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Prettygirl200:
Hi guys good evening, like I don't understand myself since my last relationship I have been finding it difficult to get into another relationship.

Guys keep asking me out both offline nd online ,I keep turning them down. Even if I agree after some days I will tell them am no longer interested, little things they do gets me upset and sometimes I get angry without any reason. Guys no longer interest me and I have only had three relationships since I started dating.
I see myself as a young girl am not even at the middle of my twenties yet still at the very beggining I don't understand what's happening to me.

Pls guys I think I need help I don't understand myself anymore!!! 😟

capetownboyz:
My Igbo brothers , if you have ever been married to another lady from another tribe (Yoruba ) .. what prompted your decision to marrying her , irrespective of the differences we share as a tribe, person and personalities coupled with the negative thoughts thrown towards each other …Cause am in a fix deciding wether to be fully committed to my woman 👩… I love her but coming to a decision to settling with another tribe ,I am still looking for a source of motivation to do so ..

Testiebobo:
Damn it! My best friend is after my girl. Am broken in disapointment and feel cheated, how could he? I usually see them together on several occassions without me with them. Or maybe because his pocket is heavier than mine, I hope is not what am thinking. What should I do to him? Cuz am in pains. I need ur comments guys

Niceguy06:
I'm the type of person that , naturally, the idea of cohabitating with a woman doesn't sit well with me. My girlfriend can't even come and spend more than two days in my house, I'll be thinking of sending her away the 3rd day. This isn't something I have discussed with any partner in the past because I don't know how women will take this.

Also, the idea of giving a woman attention isn't something I can maintain for long. All the calls, all the going out, all the small talks, ain't for me. If I'm calling a girl, and giving her attention this month, before next month, I'm already tired. I can't fake this and the whole drama fall down, and they start seeing me for what I am. All I want is sex, not any other thing. And once I cum,I just want you out of my space. I don't want you calling me, i don't want to call you either. I don't want you to think we're dating, and I'm not thinking of such either. If I can actually go with sex, I don't see myself real to a woman, but I can't, and that's why I have to always pretend like I care. I get tired of drama easily.

NB: please don't abuse me. It took courage for me to voice this out. If there's any solution to work this out , I don't mind.

nairafame:
How a couple discovered that they're not the biological parents of their 5-year-old child.

According to a Netizen, he wrote;


Source

Onulum:
Please, I need candid advice.
I barred my wife from talking with one of her ex that I am uncomfortable with and have some suspicion.

Yesterday, he called her and she ignored and claimed it was a flash because I was around, at least I think so. I called him back and when he knew I was the one, he ended the call and switched of the phone.

Yesterday evening, I realized that my wife tried reaching out to him and even sent him a text.

The text is attached here.

I feel my suspicion has been confirmed.

What should I do? I'm thinking of ending the marriage.

Lamanii22:
Hmmmm moms eehn… funny thing is my mom is always right, her instinct doesn’t go wrong… I have tried going against her instinct once Omoor it landed me in trouble…

xjxibozrge:
Hi,

Please what size of generator do I need to power the freezer below?

Freezer Details
Name: Snowsea Chest Freezer
Power Supply: 220 - 240V/50Hz
Rated Current: 1.1A
Total Power: 145W
Total Store Capacity: 200L

Also, what size of generator will power both the freezer, 2 standing fans and TV at the same time?

Thanks.

xjxibozrge:
Hi,

Please what size of generator do I need to power the freezer below?

Freezer Details
Name: Snowsea Chest Freezer
Power Supply: 220 - 240V/50Hz
Rated Current: 1.1A
Total Power: 145W
Total Store Capacity: 200L

Also, what size of generator will power both the freezer, 2 standing fans and TV at the same time?

Thanks.

Raphsays:
It sounds like you have been through a challenging and difficult situation with your friend who is struggling with theft.
It's great that you are reaching out for advice on how to help him as a friend.

Helping someone with a problem like theft can be complex and may take time.

However, there are steps you can take to support your friend and encourage him to seek help.
Encourage him to speak with a mental health professional or therapist,
have open and honest conversations with him about his behavior, and find alternatives
for him to cope with his challenges in a healthier way.

Additionally, it's important to set boundaries and prioritize your own safety and well-being.

Remember, theft and robbery are serious crimes and can have serious consequences.

By taking these steps, you can help your friend get the support he needs and hopefully,
turn his life around.
Good luck!

