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pocohantas:
Junk journalism. He didn’t feel he wasn’t worthy, he did what a sane man should do. Is it until someone accuses him of harassment you will know he is worthy? Olodo

Like the way Kemen was accused of harassing or molesting Tboz

exquisitehair:
Crocodile tears... But women sha

Are you even watching the show?The voting is compulsory, not optional. You have to vote whether or not you want to. And if the people you voted eventually get evicted, off cour you will feel bad.

100%

SweetCunt97:
Do you know many people are homeless? As in they gat no money to pay rent

There must be some place else she can stay rather than sleeping in the same room.with husband and wife. That is just wrong. How does she even feel doing that.

If that house burns down today(God forbid), will she sleep under the stars? She will find a place to stay.

Petyprincess:
I have this exact plate with the design
It might sound funny for saying it though so please no mind me

Nice sauce

I guess they are twins

Ofada sauce...

Currently downing this with rice

oluwadabira222:
Nothing spectacular bout the boy joor

Sometimes you need to be spectacular to be favoured.

When favour wants to find you, little and most insignificant things will matter.

trueguy573:
When you're emotional about something, your logical reasoning gets thrown out the window. Marriage shouldn't be founded on pity. The man is clearly not interested. If they eventually get married, he is 95% capable of cheating on her. However you're right that he is wicked.
Ladies out there, learn to respect yourselves and don't let emotion take over your sense of reasoning else you would end up in emotional pain and never forget "emotional pain is remembered more than physical pain and has more effect on your health and behavior." Guys have many choices besides you. If they've seen all about you, they tend to drop you for fresher ladies. That's the way of life. The people for you would always find a way into your life.

The guy no longer finds her attractive or loves her.

Does that mean he did before?

What changed? Is it the fact that she is pregnant?

He was probably never in love with her

HeavenlyCherub:
I just said the same thing. Scrolled up and read your comment. My heart just broke reading this story. How evil humans can be. Honestly for me a marriage will be transaction. I just feel I’m at a point I don’t believe in a thing called love. Only God can love.

Please believe o because there are still good ones out there. Don't let the bad ones rob you of being loved genuinely. It's a beautiful thing.

coolluk:
Diseases your girlfriend can give you�

Or the other way round

Righteousness89:
The Above Mentioned Germs and Diseases are the Physical Diseases..

Spirtually, Destinies are Padlocked, Shattered and Battered!
One could become a Walking Corpse!

The Greatest of all is Eternal Damnation in Hell!

Departing this Earth on top of a Prostitute !! What Explanation will you Give to the Almighty God!!

Flee any Form of Immorality! Flee Sin!
It's a Destiny Destroyer!

They have no idea or they just feign ignorance for 10 mins of pleasure.

I don't think much of men who visit prostitutes.

Mogajunior:
These prostitutes are even more cleaner than the regular girls you see out there.

Sounds like consolation or justification.

Why did she remain in the relationship knowing she had no plans to marry him. She had to wait till he proposed.

merits:
Billionaire married billionaire doesn't guarantee happy home.but I wish them bless and happy married life in advance.

So poor marrying poor guarantee a happy home?

At least these ones will be sad with money.

The voice lacks passion

Your girl is shallow and you know it. So it's either you live with her like that or let her go

Cyphrr:
Some people get married without practically any hope or any source of income my uncle is a testimony he suffered so with his wife even to feed was an issue but today they are in South Africa living large and driving the best cars.. this life no balance that’s one thing some people should know

It doesn't mean it's good. How can you marry without any source of income? Does it even make sense to bring someone to come and starve?

yvelchstores:
he has no business with knowing what she earns before even marrying her. your friend is an opportunist. he wants to elevate his status by marrying into the family. it's not about if he cares about this lady. besides if he is asking all these questions he shld just leave the young lady and look for his specifications.

Just like one marriage I know that's not working because the guy is selfish and irresponsible. The wife (a very close person to me) later found out that before they married he went about trying to know how much she earns. He got the information, down to bonuses and rent allowance, upfront, etc.

When they got married, he expected so much from her. And, along the line, the salary got slashed and she was paying off loans and debts the husband incurred. Finances became so tight.

The guy was more interested in her earnings than loving her and that foundation couldn't stand the test of time.

Iogobenz:
Do you really know what insecurity is?
Because you keep throwing it around carelessly and its beginning to sound really irritating.
Insecure about a woman who don't make a quarter of what he makes?
There is a difference between an insecure man and a man who don't want an over pampered liability.
Know the difference.

Seriously, the word "insecurity" is not as irritating as "your friend" trying to take a peek in to the future and getting himself so worked for what he cannot change. That's why I am saying he should leave her be before it ends in premium tears.

And why are you getting so touchy about your friend's situation?

Iogobenz:
They relate very well.
I wonder where you got the idea that the girl is not on his level.
His problem is to know if the girl makes enough to cater for herself or it's her parents maintaining her current lifestyle which he might later take over from them after commitment,and he doesn't want that.
Women can pretend so he doesn't want to ask questions and want to be sure.
My friend makes way more than the said lady,but is an ambitious man and wouldn't want a pampered lady to draw him down.
The question is simple,can her job sustain her?
If its 170k like someone said then I think it won't work as the money too small.

