₦airaland Forum

KingAzubuike:
Young man, the pilot tried to return. The iranians weren't responsible. Take it or believe it.

how did the US then shoot down the plane (as per your insinuations) if the pilot tried to return?

ladyGKilaBCrueD:
This is why I hate broke boys
Just a couple of plates of food and movie dates and he feels entitled to the girl’s body
Abeg! A normal big boy would just have dusted his feet and left but trust broke angry boys to pull dumb stunts like this.
Congrats, you just made a big fool of yourself. You now have the reputation of being a scrub who dine and dashes on dates.

it is interesting how you put this on him.

He was never entitled to her body. you projected that on him. The girl told a mutual friend she wasn't interested in him but only hangs out because he pays for everything. All he did was to decide to not pay after giving her false hope that he would pay.

remele2:
U tried atleast.... But nxt time dnt rush into buying him a wristwatch, men love wristwatches but nice ones....
That same 5k cud have bought him a nice face cap... Or a designer shirt even a nice bracelet or a designer Ring....
U tried but, when u wan buy am something.. No mata how small, buy am correct thing.

Indeed. as much as the guy was mean and ungrateful, she needs to understand that the problem here isn't about spending only 5k. The problem is putting little thought or effort into what you can get for him.

The watch she bought is actually 1k and can be bought just by being in any lagos traffic. The guy actually thinks she put zero effort into getting him a gift. That watch is the male analogy of buying a 500 naira expression artificial weavon for a lady as birthday gift.

Marvieduke:
Please tell your friend abeg. I hate cheating women.

you dont know for sure she was cheating.

The stakes are too high to be based on conjectures.

The best he should do is to ANONYMOUSLY send a message to the husband that "your wife is in so and so hotel at so and so time". He shouldn't embellish the story with conjectures

makydebbie:
Open a diary no one gives a fvck about your opinion dear one minute man.

isnt he free to decide how he wants to live his life.

why do you then insult him?

I honestly believe his third point is flawed as I think a lot of use crave companionships but i am liberal enough to accept that there are those who might not want it.

Jodha:
He's obviously a one minute man...he just said it...

he actually didnt say so. He said he is low on libido.

Libido has nothing to do with quick ejaculation

johnseno:
1.8m

Thanks. would this include Clearing agent fees?

johnseno:
Customs have their own data valuation book for every cars which means they have noting to do with how much you buy it. The exchange rate being use by Customs now is 326 per dollar and this amount is being multiply by 35% which is the duty rate for vehicles with mileage above 3000 and that will give surface duty payment and you multiply that with 1.28 to give total duty on your assessment.

Please how much will it cost to clear a 2013 BMW 5 series?

DebrahDivah:
Uhmmm,

The man has proven that he's a greater animalistic animal... after he has beaten her now.... what did it change?

E don already dey record say the woman commit adultery.... beating her isn't the solution... That's domestic violence man...

She should rather Pak n Go

#SayNoToDomesticViolence

Indeed it is domestic violence. The same thing i tell ladies who celebrate when a woman cuts of her cheating husband joystick etc. It is still violence.

currentflow:
serve her right

This is domestic violence. Zero tolerance for violence means just that.

dominique:
Men post about their accomplishments online all the time, who asked them? It's her social media handle, she can post Whatever she damn pleases. I don't know why it hurts you men so much when women say marriage is not their ultimate goal . Such women are in the minority, you shouldn't even be bothered about them. Plenty women out there are willing to depend on their husbands for money for salt and Maggi, they outnumber the independent ones by a huge margin

I honestly cannot understand this. Marriage is my own ultimate goal but i would absolutely understand if it wasn't same for another person

there is nothing in her post to suggest she sacrificed marriage or that she is currently single.

She claims she sacrificed her 20s. Those bribing up the "Marriage vs Career" balancing question have made assumptions about her that are not in her post.

danielistics:
because nairaland is full of feminists and men haters.

I would say both misogynists and misandrists

the first step to answering this question is defining what you mean by a feminist.

You can easily ask 10 self acclaimed feminists what they understand by feminism and get 10 different definitions.

pocohantas:
Even you?? This one loud o

yes o. even me. Not a fan but I can understand where some of her fans (the ones who acknowledge her toxicity and delusion) are coming from

bukatyne:
Did you read the last paragraph of my post?

Besides, A husband beating his wife because he caught her gyrating underneath another man on their bed or a wife hitting the husband with turning stick is not domestic abuse.

A husband beating his wife for cheating on him is still domestic abuse.

pocohantas:
How exactly does being a female fan of BBN make anyone mostly prostitute? Do some of you even think before talking?

It is online I see everyone claiming not to watch this show. Whereas it generates streams way more than the number of people that openly associate with it.

