₦airaland Forum

thebosstrevor1:
i am not even complaining , i am just saying reality, You can't have your cake and eat it

if you want wealthy man you also have to bring something to the table

The worst thing a man can ever do is trying to liftup a poor girl and her family

LadySarah:
Still to leave them alone is hard for you ppl.

Call Nigerian ladies again and see

thebosstrevor1:
it is not double standard but the reality is most women choice of men are base not on reality but on fantasy that is why many of them become single for ever, going from churches to mountains and praying for the right one in their old age

If a woman wants a wealthy man then she herself needs to be from a wealthy background, nowadays no man want to save a woman.

For all those ladies looking for rich men to marry because of their expensive taste especially those from poor home, where will they see those men, they dont move in their circle.

stanliwise:
Mtchewww

thebosstrevor1:
what i am talking about is simple

a woman of lower class even though working and earning, shouldn't think of dating a man of higher economic status. unfortunately that is the dream of these type of women, looking for a helper.

bukatyne:
Then you are assuming some daughters in law are not 'evil'.

stanliwise:
Work hard by doing genuine work o
Not sending nude images to big boys and posting nude pics on inmessage or Olosho app.

VirginDiva:
exactly. Don't date anyone who isn't in your league because it would make you seem vain or materialistic.
Be with who floats your boat.

VirginDiva:
I agree. People have preferances

men have been rejecting women since the beginning over their being a virgin or not.
Men have been rejecting women for not having the right physique.
For not being up to their standards facially.
How many men would date a woman they don't find physically appealing for her personality? Very few. Be honest.
If a white woman doesn't want to date you because you're black, she isn't a racist. She grew up in a society where being fair equates to great beauty.

thebosstrevor1:
Likewise women, they are also obsessed with superficial details of a man.

Anyway, a man should also reject a woman for not being beautiful, extremely fat or for not been young

Anyiiii:
I had to open another account to conceal my identity. Please I need help. I have gone to several pastors and churches for deliverance, yet, no solution. I'm 35years old lady and I'm not yet married. My elder sister is 37years old, still not married. My female younger cousins are in their early 30s too but not yet married. They said it's forces from the family but we have carried out all sorts of deliverance but no way. We are all graduates, doing well and very beautiful. I'm almost giving up hope on this marriage matter. Please I need a solution to this problem��

abimic:
You're probably still a neophyte, you would grow with time to this understanding or better you consult a doctor for more understanding when you experience such for proper clarification. Again, pregnant women don't menstruate.

abimic:
That's not true, there's no way you're with pregnancy and still continue to menstruate. Ovulation precedes menstruation, so how can a non ovulating woman menstruate. Blood coming out while pregnant from the woman isn't any way a sign of period, if it's the first trimester, it could be as a result of sex, ectopic pregnancy, miscarriage, infection, spotting as the placenta implants the uterus, even changes in cervical cells, amongst others. Some women don't even menstruate while newly starting their breastfeeding phase. So pregnant women don't menstruate.

Amotolongbo:
Congrats to the them o

I remember a day when I was in an Orthodox church, Baptist, in Oyo town.
The pastor was preaching, lambasting Rev Chris Oyakhilome and his congregation. The pastor said he wonders how a pastor with a divorce wife can still claim to be carrying God’s anointing. That people falling under his anointing are stupid.

Then I sat down to analyze the situation and conditions surrounding the issue critically.

Many of these ministers of God’s homes are intact, not because they are good, love or respect their wives.
The women have been the ones holding and keeping the home which is based more on African culture of perseverance even when persecuted in the home by the husband than the scripture.

Many of these women aren’t comfortable and enjoying the homes, they are just enduring, struggling and pretending to the public that all is well.
If all of these our Ministers’ wives are white or have the white mentality, many of them might have left the homes like Anita Oyakhilome. Including the Oyo Pastor lambasting Oyakhilome

Romanoff:
That is a big, fat, smelly lie.

Some pregnant women have what they call Spotting and it can happen any time of the month for a pregnant women. The colour of the blood is not the same as that of a period and it is not heavy enough to require a tampon or sanitary pad. If it is as heavy as a period, the women will require medical attention.

Zealoy:
Hello guys pls I will like some advice from mature minds here, there's this girl am dating she's very pretty, sexy and hard working, she loves me so much that each day that she didn't hear my voice it will seems to her as if the world is coming to an end

The problem is I didn't love her equally the same way she loves me, initially I only wanted her for sex but she's getting too attached to me, and there's one certain man of God that warmed me to dump the girl am dating, which is her, my problem is how am I going to let her go without actually hurting her feelings cuz I know quite alright that she might hurt herself if I end the relationship between us. She's dangerously in love with me and I fear it will end in tears for her.

