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Heard NOUN, dunno how true.. You can check the education section of this forum, or better still post this there.. Either way, I'm sure you'll get more info.

Edit: I just realized I unconsciously skipped the "Lagos State" part lol.. UNILAG maybe

AlphaBeta130:
o ga abukwa mu na gi?

Haha lol efe adirozi

OMG, this is sooo sad

Life is indeed infinitesimal.. Kamsi, may your gentle soul rest in perfect peace and may God comfort & strengthen your loved ones, Amen.

Not petty though..

He was very boastful, felt everything should revolve around him & quite disrespectful too.. Mbanu, oburokwa mu na gi.

Alot has been said already.. Marriage is indeed a beautiful thing & equally sweet when there is reciprocity of love but we all know that even that isn't enough to sustain a long-term relationship.. We should always try to be considerate & understanding, trust maybe(cos humans tend to take it for granted oftentimes than not, love too, in the same vein), respect(this can never be overemphasized), some level of emotional maturity(very important), sense of commitment & responsibility(almost same context with emotional maturity), ofcourse I won't forget excellent communication with God, and with each other.. Lemme jus stop there

I must say nice one franchasng, your authenticity is incredible

Gvnl, jaxxy, Adinije, gabicon, justhairs, Joejonah, femi4, Juliearth, Belexy95, franchasng Chukwuzobam89, lucky4west, Joydan95, DedeNkem, y'all have said it all.. Thanks for y'all profound inputs, it is indeed refreshing to read.

Young man, can you listen to yourself at all? Shorii you're not confused nnkankan, I feel sey na ment

So you know hell hath no fury like a woman scorned but na still you wey go carry Bazooka fire am for your leg, med oo

ImaIma1:
The best thing is for the fiancee to avoid going to visit the woman except with her man. What is she looking for?

But some women can complain sha. I remember my friends in secondary school. Their grandma (father's side) came to spend hols with them. The first day they made eba for her, the woman complained that it was too soft.

The second day, she complained that it was too strong. On the 3rd day, the girls boiled water and put the garri, bowl and turning stick and went to grandma "grandma abeg come and turn your eba" . The womam shock but she understood them perfectly.

Not everyone can stomach all that kind of wahala. Imagine they did that to their grandma. One MIL cannot come and stress them unnecessarily.

Yes o my dear, I love your friends dem way ooo.. Some women are like that, if I come across them, I go jus dey my dey.. I cannot comman kee myself oo

Your mum should be more bothered that she has 6 children right under her roof there and none of them could assist her with laundry but nooo she'd rather look for faults in your fiancèe and then tell you how she isn't the one for you

Omolomo went the first time, helped her with the laundry, even stood while washing, as per wife material 1000yards Mama still talk sey she no wash am well (to her own standard).. Sisi Iyawo decided to visit Mama again, this time alone so she can bond well with her dear Iya oko but she "apparently" forgot her "home training" at home and Iya oko isn't having all of that.. Matter don turn to "she DISRESPECT me ALOT" na wa ooo.. Naim be sey, in future, if something as little as not having same views with Mama, wahala go shele.. Today, your wife offended me o, tomorrow your wife offended me sha, next tomorrow your wife offended me ni, everyday your wife offended me ni sha but don't tell her o, she must find out on her own and apologize to me.. Edakun werriz the peace tori oloun smh I don't envy you at all at all.. Waiiit for the one that will pass all Mama's tests you hear, just don't be tired of waiting.

mkpologwu:
Thank your stars you didn't have me when I was younger. My useless friends those days dey go house to house to beat up big sisters who acted tough. We only loved and listened to those big sisters who were soft with us.

Bottom line is, some teens do better when consistently approached in a soft and delicate manner. Try being tough and loose it all.

Haha youdonmeannit, so you do follow them to beat up y'all big sisters? Kaiii una dey brutal o, where una dey get dah kain morale lol.. I wasn't tough o, I did overlook alot of stuff, I still do.. Infact I dey unpredictable, no be everyday I dey reason pesin mess^up.. Motto be sey "as you dey misbehave wen everywhere don green, soffry dey do am make e for no red for you"

Lmaoooo pesin don turn am to dating thread, im no even specify weda na lepa or orobo

OP na only dem dem fit answer you o.. You sef don talk wetin you dey find for dem body na, las las you can't eat your cake and have it sha

lecturer50:
Please house I need an advice.

