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CelebritiesRe: Davido To Move To His House With An Elevator In Banana Island by 360command: 6:10pm On May 29, 2020
New house, new girls to fvck
CelebritiesRe: E-Money Sends N500k To An Aged Woman From Anambra After Complaining Of Hunger by 360command: 3:58am On May 29, 2020
Onyi22:
One night with this guy will change my life for Good, money and wealth are best friends
stupid..you think everything is about a55 sampling
CrimeRe: White Woman Calls Police On A Black Man Over Dog Leash In New York (Video) by 360command: 1:32pm On May 26, 2020
sweetmelanin:
No surprise here...
..and these are the same dirty white women African American men will willingly choose over their fellow black women.
not just African American, the Africans will do the same.
TravelRe: Nigerian Girl In Russia Talks About Life In Russia, Racism And What Life Is Like by 360command: 2:21pm On May 25, 2020
I think this guy needs to go more in his boundaries..the school life videos needs to be less and he should begin to go in the streets so as he can capture wider audience.
CelebritiesRe: Anita Joseph Twerks On Her Husband, Fisayo Michael by 360command: 4:04pm On May 21, 2020
Ugly ass dirty fvck
FamilyRe: Are Best Friends Worth It? Mine Abandoned Me In The Streets Of A Foreign Country by 360command: 9:13pm On May 18, 2020
slyfox35:
Best friends or closest friends as some people term it is quite normal in the life of 80% of world population, I had one too.

We grew up as teens together, matured as adults together, he came to our house always and ate all his meals with us. My mom was really nice to him when she was alive. He wore my clothes and never returned them. I did not ask because my parents always provided for me although they were average citizens.

Then the worst thing in my life happened. I lost both my parents within the space of four years.
Things turned downhill for me (orphans do suffer a lot.. Too much suffering for you to believe there is even God in heaven who takes care of the fatherless and motherless).

My friend travelled to an African country. He kept telling me to come over there to work that things are better there. I kept declining but after a year of constant pressure, I decided to man up, packed my bags and travelled to meet him.

Guess what? I did not stay up to 5 days with him!!!

His attitude changed by the second day, he yells at me at every given opportunity, from his best friend, I turned to his boy, the heat he was given me was so bad that when he leaves the house and he comes back, I get scared just by hearing his footsteps. I virtually turned to a nonentity to him. I had no money on me because the little I had left, he collected it when I arrived. I knew no one, I felt so miserable and alone and I started regretting why I left Nigeria.

On the fifth day ,I woke up early in the morning and shook him up. I don’t know what got into me (but I am glad it did), I told him I can’t stay with him anymore and I want to leave. He did not even feel bad about this, he did not think of the fact that I know nothing and nowhere in this country. He let me go.

I packed my bag amid tears and went into the street. Mind you, I had no one to call back in Nigeria... It was tough on me but as a naija guy and as God will have it, I did not spend even a night on the streets. I was shocked that a total stranger took me in, clothed and fed me. He taught me everything he knows. I worked for 6 months and was able to make 2 million Naira. This was like a dream to me (If you get money ehn, to praise God Dey sweet o)

I came back to Nigeria, rented an apartment, furnished it and continued working from here.

This so called best friend of mine saw my posts and pictures on Facebook and video called me to check on me (I guess his eyes did not believe what he was seeing) he asked me if I am in a hotel, I said no, I am in my apartment. He was shocked (me I nor keep any grudge against you) he told me he was coming to Nigeria and that I should please forgive him and forget everything that happened. I told him I can forgive but can’t forget.

What surprised me most are this exact words he said “my guy, if I come, na your house I go relax first abeg”

Now my fellow Nairalanders, I am asking, how should I go about this?

I have forgiven him but should I allow him into my home?
a popular ivorian saying says, to be fooled once is ok but to be fool twice, you are a fool for life.
RomanceRe: What Happened Between My Girlfriend And My Mother by 360command: 6:09pm On May 18, 2020
funkmrflexx:
We Have Been Dating For 1 Year and 6 months now. I’ve met her parents, we wanted to get married last year but her dad told me to wait till she finishes school which is supposed to be next year. I’m 25 years old and she’s 22 .

