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mssrosa:
Hello Fam!

This is something I wish I wouldn't have to do but I am left with no option as I am at the crossroads.

My brother started smoking lets say about 6-5 years ago, I only got to find out 3 years. He is my immediate elder brother so we are pretty much close, we are also from a Christian family and I can assure you that we were brought up very well. We have other elder siblings (boys).


From his story, I found out he started smoking when he got into University. He got into the federal university in my state and since we weren't based there, he lived alone in the family house.

This is someone who got into school and for his first year studying engineering, he had a very strong 2.1 and bagged Agbami scholarship. Fast forward to 3 years later, he dropped to a 2.2(which he later graduated with) and lost his Agbami scholarship. This same year he came home for hols and started being all by himself. One way or the other, my parents caught him smoking one day, dad scolded him, mum did same but later on went to plead with him to stop. He promised he would but still went back to smoking.

Right now before he goes to someone's house to maybe spend few days he would ask questions like: is there a backyard, is there a lone time in the house? Privacy etc, just so he would smoke.

He smokes weed EVERY single DAY!!!
And now he is getting really slim, anytime I try to talk to him about it he gets angry and walks away.

Just few days ago I noticed he has been drinking something he calls "purple"(he mixes it with maybe coke or ChiExotic). I went into his room and saw a bottle of tutolin which is obviously his "purple". I asked him why he was drinking it, he said he felt like and I told him I was gonna tell someone in the family.

NOW TO MY QUESTION

Should I go ahead and tell a family member/all or I should keep talking to him?

happytbaby:
Please go and simulate your CRS score with 8777 and see the difference between a 7.5 and an 8 in Listening .

4wearegreat:
Hello Everyone,

Please what can I do to raise my morale?

1st attempt (July) - LRWS - 7.5,9, 7.5, 8
2nd attempt (Nov)- LRWS - 8.5, 8.5, 6.5, 7.5

For 2nd Attempt: I Requested for EOR in RWS. None was upgraded (lost 15k)

3rd attempt (Jan) - Had my speaking this week - Messed up big time!!!!

I presently feel so depressed and demoralized.

With IELTS score of LRWS-8,7,7,7........................ITA would fall on me immediately , but achieving this appear impossible #Makeigobegmyvillagepeople

JFKbleep:
Hello House,

Please can one actually get a CSR high enough to be invited without a masters degree? I'm about 33yrs and a Petroleum Engr with over 5yrs experience.

Godsaysyes:
The only place she can do that is Abuja Passport office.

buchibrand:
UBA debited me on
Thursday 28/12/2017 "CARD MAINT.
NOVEMBER" on Sunday 31st they debited me again "CARD MAINT. MAY" and
on Monday 1/01/2018 morning I was debited again "CARD MAINT.
DECEMBER", and in the evening
again another debit "CARD MAINT.
AUGUST".
Can someone tell me what's wrong with UBA before they finish my money?

Flickzvill:
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androsurf:
I just checked my ielts results now (Dec 16). I was shaking while entering my details. But Glory be to the most high....Alhamdulillah!!!

LRSW 8.5,9.0,7.0,7.0 (first attempt)

A lot of funny stuffs happened to me during my test. For one, my bladder was filled to the bream, and the supervisor refused to let us go out until it's 10 minutes to rounding up. I was so uncomfortable. But God saw me through....

ECA came few hours ago.

Newmum0615:
Amen o. I have paid my last house rent in Nigeria this December. Canny loading next year.

mcstan18:
If you enter the same information, Yes

PointZerom:
Mumu President blaming people for his woes since 1984. If truely you trained your son well, you dont need the help of the security aids to stop him from power bike racing at that time of the day. Nnamdi Kanu's blood fall on your family.

splenzard:
Hello Fellow Nlanders,

Compliments of the season.

As this may be the season of happiness, not everyone partakes in the joy of the festivity, I am one of those. Let me cut the chase and go straight to the point.

I'm a 400 level student of civil engineering, I've got a younger sister, I'm older than her with a couple of years although she's yet to gain admission despite the fact that she has tried severally. she decided to start working pending whenever she gains admission.

Along the line, she became a cultist and she suddenly became a heavy smoker, drinker and a drug addict (tramadol, rephnol, codine,etc).

At this point my mum (she's a single mother, my dad died a couple of years back) did she least she could do by scolding, reporting her to the leaders in the church, kinsmen and everyone whom she thought she(my sister) would listen to but all these efforts proved abortive as she deteriorated further as she graduated to bringing men to the house at odd hours of the night.

As at last week, my mum called me and was sobbing over the phone, she told me that my younger sister beat her up because she confronted her about her behavior.


right now I'm confused, in order not to act rashly, i decided to seek for advice from this noble forum.


Please guys i need your matured advice here

kunmi5:
You may choose to evaluate both your bsc & msc degree as it will give you more points improving your chances of ITA.
Find below Credential Evaluation related issues previously answered.