Ever since I got a federal government job,

my relatives have been disturbing me for money.

There must always be an issue that involves money which they want me to solve.

Recently, my mom become sick.

They are threatening me that I would be held responsible if my mom dies,if I don't make sure she is cured.

But I have taken her to hospitals, and she is trying to recover.

I do this whenever I visit home since I am working in a state far from home.

Her health challenge is due to old age.

But today my uncle called me that I should resign, get back to the village and personally take care of my mom,

failure of which,if she dies, the whole family would hold me responsible for choosing job over my mom.

Can you imagine resigning your federal job to get to the village and start staying?

The calls, the demands, the attacks are getting too much for me.

Please should I just switch off my phone so that no one can contact me?

I just need advice?

Look dear, don't ever give in to the call to resign.. Even your ailing mum wouldn't urge you to do that, alwayss those onkuu agbayas ati awon ebi alainironu

You & your siblings should try and get a caregiver for mama, that way you're sure your mum is well taken care of.. Keep constant communication going.. Travel home anytime you can, same with your siblings, spend time with mama.. Orrr better still bring mama to yours, get a help that will assist mama all the time.. Mama can even be rotating from one of your siblings house to the another, whichever, y'all need to talk about it

Preferably, if mama can come stay with you or any of your siblings, you'd have taken away that power/right those relatives feel they have, they'll be sooo pissed haha I'll pay to see their reaction lol jk.. In the meantime, for you to have peace of mind, I suggest you change your line.. Only mama & her caregiver should know about it and make it clear that on no account should they give it out to anybody without your consent.

EmGeee:
Thanks... not necessarily severing ties, just so he doesn't feel committed to me. It's been on his own terms ever since, he calls when he wants and comes around when he feels like. I already let go and stopped calling him, last time he called after a week distance, I told him I traveled to Villa he said I didn't tell him I didn't reply he kept repeating it (in my mind I was like 'what d'y care) just want us to respect each other

Okayy, I get you.. Act like you don't see that "commitment" he's throwing around, mixed signals.. Regard him as an acquaintance, just don't catch feelings.. Draw that invisible line in your mind, you can decide not to be rude but then you owe him no explanation whatsoever.

Hmm I don't really see any issue here.. Do you intend to severe ties with him permanently? Cos I just feel he randomly calls you just to check up on you, platonic level..

I get that so many people are not cool with being just friends with someone they wanna be more than friends with, yeah it's like emotional torture to some.. If that's how it is for you which I guess it is, you can just tell him that "you can't really deal with him constantly checking up on you, things have obviously gotten really awkward between you too ever since y'all found out about the age gap, you can already tell it won't work out for y'all in the long run so this is you subtly telling him that it's totally okay, there's no bad blood whatsoever but for the respect you both have for each other, you feel these things ought to be clarified sooner than later so you both don't keep stalling"

You could talk to him over the phone or chat him up, if you can't deal with meeting him in person.. Meeting him in person will actually make things more complicated and super a w k w a r d, you should either call orrr better still chat him up if his voice is something that really gets you giddy.. I hope this helps.

So sad.. May your soul rest in perfect peace, Comrade Yinka Odumakin.

Shellsploit:
Removing fuse from my community transformer at night. The spark from the copper used as fuse tickles my fancy.