Who said anything about not being on the same level.

There are too many uncertainties and insecurities. It's best your guy steers clear to avoid another thread in the future.

If he cannot afford to fund her current lifestyle, he should let her be, because it could go both ways. As in, she earns well but also enjoys comfort from her parents wealth. So it is already a concern for him, let him save himself the trouble.

Iogobenz:
She works in a drugstore,you know all these fancy and polished ones.
My guy say If she can make say 400k a month,then he thinks she can foot her current lifestyle effortlessly though.
Those were just some of his thoughts he shared with me not so long ago.

Is your friend just scoping this lady from afar or he actually relates with her? If he relates with her, he should know what kind of person she is, if she is the high maintenance type.

If "your friend" already feels this insecure before even going in, he should think twice about going further. What if he gets all the financial information about her and something else pops up in the course of the relationship? Will he run?

I see problems ahead especially from a guy who is already this money conscious.

uboma:
Exactly my thoughts too.

Logobenz is just being insecure because the lady is educated, doing well career wise and also because she's from a wealthy family.

The more he keep contemplating these issues here on Nairaland or on any other forum instead of discussing these issues with her directly, the more likely that he's going to loose her.

It seems some guys do not know what they want. They complain about marrying a liability; a lady who doesn't bring any finances to the table.

But when they meet one that is earning and doing well for herself, they feel insecure. He should allow another person who is sure go for the girl.

lefulefu:
point is the guy is probably broke and not the girl"s spec and she is just using him to warm her body.she probably has a main guy she is dating and felt insulted that the side guy was proposing to her and used the not kneeling down as an excuse.The white girl on the other is getting proposed to the man she really loves and doesnt give a fuk weda he kneels down on not.what concerns her is she is getting married to the man of her dreams .

And for the white guy, he is rich and from a wealthy family. So the girl doesn't care if he kneels or not.

He should continue trying to investigate till someone that is serious comes and makes the move.

You want to date someone, but you want to know how much she is paid, growth potential, her 2 year/5year career goal. Why not just invite her for an interview?

pocohantas:
Lol. He killed the soup too- literally.

Yeah. The soup usually should not have water.

Klass99:
This........

I cannot for the life of me understand our crazy obsession with having more kids than necessary in this part of the world.

They will tell you that it is God who gives children and you cannot reject them.

And another thing they say is you don't know which one will blow or that there are more children to take care of them.

bigfrancis21:
Yea, we need to hear from both parties to better evaluate what happened.

But why is that guys don't request to hear the other party when it is a guy who posts his story.

krushdripper:
Did you read where he confronted & talked to her about maltreating the niece but she went from bad to worse? Yes you did but your brain can't recall cos you're just all about being wrong & staying vindictive about it & you must be totally warped for you to say men always feel the need to beat thier women. Men always feel the need to love & make a woman happy or comfortable while you women always feel the need to hurt a man in your selfishness & enviousness, tell yourself some truth. In most cases if not all where a man beats a woman, the woman has giving the man a thousand and one reasons to do so. He beating her doesn't make them the same, you know why? Cos he had earlier talked to her about her misconduct which certainly won't be just once instead she went from just enslaving the niece to laying hands on her then you come spewing nonsense to justify rubbish, shame on you.

This right here is a man who cannot communicate and pass his message across like a grown man without resorting to insults.

You have to talk like a teenager, struggling with puberty, that cannot make mature conversations without sounding stupid.

That is why you cannot seem to process my comments.

Please take your comments to girls who can condone such insolence.

Brandonx:
He does not look like that kind of a guy. A benin man does not hide his character

One thing I know about Edo guys in general is that aside being stubborn, they are very caring. That's what I have noticed but I could be wrong.

It I am right, the guy might still swallow his ego and vomit the red pill for that moment.

Kneeling is just a romantic part of the proposal that ladies look forward to. It is in no way meant to demean the guy. They will be fine.

lefulefu:
tolotolo should learn from this
see her mate over here still accepting the proposal even when the man did not kneel

If the lady in this picture had insisted that the guy kneel and he refused, then we would have been able to use it to compare the one on this thread.

Brandonx:
Kneel for what exactly
The girl just want to feel important because his friends were saying he should kneel.
Ó vbèn vbèn. the thing sweet me as the guy refused to kneel.

Someone that will still kneel down Las Las. He's probably the type that forms lion outside and lamb inside.

krushdripper:
Ok, what are you now trying to say? the girlfriend wasn't consumed with anger & strong emotions or what? You think you can just go all nonsensical & stupid on men & still go ahead to blame them for your stupidity & carelessness? I don't think so. A man should use his strenght to care for & protect you but since you have the right to be shitty & irresponsible cos men could naturally come for you, that strength would be used to fight & destroy you.

What I am saying is that it takes more strength to resist beating your woman than it takes to actually beat her...mental strength especially.

The lady is not left out here. She was also wicked to keep mistreating her and beating her.

My point is the fact that men always feel the need to beat their women. Why didn't he just throw her out? Why must he beat? If he beat her because she beat his niece, is he any different from her?