Righteousness89:
SCIENTISTS are Baffled..

WORLD LEADERS are Rattled..

TECHNOLOGY is Confused..

WORLD INHABITANTS are Helpless..

THE SAINTS and THE WISE are Fearless...

The Saints and the Wise Understand that all these Happenings are the Endtimes Prophecies and Signs Given by our Lord and Savior JESUS Christ.
They are busy, Ensuring Purity, Holiness and Righteousness on all Sides.

The Saints and the Wise are Preparing themselves For the BLAST of The LAST Trump aka The RAPTURE! The Greatest Event that is Set to Hit the Earth

LadySarah:
The slay queen that will still bear a child and develop sagged tummy?
That will soon start maltreat ING her kids.
She wasted her life in vain.

I'd rather remain single with my kids than let a man s opinion of my body drive me to a dangerous procedure.

Selfkontrol:
Good morning all.

I had a very serious yet Heart breaking moment last night. I have this girl friend I have been dating for some years now. Roughy 4 years plus. We are so serious that ThE next phase of our relationship should be marriage.
I love her so much and to the best of my knowledge, she loves me too and was really a wife material like I have always thought all these years even though we have been off and on sometimes.

Last year September I broke up with her because of how rude she spoke to me.( not the first time. I just couldn’t take it anymore)It was a messy breakup and even though she begged me for three days. I never listened but deep down I didn’t mean it. I just wanted her to fix her bad behaviors then after some months we come back. It wasn’t long too, her father had stroke and I knew she was passing through a lot that period. Even though she tried to find solace in me during those times, I didn’t care that much but still called her often to know how the father is doing. (He’s much better now)

Fast forward to early this year, we started talking again and she visited me where I stay. ( note: we have been talking after few weeks of our breakup but just friends. I still loved her but but I felt it wasn’t time yet) We made out and continued our relationship. I try to fix everything that caused the breakup and she was ready to turn a new leaf and so was I

Everything was going well with less issues for these past months because we don’t stay in the same location. It’s more or less a long distance thing even though we didn’t start that way. (We started dating in school and some point lived together for a year) we couldn’t stay in same city because of circumstances. Her parents live in a different city.

Everything was fine until recently when we were talking and something lead to another thing. She first told me how men give her tips in her mother’s restaurant (she helps her mom in the restaurant since she’s awaiting her masters) i didn’t find it funny. I told her it’s not wrong to take tips but when you know there would be a condition attached to the tips then it’s very bad to accept those tips. ( sometimes 10k, 15k, 5k and evening someone had giving her $100 before) at first she didn’t find anything wrong in taking those tips as she said that’s the little way she can help herself since As she couldn’t be always asking me for money every time. (I send her cash once in a while) But later saw my reason why it’s wrong to take tips from these men especially if the cash is huge because at the end the men always make demands like she told me And she promised to stop it.

Later in the evening we where having a conversation and I told her about a girl a had a little fling with a few months ago. (Long after we broke up) And how the girl called me and was feeling I used her because I went back to my ex. It was a harmless discussion and we both we just laughing over it. Didn’t take long before I asked her Jokingly if she have ever had anything in the place she stays After our break up and to my greatest surprise she gave me a shocker that She actually Had sex with a guy about a week or two weeks later after our break. That she was vulnerable that period because a lot of things happening.And she never believed we could come back. I pushed further and she gave me all the details.

That left me very heartbroken. Heartbroken in the sense that my girlfriend for years could easily sleep with a guy within few weeks of our break up. I was very bitter through out the night. She begged and cried all night and even had an ashma attack and promised it was just a mistake. I called her so many names including a cheap slut anyone could easily sleep with just like that.

I know this is just a relationship but I’m actually scared because this is a girl I plan to engage next year and marriages is obviously the next. She’s a very beautiful girl, honest, caring and faithful to the best of my knowledge but I’m really confused right now. If she could do that just after a week or two of our breakup means even in marriage if we have any problems, she can easily sleep with that guy that she finds solace in.

Help me Nairalanders. She’s supposed to stay for two more days before she leave but from the look of things she might be going today. I’m really confused and don’t wanna make a bloody mistake that I would regret later In the future

gtown:
That was how your great grandparents got married before Lugard came and changed everything to what you are used to today.
So, stop laughing!

Amazinggirl95:
Pls guys explain to me reasons why a husband will leave his wife when she has done him nothing?

prettymaxy:
Happy Traditional Marriage Anniversary to them