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Blood test is 1,500. Yet you have to buy needle and gloves. How much is needle and gloves? General hospitals can make a sick person collapse. Go to the pharmacy, go and pay here, go and buy drip, etc.

That's why people would rather pay for the comfort and service in a private hospital. Who has time to start parading the hospital and shopping for medical supplies

RisenPhoenix:
When you wait too long before you marry, you get comfortable in the self-centred bachelor lifestyle. Any wife after that will be seen as an intruder in your home, eating your food and destroying your appliances. It won't last before you vex pack the 'guest' commot.

Quite true. They become set and stick in their ways.

ePoster:
your type is rare.

Especially on Nairaland.

All most of the guys know is menopause and Shiloh.

I can just imagine if it was Nairaland the guy came. Investigators would have surfaced and we would have seen things like:

"Post your child's birth certificate "

"Why did you impregnate your wife when you knew you couldn't afford hospital bills"

"Snap a picture with your wife and baby in the hospital with the doctor and nurses and hold up a paper with "nairaland" written on it"

In the end, after humiliating the guy...highest! 3k

explosiveskull:
That me you are looking for, you'll find it soon in Jesus Name
But I won't be the one to oblige you that.

Don't waste your prayers on something this trivial. Save it.

Enjoy the rest of your day.

Richdad50:


The noise about choosing a career before marriage or vice versa makes no sense. What should concern you is balancing the two phenomenon.

I have seen women put in the hours at work and rose to the top of their dreams without any effect on how they run their families. You can work hard without closing too late and you can further your studies and still save your family the suffering. The pitfalls comes when you invest your whole entirety into one thing.

The joy of a successful woman is the story of a supportive family but a woman who neglects hers will be lonely at the top. Victory is sweetest in the company of genuine cheers.

It is the duty of a man to support her dreams and the wife's to balance her duties. What a woman needs to flourish in career is a supportive spouse. Why can't you imagine both my dear.

Richdad

Apt.

Balancing both is the way to go. So that no one suffers. It's only possible with a supportive husband and not one that constantly feels threatened by his wife's progress. Working as a team always wins.

explosiveskull:
Next time you see that "ExplosiveSkull" handle, just avoid me please.

And next time you see "imaima1", do the same and don't respond

MNDY:
I am talking about the things happening around us, you are talking about friends.

It's very clear that it's actually getting worse because the good and bad ones among you defend and make excuses for it.

These things happening around us are happening to people around us which includes friends, neighbours, etc. They are not happening in a vacuum or to spirit beings.

What you think or conclude is inconsequential and does not affect the real statistics and facts. It's only a pedestrian's musing.

explosiveskull:
Most of them will pretend that career comes first but I don't know what they are doing in Shiloh, synagogue of all nations and all these prayer houses during a hot afternoon when they should be pursing their career.

Say something new now. This Shiloh mantra is getting old and stale

chival:
That's Frederick Leonard and he trumps them all by far. He should be leading that list. He's probably the most talented of the bunch, especially when it comes to romantic roles, and he's mighty easy on the eyes.

Addendum: Alexx and Bolanle are poor actors, though Alexx surprised me in the Bling Lagosians.

And he can cry. The way tears just well up in his eyes...

kinokano:
Igbo Representative

The guy in the third picture always looks bleached up. Plus his acting is not top notch

Why does Ik Ogbonna have to bend his leg like that in every picture.

Safarigirl no skin?

Poverty

GrossPrice:
So you are saying :

A man can be a thief and be honest at the same time.
That "good character" in itself is isolated.

How do you measure a woman's character? Are you saying a woman can sleep with 1, 2, 3 or 4 men in her lifetime and still posses "good character"?

Why all these childish assumptions? Your statements are akin to building a castle using sand.

When the law says; anyone who commits crime A is subject to arrest and prosecution. When you commit that crime "A" are you not in risk of
arrest and prosecution.

If a girl willingly loses her virginity, it says a great deal about her character; the same way missing government funds says a lot about a government officials character.

All these children looking for good character in women; seem to be looking for something else not wives.
Seems this good character connotes/denotes something besides morality and values.