Should I evaluate BSc, if I have MSc already?
https://www.nairaland.com/2624318/canadian-express-entry-federal-skilled/124#45992179
Delayed verification from school for WES
https://www.nairaland.com/2624318/canadian-express-entry-federal-skilled/105#44837270

Can one send Nigerian university transcript from a Canadian institution that already has it?
https://www.nairaland.com/2624318/canadian-express-entry-federal-skilled/106#44922258

Evaluating OND & BSC as two or more years
https://www.nairaland.com/2624318/canadian-express-entry-federal-skilled/114#45455608
https://www.nairaland.com/2624318/canadian-express-entry-federal-skilled/114#45456308
https://www.nairaland.com/2624318/canadian-express-entry-federal-skilled/115#45463628
https://www.nairaland.com/2624318/canadian-express-entry-federal-skilled/149#47608665

What is the WES evaluation process like?
https://www.nairaland.com/2624318/canadian-express-entry-federal-skilled/117#45601868

How do I evaluate Bsc Pharmacy?
https://www.nairaland.com/2624318/canadian-express-entry-federal-skilled/124#46005448

Will WES go ahead with evaluation without receiving credentials from all institutions?
https://www.nairaland.com/2624318/canadian-express-entry-federal-skilled/148#47575954

Can I create EE profile without spouse's IELTS & ECA?
https://www.nairaland.com/2624318/canadian-express-entry-federal-skilled/171#48610485

Do I evaluate WAEC with WES?
https://www.nairaland.com/2624318/canadian-express-entry-federal-skilled/187#49552685
https://www.nairaland.com/2624318/canadian-express-entry-federal-skilled/189#49655648

Can I get a WES reference number for sending my documents without paying?
https://www.nairaland.com/2624318/canadian-express-entry-federal-skilled/213#51152310

I want to increase my CRS score by evaluating by secondary school diploma. Should I do this?
https://www.nairaland.com/2624318/canadian-express-entry-federal-skilled/211#51077258

Can I send my certificate and transcript from school in one package to WES & IQAS in order to avoid double cost?
https://www.nairaland.com/2624318/canadian-express-entry-federal-skilled/218#51593666

I do not have my certificate, can I send WES a statement of result instead?
https://www.nairaland.com/2624318/canadian-express-entry-federal-skilled/219#51728542
https://www.nairaland.com/2624318/canadian-express-entry-federal-skilled/255#53296488

ICAN/ ACA related questions
https://www.nairaland.com/2624318/canadian-express-entry-federal-skilled/238#52875580
https://www.nairaland.com/2624318/canadian-express-entry-federal-skilled/238#52886234
https://www.nairaland.com/2624318/canadian-express-entry-federal-skilled/273#53611032
https://www.nairaland.com/2624318/canadian-express-entry-federal-skilled/274#53612769
https://www.nairaland.com/2624318/canadian-express-entry-federal-skilled/134#46668721
https://www.nairaland.com/2624318/canadian-express-entry-federal-skilled/136#46806787

The age on WES evaluation is different from age on passport. What should I do?
https://www.nairaland.com/2624318/canadian-express-entry-federal-skilled/270#53575500

Which address should I input for WES?
https://www.nairaland.com/2624318/canadian-express-entry-federal-skilled/277#53670007

mcstan18:
Yes please, you may. If you had flipped a few pages back, you'd have seen the answer to your question.

happytbaby:
No, please wait.

benjsniper33:
But sincerely why would he expose his daughter chest just like that.
It ain't decent

Vac1:
Good morning Nairalander, please I am in a Dilemma and need all the help I can get in other not to make a costly mistake. Straight to my story.


On the 27th of November, my employer disengaged (sacked) me and a few of my colleagues with some bogus accusation of under productivity and insubordination. We were asked to turn in every company property in our care which we duly handed over before leaving.In our dismissal later, it was clearly stated that 'our terminal benefits will be paid along with our salary for the month of November'.

Prior to our dismissal, the sum of 5000 was always deducted from our salary every month as caution fee which is supposed to be paid when one leaves the company, but with experience from people that have left, it is always a tug of war as the company doesn't honor that.

Now, we got information that the company paid her Workers November salary yesterday but we that were dismissed didn't get paid. Individually we called the accountant who from the discussion we had made it point clear that there was no provision for us in the payment voucher and every attempt the reach the management has proved abortive as they have kept posting and at a point not taking our calls.

I decided to bring this here in other to get the best solution to this problem and also to know the various agencies to get involved.Apart from the call which i made to the accountant and the center manager, i have not taken another step as i don't want to make a mistake in dealing with them. I have seen problems of this type get solved here and i believe that mine and that of my colleagues will be solved. Thanks as I wait for HELP.

Please Kindly help me tag people with experience in dealing with this kind of issue.


Kindly help me get this to a larger audience

Owlette:
Yes it must. It is clearly stated on WES website.

phf2be:
Like you've already been advised, your Masters alone will suffice. The good thing with using WES for UK degrees is that they accept 3rd party academic records providers like Gradintel depending on your school. So you can simply send WES a token which they'll use to access your records (transcript) directly while you use hellofax.com to send a copy of your certificate to WES. Best of luck!

ItsYourFriend:
Your Masters degree transcript will suffice.

choku123:
Hmm after eating her lips....

the same lips Banky W just they chop

hablink:
who she?