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Ithank God i have met a lot of great Nigerian ladies so I would not be coined into generalizing about Nigerian ladies.

Prostitution is a mentality. whether you like the guy or not is not the question. for you to think that you deserve money (fun or whatever you call it) because you have or will give him access to your unmentionables is what classifies it as prostitution. You don't have to stand @ Allen Avenue to qualify as a prostitute.

This is another reason why i dont like yahoo boys and those who date them. these guys get easy access to money and have contributed in no small measure to demeaning Nigerian ladies.

In many companies, what your friend is doing is totally unprofessional.

i dont know where he works so I wont criticize it.

YES he can. I would have thought this wasn't possible previously but I met and dated a girl who gave no hoot about my finances and would refuse if I had attempted to give money.
we broke up later and this was when I got a relatively big paying job compared to what i was earning previously. she was the quintessential lady. funny enoug, the guy she left me for is someone whose salary is not up to one-fifth of mine.

I have an archaic (seemingly) and stubborn belief that guys should never give girlfriends raw cash. my cousins told me it would be difficult to get a girl to like me but my ex prove everyone wrong.

Wislet: I am talking in terms of marriage of course.
What concerns me with boyfriend/girlfriend things?
The guy has NO obligations to any girl whatsoever at that stage.... So to me, bf/gf finance talk is not worth my time.

@Wislet. for marriage, this question should not even come up. cos "his own" and "her own" becomes "our own"

there re other voice types like the coarse but not deep etc.

yeah since morals is not what we talking abt here so the giurl should just pay the guy the inflation-adjusted costs.

this is story is fake shabut trust me this scenarios happen a lot in real life especially in a section of Nigeria.

i dont mean to bash any tribe here o.

i once had a very abusive Exec Director in a coy i worked for previously. He once called me an slowpoke. His abusive words never affected me though; partly because he does same to others and also partly because i was into private consulting at the same

Beaf is really more anti-north than he is Pro-GEJ. has anyone cared to notice that. He hates everything northern.

Dayokanu actually hates Ibos although his sentiments on GEJ are unfortunately true; very few people genuinely believe GEJ is intelligent. I used to put dayokanu among Jarus & some other objective guys but i later noticed his hatred for ibo will overlay any objectivity.

[quote author=ikpoba_1]Start by doing this analysis: Oshomile is from Edo North, Charles is from Edo South, ACN will get +-70% in Edo North, Charles will get +-65% in Edo south. Now the battle ground is Edo central which makes up the Esan west, Esan South, Esan central etc.
Now which party controls this area? These are some of the determinant factors not sentiments. People should come out with meaningful analysis and not rigging, rigging, rigging.
ALL PARTIES RIG ELECTION but the effect is always negligible, not even in moderm time. The best candidate should win[/quote]i am not in Edo but i know oshiomole's support is mainly from Charles's area (Benin). truth is except for Esan people who are angry about Osunbor's exit and are being sentimental, all of Edo goes to Oshiomole. what Esan peeps fail to realise is that Osunbor was defeated by Anenih and not Oshiomole.

i am Esan BTW

philip0906: This is the promised [size=18pt]FRESH AIR[/size]. . .so y'all should bask in it. Sick country

Berom vs hausa fulani has been going on years before GEJ. I dont like GEJ but you need to be logical.

Comparisons like this sadden me. Our good values have been eroded. Materialism is the order of the day.

[quote author=Kay-Dee][size=14pt]
looks more to me like screening for an aptitude test.
[/size][/quote]look d pishure wwll. wetin small pikin dey find for aptitude test

dayokanu: Jonathan looks retardeed

Like robbery suspects paraded by Police

i saw the posts without seing the poster at first but from the content of the post. i knew it had to be You

bright007: This aboki man no get sense at all.He was so anxious about the money dat he couldn't make å complete statement while talking.

dont insult other tribes with ur posts na.

am I d only one missing the part where she implied she actually wants it beacuse she is "hungry" and the guy is "attractive"? all d "dont see him as he only wants to have sex" is just stating the obvious. Op already knows that and is yet willing to play. the advice abt using a Love Machine is logical if that can cure the "hunger".

