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IneedAjobLagos:
Good morning sir, my spirit directed me to ask for this favor from you sir, I'm jobless and haven't gotten any job for a while of searching now,I need help to get jamb form sir and also need help to start a little business in my area so I can save some money for admission processing and continue the business in school. I will appreciate any help sir. May God keep lifting you up.

If he assist you in getting the jamb form, who pays your tuition fees? Who will pay for your books, hostel fee and even feeding?
Let's learn to be reasonable with our demands please, what happens to your family members? What about your parents? There are so many what's to answer to here, this online begging is beginning to annoy me. How can you feel so comfortable asking someone for money for almost all your life problems?
Bro, to be honest with you e no easy anywhere but we just need to keep striving on.
The guy isn't your family member and you have already listed your financial problems without caring if he's doing well or not, this begging stuff is not funny anymore.
Those people doing menial jobs to survive and fend for themselves, do they have two heads? Why can't you go out there and work like the rest people?
I'm not against you getting educated but I'm against this begging you've subjected yourself into, how can you plan to go to school without any tangible sources of income?
Drop that idea first, try and get a job then set your priorities straight.

Here to read other people's experiences

Martinelli35:
I will make this as brief as possible. I left Nigeria to the UK around may last year and I have fully settled in the country and was looking for someone to settle down with, I didn’t want a foreign girl, so I looked for Nigerians only, the ones I kept meeting here were either engaged with someone back in Nigeria, had serious relationships with someone else or married. So I decided to look back home. A friend of mine introduced me to a beautiful lady who lived and worked in Abuja, she appeared to be doing well for self and was courteous as well. So we started speaking and everything clicked, she wasn’t boring at all and could keep a convo going for hours. We started dating and things were going fine until I noticed something which appears to be a red flag, but I keep doubting if am been too hasty in reaching a conclusion. Just a week after we started dating, she started complaining that she was really broke, that she was kind struggling. In my mind I felt it was too soon for this to come up but I nevertheless sent her 60k to help out. Less than two weeks later, she sent me a letter from her work place that stated that her salary would be delayed for that month . She started complaining of how she was in dire straits and wouldn’t be able to survive till then. I sha played along and told her that where I worked they even delayed my own by a whole month. I can take care of a lady I like no problems, but this incessant asking, is it not too soon in this relationship? This is someone am already thinking of settling down with. If with a six figure salary she can’t manage herself, is this not a bad sign?

Maga in the making..
Don't just run, remove ya slippers dust am wella and pick race, in fact no look back till you reach ya house.

Peace!

Wonderful tenant..

That's thoughtful of you.. Keep up the good work

No be new thing na.. Na still Belle go end am. Enjoy it while it lasts.

While I'm happy for the man, I'm also sad for the other man, only God knows what he's going through right now.. God will comfort him.

debbydams:
no gurl can stand that man, no gurl I repeat u cant understand tho

A man's poison is another man's meat, don't ever forget that.. Life itself no balance

This guys are funny though.. Thanks for making me smile.

Is this the new pattern now? All these sensational stories always hitting fp without verification or is Nairaland devoid of content now?

Everyday, new stories are giving birth to following the same recognizable patterns and no mods has deemed it fit to verify the sources of this stories.

If you guys has employed content creators, kuku tell us now instead of feeding us with rooster and bull stories every day.

All the content creators has imaginary problems and they are also wealthy too.. If only its like that in real life.

Las las, the vibes go tune down soonest. This content creator can't zobo us for long, meanwhile enjoy the traffic while it lasts.

That's a wrong move!

When you're truly done with someone and consider them an ex then severe any ties bounding you together even if it's a house, kindly return it to his family for safe keeping or hold on to it till he gets back and peacefully hand it over.

Yeah he hurt you and this your little way of paying back isn't worth it, why are we always comfortable looking for trouble where there's none? Try and move on, what kinda hustling spirit will convince you to turn another man's property to a brothel just because he isn't around?

Calm down make God heal and use you before devil go take over, don't say you weren't warned.

Truly, not everyone knows how to handle breakup properly, the Op is a clear example of that.
Na you quit the relationship na still you dey find trouble

Bobo

debbydams:
I dated one I met him on nl, I fell for his stories nd I thought � he will change my perspective about men, our chating was very cool. We met nd he welcomed me well treated me nice the next day he left for work he came back early nd this guy was busy with his phone � I was trying to play with him na so he change am for, I cried all tru, I left the next day o nd the feelings went of tho we used to talk, two weeks leta i had issues nd I wasn't using any social media acct, when I got back he has blocked me already without any tangible reason.. Some guys are toxic...each time I tat this guy my body, soul spirit hate him especially when he start blowing lies on nairaland.. Some mumu gurl will fell for his lies..

Sorry dear, you will be fine las las..
That it didn't work out for you guys doesn't mean it won't work out with the next person, just don't hate him. Forgiveness isn't something you do for someone, it's what we do for ourselves to enable us move on and be free from every hurts and pains of our past.
Peace!

I'm waiting, meanwhile send ya address incase if you no finish the story.. I go know where to send the thunder come.

