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Even if no other religions exist in this world, I'll rather become irreligious than be a Muslim! Nonsense, backward and irrational people!

Ellacindy:
You will lose someone you can’t live without,and your heart will be badly broken, and the bad news is that you never completely get over the loss of your beloved. But this is also the good news. They live forever in your broken heart that doesn’t seal back up. And you come through. It’s like having a broken leg that never heals perfectly—that still hurts when the weather gets cold, but you learn to dance with the limp.



U just summarize my life here, but I pray and believe am not in any bondage

Do everything right now to put that guy behind you. Cry, pray, fast etc but afterwards, ensure you don't carry the guy in your heart into your next relationship!
I don't know why some of you ladies find it hard to completely let go of an ex.
Personally, when I break up with a girl, I try hard to move on and put such lady in the dust bins of history. In fact, all the desires I had for the said lady would just die a natural death. I can count like 3 of such ladies I deeply loved but right now, I can't even get an erection for those ladies.

Why I'm typing all the above is that from the tune of your post, you have not gotten over that guy that dumped you and it is possible that even if another guy comes into your life right now, you'll cheat on him with your ex.

This thread reminds me of the saying:


Those who live in glass houses should not throw stones!

I know frustration and bitterness sometimes make us to post rubbish on this forum, but brethren, before you hit the "submit" button, please pause to read your post and reflect on it before you post the one that'll come back to bite your assz like this op...lol

Most of the people claiming to be over 100years in Nigeria are all lying! There was no accurate means of dating when those people were born, so their offsprings now rely on speculations and outright lies!

That was how one obituary poster the other day claimed the deceased man was 176years old. Ask them how they determined the age, you'll discover it's all mere guess works.

The oldest man according to Guinness book of records is 111 years old.

This is commendable. Government properties should never be used as a settlement to political cronies.

If Edo people know what is good for them, they should better support Obaseki to stamp out political thuggery and highhandedness in the state.

Good leaders don't come easily! So, don't joke with the one God has given you o

Chinnems:
I'm surprised that a lot of men here are villifying the apparently frustrated woman, applauding the irresponsible side chick and making excuses for the shameless husband.
You will have daughters someday. If her husband puts her in this same position as the poor woman, will you maintain this same stand?
Do you not think it is possible and proper for the man to devote the same time and resources, he is devoting to the side chick to his own WIFE? Do you think there wasn't a time his WIFE was as beautiful as the shameless girl she confronted.
Who has bewitched the men of our days? Would you react the same way you have just reacted if you discovered your dad had dishonoured your mom in this way?
Shame on the whole lot of you.

Honestly, it's appalling how guys of nowadays think it is okay to cheat on their wives with reckless abandon. Sometimes I begin to wonder if these guys here have sisters at home. I can't imagine any of my lovely sisters being subjected to this level of humiliation in the name of marriage. I'll personally ensure she gets at least separated from the irresponsible man.

I don't care who is married or single provided I marry my sweet 18

Ladies keep marrying irresponsible men only to turn around and start complaining when they get cheated on.

Nonsense!!!!

My brother this country is just too messed up! Sane people like you and I who worry over the level of lawlessness in this country are sometimes tagged wailers.

The saying goes that if you cannot beat them you join them. But some of us can't join them because our conscience won't let us.

CAPSLOCKED:
I THINK THIS IS TRUE. BUT ONLY IF INSULTS AND SHAME FOR THIS ACT WILL ALLOW HIM LIVE UP TO 2 WEEKS BEFORE TRYING TO KILL HIMSELF AGAIN.
THIS HURTS, I CAN RELATE BUT IF I'M DYING OVER STUFF LIKE THIS IT'LL BE DEATH BY ALCOHOL CONSUMPTION. THAT'S HOW I'VE MANAGED TO STAY ALIVE THROUGH ALL MY ATTEMPTS AT SUICIDE.

Lol...I think it is wrong to insult and blame the guy. All he needs now are words of encouragement from friends and family. He'll bounce back and wish he never considered the option of suicide.
I've been there, though suicide never crossed my mind. What I did was get talking with as many girls as possible and gradually, my ex became a past tense.

Give that guy 3 months from now, he'll regret why he even nurtured the suicidal thought let alone attempted to to carry it out.

By the time he meets and falls in love with another girl, he'll completely forget about this one that jilted him.

The difference is now clear between Oshiomole and Secondus
One has brain, the other doesn't. Being garrulous can never be same as being intelligent

Those of you saying that there is no aphrodisiacs in those drugs obviously don't know drugs!

I can see "Be fit" capsules there in that red foil.

Meanwhile, the drug combination there is a good definition of fatality.