Are you saying all virgins have good character? Or the men that have slept with 10 women that still demand for virgins are good or bad people?

Does a woman having sex before she is married automatically means that she is a bad person?

You don't understand my statement because you have chosen to twist it. I simply meant that being a virgin is not enough if other important aspects are missing.

But then again...I am only responsible for what I say and not for how you choose to interpret it

JONNYSPUTE:
.. This what I'm talking about.Ask that politician to help you as a guy to start off something,he will decline. But he is spending 3m on one night pussy.I will keep blaming men like him for the moral decadence in our society.

They hardly ever help people to progress in life. If you meet them with a good business plan to sponsor, they will keep posting you. It's usually that way.

GIDIBANKZ:
My boss is Something Else.... He always Shout at His Staff in presence of His Frnds and Costumers makinq People Around Our Organisation LOOK DOWN ON US..... Not Encouraging Us... ANY LITTLE EFFECT YOU MAKE TO MAKE THE WORK MOVE FOWARD WILL LEAD TO INSULTING US.......THE LAST TIME I WANTED TO TAKE SOME WORKING TOOLS TO OUR SMALL OFFICE... THE NEXT THING HE SAID WAS THAT... I LIKE WASTING TRANSPORT........AND EVER SINCE I RESUME OFFICE IN THAT PLACE....I HAVE NEVER ASKED OF TRANSPORT FOR ANYTHING.......... Yesterday Evening... He was Even telling me that, he will SLAP ME.....I FELT BAD SHA...... So this morning when he Came, I Told Him to expect my SIGNING OUT/RESIGNATION LETTER VERY SOON

SO WORIKING UNDER PERSON IS BAD AND FRUSTRATING......I WILL SOON GO AND START MY BUSINESS

When you tell him to expect your resignation, he becomes aware of your plan and can fire you before then.

Incandescent:
Tomorrow they would post.

God's grace is at work.

You go come dey wonder why this "grace" no dey reach you.

No tangible business. Only to snap pictures in exquisite hotels & looking all flamboyant. God pass una

Someone recently told me that his uncle's friend who is a politician told him that it takes him just 3m to get a certain popular actress to leave her base and come to spend a night with him.

This actress is one of the top ones that hardly even appears in movies in recent times. You see flamboyant pics of vacations, etc and wonder what business they are into that brings in so much money for the luxuries.

For those that do not understand the meaning of "support " (they seem to be many) , I decided to help.

1. bear all or part of the weight of; hold up

2. give assistance to, especially financially.
"the government gives £2,500 million a year to support the voluntary sector"

3. a thing that bears the weight of something or keeps it upright.

4. provide with a home and the necessities of life.
"my main concern was to support my family"

seangy4konji:
No matter how you try to portray yourself on nairaland. You are still a peasant to me..you can't sit on a table I sit in real life.so in your mind now for every lazy woman in Nigeria?5 are hardworking...?maybe no b e this same Nigeria where there are how's eery where you look..only 1 or 2 out of 5 won't expect monetary return for even a date..including the ones with jobs.

PS..I am very sure about it madam..you no reach

In other news..I no need respect from ant woman...you are all the same...

As I already stated, it's your association that makes you speak this way. I can't change how you see women from your own perspective.

Seems you have been a peasant for a long time for you to be so familiar and in love with the word. Enjoy your peasantry and the rest of your day.

seangy4konji:
you will have to work for another 20 years and save the salary without touching it to be able to sit on a table where I sit..hqow old are you by the way and whether married with kids or single..you can even work and earn pounds(highest currency)ou still can't meet what's on ground or people I socialise with at the beer palor self.

PS..its a faceless forum so a peasant have d ability to pick up their phones and talk anyhow.I would only ignore you

YOU will have to work your whole lifetime and save every penny of it to attain where I am too. You also do not know who I am and how old I am. What has it got to do with me if you earn in gold blocks?

Are you calling yourself a peasant? Or aren't you holding your phone and talking anyhow.

If you want respect,give it!

crackhaus:
Na wah oo.