No hard feelings ma'am and if I spoke out of tune, I'm deeply sorry too!
Just want you to know that your privacy is your life, guard it.
Don't give people room to dissect your family issues, also fight the urge to share every details of your personal life online it will save you from stress and unnecessary bashing.
Don't worry, he will calm down las las after all it's for better for worse. He ain't going anywhere okay. Wish you the best.

Peace!

cyndylove64:
Lol she feels cause she's married we are single,
I dey laugh in Swahili....

His or her brain dey touch niyen
She and her audio husband and audio money no go let person rest for here.
Na Nairaland men fit her. Aboobi never jam d wan wey pass her before, make she dey flex her wings. Dem go soon clip am for am.

Casalindal:
I am shaking my heaven!!! I am scare... do you listen to your self lady I see the pressure trying to sound bright and educated. Okay honey smell toe for it the last you will have the chance to.

Now listen and just may be you will learn something new. What ever your name is and don’t care much none your existence. I shared my story for people like you who have never be fortunate to have a man to learn and see how it is out here. I can feel your loneliness every night and my prayers are with you honey. You are sad that I was able to get hold of a man right?? You don’t have to be bitter honey that I was able to get man for myself, something I believe you still crying for. Sorry honey

Back at it, sharing my story was never to put myself out here but tell my story and trust Nigeria to leave the major key point and bash the teller...

If you don’t like my method then go write your own. You want drag girl bring it on I am here for all of it, there is nothing I have not been call yet you guys keep coming begging for money and crying under my giveaway. Like really!!!! Honey you are dismiss come back when you married just maybe I will give you my tow cent. Byeeeee

You're really dumb! I actually thought I was bickering words with an intelligent mind, now my heart goes out to that man who chose to wife a dumb skull like you. A woman that would clearly expose her husband without seeking for his permission to do that is truly a useless woman and I don't feel pity for you if he chooses to throw you back to the street where you belong.
I'm done with you hanty abi na huncle you be!
Enjoy your fairytale millions and your countless imaginary giveaways

cyndylove64:
did u even calm down to read her comment or u just felt she should bear the burnt of your anger.have gone through all the thread u created,and if at all some one insulted you on the road then is your fault,u don't need to tell the whole world your hubby is HIV or not.u can advise people without stating your hubby health.and pls don't even think of insulting me or claiming level with me.

See babe, just leave her oh.. She never know where she dey yet, by the time I'm done with that coconut head of hers that she's covering with weavon no be person go tell am.

She is just frustrated and seeking for who to dump her problem on, she came to the wrong forum.

Casalindal:
Are you okay?? Honey I have never bash anyone here on this forum before. Go through my thread I hardly insult anyone here I don’t even have the strength for that. If you go through my previous thread I only was telling my story which I believe there are no templates for that, how dare you come for me when I clearly didn’t send for you??

I keep saying this I’m not just famous on this platform I fought for my place. Where were you when people will creat thread to call me all form of name. Raging from that I’m a guy, that I’m into voodoo and that I’m a prostitute? Where were you? To even think you are a female make it more sad that you will sit there and say all this things.

I will keep saying this and will never stop. I fought for my place here and just like everyone I can share my story just how I want it, and if you don’t like or it doesn’t sit well with you then that is totally your problem not mine honey.... when next you want to drop those unsolicited advice remember that I fought for my place here. Now check that

LOL, which place did you say you fought for?
You have forgotten that Nairaland is like a barrack shey? .. Soldier go Soldier come, barracks still remains! Get that into your thick skull. To even think you're married makes it more appalling, what are men getting married to these days?
It seems your brain is made of silicon and no matter what advice they give you here, it just wouldn't fit in.
Oh please don't play that nonsense female victim's card with me, it doesn't have any effect. I stand for what I believe is right no matter the gender involved so don't make it all about you
What business do we have with what happens in your private life if not that you're seeking for useless fame here? Take a look around you young woman and you will see that no one really cares if you slipped while walking, just face your marriage wahala that you brought upon yourself no be me send you message.
PS: before you reply again with insults, go through my posts and you go know say khaki no be leather.. I go wash, dry and spread you like clothes. I'm not a guy after your cookie so aboobi calm down make God use you today oh if you no wan make your heart no shatter finish aside the wan wey ya husband do.

Peace!

That's what you get when you bring your private life to the general public to dissect.

Do you think most of us don't have relationships we cherish and no amount of SM brouhaha can dent it? We do but we all choose to keep it private because that's what a sane person should do, it's also not totally wrong to share your problems but do it politely too.

You never spared anyone that trolled you even if it's merely teasing, sis life no hard reach like that na. There are some comments you need to ignore but I guess you enjoy the fame far too much to ignore anything.

I'm sorry that you're facing that challenges in your marriage now, it will surely pass but also learn to bridle your thoughts and quit showing off, you practically live your life on social media so don't expect anything less either.

Why do we have to know if your husband is living with hiv or not? You choose to marry him and that's enough reason to do right by him by being his wife and not a social media parrot. I'm sorry if I'm sounding harsh but it is what it is and I'm not going to mince words.

I pray he calms down and sort out the issues amicably with you, just pray this doesn't ruin your supposed marriage.