Nigerians killing themselves with drugs since time immemorial

GamalNasser:
There is no single sex enhancement drugs there from what I can see

Amlodipine for hypertension

Nifedipine for Hypertension

Lexotan a relaxant

Omega H3 multivitamin

Cod liver oil

Garlic oil

Astyfer blood capsule

That which thought to be Omega H3 blood capsule seems to be "Be fit"---a sex enhancement drug!

There's no way he'll be using Astifer and omega H3 at the same time!

A combination of any sex enhancement drug with antihypertensive drugs is a great recipe for heart attack especially when the person engages in physical activity such as sex!

Ignorance is really killing many Nigerians!

And I wonder when our government would do the right thing by empowering PCN to intensify their regulatory duties with a view to checking all these cases of drug misuse that eventually lead many to untimely death!

No...I don't fancy such arrangement


My lady will stay with me at all time, that's why we're a couple.

If I need to be alone maybe for studies and brainstorming, I'll simply go to my library.

Mizwisdom:
People have different level of anointing. He made a big mistake by sleeping there, he should have been alert all through in prayers or leave the place, he should have gone with other deliverance ministers. What a mistake, I wonder if he asked the family the right questions before attempting house deliverance

And yet the almighty God couldn't at least save one of his own


The eyes wey I take dey look Africans ehn

When una mumu go do

What a shame!

Awol1:
Could it be the Locust plague in the Bible was true?

Imagine they had no plane to spray insecticide. It must have caused great famine.

I think it's time I began taking the Bible more serious.

And God, 'seriouser'.

Locust swarming is just a natural phenomenon that happens once in a long time. It has happened here in Nigeria before.

Judybash93:
So, before the arrival of Christianity in Africa, we weren't morally upright? Moreover, if god should be considered as the source of morality, why is the Bible filled with grievous crimes against humanity?

Don't mind those guys here typing trash about Christianity and morality! I don't know when they'll learn that morality is not exclusively learnt from Christian teachings. In fact, Christianity is a dent to our traditional moral values as Africans.

jdzarrus99:
You may have ur reasons but lemme also remind you that it is far better u teach ur Son to be independent first before that ur reason(s) is established.

Surely I will teach him

Honestly, that first and second points are very true.

Having a girl you love can actually push a guy to work harder to become a better man.
I have many instances of that around me.

I've always told my guys that from the age of 18years, I'll encourage my sons to get girlfriends. Many won't understand, but I know better.

Kneeling down to propose marriage is just one of the deceptions modern ladies enjoy! You know ladies don't like realities at all

All na format


So, ogidigada please understand

This is so heartbreaking!

What could she have done to deserve such gruesome end

People get heart ooo

If na me them give gun to shoot person, I go begin put myself and siblings in the person's shoes. How I go feel if that person was my loved one Na so liver go cut me.

But some people no just mind

I'll never encourage any of my sisters to marry a delta man!

Sorry about that but their infidelity and irresponsibility in marriage is on another level.

tiredoflife:
The spiritual is greater than the physical

All is not fair in war that's why even we have war crimes

If she didnt agree to marry him
Why allow him train u.
Trust me
Only a fool will marry the cursed lady
She is indebted to the dead
She wont be free just like that

You and I were not there when they began their affair. Neither do we have the details of what transpired between them.

tiredoflife:
Her marriage is already cursed
If I be the new guy
Na to stop the marriage
She dey owe the dead
And she wont be able to pay

All is fair in love and in war! Nothing would happen to the marriage!


The guy was daft to train the girl in school when it is possible his own siblings might be in suffering in wants.

When would guys learn

Ayo8:
He wasnt forced to pay her fees but he bore the responsibility by virtue of an agreement they both had... or does he look like a philanthropist to you..
Your words are the type we hear from deceitful people who dont keep to their side of a deal.

Were you there when they were making the agreement

Ayo8:
The Melisa Nnaji no dey social media make we abuse her life small...
A greater fool is a guy who reaps the fruit of another man's sweat.
Her husband to be can't deny knowing someone sponsored her through school. Now he's feeling fly and smart...
And for her useless mind she will be forming "I can payback everything he spent on my education".
May the useless marriage end in tears! Amen!!!

Your post makes no sense. Was the man forced to train her Is he that daft that he had to train a lady in school with the hope of marrying her afterwards Despite all the tales of those who did that in the past!

Even the lady is blameless as far as I'm concerned!

All is fair in love and in war!

tribalistseun:
madam you are in Nigeria not America.

the Uber driver is good food for the most corrupt police in the world. there's no way NPF won't squeeze out at least N200,000 from him.

Was there any other person who saw what transpired apart from the driver If none, then the driver may not be innocent as you think hence he should be detained until proper investigation is carried out.
Good thing the guy's identity has been known which is a good start for investigation.

ednut1:
on a sunday morning abi

Very possible!

ednut1:
which court dey initiate on a sunday morning And where are the other members

Bro, this couldn't have been an initiation event. They were on regalia of already "bammed " men. Obviously holding a meeting