the Op is a smart girl. she knows what she wants and she know what is available. she wants sex first and then seriousness. she is not sure of the "seriousness" part but due to hunger she is willing to take sex first and anything that comes with it.

my concern is that for a guy who has been in SA, his impressions abt women might have changed. apart from not being serious with Op (which she seems not to mind) he cld also disrespect or look down on her.

emotions are winning over reason.

most posts here lean to one side and reveal their bias.

truth is this is a non-issue. for a GEJ hater like me, neither GEJ nor the Oba did anything wrong. the Oba did not shun GEJ for reason's sake. He saw GEJ in his inner chambers. The rites he was performing are very serious rites. I have no doubt that the Oba supports Oshiomole and I see no reason why he shouldnt. but he is wise enough not to shun a visitor.

need a 2-bedroom around ajao estate, gbagada or any close to island location.

new house, spacious palour with dining space, all floor tiles. budget 700,000

now we know he can rule from anywhere, we propose that he rules from Yobe/Kaduna on his return.

Mr. president lies are really laughable. his problem is that he wont be the typical politician and make vague promises. he would rather go on to mention specifics. his promises are always S.M.A.R.T but never achieved.

are any of the 2 bedrooms (new/modern buildings) with all floor tiled + POP (optional)

are the 2 bedrooms new buildings (with floors tiled + possible POP)?

oddy4real: GEJ is corrupt? how?? do u have an instance or concrete proof you cant just make wild allegations you cant substantiate because u have unlimited access to the internet

@oddy can you really bet your salary or earnings on the fact that GEJ is not corrupt. Abeg leave matter bo. My 2 yr old nephew knows that GEJ is corrupt.

@Bayo. leave them. they actually dont want you to derail the thread with GEJ matter. deep down within them they know he is corrupt.

Jarus: Confirmed from a very reliable source. The Faruk Lawan subsidy scandal is unfortunately true. Fell for set-up by EFCC, SSS etc. Deleted many names from the subsidy indictment list. Now, I have no doubt again that the only politician with 100% integrity is a dead one.

bro. if even U believes lawan to be guilty then i believe it is true then. i trust ur objectivity and sources (data gathering)

though i still maintain that if those indicted on Farouk's report are guilty, let us first fry them while they are still investigating Farouk. corruption too much for naija. no time to wait

u got 2 bedroom in gbagada for 700k. tiled floor, POP, parking space, new bulding

Demdem: [b]Will u shut the ffuck off u this baboon. Who are u to interpret what the NSA said for me. We all read what he said, you decided to interpret it the way u felt and u think u have the right to impose ur utter useless believe (which is geared towards supporting the retardeen no matter what)on others. Are u mad? been watching ur post for sometime now and conciously staying clear from ur lies while stating my opinion(which is my right).

Ur interpretation is wrong and bias IMO. ur likes were the ones accusing Buhari and co for this Boko menace but now its now clear that the real problem itself is Northern PDP and not the full north itself (courtesy from a man that should know-NSA). The retardeen being the National leader of PDP is also to me the leader of Boko. If u arent comfortable with that then go commit suicide. EEdiot.

besides, where are the names of the sponsors the retardeen claims he has? Hopefully the deadline he gave his Boko members this june will be materalised. u are simply a foool.[/b]

are you sure you understand what logic is. The guy actually gave a logically sound interpretation (except the Buhari, Atiku names as they are not PDP) of what General Azazi said and you call him a Baboon. Later you then go on to support his arguments. God bless the days when we had peeps like Jarus analysing Politics.

"Insult is what people resort to when all logic has failed" - Lamido Sanusi

ladies would you marry a reformed. male stripper

TisaBone: if you don't think she is worth the wait,move on. it's that simple.

he cant afford to this anymore cos he has already led her on. for a 34 yrs old lady, leaving her because she refused to open her legs will be traumatic for her. she might even agree to do it after such a threat. my take is he shld just have patience.

