₦airaland Forum

Muhylonaire007:
First husband

Second husband.
Also Second Gentleman.

This issue has been overflogged already.

When a man gives his woman everything, she'll do anything for him.

Olaideolayemi:
This your statement is bad..kindly change it for better.. This is new year..

Let sense fall on girls this new year.
A man that will not marry you will not marry you.

If you like, become chef Chi, become Cardi B plus Meghan Thee Stallion and have booty like Juliet Ibrahim.

The best thing a girl can have is sense.

Get it!!!!!!!

Bunch of doofuses using girlfriends as housemaids.

Imagine serving three years slavery for nothing.

Girls, when will you have sense?

Marvieduke:
Dangote is playing smart.

That was not a smart move at all.
He should have made her sign an NDA before starting with her or anyone for that matter.

This move only serves to establish the fact that there was something between them, the details of which he's trying to hide.

I smell envy.

To get picked for the position of Vice President, you must have achieved success in some key positions. Not just to hold these positions, but to be innovative, and be known for upholding suitable values and principles.

Kamala Harris has proven herself, that's why she was picked, and, being a running mate means you have to have a strong political base to canvass votes, and also be a darling to a lot of people in several demographics whose votes are needed.

Personally, I respect the efforts this woman has put in. It's undeniable.
Congratulations to her.

mabeni:
another pastor from different church alright named the child.

The issue now is. The child dedication would been in 7 days time but the lady discussed it with her Pastor, he made her to know she can't still do the dedication in their because she's not legally married but she could come do just THANKSGIVING.

Her husband does not go to church and has warned her against going for the thanksgiving but she doesn't want to listen to him.

She should curb the habit of not listening to her husband,
No man wants a stubborn wife. Good luck.

mabeni:
...refuses her to come do CHILD DEDICATION again because it's against the rules and regulations of their Church but she could come do just THANKSGIVING.


Will it not be better for her to just forget the thanksgiving too than to go and ridicule herself?


Funny thing is that she did introduction and the Pastor is aware of it. And in all honesty the guy's wants to marry her...

It doesn't matter how your baby was born, every newborn deserves recognition and love.
If your pastor cannot see beyond church doctrine, then leave, don't put yourself under extra punishment.
If you've repented of your errors, then forgive yourself after God has forgiven you.
Peace.

Focus on your baby.
Don't make him the center of your happiness, you'll be fine.

OvaSabi1:
I noticed that as men get older, their specs change and that the true spec of a man is apparent only when he has made money. For most of you who are in polygamous homes, you will notice that the last wife is usually the finest and the least hardworking. Meanwhile, the first wife (she may be fine too but just simple looking) is enterprising and calm. Usually, old man married her when he was not yet well off and as at then, she prided herself on being the hardworking wife material he was looking for and made her believe she is.

Many young men these days usually claim that they are attracted to intelligent, ambitious and hardworking ladies. Infact they have launched campaigns against so called slay queens. Also, many are not very comfortable admitting to their partners what physical attributes they like in women. They claim they are only attracted to what is inside which I think is not true.

I think that when a man starts making money, all these talk about being sapiosexual will disappear. Every man wants a dumb woman who is fine as hell. If this is the case, then I think that many women are being deceived into marriages. Women are just married because they're convenient and available and not because you are the man's spec. Then much later, he meets his spec and makes her the 2nd wife or side chick who he starts spending money on, because of course she is not trying to proof to you that she is an ambitious work mule. This is not fair.

My advice to men is to prayerfully work hard so that they can settle down with the women who they truly desire when they want and without any pressure. There are many men who married women who are not their spec and they're regretting now. Some will even complain bitterly that the current wife (who was an ambitious non slay queen) is controlling and proud. Marrying your spec when you have money will save a lot of men and women agony.

Please I am looking forward to seeing intelligent and profound analysis from mature and preferably middle aged men here.

Every man wants three types of women at different points in his lifetime.

The Trophy
The Sex freak
The Mommy

The Trophy is the pretty woman he needs to show off.
The Sex freak, I think you'd understand this one.
The Mommy to raise kids with and to nurse him, the big baby.

Some women try to be all these for him, but na them go tire.

I usually tell any woman who cares to listen, don't kill yourself on man matter, do your best and build your own life.

P. S. Don't listen to those who are calling your work foolish, it's okay to analyse.

[quote author= post=98105406]Unfortunately, He his dead now![/quote]Sad, but such is life.

mariahAngel:
Why did they feel the need to seek out the old man? For what purpose?
To punish him?
Did Jeff need his father? He's rich, so?
He was already at peace and content with his life, they had to force the guilt on the old man even when he couldn't remember.
And now, he'll probably live with the guilt till he dies of sadness. What an unforgiving wicked world!

I believe this is an opportunity for him to make atonement or some sort of restitution before he dies, after death, there is no such chance.
He's a lucky man.

You should have moved out

Foxie:
Easy Bro! I only copied and pasted the story so you don't bother clicking on the link of the OP.

As long as it's on record that anyone who treats his sister in such a manner is a horrible person, I'm satisfied.

Elistho:
According to my findings, his mum isn't financially fit to enrol him in any of the above.

Let him ask first, she will find something for him out of embarrassment.
Peace

Foxie:
…she said she saw my sister with our tenant, talking and flirting really close.

This tenant of ours is a chronic womanizer. The wife separated from him because of his womanizing. The wife is such a sweetheart…they have 3 children. My wife and myself have been praying for their marriage. We have personally counselled the man to stop all these behaviors and he says he will but he keeps doing it but he now hides it from us.


For us, to find my sister talking to this man, we were worried. She denied anything was happening with them. But days later, my wife said that my sister has been going to this tenant’s flat. Before we knew it, my sister started going there daily….soon as we left for work, she would go to his flat and spend the entire day. I was livid with anger.


