₦airaland Forum

saweide:
Pls something is really bothering my mind and I pray I will find good advice here.

I reside in Port-Harcourt about 1 and half years ago Iost my cousin. He died of heart attack. After his death, his wife has been getting closer to me, always calling me and visiting me and am still single. I have had failed relationships in the past. I have been so unlucky with the kind of ladies I met. They are always violent and disrespectful which I dislike so much.

But during my cousins lifetime, she was so good, cool and caring to my cousin and they never had any misunderstanding and they married for just 6 years here in Port Harcourt before he died and they never had a child due to infertility on the side of the cousin. But now everyone like friends and family knows me and scared if I should make advances to her if they won't be saying things against me or should I just forget and look for another lady to marry.

Pls i need ur serious advise. She has fallen in love with me already.

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There is nothing wrong in marrying her as long as both of you can live with the rumour that you killed your cousin because you coveted his wife.

And it sure as hell will be very believable. The day you will quarrel with one of your neighbours or anyone in the village, that's the only time they will tell you to your face. I don't even know you and I am already suspecting you.

Out of millions of single ladies out there, you chose her. Goodluck!

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The sad reality is that the 18-yrs old out there today believes her case will be different....until reality sets in.

Any 30+ spinster you see out there today believed that she would end up the Queen of a castle.

Then life threw them a curve ball.


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treesun:
https://punchng.com/just-in-police-officer-killed-as-gunmen-attack-okorochas-convoy/

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Power is transient.

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Why complain? They should bring it to Africans who believe that oyibo are next to God they see.

They told you that polygamy is bad, una carry am for head.
They told you that wokeism and feminism is the shiznit, Africans especially Nigerians carry it for head.
We are gradually embracing LGBTQ+ because oyibo told us that it is all about human rights.

So why the outrage about this one? Let the oyibo worship continue.

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When did it become a crime to work hard?

Some refuse to farm but are quick to complain that a tuber of yam is N1000.

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I love how everyone outside of Africa summons African leaders like errand boys and they go. Then they turn around and expect respect

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Before you rejoice at the downfall of US, ask the most important question: Who owns US National debts?

US government: 27%
Federal Reserves: 11.2%
US investors: 32.5%
Foreign investors: 29.3%

All approximates.

I hope you can identify the scam. Fiat currency is nonsense. All that is needed are printers, papers and inks. The value is tied to the confidence bestowed on it. Heck! It costs the same to print a $1 and $100 bill. Go figure!

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Nkwo Nnewi is thriving.
Ariaria market is thriving.
Main Market Onitsha is thriving.
Ikoku PH is thriving.
Ogbete Enugu is thriving.
Building materials Ogidi is thriving.
Mgbuka Obosi is thriving.

So if Trade Fair complex and Alaba International are their areas of business, they should handle whatever comes through. It is a personal choice to make oneself a commercial victim in Nigeria.

I don't own any real estate in Lagos and will not in the foreseeable future. The world is too big for me to limit myself to Lagos. So wetin go come concern me with Lagos matter? Problem solved!

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This is laughable because the only people that travel ban may affect are Nigerian politicians who look for any slightest opportunity to travel out. There are many African nationalities you rarely see in US eg. Ugandans, Zimbabweans, South Africans. It may seem that only East and West Africans are globetrotters and obligate migrants.

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Sonnobax15:

Could this be another form of Xenophobia? Even kenya of all places? . May Nigeria start to work ASAP so that all these small small african countries can stop flexing their mumu muscles on us

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What Nigerians do in other people's countries can never be tolerated by any government. Nigeria as a country has a high tolerance for crime and Nigerians think other countries operate the same way when you let them in. Other nationalities commit crimes but Nigerians are the loudest and very conspicuous.

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FairMoney?

Give them 2 years. It will be lamentations all over again for "investors".

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Talk is cheap.

Not when francophone African countries and their currencies are still under the firm control of France.

Who is bankrolling Afreximbank from the back end?
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The pastor is at fault.