Lmaoo eyin ika

Well, it depends on who got him angry and why(what the person/group of people did)

If he's angry at me, probably I must've faulted in a way, I'll apologize and promise not to get him all riled up that way again.. No be pesin wey dey quick vex laidat, so it must've really gotten to him perhaps I'd struck a nerve.. I'll give him some time, a very cool smoothie/fruit juice could help so I go sharpally run am.. Apologize again and offer him a sip to calm his "narves", it works like magic.. He'll ask if I'd like to join him, in turn I'll ask if he has forgiven me with all his heart, ofcourse he'll say "dah thing pain me o but it's okay now", I'll then pick my own smoothie/fruit juice and appreciate him with a thank you hug which will transform to a full-blown kiss lol.. Him: "It's alright but don't do it again okayyy?" Me: "okay honey" case closed

If na dah time wey I still dey with my ex eh, to apologize na wahala oo.. Before you talk sor... im don leave you commot go outside.. He hates "sorry", im no dey take ear hear am & im no dey tell pesin.. So if im vex (weda na me cause am or na another pesin), I go soffry go dey my dey until im don ready to talk.. If I no see am 3/4hrs, I cook I chop, cover im own til im come back.. we rugged am laidat 3yrs til I see say na to find my way sure pass lol.

Good that they later had it figured out.. Lack of trust yeah but that's not even why I'm concerned, imagine how scared their son was.. I fear if the grandparents weren't there, it could've escalated really bad.. The child was uncertain of what the outcome would be if he told them himself(in the heat of the moment), I think they should work on how they relate with each other first & then with their children.

BeautyO:
Why do I find this post funny and the Op immature?...

Ofcourse, he is grossly immature.. Same with other guys/men who go into relationships or propose love to ladies SOLELY because of their physical features & vice versa too.. I only see misplaced priorities but you lots think y'all are very wise lol

Lmaoooo you and the girl caressing your beards, both of you, infact "the two both of you" haha lol aswear una be real case study

Hard guy hard guy, wan geh touch your bearbear small, you sharpally conform.. Mr. Fantastic, Mr. Romantic, Mr. Melodyyy(one Sunny Neji's song comes to mind, humming lol)

When you initially refused to jejely come down & look for another bus/shuttle, baba na anything you see you go collect even if na ifoju cos na you first find trouble, some go insult you die(trobuu dey sleep, yanga go wake am).. As for the girl smh, that was totally uncalled for, I meann stroking a stranger's beard just cos he was in their space, e never reach lyk dat abeg, e no suppose at all at all.

I see obsession cos what if it was another pupil,(not the finest of them & not one of your Best 4 either), would you be as worried as you are now or will it be no cause for alarm?

Anyways, as Wittyglam suggested, you can approach the teacher if you so wish.. Tell him that you noticed some of your pupils do come by his class pretty often and they don't really give explanations as to why they go there & what they do esp during lesson hours so as their class teacher, you thought it wise to meet with him and ask, perhaps he tutors them in some subjects, you sincerely want to know so you could help adjust their timetable to suit them better cos you want nothing but the best for them(fullstop).. He'll tell you, just don't make it seem like you're a monitoring spirit or overly obsessed cos you already sound like it.

Don't be in a haste to ditch your current job o.. It's not alwayss greener on the other side, do your due diligence before making such a critical decision.. A bird in hand is better than 2 in the bushes, you can learn how to drive during your leisure time & weekends if you like.. Just don't quit your job yet until you've got another..

I know the cost of living is very high presently, talk about feeding, rent, basic utilities, miscellaneous maybe tfare to work and sch fees for your children but 85k/monthly isn't sooo bad esp if you're paid as at when due.. You & your wife should sit and draft out y'all monthly budget, that way you can both monitor y'all expenses.. Cut down on all excesses as well, I know that some unplanned expenses may come up i.e medical bills, fittings & repair but let's work on the planned first.. It would be nice if your wife can also help out in any way, she could start little.. I believe all will be well soon

SocialJustice:
Which station is currently airing Courage the cowardly Dog?

Cartoon Network (CN), as at wayyy back 2012.. Presently, I'm not so sure but you may still check.

SocialJustice:
Regular Show, Adventure Time and The Amazing World of Gumball does it for me.

Yeah.. Add that to Total Drama Island, Courage the cowardly dog, Ballerina(not Angelina), Throne of Elves, Onward, Big Hero 6, Zootopia & Tangled.