Testiebobo:
I was once saving money with one of my female friend at school, nobody knew it except one of my friends who is very quiet but malicious. To summarize the story, this guy always study my movements and I began to notice it but I ignored, however he will not steal my money I thought. One day, I found my bag opened and my savings missing altogether with partner's money, so I began to panic as I was searching for the money, but to no avail. Since then, I and my sister have to always trek home for about two weeks using our T-fare to refund the money of my partner. The school was unable to unveil the thief but I knew the person was close to me. Till today, that guy is still battling with his theft spirit, and he has been arrested in several occassions for stealing and robbery. So I need your help and advice on how l can help him as a friend BECAUSE IT DOES NOT SEEMS ORDINARY

Lamanii22:
yeah I see now… cause she has been unhappy, it’s like our mom is against her… which is why I needed to ask the question…

Lamanii22:
Hmmm deeep… I never even thought of all of these before…

Ok12345:
Ok sis

Ok12345:
Life happened.

eni070:
I gain my weight little by little, after I stop smoking weed. I thank God for the gift of life. Before and after pix

Lamanii22:
So guys, my sister met a man like a year ago that is divorced, right now he wants them to take it to another level, like wedding level…. My sister is a single mother though, educated, working class, successful…. But my mom doesn’t agree to it, she’s only seeing the bad side…


So I would like to know if there’s anyone who has gotten married to a divorced man before.. I would also like to know the pros and cons…

This said man has been truthful so far though…

Waiting for comments! Thank you…

michlins:
My question is simple, how does a snake this large make it into the plumbing system of a building.

Lifeinbits:
Myself and my girlfriend have been dating for almost three years that she sometimes stays in my house too. I have always had the intention of traveling abroad but i don't know how, so last year my girlfriend brought the idea of traveling and how she wants to try US study route and I encouraged her to do so. I also supported her so much with my money by helping her to pay her application fee and TOEFL exam.

While doing all these, we had a conversation and she told me that if she is able to get a fully funded offer that we will be going together and I will be going with her as dependent. Now my girlfriend has gotten admission but she is yet to apply for visa and she has changed plans. She does not want me to go with her rather she is advising that I should also use the study route ifi want to travel.

Note : we had the intentions of getting married but right now she doesn't want us to get marry.

Drella:
Alright thank you.😘

Drella:
I'll appreciate if you can tell me how to pull this off.

Kly003:
This is a major call for concern. I engaged 3 ladies today on a facebook chat and they were all single mothers. It seem to that guys has come to the awareness that marriage seem to be a scam. Now the adverse effect of this is; we are raising a generation of bastards and i fear for the next generation. Single mothers everywhere... (i am sure, we would have some on this nairaland comment)

Drella:
Here are my stats:
Early twenties.
University undergraduate(averagely intelligent).
Only child.
Anti social.

So, nothing is going on in my life asides schooling and I'm not close to anyone asides my parents. My mates have things going on for them. They party, they have money, nice apartment, get girls and catch all the fun. While I'm indoors reading my books or surfing the internet. I don't drink nor smoke. I don't play football nor do I watch it(any sport).

This year, only my parents have called me. My course mates don't call nor chat me if I don't do it first.
My parents are a little comfortable and send me enough money to live an average student life. But I'm not getting enough out of life.

I tried learning a skill but targeting good grades and learning the skill don't go together for me.
What if I graduate and don't get a job? We have no connection.

My life is boring, monotonous and empty. Seems I'll need someone's footsteps I can follow and learn how to live life properly. It's yahoo boys I'm seeing around not actual people I can learn from.

As for relationship, never been in one. The highest I've gotten from a girl was a hug. If I were a girl, I can't date myself cos I can't even keep a conversation going😆😆

Okay rant over.

chigoziri2403:
Why do the physically active collapse
I thought exercises are good for the health

Barbados20:
Goodmorning house. Family and friends are pressuring me to marry but this is the dilemma am going through.

Genotype has become a major barrier for me to get married to lady whom I love. We are tested both AS. My fiancee is from the same ethnic and christian background like me.

On the other hand, I have this female friend whom i recently ask to know about her gnotype. She told me she is AA. Like joke, i ask for confirmation and she brought all d test results frm different lab. The issue is now this female friend is not from my tribe, she from a muslim background although she does not seriously practice it.

My fiancee from my tribal background, but genotype did not match with me. And the other lady from different background, she is AA and match with me. One girl I dated then was AA but the love was not there between us.

Its really frustrating to be AS if you are a Man that want to settle down I am really confused right now. Am above 30. How do i handle this issue of Genotype, ethinc and religious issues? Pls i need advice.