How could he had contemplated helping a Nigerian long term knowing the unpredictable nature of the Nigerian economy and worse, a Nigerian?

It would have saved him a lot headache if he had given each of these boys N1m in support back then and called it a day. But if education is his format, just send them to any university in Nigeria.

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DataCrab:
While Na him papa net worth another Person take buy painting. Chai this world shaa See the video below, you'll be blown away by the figures
Most expensive things ever sold at auctions

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JmOvE_QyS1M

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That's why contentment is the key. Beyond a certain level of wealth, there is no significant change in lifestyle.

If Elon Musk wakes up tomorrow with Dangote's net worth, he may go into severe depression or be placed on a suicide watch.

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uzomakanaki:
Sometimes last month she missed her period, after the test we discovered she's 5 weeks pregnant.

I'm against abortion because of the dangers involved in the aftermath, i suggested she keep the baby while I come and see her family and do some necessary things before the main wedding. But she insisted in aborting the baby, reason being that she can't be pregnant and be working. Unless I place her on a monthly salary.

She has aborted the baby and had complications because of the quack nurse that performed the abortion. I spent a lot to make her back on her feet

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The baby was not yours. Just saying...


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Are you aware that from this minute, you are free to identify yourself as a pastor and you will be so addressed. There is no formal requirements, certification nor verification necessary in Nigeria?

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Divorce is only high in countries with impressionable adult population who swallow all the toxicity emanating from the West. A copy culture like Nigeria gravitate towards Western ideologies to the detriment of their culture, customs and traditions. Divorce, feminism, transgender are getting pushback from many countries around the world but will get strong foothold in Nigeria because Nigerians are quick to embrace anything shoved down their throat by Oyibo (eg religion) and will defend it with the last drop of their blood.

Why is divorce not high among Asians and Middle-Eastners who only copy Western technology but retain their tradition? More researches should be focused on these areas.

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I hope they have done extensive research in liaison with some loan companies (the ubiquitous loan Apps) on how good Nigerians are at repaying loans. They better have a system in place for mandatory collection from defaulters.

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Nice2023:
I don't think some men here would take this,there is a growing trend among Nigerian men of today.

And that trend is lazying around,leaving all serious domestic responsibilities for women to carry. Go to every streets in Nigeria now,u will see men,I mean married men doing virtually nothing and feeling good about their new found life,that is,not working and not earning any form of income and wouldn't like to learn any form of trade.

The agonising part is that,they now rely on what the woman or their wives rake in just to survive. Many women especially the married ones are now competing with young girls in having boyfriends all around just for the money to take care of one lazy bunch at home.

Men,rise up to the occasion and stop killing your wives with over work and help them to grow and make them better wives devoid of infidelity. It is ur actions that is pushing ur wives outside.

Stop wasting the little u have on betnaija shops and expect nothing back because u are simply wasting away.

Some of u here may not find this one easy but that is the truth.

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No.

They are matching the energy of feminists. Feminists want to be like men. Men figured that it is better to be like women. Women have been leeching off men for centuries while complaining about things. So the men are starting to leech off women to create equality and balance. That way both genders can meet in the middle. It is a compromise. Why complain?

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Nigerians' penchant to abuse everything is second to none. Even the principle of separation of powers is being openly abused with the Legislature beckoning on the Executive to pick their leadership for them.

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fortune1968:
Now that you are saying this ,what if scammers now come out with ROI of 10% and still run away ? You should teach people how to identify scammers not only base on the percentage.

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There is no ironclad formula to identify scammers because they come in different shades, forms and format. You can only do due diligence and hope for the best. The person that puts up nice pictures online, gets paid but delivers crap is also a scammer. It is never 100% foolproof. One can only point out obvious red flags. Unless you expect me to spoonfeed you on how to safeguard your money.

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Fr Mbaka knows his audience well.

As usual they swallowed this bs story like fresh palmwine.

Holy Spirit indeed.