Try to smile more dear, it will sure look beautiful on you.. If you're always frowning and squeezing your face, wrinkles go quick come o lol but seriously stretch those facial muscles a bit, yesss babygirl smile for meee, for us, for youu.. Just try okayy, I promise you'll feel better.

I see that on the 1st page, Femi8586 has already said it all hence I didn't see any reason to repeat same thing again.

Tbvh, it has a whole lot to do with the individual, educated or not.

Odabi pe won fete sha

When I was given an injection, it was a 3days something so this was like the last day I was supposed to come for it(me wey no kuku like injection before o). The nurse was about to chook me then she saw my red swollen butt skin(o ti wu bi kini), she then felt it and said "Aunty you're not pressing this thing, if you don't press it, it will be strong, see now it has swollen, you should be massaging it with ori or tell somebody to help you, you hear?".. Me: Okay sissy nurse, tenkiu o

When I was shaved on the delivery table, omooo see as I dey use hand close am, I was so restless ehn I couldn't even keep my legs still.. Sissy nurse: "see eh if you deenur stay well, this blade will jus cut you now".. Some hours later, I had pushed out baby U, doctor nau said he has to put his hand inside me to remove the blood clots, you need to see the shock in my eyes I said "ahhh no o abeg, you wan kee me? How can you say you wantu put this whole hand inside there", the nurses were like "yes they do it, it's normal & very advisable" omoo no be small thing lol

Just passing by..

When I read your title, I thought it was about you taking in a woman as a wife, probably you both had children together and she kicked the bucket without consummating your union then yes you'll be urged to marry her corpse and you should if not for anything but for the children involved..

In your case, no.. It is quite unfortunate that this happened.. I do hope your boss is aware, he should avail himself for her burial ceremony, she did him a great favour that cannot be overemphasized.. Even one's blood may decide not to give a kidney, but she did, blood is infact not thicker than water, some are ready to milk you dry but will be MIA when you need them the most(not relating to your story but yet it's a bit mind boggling)

I digressed, okay back to you.. Your boss may be rich, yeah he could've easily arranged for an organ transplant with a chemically preserved kidney in the hospital or wherever but he got this on a platter of gold, if I may say.. I won't be so surprised if he made a truckload of promises to the girl, maybe he didn't force/threaten her who knows.. Her parents finally giving in to her plea is something that shouldn't happen on grounds that they're not okay with it but well I cannot really blame them, a person will always do what he or she wants to do anyway

Make arrangements for her body to be sent home, assist them in the burial preparations in whatever possible way.. I know that they're going through a lot of pain rn, regrets, anger and all.. I wish I could say it'll only get better but it doesn't really.. I won't say you shouldn't attend her burial, I'll however tell you what will happen if you don't yeah, it'll raise eyebrows and potentially create more problems for you as they'll start having strong doubts about your good towards them.. You can go with your family, village elders if possible.. Your boss should stand alongside you & your family, he could also go with his family, his two sons preferably.. She may or may not have died from anything related to the kidney transplant but it's only right for them to be present, she was his staff afterall, it shows their care & concern towards the deceased & her family.. Compensation could also be deliberated upon as well, brand it under care & concern, just to genuinely help out..

May her soul rest in peace and may God comfort & strengthen her family.. Amen.

We'd see about that..

Some weeks back, you lots didn't even bat an eyelid to export your food items to Niger, Benin republic & Cameroon, y'all didn't even care if you got money value for the goods(ofcourse they could even have them free just as long as it doesn't get to Southern Nigeria) but what happened? When microorganisms had started performing wonders lol, most of those food items are very perishable, Una talk sey road no good to come South.. Traders had to go to Cameroon to buy tomatoes and the sorts, sold them at high prices.. Those who couldn't afford it, found alternatives/substitutes, some got used to the fact that it wasn't readily available at that time & learnt to cook and do without them.. God pass una, we'll definitely survive as always

Look who y'all are gonna vote in for a pot of soup/stew, come 2023.. Na im still dey shout One Naijiria for una, One Nigeria indeed.. It's a shame.

Lmaoooo love been dey shack una true true plus omode lo n shey iwo ati Betty nigbayen