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Talk2Suzan:
Some of the biggest lessons learned in the corporate world-
1. Use your brain at work and emotions at home

2. Nobody is your friend at the workplace. Trust me!

3. If you can solve every problem of the management, they will always be by your side.

4. Never write/reply to any mail when you’re frustrated.

5. Your boss could be friendly, but at the end of the day, he is not your friend. Respect boundaries.

6. The relationship between Employer and employee is solely based on revenue.

7. Don't fear failure and rejection.

8. Follow up is the key to everything.

9. You'll meet some amazing people; learn from them.

10. Feed your subordinates with your maximum knowledge, encourage them, cheer them and eventually when they make breakthroughs, celebrate with them. The best thing you can give to a person is your knowledge.

11. Focus on developing and using your strengths.

12. Work until the work is done.

13. Learn how to change the situation, not the person.

14. Effective communication, negotiation and leadership skills are a must to learn as early in your life as possible.

15. You’ll find a colleague in every office who keeps bitching about everyone. Find that him/her at the earliest and stay a mile away

16. People are nice to you only when you are influential or they need you. Once the need or influence changes, so does their behavior.

17. Shit travels up. Never complain about your superiors to peers or staff.

18. In any company, everybody is a salesperson. If you are not selling anything, you are an expense.

19. Everyone is replaceable and you will eventually be replaced.

20. When you are the star performer, most mistakes are forgiven.

21. Stay out of comparisons, you are unique.

22. Human Resources is there to protect the company, not you.

23. You are never the smartest one in the room.

#Mindset_Therapy
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why don't you put all that to be entrepreneurial .

Parachoco:
The way some of una dey always talk eh

All the Financial experts/institutions wey don talk say the Naira go stable at 600+ are wrong, nah only you right

What a 🤡

why are Africans proud to accept anything the white man says about us to be final?

Why do we wait for them to talk about us.?

Why do we think we should accept what they tell us to do?

And when the african man gives his opinion about his views on what the west talked about, we as fellow Africans debunk him and call him names like clowns.

Okortor:
It ended well, had romance with my manager for months which the MD got to later find out and publicly casted us during general meeting, she said I've got such effrontery and no wonder my boss favours me, threatened to inform her husband and my wife because we were both young couples and got married on the job. After the meeting, we went to meet d hr, tendered our resignations with immediate effect forfeiting one month salary in lieu.

Next day, she called us and insisted she won't be accepting our resignation, and many other talk, we sha continued working and the rest na history.

However we have both left the company but still continued our romance and now working with a multinational company as at date.

why don't you marry her

TastyFriedPussy:
You see those courses i bolded? i would not advise anybody to study those courses in any Nigerian university even a private university because it is a waste of money.. Na nonsense and outdated things you go learn... If you can't go abroad to learn those things, just devot you time to learn them on udemy or better still, look for another course to study in Nigeria....Studying any thing computer related in Nigeria is a waste of time and studying it in a private Nigerian university is a wast of both time and money

You may say that but it gives you the edge to go abroad for studies. Also, gives you the edge to apply for jobs abroad..
I have a friend who did computer science. Nigeria did not give him a job. But he went to the UK and in 2 months he got a job in that same computer related field. My guy, if your own did not work for you, that is you.. it does work for others.

Sitwalkstand:
I dont know of now but 25 years ago when i did my undergrad

Private universities were dumping grounds for most rich kids who could not pass jamb

or people denied admissions.

While we commend private investors in Education.

Our curriculum must go beyond the copy and paste system of education

When you school abroad you will know that you went to school

The room for copy ad paste research work is totally blocked

is it the same abroad we hear people getting fake nursing certificates or schools setup to collect tuition from students and after 2 to 4 years, the govt comes in to check those schools.. when you go to uk, you will see schools opening up branch campus in small complex office buildings...

Kellie069:
Very boring name. Oga Maduka, nobody de follow u drag your school. Just imagine someone saying “ m a student of Maduka university.

I know you will be proud to say " I am a student of George Washington University"

kaludestiny10:
Na woman post that image o.

the first image looked like a man's gbola .. second image looked to me like woman pekus..

Shalommy:
Nl guys with STI.. yucks!.. Dirty guyz everywhere. Tueeehhh...

lol! Funny enough, you women have it alot. You all be wearing tight wears, panties etc. Some of you, don't even know is in your ass crack..