Redomi:
OK ma, my number is on my profile abi na signature dem dey call am. Whatsappcor call

Redomi:
You have really tried, but since you have local fowl that incubate, thats what you ought to be using for hatching your turkey eggs.
Like myself, I started with 3 poults, I was not ready to rear turkey that time, a man was owing me money, when I noticed he is not ready to pay me, I took 3 turkey poults of about 4 weeks old I saw in his cage, 6 weeks turkey poults was sold 1200-1500 everywhere here in Ondo then, he insist on 3000 cos I have taken them away from him , I take them like that and I feed them till maturity, 1 male and 2 females. That was how I started 3 years ago, since then I have not bought turkey and I have sold more than 300,000 from turkey alone, I mixed eggs for anyone that goes broody eithercturjey of chicken.
I don't have local fowl, I have frizzle boiler, and their mother used to go broody and she hatch too, but she is not a good mother, I brood those chciks myself.


Oh foreign turkey, I have done it twice, very big. They are not easy to brood at day old, but if you can brood them till after six weeks and they survive, you are lucky.
First time I bought 2 and raised them with broilers they both survive, but when they get to 3 months old, I sold them both at 45,000 because I couldn't cope with feeding them. They can finish one bag of feed in 5 days.

But you'll be happy at their weight and height especially the males among them, they are giants, but after 6-7 months old, they tend to crash cos of too much weight, their legs won't be able to carry their weight and they sometimes crash, but if you minimize how you feed them, they may not crash.

I have never bought local turkey oooo, they only one remaining just started going broody yesterday, na chicken egg she sit down dey incubate, after hatching it, I will take the chicks and give her another eggs to hatch

Redomi:
You have really tried, but since you have local fowl that incubate, thats what you ought to be using for hatching your turkey eggs.
Like myself, I started with 3 poults, I was not ready to rear turkey that time, a man was owing me money, when I noticed he is not ready to pay me, I took 3 turkey poults of about 4 weeks old I saw in his cage, 6 weeks turkey poults was sold 1200-1500 everywhere here in Ondo then, he insist on 3000 cos I have taken them away from him , I take them like that and I feed them till maturity, 1 male and 2 females. That was how I started 3 years ago, since then I have not bought turkey and I have sold more than 300,000 from turkey alone, I mixed eggs for anyone that goes broody eithercturjey of chicken.
I don't have local fowl, I have frizzle boiler, and their mother used to go broody and she hatch too, but she is not a good mother, I brood those chciks myself.


Oh foreign turkey, I have done it twice, very big. They are not easy to brood at day old, but if you can brood them till after six weeks and they survive, you are lucky.
First time I bought 2 and raised them with broilers they both survive, but when they get to 3 months old, I sold them both at 45,000 because I couldn't cope with feeding them. They can finish one bag of feed in 5 days.

But you'll be happy at their weight and height especially the males among them, they are giants, but after 6-7 months old, they tend to crash cos of too much weight, their legs won't be able to carry their weight and they sometimes crash, but if you minimize how you feed them, they may not crash.

I have never bought local turkey oooo, they only one remaining just started going broody yesterday, na chicken egg she sit down dey incubate, after hatching it, I will take the chicks and give her another eggs to hatch

hardbody:
You people should not let some us start insulting your god. My employer understands how bad the economy is, no fuel, no money, etc. so he allows me log on and work from home but your god insists i must come to church and give money to my fellow man who claims he is a man of god and was called by him. Africans, we are big time enemies of ourselves and sycophants going above and beyond the white man's invention.

Righthussle:
Yes. It is enough reason for you not to go to church. Your friend is a good Christain. A good Christain who knows how much his/her God needs money to do his work will not go to church if he/she doesn't have money to give.

tobore4u:
Good morning ma and happy Sunday to you.

You directed me to send my details which I did but am yet to hear from u ma.

If I still find favour in your sight pls here is my details.

Access

0036382291

IKP COL.

Thanks in anticipation.

