtow on nairaland get a rich gf like Temi, they will become her submissive and loyal slave. i know it is their dream but it is a pity that it cant happen.... so continue dreaming

Danke

(if you like read, if you like no read, wetin concern me)

Temi is the issue here

If she wants marriage from him, it would have been held since

As for Eazi, he will and must remain humble and submissive to her, it takes a man of his type nothing to be totally honest with her

He values her for whatever she is and will be willing to wait until she says I do

Just because of her family background

vybzkartel:
My friends husband is threatening her with divorce
His reason is that, he has dreamt three times seeing her sleeping with another man. He claims his dreams always are true and that he has caught her.

Please, is this divorce justified? The other funny thing is, this my embattled lady friend wants me to marry her if she is divorced .

Love never existed in their marriage, so any stupid dream can result to separation

If she wants you to marry her and you love her then it will work for both of you

ZzZzzzzzzzzzzzz:
What's the worst thing to be addicted to than sex? All my life, deep inside me, I have tried to downplay the fact that I love sex. But I have come to realize it's no use trying to lie to myself.

If you are wondering, I am 29years old. I have an insatiable appetite for sex and I initially didn't want to categorize it as a problem but now I see it like am cursed.
I don't even know! maybe it was because of my early exposure to sex. I had my first sexual encounter while I was 7 or there about. I have tried to find a reason to my addiction or super high libido/sex drive.

My past relationships has been marred with accusation that I love sex. And that was why most of the women I thought I could love left me. And yesterday was the height of it all.

A week ago, my girl and I had sex and she said she was tired but I kissed her, laugh and continued. That was the last time I saw her. She came on whatsapp and sent me a very long text. I ignored the message and went to her place. At the entrance of their house there was a saloon there. A lady I met that day smiled and said "how many round you wan go?", then the two apprentice with her that day smiled too. I was dumbfounded because she had no reason to be discussing our sexual life with people ". I didn't get to see her that day.

I thought since I had a high libido I was going to find someone that matches me too, but at the moment, I have every reason to conclude i am Addicted To sex... I am starting to feel it's a curse. Is there a solution to this? I just want a way out

Having urges for sex is not a strange thing, but not being able to control it is what makes it a problem

Having sex with a woman should be pleasuring to her not for her to be getting tired on it, that means you are doing 5 in one

Since you have enough time to think about sex and wants it, get married, you are now of age, get her pregnant in the process and when she puts to bed, I know you won't allow her to rest, start again to load her

By the time you have children all over and you can't afford to feed them and still save for rainny days

Then I will consider you as a man with lack of future plans

That's is when you will know that your woman has her own attitude that will frustrate your dick to go flaccid at her sight