Akatta:
There's a solution to your problem

I am good.. got no problems..just saying 1 medicine has the cure to many virus and bacterial disease

ebenezary:
This is my 3 to 4 years with solar and l never regret it, and at least l dey enjoy 20+ electricity daily

do you have the buyers contact, website etc.

slawomir:
Damnnn niggar

Nord vpn

How did you get "paid Nord vpn".. I need to use it for iptv . My isp keeps blocking me off from installing online streaming cable tv..

stevestifler:
I had multiple girlfriends despite the fact that i was broke nd unemployed. Being broke will force you to use other gifts you have (eg Confidence) to win a girl over, else konji will kill you

that definition of doubledating is actually wrong.. many Nigerians use that term "double dating" wrongfully. It actually means having your friend, colleague come with their date as well as you with your date to go out. Double dating isn't having multiple partners.

stevestifler:
I was unemployed for more than a year after MSc but I was doubledating even then.. Till got a job, switched jobs and got married.
Now I'm retired and focusing only on my wife.

what do you mean by doubledating?

Supreme145:
I got a job late last year in a Nigerian startup firm as a web designer on a 150k salary. We initially had a bit of back and forth cos the boss wanted me to work onsite but I insisted on working remotely because I couldn't afford relocation to Lagos at that time.

Over six months down the line and it has been a terrible experience. I've been paid just twice in 6 months, and we have not been working since the middle of last month due to a scarcity of funds. I wonder what would have been my fate if I had relocated to Lagos.

Some months we work for just two weeks or thereabout, I work beyond office hours and even during weekends. There was a period my boss would keep me awake at midnight working. I just had to comply since I haven't been able to get another job and the freelance market isn't smiling either. I'm constantly broke for someone that is supposed to be earning 150k, even though it's not much but it should be able to sustain a single guy.

I'm really confused at this point cos I feel very much unemployed. My boss would read my messages on WhatsApp and lock up. I've asked him to update me on what's going on because I feel jobless and left in the cold. He viewed the message without a reply. I don't know how to proceed from this point and would appreciate any advice now because I am slowly sliding into depression.

let me see the website you have created and what software do you use in the website creation.

caandi:
Hmmm there’s sense in what you’ve said thus far
They’re playing politics wiv us
Malaysia cocoa?
But what do you also have to say for some of our people esp the very wealthy ones that import everything even spoon they use in their houses
Pampers and biscuits for their children
Even ordinary biscuit for their kids they won’t buy made in Nigeria own

we have been white wash to think that way. John Henry Clarke; an african American said, we regained our independence by mimicking European government systems and no african nation would ever succeed by such system. He is right. We all wear suit, bought things from the western nation, spoke English; neglecting our language and he who speaks yoruba, is seem as a "local man" while he who speaks oyibo is a better person. Why is it, when you tell an American to buy a Toyota , he will tell you "No, I want to buy a ford". But he knows that the Toyota certainly would last longer than his ford,yet still goes ahead to buy a Ford. This is because, when America got her independence from the British. They kicked away British laws, adopted their own "American english", embrace their own property and intellects.
In Nigeria, we still apply the British common laws, our lawyers wear the wigs and are happy. All these are British traditions.
Ali Mazrui, a great Kenyan academic professor said, Africa is the only continent in the world that consumes what it does not produce and produce what it does not consume..
Kenyans novelist "ngugi wa thiongo", said africa needs to decolonize the mind which is a pre requisite for the "total liberation" of the african people.

OChimex:
Mr make I hear word. Una too dey shout racism. I get friends scattered all over the United States, Maine, Philadelphia, Arizona, ATL, California, New York, Colorado, New Mexico, Houston, name it. They might not smile at you but, in every state of America, color will not stop you from anything. And nobody will discriminate you. Just look good, be of good behavior, law abiding, confident.
Even if the people aren’t warm, just mind your business and dey your dey, nobody will harass you because of color.
Besides humans will exhibit characters like frustrations, meanness, rude, arrogant, but it has nothing to do with color, it’s just human character.
I have zero expectations from anybody. So nobody owes me nothing.
In fact I dey live in one of the Sundown towns.

lol.. keep hiding. You know what happens when the sun goes down.

OChimex:
Bro I disagree with you. I dey US, and my city is like 99 percent white. Let me tell you, first, I have been treated better by whites than I was treated by blacks in Nigeria.
White people smile at me opens and hold doors for me at malls etc. bad people dey everywhere oo, but them dey small, still them no bad reach Nigerian kind of badness oo.
On the trade, una go think say Nigeria well, until you leave Nigeria, then you will understand how mad they are as humans and as a country. Everything is wrong with Nigeria. Travel out go live for America one day you go understand.
Nigeria as a country does everything wrong, lawless disorganized country. They don’t follow protocol. Everything is wrong with Nigeria as a country.
And when you portray your country as such, o boy, people no go trust you. Them go dey distance themselves from you.
Nigeria is like a mad man.

