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Jodha:
He's obviously a one minute man...he just said it...

he actually didnt say so. He said he is low on libido.

Libido has nothing to do with quick ejaculation

johnseno:
1.8m

Thanks. would this include Clearing agent fees?

johnseno:
Customs have their own data valuation book for every cars which means they have noting to do with how much you buy it. The exchange rate being use by Customs now is 326 per dollar and this amount is being multiply by 35% which is the duty rate for vehicles with mileage above 3000 and that will give surface duty payment and you multiply that with 1.28 to give total duty on your assessment.

Please how much will it cost to clear a 2013 BMW 5 series?

DebrahDivah:
Uhmmm,

The man has proven that he's a greater animalistic animal... after he has beaten her now.... what did it change?

E don already dey record say the woman commit adultery.... beating her isn't the solution... That's domestic violence man...

She should rather Pak n Go

#SayNoToDomesticViolence

Indeed it is domestic violence. The same thing i tell ladies who celebrate when a woman cuts of her cheating husband joystick etc. It is still violence.

currentflow:
serve her right

This is domestic violence. Zero tolerance for violence means just that.

dominique:
Men post about their accomplishments online all the time, who asked them? It's her social media handle, she can post Whatever she damn pleases. I don't know why it hurts you men so much when women say marriage is not their ultimate goal . Such women are in the minority, you shouldn't even be bothered about them. Plenty women out there are willing to depend on their husbands for money for salt and Maggi, they outnumber the independent ones by a huge margin

I honestly cannot understand this. Marriage is my own ultimate goal but i would absolutely understand if it wasn't same for another person

there is nothing in her post to suggest she sacrificed marriage or that she is currently single.

She claims she sacrificed her 20s. Those bribing up the "Marriage vs Career" balancing question have made assumptions about her that are not in her post.

danielistics:
because nairaland is full of feminists and men haters.

I would say both misogynists and misandrists

the first step to answering this question is defining what you mean by a feminist.

You can easily ask 10 self acclaimed feminists what they understand by feminism and get 10 different definitions.

pocohantas:
Even you?? This one loud o

yes o. even me. Not a fan but I can understand where some of her fans (the ones who acknowledge her toxicity and delusion) are coming from

bukatyne:
Did you read the last paragraph of my post?

Besides, A husband beating his wife because he caught her gyrating underneath another man on their bed or a wife hitting the husband with turning stick is not domestic abuse.

A husband beating his wife for cheating on him is still domestic abuse.

pocohantas:
How exactly does being a female fan of BBN make anyone mostly prostitute? Do some of you even think before talking?

It is online I see everyone claiming not to watch this show. Whereas it generates streams way more than the number of people that openly associate with it.

Yes, some Tacha fans are loud. They have a way of supporting her in good and evil- but I do not think that makes them mostly prostitutes. Maybe delusional or indulgent.

People just associate with the prodigal son story these days. That is why we have so many people criticizing Babcock.

Humans are sensitive to victim syndrome. The moment she was disqualified and shamed for her smell (rather than her bad attitude), a victim was created of her. Very many educated people are her fans and I, despite her obvious toxic and delusional character, am interested in seeing her become a better version of herself.

There is more hate against her than she deserves hence victim hood. Her fans are constantly being shamed and threatened and therefore become stoic in supporting her.

bukatyne:
Human's ability to twist a tale to suit themselves is amazing.

OP says the man cheated: sister said wifey bathed him with hot water because of her insecurities. This same sister would cry foul if her husband cheated on her.

As for the wife, the court would determine if it is a crime of passion or premeditated and deal accordingly.

whether he cheated on her on not, domestic violence is domestic violence. You can't start cherrypicking.

we will not win the war on domestic physical violence with this kind of attitude.

Monaco2:
That is exactly my thought, they are hypocrites, she had sex like everyone else, not in school premises school was on holiday, so what exactly is her offense that she had to be expelled ?!?

does the word "reputation risk" mean anything to you?

Mizwisdom:
See reasoning, those few places I mentioned did it kill the kids or are they recording more marriage failures than those under patriarchal system? let me make my point clear to you as it seems you don't understand me, whether a child answers his/her mother's or father's surname doesn't affect his wellbeing, it's simply used to boost the ego of the spouse with an upper hand due to culture.
Pablo Picasso took on his mother's maiden surname, it didn't affect his progress in life negatively. All laws made are based on ego, that's my initial point.

Pablo Ruiz y Picasso

Ruiz is father's surname while Picasso is mother's surname. You add both names as per spanish customs

pocohantas:
True, but this unku has further complicated his own wahala. You can drop your number for Kemi, she might be a Nlder .

lol yeye

pocohantas:
That is what double dating does to people. Too much stress tbh, except if he wasn't investing much emotionally, financially and mentally. Obviously he wasn't- seeing how much sacrifices the friend highlighted from the babes side.

Indecision is still likely whether one double dates or not.

The guy shouldnt marry Kemi sha. He will definitely cheat on her. She deserves better if she is as described.

chigoizie7:
If the only reason he wants to divorce you is because you do not pray.

I suggest you grant him the divorce.


You are scared not because you really love him enough to want to stay in the marriage, you are only scared that he said that you are 35 and can’t get married again and you believed him.

Gbam Again !

madprophet:
Madam

You husband wants to marry another wife.

Gather your self esteem and be prepared

gbam !!!

