₦airaland Forum

Kobicove:
That's why it's always advisable to marry someone with whom you share some cultural affinity

Kingpele:
Chai this life sha, the man was hustling on his ownoo with his keke, trying to take care of his family now this probably drunk driver carry his useless lorry and ran over him... I know that most of this guys that drive big trucks are usually high on drugs or alcohol... Rip the legit hustler

longetivity:
money or no money we get value

gaius01:
Sir with all due respect, marrying such lady is not a problem if only She can come to Nigeria to marry and stay, but you going up there that implies you will be short to some right as a man. This lady is OK financial and educationally and marrying her you can't control anything about her. Beside she woñt have the moral an average Nigeria girls .

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Feminist will misinterpret the word "Control" just see.

goodnessme1:
Foolish Amotekun terrorists will come here to show their foolishness.


Boko haram people will come here to talk nonesense.





Not that they are better.

Mariangeles:
I don't think that is even possible.
A mother will always be emotionally tied to her child. The best that is expected of her is not to be too selfish, other than that will be asking for too much of her.
You don't expect a mother to just emotionally detach from her child simply because he or she got married do you? To a mother, her child will always be her child.
If she's not dependent on her children for emotional support when she gets old, then who is she going to depend on?
Infact, the older they get, the more emotionally attached to their children they are.
What then is her gain in giving birth to her child/children only to have to "give them up" emotionally when they get older?

mariahAngel:
That stew will go so well with my rice and beans

Hathor5:
I share this love.

MomoAdura:
Ekuru or Ofuloju to satisfy my craving!

Made4naijalove:
Tony Umez we are sorry

LadySarah:
He was and is before the separation. He went again this yr and met his wife there.Wifey denied him. Later came back home and fight ensued so she kukuma pack her bags for full time work. lol.

I just pity their kids not the two fools. It's taking a huge toll on them. Always looking dirty n wandering from one street to the other.

Aguogba:
most times when a man (husband) is placed inside bottle, the first manifestation is that he will start to perceive his mother as his wife's enemy. Then, he will move to the next stage, which is "I can only eat my wife's food". Next thing, one of their agents will reveal to the man that his mother is a witch and that was why his wife had one baby instead of triplet. The Oga patapata of them all is that his response to all his Bleep up will be "I know what I'm doing".

salt1:
How can you say this?
Op, every mother wants the best for her child. Mothers can intuitively sense who/ what is not good for their child. Maybe, your Mom has seen your wife as pretty but empty-headed.

Don't fight your Mom because of your wife. You will regret it later and hate your wife for causing the rift. Keep showing both love.

With time, you may see the reason for her resentment. You will need all the wisdom to manage the truth. I'm married and I insisted that Mama endorses the marriage.

vickydevoka:
I never really encounter such, all I know is dat wives do hate de husbands brothers n sisters buh force de husband to like hers.

LadySarah:
Lol. The same question I asked. He wants someone he's comfortable with. The wives sister has been the one staying with them but sadly she wedded last month. The man married an Orphaned Olosho he met in a brothel. She has gone back. Everybody has gone to beg her to at least come n be checking on them she said no. 4 streets awayoo

. He leaves for work as early as 5am so He drops money with The elderly woman next door who has been cooking for them and according to her warned him not to marry yet for fear of maltreat ING those kids.

The man has shrunk by force. Coming home at night to do laundry and cook their night meal.

Women dey try.

Penflame:
Early this month, unknown thief/thieves entered my room through the window late in the night and stole phones, device and laptop totally worth 132,000 naira.

My greatest surprise was I didn't or was unable to wake up throughout their operation until day break, and I'm someone that easily wake up from sleep at hearing slight sound or noticing slight movement.

Is it that there's a charm they do use for this kind of operation? If yes, how can it been neutralized to prevent such occurrence next time?

In what way can I apprehend this thieves? I've been unable to track the items.

Someone should please give me advice and suggestion.

Help move to front Page biko.

RonaldoVido:
Why don't these old Women hate on the husbands of their daughters ?

RonaldoVido:
So you don't believe the story ?

There are cases worse than what he said there..

4tomandchi:
A man has a role to play in the molding of his family and in every good marriage counseling you are always adviced to keep your marital issues away from external interference. So if you find out that your mother's involvement in your family is creating problem please solve it by mediating and bringing peace. Some parents can be very controlling I made that mistake in the early years of my marriage but as soon as I noticed it I reduced my parents involvement in our marriage and we have been living peaceful ever since.
One thing you should know is that you can't marry your mother and you owe your wife and kids the responsibility to provide and enabling environment for their development and well being.

Estellie:
Afia efere

Mariangeles:
YaaaY!!!
...and they look like the very sweet kind

Hathor5:
Inspired by the lovely and amazing one and only Prestonn. I didn’t have all the ingredients at home so I had to improvise a little but it was exactly the kind of food I needed today and it was the first time I enjoyed my own pasta with sea food. I always eat it in restaurants but never got the taste right by myself. Thank you Prestonn.


I only had frozen chopped parsley here and I added a little habanero pepper and used more wine. I didn't have scampis but I had prawns.

UmmuFarrah:
Good morning.
Where's Pocohantas??

Kobicove:
I think should have just ignored that idiotic pastorpreneur

finewoman:
i am no teenager, I am 50 and she is 27, I block her atimes to avoid her writing stinker to me but usually she finds a way to call me the next day but this time around she provoked me and I blocked her from all channels and it’s been 8 days now. I expect her to call me via normal phone call before I unblock her but she is yet to call. If I unblock her just like that it will repeat next time.

jimkramar:
It was a sunny afternoon, I was just resting & having some random thoughts when some neighbours chased this animal into my compound. I rushed out to help, only to discover that the bush rat was stocked in the pile of blocks in the compound. We were able to apprehend it after carrying so many blocks. In order to regain lost energy, it was used for Pepper soup