₦airaland Forum

sukkot:
brother these men and your own story you have presented above are two different things. these are men with houses and housegirls and houseboys and gatemen in naija now expected to sweep floors and change diapers in the uk

BigDawsNet:
Let us stop insulting Yoruba people...this guy messed up! Doesn't mean all yoruba are the same like him...

My Uncle his a US based yoruba man and he has assisted over dozen of people to move to the states either by studies or reunification visa... so pls.. let stop abusing this innocent trib...

When igbo are making headlines on nairaland every week about drug related issue doesn't mean all igbo are drug dealer or addict... pls... we are One

sukkot:
ahhh bro it can happen to anybody who is not willing to adjust their expectations. As a man, unless you are otedola and have the money to hire help, you become useless to a woman if your ego does not allow you to start sweeping they floor and washing the toilet and changing diapers. If you can't accept this as your new job in the UK as a man then more than likely your wife is going to get rid of you. You have become useless. Lol. It's true

bukatyne:
What do you think?

Shalommy:
Chaii.. . Na wetin ur gender dey carry cash out be that

blacksam01:
h em didn't say anything ,just looked at me thoughfully

blacksam01:
only fools still take wives or gf to the abroad....

was in d bank on friday wen one man was bragging about just sending his wife abroad to work and skl....i just coldly told him..he will regret it

sukkot:
the name of the demon na pounds-lucifer

bukatyne:
I am in love with two women I don't know which one to choose: Tony Tetula - 19 gbogboro

I no longer love my husband I don't know what to do: Naija Vlogger - 2023

Which song are we singing next and when?

Shalommy:
Chaii.. Descend wetin? U no dey do yansh?

Omihanifa:
This man has been sick for a while

Ohraykon:
The same yahoo pastors nacking people's wives naija men wise up dis bastards have brainwashed our women no wonder dey respect them more than their husbands. Since i para for my mama in front of her pastor, the guy no near me again. Even vision e no see again. These guys are just motivational speakers and false hope givers.

Kobojunkie:
Here's the kicker! The Catholic church is the mother church of all your other churches, the foundation for all the doctrines and traditions of the religion of Christianity. If the foundation is realized to be of sinking sand, why do you not see that it is all — the entire religion — is all of sinking sand?

Pootle:
sleeping during a night devotion as a kid i got a dirty hot slap i jump up but to my surprise my entire famz where sitting at the dinning staring at me with shock and asking what was wrong with me i said nothing but that slap still feel fresh in my mind ever since

MrAgbako:
The supreme forces/creator throws stuffs to humans like human trow bones to dogs

kingdestiny:
Honestly this Christianity seems to have done is more harm than good, we keep leaving everything for God, if it were before the parents would have gone to native doctor for solution, or even burry her with cutlass and charms to chase her killers. But one pastor somewhere will be telling the family to leave everything to God, he knows best.

DeLaRue:
Women are more likely to find financial elevation and independence quicker in these foreign countries.

The day your wife starts earning enough to not depend on you in any of these countries, the dynamics of the relationship is very quickly likely to change.

In Nigeria, however successful a wife is, she will think twice (may be 10 times) before summoning the courage to tell her husband, my dear please wash the plates in the kitchen, wash the clothes and spread them outside, and tidy up the room and the toilets.

But abroad, na so your prim, previously holier than thou (when in Nigeria) wife go call you from work one day and tell you she's going on a night out with colleagues from work and remind you to do those things I mentioned above. Fear no go gree you ask why she want go out for drinks.

Na then you go no say, levels have changed. You wey you be 'oga' for Nigeria, for London, na just House man you be o. You do anyhow, you see anyhow

By the way, your wife who used to say divorce is 'over her dead body' in Nigeria will be so happy divorcing you in the UK.

That's not to say married people should not relocate abroad, but just know that however tight you feel your marriage is in Nigeria, moving abroad immediately increases the likelihood of that marriage failing within the next 7 years by at least 50%.

