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sorry to hear that. sad to say the memory and pain never goes away. just pray for yourself in the area of healing and get doing things you ought to do and get on with your life. you have your life ahead of you. we lost my Gran and mum some few yrs back. i know they are with Christ i still miss them and the pain i just cant describe. especially that of my mum. you cannot forget uniquely nice people. infact you should never forget your loved ones. if you have the means do something to make their memory live longer than them. may God help you and pour His healing balm on you and yours. Christ is always friend of the wounded heart. may He make you whole my brother |
Kenezi:point being? |
Sisi Jinx:nollywood has nothing to do with this my dear. naija ma-outlaws already gave themselves a bad name before nollywood came. especially the poor illeterate ones. i remember a neighbours wife sent packing for learning to drive her husbands car. the ma-outlaw lived some 2 streets away from us. she gave this poor girl hell so much that she lost it and insulted the fool that i believe she is. the sisters of the guy judged the girl could not be married to their brother after insulting their mum. i must add this was back in 1985. i dont know if it can still happen but knowing my naija peeps it wont be impossible for them to still be that evil and wicked. what i still cant stand is women causing untold pain/hardship on other women |
LIMUEL:for most it is just a habit nothing more |
google it sir |
HOLLASLYD:she is in a league of her own. |
kunze80:looks you are in love with danger. God help you. |
sillyboy: busybein:grave is low tech too. heard the one about no string attached sex? |
ono:true but i like the fact she is ready to accept letter of credit. this is how business is done across the waters. well done |
johnnygan:try my aunty funmi she qualifies. |
Cayon:peace indeed. we are all in this together. there is more that unites than should divide us as people |
will be back |
Sisi Jinx:tks. flatering will get you everywhere. i am an ole man brought up by 2 most clever illeterate women you ever saw. my granny and mum. God bless their souls. they made sure you never behaved foolishly. like i said to her in another thread most people come into your life for a season not a lifetime. work out who and work out their exit plan ahead of them. |
Cayon:what makes some of you think this way? why do you always think that there aare some men out there trying to spoil your fun and happiness. nawao |
topup:some people conscience is long gone. DEADDDDDDDDDDDD. |
there would always be support. if you buying in england wait till february'09 cos prices are already crashing by 30-45% if you buy cash |
KarmaMod:not true my dear. you have never seen a nagging woman. it doesnt even have to be the husband. most people just complain for complain sake. there will never be complain in my house in Jesus name. it is one reason most men go insane or to an early grave |
Nick1:word |
topup:topup the lady of the house think you will enjoy reading the book women who loved too much http://www.amazon.co.uk/Women-Who-Love-Too-Much/dp/0099482304 i didnt know she read books like this. God help me. here is a review i found for it . google it and see what you get. http://www.angelfire.com/vt/rcwn/Pagethirtyeight.html Women Who Love Too Much When You Keep Wishing and Hoping He’ll Change I wish the author, Robin Norwood had titled this book “People Who Love Too Much”. It is so awkward to have to tell a men and lesbians to keep interchanging the pronouns. This is the best book I have encountered to explain the dynamics of co-dependency. To begin with, the author elaborates on the characteristics of a typical woman who loves too much. She next includes many situations to illustrate some of these characteristics. She has a wonderful chart to show the parallel between progression of the disease of alcoholism and the progression of the disease of loving too much. She explains how the woman becomes addicted to her own adrenaline in her brain, as a result of “walking on eggshells”. She shows how this addiction affects every area of the woman’s life. And the recovery process is essentially the same for either alcohol addiction or relational addiction. My favorite part of the book is the last part where she helps the reader step by step to recover from the relational addiction. She has the reader reflect on each step from four different perspectives, i.e. what it means to stop managing and controlling. what it requires, why it is necessary and what it implies. Just this one step is a lifetime of work. The author gives so much hope and even lists the characteristics of a woman who has recovered. |
mmm most women wont allow it this day and age |
Allow your mother-in-law live with you? By GIDEON OPARINDE Sunday, December 28, 2008 •Mrs Enilama Photo: Sun News Publishing * Mores Stories on This Section MRS. ENILAMA I will gladly say yes, nothing stops her from living with me. I remember my days at the university, she stood in for me, lived with me three years and I enjoyed her company. Took care of me just the way she would to her child, never for a day eavesdropped on our conversation; she did not see herself as being a rival with the daughter-in-law in the home. I thank God for giving me such a mother in-law. The most important thing which daughters-in-law leave out that brings conflict in this case is respect and submissivesness; they should try accord their mothers-in-law at least little respect. Daughters no longer respect their mothers-in-laws, they see them as intruders, rivals, demons and paint them black bad, while some mothers on their side would always want to prove right. Mothers don’t give regard their daughters-in-laws and so