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mexxy1:
Nice as usual. But, out of curiosity, is there any reason your foods are almost always marshed?

I've tried not to ask for long but, I just have to today.

Thank you.

It isn't mashed though. The only food I eat that is mashed is potatoes. This is made as a porridge and adding cream cheese to it makes it creamier.

Dinner:

Savory grit topped with butter and efo riro.

Dinner:

Pasta topped with cheese.

I am not sure any amount is good or bad however, we should invest in them so that they can stand by themselves and run their race with or without us. If possible, contribute a large downpayment in their 1st mortgage and ensure they do not have student loan debts upon college graduation.

BlueRayDick:
If I didn’t read the caption, I would’ve though it’s egusi ijebu and Bread

What gave the tomato soup that color ? Is it the Basil?I was thinking the Basil would’ve make it green and not light yellow

The heavy cream.

Perhaps he's scared of external influence around his kids. Talk to him about a nanny and if he rejects the idea, plan how you manage chores and only do the necessary ones. Whenever he's around, make sure he participates in the house chores.

This is greed and laziness at work. He should ask the older generation that were into fraud how they ended their lives.

Dinner:

Catfish Tomato Basil soup with fresh bread made from 1/2 wheat flour, 1/2 all purpose flour.

Couldn't wait for the dough to rise the second time before baking. The hunger was too much to wait any further.

Yes you can go ahead and perhaps, that could be a legal reason for redeployment. Congratulations in advance!

ahnie:
Many thanks Gboskii lala.
You na motivation,always know that.

Thanks, will keep that in mind going forward.

ahnie:
Gboskii......Mad respect for you.i don doff mi isoko hat for you.yeah you just aptly defined the nitty gritty of the hustles.
You ve now seen the reason why I don't joke with my kids abii? because eye wey see mush chop.
May God bless your mumsy,bless your entire household.

Amen ooo... Parenting is been there irrespective of how tough it might seem. Continue with the good work you are doing. Regards to oga and the kids.

ahnie:
I always tell my kids,always remember we started from the roadside,that's why I love including them in every activity I engaged in...I have countless pics of my 7 years old girl running and handling hustleville,you go trip if I show you pictures.for TikTok nko,you go laff taya for her videos manning mummy's hustle.
Forget I delved into other side hustles...but hustleville shot me up.i love the fact that,you never forgot your humble beginnings.

Like I said before....Gboskii tiri fingers for you.

How dare we all forget? Something that became family business and saw us all through from Primary to Higher Institutions? We all be graduate because say the business dey ooo. Some even go private school all through (Primary through University) na because of the hustle. The days of waking up early to cook and then transport to go sell; the days of supply if there's not much sales upfront; the days of selling in the rain, holding an umbrella over a customer's head so that they can eat; the days of running from Task Force officials who wants to throw away your food etc.

One of the things I tell people I learned is that life can happen to anyone. My dad was a graduate back in the days and unfortunately, SAP made him lose his regional manager position. The next job he got was a good one (profile wise), but the pay wasn't great and my mom had quit her banking job to focus on us. Good thing is irrespective of the hustles, we were not left behind. My mom was in PTA committee in my sisters' secondary school, my dad wouldn't miss my brothers' PTA. Guess I was the only one who did not get too much of attention unlike others perhaps, because of the middle child syndrome and my grandpa died after I was born so my dad felt I killed him because my brother enjoyed the privileges of Babatunde beyond necessary.

Are these people not the ones who do their children wedding ceremonies for days and use exorbitant locations and decorations? Nigeria is worse than "Animal Farm" story by George Orwell.

ahnie:
I ve seen where you got your culinary skills from...Gboskii lala tiri fingaz Ina da air for you man.

Wetin we go do na? It was a case of life throwing us lemons and we had to make lemonade out of them. Now, we all can look back and thank God for that phase. It was tough but it made us who we are today.

Sincerely, when I visit and I see children of those who sell by the roadside playing or living some I don't care life, I wish I could call them to encourage them. One can attain whatever height one sets his/her mind on.

ahnie:
Gboskii

I sabi that one small na. As person wey the mama sell food for bus stop where aboki plenty, you go hear some Hausa na. At least, una need call people come chop.

ahnie:
Zoer ka zo mu chin abinchi,

Baabu, I no ready sit down chop abeg.

Dinner:

Beans and dodo.

I would rather say anywhere around Ile Oromu or between General and Opa should be fine for someone who has a family. They have good electricity in these places mentioned. One challenge with Ife though is career development since there are not so many white-collar jobs in Ife and job migration might be very difficult if not impossible.

floret23:
What will you do if you are in my position and feeling deeply hurt.

Some men have bitter experiences both in relationship and some in marriages.

Reading this gave me goose pimples. I can't say this is what I would do if I were in his shoes as I pray and hope never to find myself in such a position. But if it happens, I would think it is because I slacked because if you know every penny I earn, I expect that level of openness from my wife. I wish he can forgive if he can and I hope this will open up deeper level of communication between them.

Mvena:
Amennnn.. Thank you so much

How are you too? How’s the family?

We are doing good, thanks for asking.

Advancedman:
She didn't killed for a man get your sense right.
Men doesn't exist for you to blame while glamorize your stupidity.

sensible man, you are heard.

Mvena:
No be small thing oo school wan burst my eye but God pass dem I don graduate

Congratulations. Wish you many more ground breaking success in the future.

Mvena:
Uncle Gboyega I don miss your foods o

Glad to know you are doing well.

[quote author=Enemyofpeace post=123008795]you don't know the power of prick in a lady's liuninvited.

His is not her first and might not be her only/her last. She's just been very stupid.

They damaged his psychology with the accusation. Why should a 13year old be riding a bike for living?

He's missed you so much. Just go home uninvoted.

This is stupidity. You killed a child for a man that could leave you tomorrow? Where is the father of the child? Were they not once in love like she is now?

He had none but if he did and was confirmed through DNA, I have no problems accepting them however, we might no enjoy so much relationship like I do with my siblings.

I don't know what popular will mean but I will say Bunmi Akinaanu's songs.

Whatever the cause of the fight is will be the cause of great regret.

novia22:
How did you mash up two swallows?
Your Okra is appetizing.

Thanks for the compliment.

You will boil them separately and then use the food processor to process them together.

Dinner:

Pounded yam and plantain fufu with okra soup. Inspiration is from how Ghanians make their fufu.

LawyerLomo:
How do you focus on your self to strength the texture of the love as pebbles on the sea?

I have a date with my crush next tomorrow(Tuesday), I don't want to make this mistake...
I want a definite dialogue with an impeccable result.
Thanks

Talk about you both and don't take it beyond that. Focus on things you love that makes you comfortable in conversation. Find out what triggers her and wants her to talk more.