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mutter:
well I certainly hope I don`t go having kids in my fifties
I now have 10 and that is more than a handfull

I'm marvelled. Do you really mean 10, as in T. E. N. ? Wow! I love kids too but 10! That's inspiring.

No, I wouldn't report to her partner. I'll advise her to stop, if it doesn't work, I'll ask someone close to her like her parents or siblings to talk to her, if this too doesn't work, then I'll boycott her.

I believe in the saying "birds of a feather flock together". I can't be friends with a cheat. And I won't be the one to end her relationship. Let the partner find out from somewhere else. The signs are always there for anyone who's observant. And in this age, everyone in a relationship should be observant.

People can be funny. If you tell the person his/her partner is cheating, don't be surprised if they both turn around to be your enemy.

mamagee needs help.

Attention seeker.

Female circumcision is becoming more and more unpopular. Those that are against it have renamed it Female genital Mutilation (FGM) and view it as an abuse. In Islam, it is permissible and actually encouraged to circumcise females. But I don't think there's any harm in not having it done.

Allah knows best.

olusolami:
you guys are dumb at times. I have gotten like fifteen people that are interested, It is for females, do males wear female clothibng, manybe in your village they do, i am not a restricted person. I love my religion but I ollove business and money too and living my life like I want to. People like you do the most horrible things, yet you find your self here, Bulll!!!!!!

You don't seem to make much sense here, especially @ the bolded.

You'll get more than 15, infact you'll get hundreds who'll be willing to participate in the parade of shame. But I tell you, you won't get a single real muslimah.

Whatever the man might have said to his wife, it's very wrong and stupid of a MIL to slap her SIL, in his own house! I doubt if the woman has a husband herself.

The way a couple relates and talk to each other is no one's business but both of them so i do not agree with those saying that she might have been provoked by the man's utterances to his wife. do we know the kind of woman the wife is? Do we know whether the way she talks to her husband is worse-off when angry? Will it be ok for the man's dad or mum to slap the wife if she speaks rudely to her husband in their presence?

Please, ohun ti o daa ko daa.

roy4real:
@ Andyanders is right. Please take your baby to Senior Prophet T.B Joshua @ Synagogue Church of All Nations(SCOAN) Lagos Nigeria for deliverance to disgrace that demon.

Nonsense.

@topic

good to know you found a solution. But remember babies can get fussy anytime. Prepare your mind for it.

Odunnu, you took the words from my lips. careless guys!

It seems everything is going fine with you and you're simply itching for trouble. had it been you were dealing with fertility issues, infidelity, financial crisis etc, you wouldn't remember whether you're senior or junior wife in your husband's family.

Muslim sister and modelling

Sorry, you can't get that.

An average muslim sister is modest. She wouldn't foolishly parade herself before spectators in the name of modelling. Ok?

deols:
Except that you av any suggestions, this post is pointless. All dat matters is dat we obey Allah. Even if no one looks beautiful in hijab, it would still be worn.

Right on point sister.

I don't see the need for this OP. The essence of hijab is not to look beautiful but to obey Allah and maintain modesty. back in the university days, whenever I got a look of admiration or a comment from the opposite sex that I looked beautiful, it used to upset me as I used to feel that my hijab was yet to do its job.

I won't caII it spy, rather checkin to ensure everythin is ok, especiaIIy when I notice some anomaIy.

mukina2:
^ he is alive and around

I thot as much.

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OYINBOGOJU:
Where are the mothers on the island?

They don't Iive in that area

3.0, 2.8, 3.5

Iisten to your parents, they want the best 4 U.

maclatunji:
Okay doctor you have diagnosed the ailment, now prescribe the treatment. I suggest she travels to Siberia for 6 months on vacation, it does wonders for you.

Supported.

Thot it'II be a newspaper articIe or the Iike.

alimat 2:
looool , me neither 2  

the thread 2 old paaapaaa, lati bii odun meta seyin, tani eni ti o ta thread yi ji gan self?

yoruba dun lati so ganni

anty aIimat,  sese reaIise e ni, Yoruba dun so but ko dun ko siIe saa o.

she married him because he's AA.

sister aIimat, you're makin a Iot o sense.

alimat 2:
looool , me neither 2

the thread 2 old paaapaaa, lati bii odun meta seyin, tani eni ti o ta thread yi ji gan self?

yoruba dun lati so ganni

anty aIimat, sese reaIise e ni, Yoruba dun so but ko dun ko siIe saa o.

Lagosboy:
Apologies for the late reply , I have been busy supporting the BB2011 campaign on the various forums.

However, i see my able bros and sisters have all answered the question with all the verses of the quran related. I have not watched the video but i trust it would have been educative.

In islam the norm is to forgive the faults of others as everyone seeks forgiveness from the lord of the worlds. Talking of eye for eye, largely deals with issue of deliberate crime like you relative was murdered and you seek justice. The case goes to trial and judge has the authority to prescribe capital punishment for the convicted murderer except the realtives of the victims choose to forgive and accept blood money.

Another example is someone despoils your sister and the case goes to court, clearly an eye for eye cannot apply here as you will be commiting another crime by despoiling the culprits sister.

The issue of eye for eye large appears in issue of crimes and persecution like wars and  sorts. When it comes to daily dealings between humans and someone offends you , Allah reccommends you forgive the sins and one of the qualities of a believer is to overlook the faults of others.

In summary the rule in islam is to forgive those who wrong you, however if it is a crime then the case should go to the judge if you have to claim something that rightly belongs to you or your right has been trampled upon. The justice of Allah tells us that on the day of Judgement everyone who has taken someone elses right would have it paid back to the person by way of his good deeds or bad deeds. We should deal with ourselves with the fear of God at all times.

Apologies for my hasty reply and i hope you got the jist of it. Feel free to inquire further if you want further information.

And God knows best

On point, as usuaI. May Allah increase your knowIede and wisdom.

hymen:
I think we must all learn to ignore such divisive people ,who have nothing to offer but insults & incoherent gabbage. Typical[b] G-I-G-O[/b] for you.

pIs what does the boIded mean

azharuddin:
I would rather use the word 'Humble'.

I am humbled by the truth of Islam that there is no God But Allah and Muhammad(saw) is his Messenger.
I am humbled by the fact that only reason I am a Muslim is due to Allah's Guidance alone.
I am humbled by the fact that if it was not for Allah's Mercy I would be destroyed in a single moment because of my sins.

May Allah make all of us of the humblest of slaves.
Ameen.

me, this.

In the quran Allah says in the Prophet we see a best example. did he (pbuh) used to do EYE for an EYE to peopIe then, even enemies?

uplawal:
Even if you dnt forgive is not a sin,EYE for an EYE IS OK too

despite aII the verses quoted above! DeaIin with your person must be some task!

_{[sub]expectin some serious Iashin 4rm U}[/sub]

Oh my error. I didn't check the date on the OP. The brother is probabIy married now.

SaIam bro.,

So you're stiI at it.