Please don't make the mistake of saying it can never happen to your family o. The people divorcing abroad also believed it could never happen to them.

xynerise:
The thing just tire me o. My uncle is going through same issue

tonicyril:
That is not spinsterhood mama, that is OLOSHOWISM

bionixs:
Rest in peace, brother.

Just last Wednesday, I was talking my bath , standing in the bathtub when my wife called repeatedly and I was forced to go and pick.
With soap foam all over, as I was returning back to the thub, just the first step on the thub , I landed with my neck . God just saved me.

Never leave the thub if you have not rinsed off the soap completely from your feet

Dialpad:
RIP........ unbelievable, Murphy was a talented actor.

The cause of death is scary.

He must have slipped and hit his head hard on the floor.

Builders in the house, how can we have safer bathrooms to avoid occurrences like this.


We can all try get this bathroom mat

apstpaulg:
When his wife travelled abroad for a delivery, while pregnant, he was busz sleeping with one of my counselee called chinaza, who happened to be his house help; then he compensated her with 10k. I told the lady not to worry, that his death will be one that money can't save him.
Note' i won't mention the year.
My condolences to the wife and kids though.

sunshineV:
ChatGPT is still better so what's your point?

iHateFraudsters:
ChatGPT is free, so what's your point?

sukkot:
lol bro all this na story oooo but we go talk later

sukkot:
See at this point I don't understand most Nigerians anymore. Every time I offer a helping hand to Nigerians they turn to your enemy. I don't understand the dynamics behind it. The whole interaction just gets very awkward after that . It's like they hate you for " humbling " them. It never fails.

But the ones who have a pure friendly relationship with you? Are the ones you haven't given anything yet. So in my everyday life person to person I try to do charity because charity covers a multitude of sins and givers never lack.

So this is a recent case study. This young guy , a security guard was sent by the company to guard the house I stay. I would say about 19 years old. One night I went grocery shopping and I was going through the gate he runs over from across the street and told me he was hungry. So I said what does he eat ? He said he likes indomie . So I went to my place and brought out like 5 indomie and 3 soft drinks and 2 sardines and gave it to him. He thanked me.

Every 2 days when I go out I would do small grocery shopping for him. Indomie and biscuits and soft drinks sardine or bread. A few times when I go out to get bottled palmwine for myself I would get him palmwine or orijin beer he likes. But I started noticing his entitlement behaviour like on the days when I don't buy him anything he would time when I Am coming home and sit beside my door when he sees me carrying my own groceries and he would be looking at me like he is depressed. And he would Always be watching me to see if I am going grocery shopping and he would hang around the car to see if I would come out with grocery.

Let's just say this guy got ridiculously stalkerish and so I called him up 4 days ago and asked him has his salary being paid yet? He said yes. Because am thinking all these things he is doing because he is new on the job and has no money and is hungry so I put up with it for like a month.

But once he told me yes that he had being paid, I in a roundabout way told him I don't tolerate the stalking. That he doesn't need to be following me or waiting on me. Anyway since that day this guy just turned into an enemy. Someone who I have been buying groceries for for almost a whole month just turned hostile like that. Now all that time I was buying him grocery he would do ass kissing stuff like when I drop my black trash bag outside my door he would take it to the bin outside for me but since that day the guy just bone my trash bags lol.

Anyway the point here is this ? You create an enemy unknowingly out of those you help - not family members- because I think it is humiliating for them and they despise you for it, so if you are going to offer charity don't offer it to people you have to see on a daily basis. Just find a beggar in the street that you would never see again. Nigerians are funny, they beg you for money but they hate you for giving them that money especially if it is not a life changing amount.

It's like a guy I gave 5000 naira one time and he thought it was an insult, just a regular guy who I don't even know like that, God is my witness, which 5000 is no money but it was just for him to buy beer for the weekend, you can get 15 beers with 5000 when I gave it to him.

So out here on these streets you have to be savage. No more mr nice guy ooo lol. basically if you are not offering guys over 100k just forget it cuz they would hate you. look for a real beggar who would appreciate 5000 or 1000.

MightyHand:
I didn't receive any mail, good luck to you guyz

NDSMELODY:
pls it today or another time ?

Is the test ending by 12pm this afternoon?