₦airaland Forum

daddytime:
Eyaaa..

Quit with beating them, please.

As the poster above said, if that's what they fancy, for now, you can inculcate more veggies and protein into noodles to make it more nutritious and rich for them.

Kai, in our days, of you tell my mama say you want chop egg sef dem go tell you say "na from small dem dey know pikin wey go get big eye or thief". We dey manage any eba wey dem mold for plate for all of us to gather with one small shekele meat to share. Some expert sef dey use their eba gum the meat disappear from soup.

Blingblings:
Why are all of them white men? does it mean black men don't show emotions too?

Petyr1:
then what happened to abstinence? if you stay always, you will not die but if you think your life depend on it then you go for family planning and leave the innocent man alone

Mercisharelove:
Even in your darkest moments, when you feel the Lord is wrong about your predicaments, I put it to you that you are wrong.

Let me tell you, the way that God loves, I have never seen anyone love that way, try as you could you'd fall short of such glory.

His kind of love is very constant! Ours fades with circumstances.

Don't allow your condition tell you that God is wrong sometimes. He is always right and never would be in error.

If you let him allow you live your own life, which his love for you would never do, you could be headed to destruction.

God is love.

Tajbol4splend:
Check it out below, can you?

Petyr1:
that vasectomy is bullshit because it permanent. there are other ways of preventing pregnancy. what happened to the use of Condom or using spermatocide?
what about abstaining from sex?
by the way most of the female family plan is reversible

ednut1:
Guys will make ladies use postinor , do abortions, used invasive birth control etc. But wont near anything like vasectomy or sperm killers. I blame women una no just get sense hahaha

Biglittlelois:
He doesn't know that yet, and his brothers above edging him on with their dumb comments and smiles on Nigerian ladies are as clueless as he is, not surprised anyway.

naxyrick:
abeg carry your forgiveness comot here
because you haven't tasted it
mine is that not only did my father left me when i was tender but he falsely accuse me and take me to cell at tender ,at the cost i lost my elder bro live was so critical for me,he even sworn that he wont be alive to see me survive but thank God that light is coming

so dont tell someone to forgive if you dont know the hell the person passed through

UDUJ:
I completely disagree with the boldfaced, NOPE. Some people are not worth forgiving.

Muquadam:
There are natural pink lips too, yunno

DrFunmisticGlow:
i don't buy into the ideology of using children as a pension plan or as backup caretaker. It's a bad investment, especially with the way the country is. The money used to train a child can be used to plan throughly for retirement.

Nwaotu:
All my opponents here, watch out for my success story, once I go to the court and get the visitation right which I know the magistrate will grant me, I will be here to happily tell you guys. Lol, hahahah

BigSarah:
Old age full of regrets? ,What’s that about?

DrFunmisticGlow:
I have been noticing this trend for a while. I don't have a lot of examples to quote from but i have a few.

The first was at a get-together with some good female friends and we were talking. We talked about work, businesses, exams, then relationships and marriage. Then one of my friends, let's call her T says that's she is taking a break from relationships, because she has suddenly realized that she doesn't want children. And she proceeded to list reasons why. There was silence for a while. Then another of my friends let's call her H then says something that ticks me off. 'You probably feel like that now, but you will change your mind once you're older'. Another friend G chimes in and says that T only feels that way because she just finished paediatrics posting and it can be traumatising, that she'll get over it.

I reply and say that there's nothing wrong with a woman choosing to remain childless. This leads to an argument, but we settle it sha.

The other one was an older lady who came to my office for a consultation after diagnosing and giving drugs as she was my last patient. We got talking and I asked her if she was lonely being alone. She says that yes it is at times, but when she sees most of her married friends being in one form of misery or the other, she feels that she doesn't regret it. She said she couldn't sustain long term relationships due to her dysfunctional upbringing. I then ask her about adopting and she says she doesn't want children, she cannot stand them. She then tells me that not everyone is supposed to be a parent and i agree.

She then tells me that i am the first person who she talked to about this issue and didn't try to judge her, try to convince her to change her mind, dissmiss her or shame her

This got me thinking that some people, especially women due to choice or circumstances have no children. But nigerians in general seem to ostracize them.


This is a recurring theme that I keep seeing. One would think that men are the ones who judge, but no, women do it the most.


So my question is this, why do people feel uncomfortable with the fact that some people cannot or choose not to have children?

It doesn't make sense.

Please share your views on this topic. No bashing please. Happy Sunday.

biggy26:
Ah, just saw you are a saint, don't want to open your eyes to the things of the world o.

biggy26:
I'm on that ladder, let's go there.

Evolutionlove:
I don't think you are the one, seems your monicker looks familiar okay.....

Evolutionlove:
Football Betting Thread.....

Evolutionlove:
Troublesome girl, So You sef don abandon Alabi's thread for those Shildren??

Iceyjayzz:
To a bad rubbish like you, Nigerian girls ain't worth it.

kaynacy:
make your own

Nomanlike:
For a while now,pink lips has been in vogue in our society. Every guy and girl wants to have one(pink lips products been selling well). But lately, seems fine guys with darker lips been getting all the hot girls now. I for one have a thing for cute girls with darker lips(be it lipstick or natural). Maybe its cos its associated with mystery and virility..
So guys and girls, which would u prefer for a kiss? Darker or pink lips!

solmusdesigns:
Court Baillif

Iceyjayzz:
Who are they?

thank God I've found myself a loving, independent and beautiful south African girl.