You be uncle Tom.
Why don't you go to a sun down town and we shall see who will smile at you..

caandi:
so in essence you’re saying if we don’t import their processed foods that they will sanction us?
Im not sure about this info you’re giving me
If it’s rules like accepting gay gay marriage I can understand
But food??

You really don't know who they are. Many of us are happy when we see them and smile to them but whenever they see you, they feel disgusted by your existence. You must learn to think outside the box. When they ban your food or try to stall the process of your food coming in, they leave you with poverty, unemployment, low foreign exchange etc and when your government is asking for aid, then they begin to control and manipulate you in whatever resources they can.

They will rather buy farm produce in South America, or Asia than to buy from Africa. I have seen a factory in the western nation buy cocoa from Malaysia when we have abundance of cocoa in cote d'ivoire, Ghana and Nigeria. Tell me, do you know malaysia to produce cocoa? I have seen a Dutch company buy our cocoa and then rebranding it to theirs, selling it to another western country.

They will reject your own and tell you to accept theirs so that you can be dying in your youth and when you fall sick, you will begin to buy medication from them.

Dooovouvoo

woginid967:
It is clear you're a simp.

Pls get to meet mature guys who are financially strong and mentally stronger.... They'll teach you how to be a real man.

You should have made love to her long agao...... While giving her money and pampering her. She will forget any useless principle and become your sworn woman.


Watch puoorn with her and make out wit her. Then when she is so wet and Hot.... Rush and tell her you are late for a meeting. She go wan craze.... Then chat her up with sex chat later and thank her for being yours. Send her some cash.

Then tell her you really want to make her feel like a woman and take her on adventures. Describe it sexually to her.... That's all.

Then go out and buy alomo for yaself, buy pineapple 🍍 for her too it will make her veryyyyyy wet.

The watch 365 days movie together or any 18++ Filipino movie. She will not know when she is riding you and screaming your name. Use a condom if your pull out game is weak. But you should last for more than 2hrs inside her while changing styles at interval.

Get an alpha male to mentor you, so you dont shame your generation.

I believe you are the alphaSimp for showering a woman with money

caandi:
how did they impose Gm foods on us? Lmao
It’s a choice now

You are not watching the news.. yes it is a choice but when the african leaders are invited and you say you won't come, they will tell you, there will be consequences.
Yes it is a choice, but when you are asked to do something your constitution, religion, traditional values does not conform with it, they will impose sanctions, cutting aid for refusing to heed to their commands.

It is very sad how they can ban our food but they impose GM foods( genetically modified foods) on us, they also impose foods which are high fructose corn syrup food on us. How can you boil corn and in 10 to 15mins,that corn is cooked?
How can you eat a fruit and in the fruit, there are no seeds in it?
How can you eat a fruit, and when you dispose that fruit on the ground, 5 mins later , no single ant or flies are on that fruit.
How can you eat a fruit and in the first bite of the fruit, it feels like you are biting plastic and your mind tells you, this is different.
When you look at their eggs, you will see that it is all white and not brown. This is because they practice inorganic farming practices. Those who practice poultry farming, when you feed your chicken on organic matters, you will get organic eggs.

In Africa, we may have failed to apply some certain standard in farming process but I can say that our produce still come out natural and organic but the west are known to manufacture food that are making us dig our graves too early.

When a man is successful or has wealth, his resources is for the family. But when a woman is successful, she only thinks of been independent off men

Blossommind:
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Worse thing is that this kind of fall does not give any room to defend yourself. You just fall helplessly like a bag of fufu and land anyhow. Poor me! This hapoened after 10am today.

As it were, that was the end of the work and am back in the house now licking my wounds. Since the job is at personal-risk, whatever you see, you take. Nobody to complain to for sympathy.

Meanwhile, my second child is less than a month old. Praise be to God for not letting this moment of joy turn to tears, assuming injuries required medical emergency or even death.

To be a man is not a day job. It takes a lot to build to become a man especially, financially.

Right here at home, back/body pain, swollen head with serious headache (as I hit on the wall), dislocated joints (right wrist) and sharp pain around the left part of the waist, all going on around me.

"Brother Bernard" happened to me.

Africa, our problems are real. I understand the suffering but why do we still end up putting ourselves in a sorry state.

Anything above 4ft ,it is necessary we apply safety measures. If you are painting a 1-storey building or something high, how can you use a ladder knowing you will spend more time in it?

Why can't we rent scaffolders, lanyards, scissor lift proper Personal protective equipment (PPE).

We kill ourselves in this country.. we really do..