@poster i am more concerned with the fact that you see her as "not too beautiful" and yet you are abt to marry her.

exactly. stop taking nairaland too seriously. most of the sexist and tribal threads are not so reflective of the real world. these posters hang out and make close friendship with peeps frm other tribes and gender. can assure you 190, maschino and the others have real Nigerian girlfriends/wives in the real world. forget the female bashing. remember, there are a lot of female posters on nairaland who bash men and what you will hear dem say is that "thank God my man is not like dat". same gbogbo wa ni jor. there is almost a 100% chance that I will marry a nigerian girl and i think that applies to a good number of nigerian men

@dyt. asking ur bfriend for money to prove he is not stingy might make you loose some good guys o. cos I for one is not too comfortable with a girlfriend asking for money. nice gifts and all YES. but raw cash is a no no. i dont like the inbred mentality that a boyfriend is supposed to play a financial role. i think it is wrong. i am so far frm being stingy but i am sure i cannot be giving money to a girlfriend who asks for it.

NL1960:
Good points. All these Aptech and NIIT programmers think programming is the same thing as computing. Most of them do not know the foundation of computing because they are not taught in these Aptech and NIIT mushroom schools. Just tell them to solve a problem of analysing and designing and you will see them lost but do all the work and tell them to code, they will code. That is why they find it difficult rising above their programming level and if they are fortunate to leave programming to desiging, they design bad systems. Programming is not the same as Software development. I once told an Appech/NIIT staff to do a job but he was lost but when i gave it to a Computer science graduate to do, the guy just applied the principles of Queueing theory (Stacks and Queues) that he was taught in school to solve the problem. The fact that a bricklayer can lay blocks does not mean that he is now an Engineer. Did such a bricklayer know what is 'Strength of materials and its applications'?. Check tables created by these so-called Aptech/NIIT programmers who think they are gurus, you will be suprised that they do not know simple database principles or data structures principles not to talk of 'normalization'.

good post

afam4eva:
God bless you for this. I don't see why we should still have computer science lecturers who have 1980s knowledge of computers. They should all be shown the way out and give way for younger lecturers. Infact, lecturers from IT schools like NIIT, Aptech, Karox are wayy better than this COBOL and PASCAL experts.

those i have met are not very clever. they dont think beyond php and .net

Muttex:
This is very interesting. The knowledge most you guyz have nowadays, the professors in computer science dont have them. Many of them dnt knw what is cisco,oracle,java,ITIL,MCITP and the rest. all they know is cobol, pascal,fortran,BASICs,Fowchart, They should send them all for training and come down to the computer village for more training, bullshit.

wetin concern computer science professor with MCITP n ITIL. very funny wat does it take to have MCITP.

[quote author=Godman_n link=topic=889001.msg10362800#msg10362800 date=1331288063]The problem with computer science as a course in Nigeria is a manifestation of the Problem with Nigeria. Appointing incompetent Lecturers based on political and tribal patronage. The answer is to kill corruption so that our best can emerge.

So long as we as a people do not encourage meritocracy in all we do, nothing will work.


I bet you, you deeply regret it. In so far as the way the course is being handled in Nigeria is bad, I find it difficult to see how you can be a good programmer that can think out good algorithm without taking some formal courses like Algorithm, compiler construction, Numerical analysis, etc as a course. These are the foundation upon which a good program is built on.

True the lecturers offered nothing, but mere mentioning of the courses spurred some to read up as much as they can which are not entirely useless. Let me see some of you work, and I bet you they are cut and patch progams. Thank God that is the best we can offer in our nation Nigeris; people like you can claim champions where they are not supposed to.

I want to know why you did not read Computer Science as a course? probably you failed JAMB?

I am a proud, BSC Computer Science (UNN), MSC Advanced Computing (Glasgow) guy. Computer Science is the best that happened to me as a person. Even in solving day to day issues, the course opened my mind.

Think about the flow of logic and reasoning, Think about Scheduling, think about memory and time trade off, think about modules and sub programs and they are tied together, think about classes and object of OOP; you are thinking about daily life.

Few other courses would have offered those knowledge guy.[/quote]best post so far


truth is Computer science is not programming or IT. it is the study of the theories underlying computations and the practical application of those theories. forget all those aptech NIIT programmers o. Computer Science is serious work.