doing they engage in dual war. The Bible says give honour to whom honour is due. Daughters should see mothers as their mother and mothers should try relate like mother and child for safer and happy home. It takes the grace of God to really be successful in handling such issues. MRS. OBIOMA No! Although she’s just like a mother to me but an adage says what is good is good. I may like her, in fact like my own mother but what will prompt her to start living in my own husband’s house? Why not pay a courtesy visit and go back? The question that comes to mind is how long will she be staying? But if she wants to make our home her terminal, I think it will draw more muscle to my face, it’s improper. Watch it, its when such mothers-in-law arrive the home that strange occurrences starts taking place. Some of them are good, some evil ones wear long innocent faces but they are no way better than the devil; joy swaps hand with sadness, the love between husband and wife turns sour, and gradually goes bitter. She turns the back of the husband and wife against each other; the wife is no longer seeing as being dutiful, respectful, she competes with the wife in the home, forgetting no body care to give her a second look for admiration. Percentage of food eaten in the home is drastically reduced, everything changes, emergency budget arises and children will have to go through the time-table before they could see their father or ask anything from him. She holds the key to the food-store and fridge, keeps the key to the cupboard, calls the carpenter to change the house door keys ;gives one to her child while she holds on to the spare. She tells her son’s wife she’s extravagant in her spending and that no wonder she grows fatter than her husband. She stops the children from eating to school school. Secondly, neither the husband, wife nor the children enjoy privacy any longer in the home. She scare visitors and family freinds away by her attitudes; becomes an intermediary between her son and the wife. Takes up issues forgetting her days on earth are numbered. Let her remain wherever she is, we will keep sending her money. A stitch in time, they say saves nine, initially when she comes in, she plays with the kids but suddenly turns a monster. We have to think twice before taking such a dangerous decision, because many mothers-in-law have contributed immensively to the break-up of the children’s happy home. When dining with the devil, use a long spoon; it’s to be on the safer side. MRS. DADA It depends on the type of wife you are and the type of mother-in-law you are gifted with. I have had the determintion from the onset that I would never see my mother-in-law as a rival but rather as my mother. No matter what she might do I will never apportion blame on her. With the grace of God I know I can cope with all situations. MRS. EMEGHARA No, I won’t allow her stay with me. The only occasion which could warrant her come to my home is just to visit my family in which she is expected to return to her base. This is because my home is meant for me and my family alone, it’s my privacy, God has used her to bring my husband to the world and we won’t stop extending to her our benevolence and kind heart wherever she is. MRS. ALONGE It all depends on the type of mother-in-law she is. She could live with me if she’s the type of that understands things with you, not the type that blames the wife for the misfortune of her son, especially when she sees the type of food eaten in the house. Not the type that holds the key to the cupboard, not the one that creates a padlock to the fridge and keeps the stew pots by her bed in her room and keep vigil on it till dawn or the one that dish the family breakfast. MRS. OKUOFO It’s not possible for her to live with me all through my marriage, because things will never go the expected; it’s like having two wives in the home. There will be rivalries, jealousy because we are two different persons with different backgrounds and mentality. She can only come on visit and we see her to the car park and pray for her safey back home. MRS. FUNKE ADEBAYO As a grand mother I only visit my children when their wives give birth or when i’m fond of them. I don’t make it a place of no return or a stationary point, but to take care of their newly born babies and dash back home as-soon-as possible to take care of my husband. So it doesn’t begat respect for mothers-in-law to become rivals in their children’s homes. MRS. ANYA Not negotiable, some are a bit problematic having them around you. They start running your home for you, no longer admire or cherish your hard-work in the home and the likes. They take simple things as issues in the home and you get frustrated. BUKKY Yes I can accept her but on the condition that she will stay for a period of time and go back. But refusal to heed to this will cause nothing but problems between my husband and I. http://www.sunnewsonline.com/webpages/features/wiveslive/2008/dec/28/wiveslive-28-12-2008-001.htm |
no worry them with questions they are predicting their cousins will be in naija next yaer lets wait and see what they will say when the idiots go their village 2009 Predictions |
so who pays for the music then |