NigerianMan:


Lips sealed

Lips Unsealed, there are so many questions going through my mind

1. Is she not with CD?

2. Is she not Olo*ho?

3. Are there no people when she was been pressed?

Lips sealed

Lips Unsealed, many questions going through my mind too

1. are you not with phone

2. are you not yahoo boy?

3. are there no people that will not be arrested when you will be arrested.

Joystark:
That's ma nigga right there!

And someone will say there are.more women than men on earth

Polyandry for a change. not every time polygyny

I find the story especially interesting because her hssbands are not complaining and are ok with sharing her.

Indeed there have been polyandrous societies in history

Ayoswit:
He sounds like a thug, he is not making sense at all. , my father is this, my father was that, mtcheew, yeye pikin

of course he is a thug. A popular one and a veteran

Wayne4uall:
They don use this one.. See tattoos all over her body... She b olosho


Checking the pix again.. I feel for her.. Sum1 should pls help her.. She needs good food and water... She should go a a nearby church or mosque I think they should be able to help

We do not know for sure if she be olosho until she is well enough to hear her story.

What we know for sure is that she needs food water and medical care. Let's focus on that

she thinks the "women hate women" thing is real. she agrees people hate people but think women hod other women to a standard they wouldn't hold men to.

I do not agree with her

pickatyou:
Feminist won't see this.
When a man abuses a woman the world won't sleep.
But when a woman abuses a man , people gather to hail her or act as if nothing happened.

Well that's inside life. For me if I can't take that beating from my mother, definitely wouldn't be taking it from a girl who says she is my girlfriend.

Feminists saw it and called it what it is "Assault & Violence". Now the girl has apologised.

What else would you have Feminists do about it?

What did you do about it?

foreshore:
Guess you are his co-hort, reason you are defending him

you didn't answer the first question.

an additional question: why are you sure I am defending him?

foreshore:
That does not remove the fact that he is randy just that the accuser lacks evidence

Why are you sure he is randy?

midnighter:
Oh, sorry about that. But tell me, did you feel bad about it or did you just take it as a joke?

my feelings are not a good yardstick as I generally tolerate disrespect. However, because i am reminded about my single state at least 3 times a day, I didn't take it as a joke even though I was laughing with them. My feeling was more of an "Oya e don do abeg let the matter rest na" .

Generally men feel lesser pressure as you generally do not have biological clock pressure. My female colleague in her late thirties told me she would have been crying if she was humiliated like that.

midnighter:
Oh really? So it's even worse than I thought

What do they even say to you people self? Apart from "baba don old"

In a office TGIF, they announced ladies first and then Misters.

Someone interrupted that I was to be excluded as I was a Master and everyone shouted "Master myname" and were laughing that I should go and marry to be worthy of the title Mister

midnighter:
Women use men and men use women the same... but women occupy a lower space in society so when they lose, they lose big.

After like 35 years + an unmarried man will also begin to attract insults

i am open to changing as per relationship matters but not being "tamed"...that sounds like abuse

Men get insults at 33

foolbuster:
The chief priest has no right to stop people from moving before or after any time no more than a local vigilante has the right to proclaim same but i bet you and the pastor would have respected the local vigilante's order had it come from them.

Your subconscious colonial mentality is in the way. You have to work on it to free yourself.

Please there is no such word as "trado-sentimental". One can not be sentimental towards his/her tradition simply because it is whom they are. It is like saying a word like "self-sentimental" can you be sentimental towards yourself? As a matter of fact it is you that is Anti trado-sentimental if there is such a word.

If you can go as far as inventing words very easily to deny or discredit your heritage without even realizing what you did then It says a lot about we as people and our state of mind.

Do you know that traditional rulers have no role in the constitution, i mean zero. But they are still recognised by the political class and society, why? I mean shouldn't it be illegal then.

Anyway I never mentioned anywhere that the traditionalists were right, ok?
The pastor was wrong to disrespect the culture of the land. All he had to do was be humble and respectful. No one was preventing him from worshipping.

The traditionalist on the otherhand were wrong for physically assaulting the man even though he deserves it.

The traditionalist was wrong for infringing on peoples' right to free movement and not just the assault. The law of the land was not disrespected by the pastor. He was prevented from worshiping after 8am. He deserves no assault.

Same way we frown at pastors desecrating traditional shrines and heritage sites in the name of "liberation" is the same way we should frown at traditional practitioners infringing on people's right to movement and threatening with death.

You would do well to make no assumptions about my religion or the existence of a colonial mentality within me.

foolbuster:
Its feels good to know that sense is slowly returning back to the youths




This will be hard for you to grasp but God does not wish or do harm to anybody. So that hatefilled vile you vomitted from your selfish warped mentality can only come from a bitter soul. And until you begin to ask questions you will remain a fool until you pass away.

The pastor refused to respect the culture of the land but foolishly held the culture of a foreign people in higher regard. Funny enough its the Same foreign people that enslaved his fathers and raped his mothers for centuries. If that isn't buffoonery please tell me what is.
The irony is that even his adopted foreign beliefs tell him to respect the culture of whatever land he finds himself in. But he will practice the thing even more than the original owners. As if all the other churches in that area are stupid.

You want bad things to happen to them but good things will happen to the pastor if he disrespects their beliefs. Please dont be silly !!

the pastor has freedom of association. The chief priest has no right to stop people from moving after 8am or from worshipping after 8am.

Stop being trado-sentimental.

The only person who has disrespected the laws of the land is the chief priest and his rascally youth