Redomi:
Are they on free range? I no go lie you, when I started, turkey won't go broody easily, she laidcalmost 100 eggs before she remember to go broody the first time, but now she brood easily after laying few eggs. It got tova time that I started covering her and the eggs with a basket, yet she won't want to stay and will be making a hell of noise, that did not bothered me, after a month of covering her, she hatched few eggs, though I allow her outside once a while, and mind you she broke few eggs about 4, but she finally gave me the result I wanted, and I free her. After 3 weeks, she goes broody herself and now hatch without anyone forcing her, and she hatched.
Other hen learn from her and they do same, but I sold all my Turkey few monthscago when I was broke, I'm now left with a female, she has been laying unfertilized eggs and I have been eating them, just yesterday she went broody, I gave her15 frizzle boiler eggs

Redomi:
Waooo, I love this. I have similar farm too, but I don't have local hen except for one that was hatched by my frizzle noiler, a local roster crossed her.
I have been breeding and making money from it though not big money but I enjoy watching them grow.
I sold all my turkey and left one, she has been laying for few weeks now, she will go broody in few days or week, I intend giving her frizzle noiler eggs to hatch.
I have 3 naked neck too, but I don't like the female, it's too small and not mesty like the male, I ate one of the male and sold one, I only have the female remaining, I don't plan to harched it eggs again, cos I have 2 that I hatched and I'm not happy with their growth.
But I still have 5 frizzle feather noiler, their mother and the children, I have sold their father, but the children are now older and crossing thehens among them and their mother, one has started laying including the mother. Their mother usually go broody and hatch her eggs herself

Makakween:
Hello nairalanders, please I am an old user of this platform I had to create a new one because I don't want this in my old account. I have been trying to get a new Gmail to post this,I really appreciate ghettoman I don't really know his moniker for the help he rendered by trying to open a new Gmail for me.

My husband and I got married by recommendations from my pastor, he's was already having a child from his previous marriage,no matter how I said no to this marriage, they had already planned it anyway... now after marriage his daughter came to stay with us,I started working because I don't like staying idle at home so I can also assist in the house.
He usually gives me money monthly so I can buy foodstuffs from the house, but the money is never enough and sometimes I beg from my sister and I use the money at home to cook.

Now the problem is my girl would start thinking and telling people around,that her father sends me money and I don't use it on her... she would be looking at the food like shit...with the country problem everyone is managing this girl own is fish,and meat, since I married my husband gave me money just once to buy clothes for her and my daughter.
I am the one that buys her clothes, everything I do she doesn't appreciate and she just wants it all. I didn't even notice this at all until I was told outside,I was so shocked as to what this child can do. I was so shocked 😨, how come I never noticed until I was told... she monitors my calls and tell her dad,I just don't understand. The money he gives me can't take us 2 weeks, it's not like he doesn't have the money but he doesn't want to bring it out. I was still breastfeeding my daughter it was my prevention for pregnancy,I wasn't seeing my menses and I got pregnant again,it became worst I have complained to alot of people about the verbal abuse I get from my husband,I was asked to endure now the endurance is killing me...

This month because of her,he felt I wasn't using the 20k well and he gave me a list of things to buy at home,but he gave me 10k,and it was first week of January,I later asked for another since we already didn't have anything at home he sent 5k I used it to fill gas 3k plus t fare. He knows there's nothing at home,and school was on holiday, even with pregnancy I didn't mind looking for job still. Now I beg for money to feed,ever since I knew she's like that I hate serving her food cos the money isn't enough for all of us. When her dad came home he gave me 1k for me to use for a week,no garri,no rice nothing. And school has resumed I am the one responsible for giving her money to school,I have stopped since she uses it on the way to school and behaves like a beggar in school.

She is always telling her fellow kids that I can never be her mother,I can't kill myself,I begged him for money on Sunday he sent 1200 to me,I used it to fill gas 1kg,I begged for foodstuffs to cook. I am tired of begging,I almost died last week and I didn't have the money to take me to the hospital, it was God, even the drugs I tried begging no way. Since she thinks everything I own and buy is for her father,and I am not seeing anything,I have been supporting quietly but she feels she is entitled to more and all which I can't give, when 1k finished I begged and was given 2k, which I used for yams,and I cooked small soup,I couldn't help but give her but she still behaved like that, like it isn't worth it...

Now I want to stop feeding her,I go hungry most days drinking the garri I begged for 2 days, nobody knows how I have been feeding,I feel I have been too foolish by covering up this stupid marriage. Now he's even telling me that if I give birth to a female again I would face it alone, right now like this he doesn't want to even send anything to me for the house,i hate complaining and complaining about things, people are already urging me to talk,I don't want people pointing at me on the road,I don't know what is wrong with me but I need help...

I can't endure anymore, sometimes I want to just die,I hate begging people for things but I have been subjected to that just to feed,I needed someone to talk to, people who can give me advice different from what people are giving me here... that marriage is for life, please I need help before I lose it, what do you think I should do,I don't know my fate even with this pregnancy but I want a better one for my daughter. Please drop a comment for me,I would really appreciate the help and advises. Please no insults I am not really that strong still fighting some health issues,thank you.