Peace!

Food stuffs business.. You need to eat first before thinking of changing your phone battery(if it's spoilt)
Food business can't go into extinct because no one wants to starve and you can't think up any good idea on an empty stomach.
People do crazy things just to enable them eat and stay alive to fight for another day.

Phone accessories is secondary compare to food stuffs. You can decide to stay without phones for months, can you also do the same when it comes to food?

If I tell you, will you help me change him to what I like? I need to know before spilling.

Oluolad86:
I pray that if I'm here lying to collect money from people with no sickness, I pray that I die before March 30th 2021, but if I'm real seeking help to be alive because of this reoccurring swollen legs ( pericarditis) May God send helpers to me soonest and heal me totally that I'll never fall sick nor have any heart related disease again. Amen

Because you made me cried bitterly for your comments, I pray for you too that God will heal my organs totally and transfer all my sicknesses to your body very soonest. So that you will spend huge money treating yourself from bad strange diseases to the level of begging, your own case will be worsen than mine cry cry. So shall it be unto you in Jesus name Amen.

If you can't help with simple prayers or words of encouragement, why not just go away? Most you place curses on your head? Most everyone be scammers? Why not read and pass by? Why nailing on my pains? Please

Do you see what I'm talking about? I never insulted you nor make mockery of your situation, I simply gave you tips on how to get the genuine help you needed to hasten your healing process.
Why do we choose to ignore simple procedure and conclude that some people really wish us bad?
Can you clearly highlight the places I made mockery of you or even suggested that you were lying?
By the way, I never called you a scammer do go through the message again and don't be in a haste to reply all the time
Lastly, none of those things you listed above can ever be my portion because I did you no wrong and for wishing such on someone who is trying to help you goes a long way to show the kind of person you are.
Wish you speedy recovery!

Happy birthday nwanne nmadu, may all your heart desires be granted and may you bask in God's divine protection and love.

Age gracefully,more wisdom and blessings to you.. Live long to count your unlimited breakthroughs!

Udo!

Oluolad86:
Happy birthday sir. Please help me with free treatment with a cardiologist, kindly confirm my case, I'm in Ibadan for any confirmation please

Please ma, we all have one problem or the other but kindly accord the poster his right today by not making it all about you. Just wish him well and then go ahead to create your own thread if you want to be taken serious.

This thing you're doing is called spamming and trust me no one takes a spammer serious especially when you go about disturbing the peace of others with your problem.

It's not bad to send pms so I see no reasons why y'all has to make a big deal out of it, I've gotten amazing friends from here and even some of my nysc friends that I have till date I got them here.

Those guys can turn a moody person into a laughing jackass, that some people don't appreciate friendship despite where it's gotten from doesn't give anyone the right to generalize or make mockery of it.

Sending a pm doesn't make you weak, it simply means you're extending your hands of friendship. It's left for the person to accept or decline. No one is an island, you may think it's futile to send one now but the best friendship/relationship are the ones that wasn't planned or expected.

Heathrow44:
Nne, are u normal? What's in tarnishing image, how does what the guy said affect his image?

Nna, rapumaka oh.. Shey I can't play in peace again ni? Don't be too serious alright, life na jeje.

Ndo Nna!

LadyGCrueDKilaB:
Ugh men that talk too much are a total turn off for me like stfu!!! No matter how fine or sexy you are, once you’re a chatter box I wouldn’t want to fûck you. Huge turn off. Makes me go dry faster than anything lol

LOL.. Just pick one for the fun of it, on a norm I wouldn't go for any of them but since it's a fun thread, go with the flow.

SmartPolician:
You females are irredeemable.
If a guy always keeps quiet, you will call him boring.
I remember one babe who would always call or start at chat to ask me if I had gist for her like I was some gist machine

Don't be too serious with my post, the Op said it's just fun thread okay.
Besides, everyone can adapt if you truly care for someone. Like I said I cared and stayed with him I only called it quit when he began talking down on people.
You don't fall in love with someone and not expect some nasty traits, it's all about compromise.

Mhimi007:
value your peace of mind true...thank you very much ma'am i really really do appreciate it

Uwc.. Just be happy!
Don't take anything been said here to heart okay.

richmond500:
I see no reason why he keeps defending himself, I have received a lot of PM on NL from both gender and I never see it as a big deal, the girl just wan to act stupid and thanks to guys who go ahead insulting and bodyshaming ladies, people like Mhimi007 can't even send PM in peace because of the stupid thing called redpillers and feminism

You won't see them here oh but just create a topic on how Nigerian girls are useless, fiam they will all appear. I dey wait for them, sambisa forest is calling them.

Mhimi007:
I really really appreciate you but one thing I don't do is to lie I am an atheist but I know what's good and bad so I also don't want people to use me for ranks no

Let's assume you accidentally sent her a pm, so what? Would you let that take away your piece of mind?
I know how it feels to be accused wrongly okay, just let it go.. Whoever that wants to take it serious can as well go to bank with it.
Let her enjoy her few hours fame and everything will return to normalcy.
Stop proving yourself to anyone.. You know in your heart that you didn't send her the pm knowingly then that's enough conviction you need to move forward.