I live alone in the city while my mom lives in the village. My younger sister who I’m sponsoring through school sometimes comes to my place during holidays and weekends. My girlfriend practically lives with me because she comes from a type of an Abusive family. So she lives with me and I even assist her with school fees and house rents sometimes. I’ve spent even more than her father for her school.

Everyone In my family knows her and she’s a very wonderful girl. Typical wife material. She supports me every time even when I’m broke. I’m not the type of guy that dates a lot of girls . I don’t even cheat on her. Since I met her I’ve done away with a lot of ladies. I’m 100% committed to the relationship

But the problem is that she Has very bad anger issues. I mean she can destroy your property when she’s angry and I’m the quiet type. I don’t like hitting a lady execpt once in a while a general brain resetting slap. When she starts she doesn’t listen to anyone. Not me, not even her parents. So anytime she’s angry like this I will just find a way to make her laugh. Both of you can just be eating and she will get angry if you ate the fleshy part of the meat and left oily part for her (we have quarreled because of that I mean serious quarrel) . Sometimes I get tired of the whole situation. At the end even when she’s wrong I’ll let her for peace to reign. So I try to manage the anger at home so it shouldn’t go out

So we went to visit my mom in the yesterday. Because of curfew we slept over. So my mom bought us mangos this morning and told us to carry.

My girlfriend then said she doesn’t like mango that if I want to eat my mango I should carry it myself. Then my mom (she is the type that always shouts at every body. The real wahala woman) told her that if she can’t carry the mango then she should just put it on my head for me to carry na (If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na).

That was the only thing my mom said. Then she sparked. Started shouting at my mom. That she should stop talking to her like that, that she doesn’t like it. In fact she’s going home. So she carried her bag and started going home. Every one in the compound started saying it’s ok (Na dat thing why dem tell u Dey make u Dey vex so) she was still shouting. I was even try to calm her down but no way. She was still shouting. Even my sister who had never seen her angry before became angry (na so you b? She said). I was really disappointed In her

The issue is what even made me angry is how she reacted. If she didn’t like what my mom said made her angry. At least she should have waited till we got home (this was the first time we were both sleeping over) then she would tell me. Or she could have called my sister and told her what my mom said. After all the fracas, she went inside the room till we left. I just told everybody to just leave her.

So when we got home I told her what she did was wrong that she shouldn’t have reacted like that. Na there war start. She started yelling and shouting at me that if my mom talks to everyone like that she won’t take it (my plan was to tell her that she should apologize to her. Because my mom already apologized that she won’t talk to her again like that. Which I know she will o . So we can just forget about the issue. But she never accepts she’s wrong ) She said I took her to my village to intimidate her in front of my family people, I was really angry and called her uncle and told him what happened. He said there was nothing wrong with what my mom told her (If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na) and that he would talk to her .

I even scolded my mom before I left that I didn’t like what she said what she did that’s she was just causing issue. My girlfriend said when my mom said the word (If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na) that I should have immediately rebuked my mom. But me sef no see anything wrong with what my mom said( If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na)

I just Dey follow her uncle advise and leave her be until she calms down and I talk to her

So my people what’s offensive in this word? If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na)

But this her attitude don tire me. Break up is not on the card for me at least not yet. She always thinks that they are other guys out there because she has a lot of toasters but I know they can’t do quarter of what I’m doing for her. In this modern time it’s difficult to see a guy who will allow his girlfriend stay with him thereby losing his freedom to do certain things. A guy who doesn’t cheat, a guy who takes care of her does everything for her .

I just think the things she went through in her family is affecting her physiological. And sometimes when I think about leaving her I feel pity because she can’t go back to her parents house.
pity , small boys are young.
CrimeRe: Ghanaian Prostitute Pushes Client To Death From Hotel Window (Video) by 360command: 11:05pm On May 13, 2020
Asokwa District Police Command.. I was there..

I believe in Ghana police, they will do their job but one thing I can also beat my chest on is those prostitutes, dem must Bleep them.