[b]2009 Predictions[/b] Five Speakers to be impeached, three SSGs sacked • A prominent Yoruba leader will die …Juju musician also • Two Actresses will pass on • Alaafin of Oyo should pray hard • Terrorists will attack By Olajiire Ishola Sunday, December 28, 2008 •Primate Ayodele •Photo: Sun News Publishing * More Stories on This Section When it comes to accurate prediction like Nostradamus of old- the man who sees tomorrow, another man that readily comes to mind is Primate Babatunde Elijah Ayodele. He predicted the crash of Bellview and it came to pass in October 2005. He also predicted Sosolisso’s crash and it came to pass in December 2005. True to his time-honoured accuracy, in December 2007, Primate Ayodele foresaw the resounding fall of the Chairman of the Economic and Financial Crimes Commission (EFCC), Mallam Nuhu Ribadu. He said that the man would be removed in the New Year. And now, Nuhu is history. Because of this, Sunday Sun went in search of the humble and respected man of God to know what God has in stock for Nigerians, Africans and the rest of the whole world. When asked how he feels whenever his predictions come to pass, he said that he usually feel bad whenever the negative ones come to pass. He predicted many positive and negative events that will characterize the year, 2009. Excerpts: Apocalypse In 2009, Nigeria will experience a lot of ups and downs. I see bloodshed. There is going to be political riot. Many religious crises will take place. Some monarchs will die in South-south, Southwest, Southeast, and an emir from the North will fall sick seriously. We also need to pray and rescue a one-time governor from death. There is going to be changes in Central Bank of Nigeria. Some banks will face a lot of crises. Some banks are going to do re-branding and change of name. They will also change their logos. NNPC will face a lot of crises, and next year will witness a lot of scarcity of petroleum products. Diesel and cement price will rise. We will witness food crises next year, whereby people will have money yet they will not get food to buy. Bread price will go up, and house rent will also go up next year. Federal Government will re-adjust civil servants salary. Lagos State Civil Service Commission will witness problem next year. Some Permanents secretaries will be retired next year in the state. The same thing will happen at the federal level. Not all the senators and House of Representatives will finish their term. Senate President and the Speaker of the House of Representatives will face a lot of problems. There is going to be coup against Senate President and Speaker, House of Representatives next year. Africa The continent is going to be on the boil. There will be a major coup in an African country. It is going to shake the continent to her foundation. Two Prime Ministers will resign in the Middle East. Telecommunication There is going to be increase in the tariff of telephone next year. Power Holding Company of Nigeria will increase her tariff too. The board of PHCN will be restructured next year. Bar beach will overflow its bank again. There is going to be boundary dispute among some states. Politics Not all the governors will finish their terms. Some governors are still going. Ondo State governor needs prayer in other to finish his term. Even Abia State governor need prayers to survive. Ajimobi will not win in Appeal Court against Akala. There is going to be problem in Alliance Congress (AC). New states and local governments w ill emerge. Kanji Dam will witness problems. Our light (electricity) will not stabilise till year 2017 Yar’Adua should not run for second term. Though some politicians will be drumming it into his ear but he should not listen to them. Yar’Adua’s government will deliver but not as expected. His government will disappoint some people. The year 2009 will not favour the media. There is going to be problem in our stock exchange. EFCC’s name will be changed and there is going to be a lot of problem for the commission. If care is not taken, the ICPC man will not be there again. NAFDAC will face a lot of trouble next year. A new man for NAFDAC will face a lot of challenges. There is going to be scandals among the ministers, and not even new ministers will be exempted. Aviation Our industries need prayers. Our borders also need prayers because I see terrorists getting to Nigeria through these borders. The Inspector General of Police will perform creditably well in crime combating. The National Security Adviser needs prayer. The Nigerian Navy will witness a major problem next year. Chief of defense Staff needs to strategise on our security. In the months of April, May, August and October, Mr. President needs prayer on his health. In these months, he most not travel. Not all the deputy governors will finish their term. Some secretary to the state government will go next year. There is going to be cabinet reshuffle in Lagos State, Abia, Enugu, Ebonyi, Zamfara, Nassarawa, Borno and Plateau States. I want to tell you that religious crises are not yet over. Five speakers will be impeached year - one in Southwest, two in South-south, South – east one and one in the North. Three Secretaries to the State Government will go next year. We need to pray against political tension in Ondo, Edo, Cross River and slightly in Lagos States. National Union of Road Transport Workers (NURTW) will cause trouble in Lagos, especially Iyana-Ipaja, Ibadan in Oyo State and Ogun state. There is going to be change of commandant in the Nigerian Navy. Customs Boss need prayers to be able to escape next year. Immigration boss will be quizzed next year because there is going to be petition against him. Vice President needs prayers too. We should pray against unexpected inferno in one of the government properties. There is going to be pipeline explosion next year. Petrol tanker Drivers, (NUPENG) will go on demonstration next year. We need to pray so that a prominent businessman will not die in Lagos State. We need to pray against death among our SANs. A prominent Yoruba leader is going to die in 2009. Sports The Super Eagles will not perform well next year. In fact, we will perform woeful in the 2010 World cup in South Africa. There is going to be scarcity of aviation fuel next year. A prominent Captain of Industry will pass away in 2009. Entertainment We need to pray so that we don’t lose a prominent Juju