Didn't you already say it was ONLY good character and support you had to offer before you got married?

If you had something else, talk na before accusing me of jumping into anything.

Lmao...

"...it is not as important as a good character and a wife that gives her husband piece of mind and support"

Please check the meaning of support thoroughly and understand my comment. Because you seem to be going out of point

crackhaus:
Tell that to Oprah Winfrey, she's twice your age and will have very good answers to the questions you are still struggling to answer.

When you've been depending on men all your life, it will be very hard to have anything else than good character & 'support'.

I thought you were smart. Smart people don't jump into baseless conclusions.

Why not go ask Oprah the questions then? Why bothering with me?

crackhaus:
Yeah, as if I didn't already see this textbook response coming a thousand miles away.

Now you understand that the reason why a man probably needs to marry a woman is ONLY to have legal access to puccci, legal kids too, since he can't get any of these from family/friends.

No need to get upset though because this is just what you just implied by that short unsurprising response. I only interpreted it for everyone to see the kind of mindset most of your kind have, not like most of us aren't already aware.

As you grow older, you will understand better the reason for marriage. But for now, just bother your head with other things that you have knowledge about

seangy4konji:
Be deceiving yourself..sand ko..mud ni

It hurts, I know. Change your association and stop selling yourself cheap.

[quote author=sacx post=84558451][/quote]Ok. I have noticed you. As you were!

MNDY:
For the bashing to be too much, it means that it is very rampant. I am not the only one bashing. It's everywhere.

You too can see your fellow ladies around you involved no matter how hard you try to deny it. We don't hate ladies. Why? When we still need them?

The new generation of ladies have to accept the truth and change rather than defend or continue giving excuses and worsening the issue. I won't insult you back like you did because I'm better than that and know what I'm saying.

That's why I believe it's who you mingle with. My friends are either working mothers, business mothers, single career people, etc I don't have any friend that fits into the category you mention. So I can also generalize from my own perspective that our ladies are all hardworking and responsible. It depends on what side we are looking at it from.

Please show me where I insulted you. When you quoted me, you didn't know how you sounded right. It's because you thought it was one of those ladies that you just bully and belittle with those false generalizations.

crackhaus:
Oh I did, but my above human intelligence tells me it's a good character that brings about a supportive personality - and even on this, the concept of this support is still very vague.

Are you implying that the 'support' a man will get from a woman is different or more special from the one he already gets from the friends he's known for say 15/20yrs, or from the family he's known all his life?

Then he should marry his friends or his family

Not exactly 50k.Their cheapest is the one bedroom room apartment which is 55k. Studio room 60k. The ambience is top notch.

seangy4konji:
Na wetin man deh see ooo...on this tar road ooo..na few....am not talking of adult wen oo..ladies and young adults. Very few.

Take for example...as abuka be capital city. 80% of ladies there are olonsho...you can argue if you want..it's the truth in our face..even the ones with legit work use it as cover up.

I am sure you won't believe it if I told you that there are some men who have never come across the "olosho", leech type girls. It depends on where you look and who you mingle with. When you play in the sand, who will you find there?

MNDY:
And do you know that the more y'all keep defending yourselves against the truthful bashing, the situation gets worse?

The new generation of you ladies have totally lost it. The earlier y'all accept the truth and work on it, the better....instead of going all feminist and comparing men with women when the latter is criticized.

Your generalization is inconsequential and irrelevant to the "new generation" ladies especially because you are probably using the ladies in your family and around you to judge every lady. It's a small minded way of thinking.

And I do hope that you expand your thinking and reasoning capacity to accommodate the possibility that not all women are like the ones you know. Or you may have to relocate from your present location and step out of nairaland and go around to see how other women are living their lives responsibly.

Also, tone down on snapchat, IG, badoo, and all those forums that do nothing to project productivity and life focus. That is not the majority of the population.

For every irresponsible lady YOU know, there are probably 5 responsible and focused ones. But how will you see them when you are busy in the mud with the other divide.

crackhaus:
So what must a woman have?

Only good character?

I guess you didn't see "support" there. Or you saw it but you don't know what it means.