Ghana police love women die..
CelebritiesRe: Which Celebrity's Death Pained You The Most? by 360command: 9:21pm On May 03, 2020
DJ arafat
HealthRe: Coronavirus: NCDC Fears Spread May Worsen As Lockdown Ends Today by 360command: 4:02pm On May 03, 2020
Millenniumlady:
I feel for the northern part though
the same way you feel for the northern part , the world feels for Africa. Instead of you to feel for the northern part, I will suggest you feel for Nigeria as a whole. Cause what will affect northern Nigeria, will also affect the entire Nigeria..
RomanceRe: Why Do Guys Lose Interest When A Lady Acts Interested In Them? by 360command: 4:59am On May 02, 2020
piamily:
Oh ! I get you now. So you’re saying Nigerian men really want ladies to play the hard to get very hard then. So why are they complaining. Well then I’ll keep playing it hard as usual since they think it was bread and butter they got in a platter of gold
The idiom, "platter of gold" is wrong. It is actually "on a silver platter".
CelebritiesRe: Mompha Flaunts His Rolls Royce Wraith Eagle VIII 2020 by 360command: 6:57pm On Apr 30, 2020
How do this guys make money
FamilyRe: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by 360command: 1:33am On Apr 28, 2020
Julietsim:
I thought married women who have experienced this will advise me but it is clear that it is only unmarried guys who are talking. Maybe I wasted my time coming to ask here. I have discussed it with him severally. His reply is "would you prefer I get it outside?. I cannot allow my husband to cheat. Because it hurts alot
I am married but I must say, your husband has the potential to cheat on you. You are an object of attraction and not a sex object.

Forget his words, you are his queen and he should treat you as an object of attraction. Never give your body to him like a sex object. He must respect you, he must earn it. Deny him sex, engage in other things like movies, board games, video games etc.. but also try to make him understand that it is his, it ain't running away but you cannot do it everyday..
CrimeRe: Cult Leader, Jboy, Killed In Cross River (Photos) by 360command: 9:02pm On Apr 22, 2020
Lagosfinder:
Cultists always end in prison or grave
some dey travel abroad living to tell the tales..
TravelRe: A-29 Super Tucano Aircraft For Nigeria Marks First Flight In Florida by 360command: 9:10pm On Apr 20, 2020
Top gun plane
TravelRe: US Shares Relief Materials To Nigerians In China Thrown Into The Streets by 360command: 6:15pm On Apr 09, 2020
GamalNasser:
I pity those who say they prefer the Chinese to Americans , give China the power America has today and it will send every black man into mines and plantation to work
and I pity you and your generation who believes that one slave master is better than the other slave master.. Africans, where is your sense of thinking?
PoliticsRe: COVID-19: Fire Service Fumigates Enugu Metropolis, Environs (Photos, Video) by 360command: 5:46am On Apr 03, 2020
If our govt take a day in a month to fumigate every areas, mosquitoes no go dey Nigeria
PoliticsRe: Trapped By Coronavirus, Nigeria’s Elite Faces Squalid Hospitals - Bloomberg by 360command: 6:26pm On Apr 02, 2020
MrStan11:
grin

We die here.
Brother corona abeg no kill us but teach us lesson
it needs to kill us to teach us lessons because if it does not, we will sit in a beer parlour and beat our chest saying Ebola come I no die, coronavirus come, I still no die.. this will make those politicians not do more in our health sector..
BusinessRe: Over N400k Got Debited From My Stanbic IBTC Account Overnight (Pics) by 360command: 11:36pm On Mar 29, 2020
don4real:
Talk wetin you know, which of the advance country banks?
Europe, America, Canada
BusinessRe: Over N400k Got Debited From My Stanbic IBTC Account Overnight (Pics) by 360command: 7:09pm On Mar 29, 2020
Very sad. If na advance country you dey, the bank go temporarily deposit your money come issue you a new debit card. Dem go tell you say e go take 2 months for them to investigate but the main thing be say that money wey dem don put for your account, na your money be that..

I know no why Nigeria banks no dey do this kain thing wey b say if them steal your money using digital means dem suppose pay you back. I believe say naija banks dey insured and by so doing, the insurance suppose pay...

Chale, I sad for my country.. I hope they find the thieves and your money should be paid back.
HealthRe: Covid-19: What Has The Global Pandemic Taught You? by 360command: 6:58pm On Mar 26, 2020
I have learnt that the plague that happened in Egypt can likely repeat itself and wipe out some of the human race.
PoliticsRe: Hope Uzodinma Procures Innoson Vehicles For 'Operation Search And Flush' In Imo by 360command: 6:54pm On Mar 26, 2020
Imagine innoson vehicles supplying the entire eastern region in every sector.. security, education, transportation(inter and intra),etc.. sincerely, this would boost the eastern region economy.. so as this can encourage entrepreneurs in the eastern region..if they can begin to conduct business within themselves and buy made in eastern products which would later transcend to other parts of Nigeria, west Africa Africa and the world.. this will be good..
HealthRe: COVID-19: Nigeria Confirms Five New Cases, Total Now 51 by 360command: 3:59am On Mar 26, 2020
What is the update on Atiku's son?
BusinessRe: For People Who Grew Up Poor And Eventually Escaped Poverty, Whats Your Story? by 360command: 3:52am On Mar 26, 2020
magicminister:
Man!!! It was rough!!!