Now you have hurt yourself, no insurance , no govt support, no aid from anyone.

Wake-up Africa.

Ps: so sorry you had this accident

kokorokoman:
it was a friend's birthday so we decided to chill at kokrobite beach.
it was all fun from playing ghana vs naija football against the ghana guys we met at the beach to swimming and feeding our eyes with the nourishing and volumptously mighty ghana yanshes been thrown at our faces every now and then.

while the fun was going on there came these three beautiful girls of between 19 to 25 of age, all dressed in bikini and having fun all alone without any man close to them, my guy, the celebrant approached them and got talking with the most beautiful of them, dark in complexion with beautiful brown big and sexy eyes, as if that's not enough she come get big breast and yansh join.
my guy collected her number and left.

i went for the second girl, a bit fair in complexion, slim with beautiful perky boobs that was revealed in it's full glory because of the wetness of her bra.
we started vibing, she wanted to teach me how to swim so we both went into the water side holding hands.
once i saw this guy running towards u, first i thought he was one of the guys we were playing football together but before i could say jack, he has pressed my neck and plummeted me deep into the sea.
few secs into the water i don already dey see the backyard of heaven, i had to use my last strength to come back up to the surface of the water and held the guy, asking him why he wan to kill me, he started ranting that he will kill me and all sorts, i just wanted to know what i did wrong and he told me because i was holding and playing with a ghana girl.
jesu you mean you want to kill me because of woman i had to grip the the guy by his throat and people came around to untangle us, we dragged on for some time and he ran away threatening that he want to go call his squad.
funny enough i later realized the girl was a liberian and not even a ghanian.
since that experience and others i dey always dey on guard when i am with a ghana woman.

Ghana people.. their power is only in their country they find themselves in. Even at that, they are weak.

Where are the nigerian cultists in Italy? This is the time they need to use their connections to find the Italian man and do justice. Is it when it involves Nigerians, these weak cultists show muscle. We as Africans are failing . Africans only know when to come together if freedom is the agenda.

Creamypie:
If I be president, law will be amended that its death penalty for armed robbers, murderers and kidnappers, which will be carried out immediately after pronouncement, with the government-paid executioners Impatiently waiting outside court premises(their kidneys, liver, heart, lungs and pancreas will be preserved for transplant) then 50 years without option of fine for proven rapists, and swindlers/ fraudsters. 10 Years without option of fine for burglars. No dice. A friend of mine was kidnapped 4 years ago. He died of b.p just a few minutes after the kidnappers contacted his family. I Hate any person wey be say for him to continue living, others (innocents) must die

I fully understand you and I agree with you but sometimes there is reason death penalty is not issued out because there can be 1 innocent soul who could be found guilty and face death penalty despite him been innocent. A crime like what we have read here, this is where I can agree with you that he needs the death penalty.

GetSenseNow:
Rubbish talk. Have you tried buying land or renting a property in the East and you were refused?
My former landlord is a Yoruba man from Osun State.
My neighbour is a Yoruba man from Ogun State. If you have your money ready, an Igbo man will sell property or rent to you.
I've heard a few of you claim Igbos increase the cost of land to you guys because you're not Igbo and it makes me laugh. In every community, you can't expect to pay same amount for a property as an indigene would pay. In my village, for example, I could buy a property at ₦3M, you don't expect someone from the next village to buy that property at same amount, do you?

your argument does not make sense. This is discrimination.

kutashi:
Werey ni o!
So, if you died now, it's because of your father's sin! And all shortcomings in your life is as a result of your father's sin?
Why you people reason from your smelling anus?If you can mourn him, then you keep quiet! Must you comment?

the sins of thy father.

Jean-Bédel Bokassa of the central Africa republic amassed so many wealth from his country resources. A tyrant and Africas most dreaded dictatorship. He even had a bed of gold with diamonds decorated in his bedroom. This man later died and could not take his wealth with him.

Same as Sani abacha ,his wealth never went with him when he died.

Now, the sins of their father hunts the family. We are seeing abachas kid dying.

What will it profit you if you have all the wealth and you can't even enjoy it.

Boukassa had all the wealth when he was exiled and went to France, having 4 houses and a hotel. Even at that, he said he was tired of the cold and want to face justice and live a simple life as a citizen.. this he said in the court in bangui, central Africa republic.

arsenic33:
I've been through this before. I used drugs but it'd not work well.
Palm wine was recommended. Immediately I took the palmwine, within minutes the pains and itches stopped. Next day everything dried up and I was able to bath.
I recommend palm with my full chest for immediate relief.

Give him palm wine and thank me later

what do palm wine do to the body if you have chicken pox