I warned her to stop this rubbish or I send her packing. I explained to her that the man’s wife is a friend to us and we are hoping for a reconciliation for them..my sister said she is not the one that chased the woman away …so its not her business….Do you know my sister moved out of our house and moved into this man’s flat? I was so angry…I told my parents…I called my people and told them I had washed my hands over this girl. I called my tenant and he refused to pick my calls.

Why must my sister always find men who are involved to be with…men who will only take advantage of her and dump her…my sister had the audacity to say that if we want her happiness we should stay out of this….is this the only man in the world? Is she cursed or what?

The only thing I can do is give the guy a quit notice but his rent is not due until September. My own sister has decided to disgrace me. I am even a Deacon. She lives in his flat day and night. She has sent message to my folks that the she and the tenant are in love and everyone should back off cos she is an adult….

How do I explain this to this man’s wife? Will it not look like I planted my sister to come and take away her husband? The woman even sent us happy new year message. I am praying she does not hear about my sister before we can do anything about this situation.


The next thing am thinking is…maybe I should call the police and drag this girl out and give her the beating of her life. What kind of rubbish is this? Please advise me…cos before this girl will disgrace me and my family…I will get police to drag her out and beat the living daylight out of her.


Anonymous

You are calling a 35 year old grown woman 'this girl'.

I blame the woman who could not respect herself and stooped low enough to squat with you.

You are the worst brother I have ever come across. So horrible.

I can't imagine the level of trauma that must have driven her into the arms of a rogue.
So sad.

I hope she picks up her life soonest. Without your help!

This child is better than 10 husbands for that woman.

Let him ask his mom to put him in a vocation school or to intern for a tech company. That's the best option for him now. If the mom now refuses education for her child, then something is wrong somewhere.

Elistho:
Hello Nairalanders, I decided to bring this thread here to seek for your opinion.

Actually, I have a friend, 17 year old precisely, he is done with high school, child of a single mum that later got married to another man. That's to say the boy is living with his step father and mum.

Just today, the boy talked to me passionately via Facebook, he was sounding very depressed and angry, according to him, he is tired of staying at home doing nothing all day, and also, he has needs that has to be taken care of financially. He decided to look for a work and engage himself while waiting for JAMB form, he found a work and decided to proceed but his mum won't let him.

According to him, he his phone less, imagine, even after high school, his mum won't let him use one, he said his mum said he doesn't have any needs to fit financially hence he shouldn't work.

The boy is terribly depressed, his mates are working and making money and he is sitting at home idle, during nothing, and restrictions put on him, he complained to me that his mum wants to know virtually every thing he does, he is so depressed to have such an overbearing mum, some one that doesn't understand him, I even suggested he talks to her calmly and tell her the reason he wants to work, major reason is to get a phone, he told me he can't tell her such as phone is irrelevant to her. She doesn't want to see him with one.

People in the house, this boy is turning 18 next year, what his mum is doing, is it protection or restrictions? Is it right to try gaining total control of his life without giving him options? Will this stop sooner?

EdricBond:
You hardly see them commenting on threads because they know they would receive terrible bashing from men who call themselves Redpillers .
They are indeed defeated!!!
It's so funny AF!
Men are revealing their true hatred towards women here because this is a faceless forum.
It's so funny.

It didn't occur to you that they might be busy with their actual lives.

Continue chasing virtual fight while life passes you by.

Don't worry, you'll get your chance to recount your regrets in your old age if you live long enough.

Mtcheww.

alexistaiwo:
Nobody should come and complain people are dying too much this 2021.

People die early day but due to the fact that we are in a digital age, information goes around the world at an astronomical pace and everybody wants to be the first to break news.

You have a good point. The rate of these obituaries is getting alarming.

officialmario:
You can listen to her confession and I thank God it was not under duress

I can't take you serious until you take her to court, and provide enough picture and video evidence.

I will not join you to bash a lady you abandoned during such a delicate time.

Try someone else

See wicked man o, set awon deadbeat daddies.

You snubbed a lady who was pregnant with your child at a time she needed you.

Now, just because everyone is on the dna bandwagon, you want to gather sympathy.

Why don't you go to court and demand for custody of your child if you have the guts?

In your case, I'll want to hear Shade's side of the story.

So, you think Nigerians don't think straight.

Rada rada.

This is horrible

My Daddy is an angel compared to these men. I'm so grateful for him.

I promise to celebrate his birthday as massively as possible next time.

In fact, all his minor sins are forgiven, at least he is not embarrassing me all over the world.

Men like him are in the minority.

I hope some wise young men are learning from this.

DrayZee:
She literally posted his bare ass on the internet.

Na wa.

Damn, thank God my Dad is not randy.

God bless my Dad.

I dey come, I will send him extra cash for this!

Originalsly:
Just curious..... were you raised by your father?..... or by another man you thought was your father? You need to first follow the advice you're dishing out.

Lots of them were raised by nobody.

Passed round from relative to relative like aso ebi.

If they like, let them bash women from now till kingdom come, we will continue to raise godly children from generation to generation.

Your confession is your possession.

etrouble:
This one is not a man. The day my wife tells me this rubbish or I find out myself, she won’t sleep in my house that day. I won’t wait till she and her liver kills me. I cannot sleep in the same house with an adulterous woman.

If you say what happens to adulterous men, I will tell you it is the same thing that happened to the man that slept with the adulterous woman brought to Jesus in the Bible. The man was never mentioned.

Because the men are hypocrites like you.

Jesus didn't judge the woman, neither should you.

dominique:
I feel for the guy sha, he should not have taken his life. Those kids look mixed race and nothing like him, I'm sure he knows they're not his. He probably couldn't live with the shame of being exposed of not being able to father a child.

He died of heart failure