and high life musicians. Two actresses will die next year. Many artists will get involved in dirty games. Government will introduce new taxes next year, but it will not go down well with the people in Lagos State. BRT will be de-frauded. There is a problem coming on the last local government election in Lagos State. The fifty-seven local government of Lagos State will be approved at the end of the day. Fashola should therefore continue processing the validation of the remaining thirty-seven local government areas. Some local government chairmen will be taken to court in Lagos State by the Peoples Democratic Party (PDP). Not all the local government chairmen in Lagos will finish their term. Two local government chairmen in Lagos State will pass away while three local government chairmen will be impeached. Obama Before Obama emerged, I had predicted that the Democrats will win US election. Even before Obama came out I had seen it. So, when Obama emerged as the standard bearer of the Democrat, I knew he is the next president of America. There is going to be attempt on his life again, but he is going to escape it. Hilary Clinton is going to be a powerful member of Obama’s cabinet. Obama is going to face a lot of challenges. Though Obama will try his best but the economic strategies he will use will not work. He will not get solution to the economic crises of America. Obama will lead the whole world to understand so many things. He is going to disappoint Africans. He is going to be positive in his approach to African issues, but not as Africans would expect. Obama will not meet African expectations the way they expect. He will not double-deal. He is going to handle European Union issue in a fantastic way. EU will face a lot of crisis, but Obama’s approach will douse the tension. Because of Obama, we are going to witness a leadership change in European Union. Obama has plans for Africa, but not the way Africans expect. The dollar will fluctuate next year. The currency will be rising and falling. Poverty is going to be a major problem in the world. There is going to be more money allocated to agriculture next year throughout the world in other to fight food crisis. We are going to witness food crisis next year. We must pray against the outbreak of water borne disease. There is going to be outbreak of bird flu again next year in some part of Asia and Africa. A Navy ship will be bombed and a Navy war ship will have problem in Nigeria. There is going to be a lot of re-adjustment in ECOWAS next year. Niger Delta Niger Delta Ministry is not the solution to Niger Delta crisis. Niger Delta crisis needs a spiritually solution. From Niger Delta crisis, we will start witnessing suicide bombings as from next year. All Niger Delta governors should go for three days silent prayer summit. If they don’t do it, kidnapping will assume a dangerous dimension. Niger Delta is a beautiful place in the sight of the Lord, but it is our past and present leaders that turned the place upside down. We will discover an alternative to petrol in Nigeria. Lagos State will discover petrol in her domain next year. Ogun State too will discover oil. Ogun State is going to be a resourceful centre. Economically, Ogun State will experience peace next year. One time governor in Niger Delta will pass away. The Obong of Calabar needs prayer next year against serious sickness. Royal fathers Ooni of Ife should pray against ill health. The Alaafin of Oyo should also pray against crisis in his domain. The Owa of Ilesha should pray for good health. Two palaces will be engulfed by mysterious fire The Alake of Egba needs prayer against ill health. One Oba is going to lose his Queen in South-South. People will perpetrate scandal against Oba of Lagos. He, therefore, needs a lot of prayers. The Yoruba council of Obas will witness a lot crisis. The Ewi of Ado must pray against crisis in his palace. The Osemawe of Ondo should also pray. Ondo council of Obas should pray so that they won’t lose a prominent member. Ogun State council of Oba should also pray so that they don’t lose a member. Two Yoruba Obas will face court cases next year. A prominent Oba will run away from his palace. In fact, our obas must pray very well and do away with the thing that did not please God. Some Obas will be promoted from second class to first class Obas next year. Many people will want to fight for the position of oba, which will lead to royal crisis. EFCC will carry out controversial probe that may set the commission on fire. House of Representative members will fight next year because of money. Many secrets of the Presidency will leak out. The freedom of information bill (FOI) will only be passed if the House members lobby for it. NNPC will retrench its staff next year. NNPC will run into serious debt crisis in 2009 and will be compelled to retrench. http://www.sunnewsonline.com/webpages/news/national/2008/dec/28/national-28-12-2008-001.htm |
earTHMama:they were actually asking you to pay for it and not asking for exchange rate. all those were just formalties. funmi do you go to naija at all? |
all the apologists for hamas wont answer you |
bro david, you are not preaching to the choir here. most naija people are used to hausa killing them slowly and getting away with it. thank God for the americans and jews that can't call their cousins in the middle east bluff 4 Play:sadly they wont because they have their fingers on all sorts of dodgy businesses |
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(some men may hate it) about us and our lives and sends a message that women need to stick together and take care of each other. It all says to reach your potential as a woman and that it can be done despite all that we face. I loved it!! A must see. Awesome Awesome Aswesome. Did i mention empowered