Yes, some Tacha fans are loud. They have a way of supporting her in good and evil- but I do not think that makes them mostly prostitutes. Maybe delusional or indulgent.

People just associate with the prodigal son story these days. That is why we have so many people criticizing Babcock.

Humans are sensitive to victim syndrome. The moment she was disqualified and shamed for her smell (rather than her bad attitude), a victim was created of her. Very many educated people are her fans and I, despite her obvious toxic and delusional character, am interested in seeing her become a better version of herself.

There is more hate against her than she deserves hence victim hood. Her fans are constantly being shamed and threatened and therefore become stoic in supporting her.

bukatyne:
Human's ability to twist a tale to suit themselves is amazing.

OP says the man cheated: sister said wifey bathed him with hot water because of her insecurities. This same sister would cry foul if her husband cheated on her.

As for the wife, the court would determine if it is a crime of passion or premeditated and deal accordingly.

whether he cheated on her on not, domestic violence is domestic violence. You can't start cherrypicking.

we will not win the war on domestic physical violence with this kind of attitude.

Monaco2:
That is exactly my thought, they are hypocrites, she had sex like everyone else, not in school premises school was on holiday, so what exactly is her offense that she had to be expelled ?!?

does the word "reputation risk" mean anything to you?

Mizwisdom:
See reasoning, those few places I mentioned did it kill the kids or are they recording more marriage failures than those under patriarchal system? let me make my point clear to you as it seems you don't understand me, whether a child answers his/her mother's or father's surname doesn't affect his wellbeing, it's simply used to boost the ego of the spouse with an upper hand due to culture.
Pablo Picasso took on his mother's maiden surname, it didn't affect his progress in life negatively. All laws made are based on ego, that's my initial point.

Pablo Ruiz y Picasso

Ruiz is father's surname while Picasso is mother's surname. You add both names as per spanish customs

pocohantas:
True, but this unku has further complicated his own wahala. You can drop your number for Kemi, she might be a Nlder .

lol yeye

pocohantas:
That is what double dating does to people. Too much stress tbh, except if he wasn't investing much emotionally, financially and mentally. Obviously he wasn't- seeing how much sacrifices the friend highlighted from the babes side.

Indecision is still likely whether one double dates or not.

The guy shouldnt marry Kemi sha. He will definitely cheat on her. She deserves better if she is as described.

chigoizie7:
If the only reason he wants to divorce you is because you do not pray.

I suggest you grant him the divorce.


You are scared not because you really love him enough to want to stay in the marriage, you are only scared that he said that you are 35 and can’t get married again and you believed him.

Gbam Again !

madprophet:
Madam

You husband wants to marry another wife.

Gather your self esteem and be prepared

gbam !!!

NigerianMan:


Lips sealed

Lips Unsealed, there are so many questions going through my mind

1. Is she not with CD?

2. Is she not Olo*ho?

3. Are there no people when she was been pressed?

Lips sealed

Lips Unsealed, many questions going through my mind too

1. are you not with phone

2. are you not yahoo boy?

3. are there no people that will not be arrested when you will be arrested.

Joystark:
That's ma nigga right there!

And someone will say there are.more women than men on earth

Polyandry for a change. not every time polygyny

I find the story especially interesting because her hssbands are not complaining and are ok with sharing her.

Indeed there have been polyandrous societies in history

Ayoswit:
He sounds like a thug, he is not making sense at all. , my father is this, my father was that, mtcheew, yeye pikin

of course he is a thug. A popular one and a veteran

Wayne4uall:
They don use this one.. See tattoos all over her body... She b olosho


Checking the pix again.. I feel for her.. Sum1 should pls help her.. She needs good food and water... She should go a a nearby church or mosque I think they should be able to help

We do not know for sure if she be olosho until she is well enough to hear her story.

What we know for sure is that she needs food water and medical care. Let's focus on that

she thinks the "women hate women" thing is real. she agrees people hate people but think women hod other women to a standard they wouldn't hold men to.

I do not agree with her

pickatyou:
Feminist won't see this.
When a man abuses a woman the world won't sleep.
But when a woman abuses a man , people gather to hail her or act as if nothing happened.

Well that's inside life. For me if I can't take that beating from my mother, definitely wouldn't be taking it from a girl who says she is my girlfriend.

Feminists saw it and called it what it is "Assault & Violence". Now the girl has apologised.

What else would you have Feminists do about it?

What did you do about it?

foreshore:
Guess you are his co-hort, reason you are defending him

you didn't answer the first question.

an additional question: why are you sure I am defending him?

foreshore:
That does not remove the fact that he is randy just that the accuser lacks evidence

Why are you sure he is randy?