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Rule of Thumb:

Any promise(s) of 10% or more ROI, hold your wallet tight. It is outright fraud or a pyramid scheme.

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Having a baby for this kind of man is the best investment any lady can make in US. It is a gift that keeps giving. When a judge orders him to pay $30,000/month in child support for the next 18 years, he will start crying in public for empathy. This is a trap that has snatched many men and these new kids keep falling for the same honeypot trap.

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The hardship this man caused Nigerians pre-election is unforgivable.

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Nigerians are children indeed!

Imagine in this day and age, after all the bullshit they have been through, they still fall for initial gragra.

The same people that believed that OBJ was the Moses of our time because he suffered in prison. They chanted that GEJ will identify with their plights because he had no shoes. They thought Buhari was the Messiah because of "his body language" and hard stance against corruption. In all instances, they ended up disappointed and incompetence/corruption became the norm.

Only time will tell. It will take at least 1 year to give an assessment of Tinubu's administration.

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blueAgent:
Go and read books about how christainity succeeded in Africa.

Most Africans were already fade up with their primitive religeon and all its demands and sacrifices.
Coupled with the fact that they emulated the white man's culture and achievements and saw Christainity as a way to attain that level of success.
No one forced christainity on Africans rather Africans mostly out of preference, adopted the religeon.

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Constantine Christians and Crusaders embraced extreme violence in conversion of people to Christianity. Only ignorant folks like you that fail to educate yourself hide under the banner that Christianity is a peaceful religion because it underwent a transition from bellum iustum, bellum sacrum to this pretentious peace. The so-called powerful Christian nations do not hesitate to bomb opponents back to stone ages. What happened to the concept of forgiveness? Are prisons or courts necessary in Christian nations since the Bible told you to forgive your enemies and pray for them? The factory-fitted ignorance may not allow you see through the hypocrisy.

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The allure of power.

The deputy will be praying fervently that he dies.

No permanent friends but permanent interest.

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GoWithGood:
During job hunting yesterday, I became very hungry and felt like I was about to faint in the nearest possible time if I don't have something down my stomach, having left the house without food. Normally I don't like eating outside because it's more expensive and you get less for your money but due to the level of hunger I was, I had no option than to look for the nearest place to eat.

A broke applicant, I went to the least of restaurant to eat and the least price for Garri and soup was N800, here in Calabar. Hmmmmm. Na wa o. The poor are really suffocating.

Anyways, I watched one video where Tinubu said "let the poor breathe. Don't suffocate them". Standing beside him was Buhari who was looking at him with a stern eye. I don't know why he wasn't comfortable with the statement.

Please let the poor (job seekers are in this group) breathe. Don't suffocate us the more. What is even the value of naira when the lowest plate of food is N800?

That N800 pain me eh. It would have done me better at home. Now no food at home, hungry and penniless.

How much is it in your area?

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You are in the right place.

Just peruse the threads and see anyone whose opinion you disagree with and curse/insult them. It will make you feel better. That's Survival 101 for poor people.

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The only reason many Nigerian men believe that their wives are faithful is because they haven't found out.

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blueAgent:
How did they know,through evolution?

You think evolution a blind illogical force gave humans instinctively knowledge of good and bad?

Joker.

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In the infamous letter by the devilish King Leopold II of Belgium to Colonial Missionaries to Congo in 1883, he stated,
" Your principal objective in our mission in the Congo is never to teach the niggers to know God, this they know already. They speak and submit to a Mungu, one Nzambi, one Nzakomba, and what else I don't know. They know that to kill, to sleep with someone else's wife, to lie and insult is bad. Have courage to admit it; you are not going to teach them what they know already. Your essential role is to facilitate the task of administration and industrial, which means you will go to interpret the gospel in the way it will be best to protect your interests in that part of the world"

This is the foundation of the nonsense programmed into your brain that you go out vomiting all over the place instead of seeking for gainful employment.

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Every religious scam has expiration date. The likes of Pat Robertson and T.B Joshua made outrageous promises they couldn't deliver and were controversial at best.

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