Grew up in a ghetto in Lagos where we were oppressed by OPC everyday. There were public lynching and ethnic cleansing conducted by the OPC.

Then we were oppressed by the police. After OPC have had their way and killed whom they pleased, the police would extort us and beat us severely if you dared to oppose

Then there were the thieves that would raid every house in the ghetto. Robbing and raping and killing. Fortunately, we were never attacked by any of those but I saw it so many times that I got desensitized to the deaths and charred bodies that lined up the street everyday.

It wasn’t funny!
what area in Lagos are you talking about?
HealthRe: Coronavirus: Any Untold Story About Africa, Black Skin? (screenshots) by 360command: 12:28pm On Mar 10, 2020
2 reported cases in Burkina Faso.
HealthRe: Iran Reports 49 New Coronavirus Deaths, Highest Single-day Toll by 360command: 6:47am On Mar 09, 2020
Coronavirus,sars,flu, whooping cough all na d same respiratory disease..how come coronavirus dey kill men anyhow like this..
Science/TechnologyRe: Billion-year-old Chinese Seaweed Is Oldest Green Plant Fossil by 360command: 12:06pm On Feb 26, 2020
Can it cure coronavirus?
CrimeRe: A Man Saved From Being Robbed In Abule-Egba Lagos, Captured On CCTV by 360command: 11:30am On Feb 26, 2020
I will be coming with my liscence guns.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: How To Follow-Up On Job Applications by 360command: 8:20am On Feb 24, 2020
Let me tell you, as an employer, once you submit you application, it goes to the trash. You can follow it up from there.
CrimeRe: 17-Year-Old Girl Raped By 3 Guys, Aged 14, 16 And 24 by 360command: 11:04am On Feb 21, 2020
Send the animals to prisons.. rape cases is more than robbery cases in Nigeria but for some reason it Is not always reported and even though it is reported, it dies out due to bribery and corruption.

I will not be surprise if that 24 year old guy had harrass,violated and raped a woman before. Cause I know our police system lack database. Such can repeat it self but it will be good if they are locked up.

E better say make I kneel down beg to make love to my woman than for me to forcefully subdue my woman because say I wan lash.

We Africans are too emotional, a crime is committed why act emotional?
RomanceRe: Checking Her Phone Has Cost Us Our Beautiful Relationship by 360command: 2:44pm On Feb 20, 2020
Biafrareform:
.

I believed we all have past. Even myself have got a past. Same as you .

I believe everyone deserves a chance . A willing heart ready to change though.

And I also believed no one is perfect . The only bad girl out there is the one you have discovered her past .
There are many who we see as good , but undiscovered bad side .
lol! There is a French proverb that says "a dog never changes its sleeping position "
CrimeRe: Trevor Noye Kidnaps "Racist" White Woman, Forces Her To Watch Program On Slavery by 360command: 5:24pm On Feb 19, 2020
babzo:
Nonsense.
2 wrongs dont make a right.
Will he also kidnap the descendants of the black Chiefs who kidnapped his ancestors and sold them to the white men? Because thats also clearly told. I read the book Roots myself.

Humans beings have been taking themselves as slaves for thousands of years. Many of the descendants of white Europeans were also slaves during the Roman empire. There were slaves in China, India, Japan, South America.
Even as recently as the 20th century thousands of Chinese were taken as sex slaves by the Japanese during the World War.

The Jews have been taken as slaves more than any other race. Yet they control business and entertainment in America today and built an oasis in the desert of the Middle East in just 20 years.

The black man needs to wake up and stop making excuses.
I agree with you brother but in other for the black man to wake up must start from the root "Africa". I see no way a black man will be respected in America or any of the "white man land". The only way a black will be respected is only when as Africans we begin to do things right..

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