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Why will Biggie not just forgive Ilebaye's strikes?



Even in the real world legal system, she would have long been pardoned as she has done well in her weeks of probation.

TemplarLandry:
No one should pay this bean head attention.
She's an annoying human being.

Do you know her that much to just dismiss her story just like that?




This was how Mohbad was shouting then. When he died, all of una carry him matter for head.




All this record labels are really slavery camps. I remember what Kizz Daniel went through in the hands of that record label where they were paying him like 30k per month.

The attack on Soyinka shows that many Obidients are senseless and incapable of critical thinking.




You don't break up to win elections. Parties had to come together to form APC before they could defeat the incumbent PDP.





If you added Atiku's and Obi's votes, you would realize that PDP would have floored APC if PDP didn't break up.




Someone is stating the fact, but they are too deaf in their blind loyalty to hear.






They will obviously make the same mistake in 2027.

Raskimonojendor:
Which one be piggyvest again. Likely another repackaged MMM.

Piggyvest is not a Ponzi scheme.



I am surprised you have never heard about Piggyvest.

Different strokes for different folks.




I love women with cornrows. My wife had her hair packed into a bun when I met and fell in love with her.

lokoloko84:
You can't even near me and If you did and offend me,I will use my body signs to put you in your place.
My own ways of dealing with people is even worse than verbal attack or physical combat.
I make my offenders to be irrelevant and useless and my revenge is always a long haul.

Easier said than done.




Even Jesus Christ sef lost it in the Temple.





Your moralistic arrogance sef is a show of weakness. The irony is that you are likely to be a worse abuser than those you so easily judge.





Bye!!!

lokoloko84:
Rubbish! How can a sensible person compare beating up a child with two grown adults fighting physically and to make it worse beating up the opposite sex.
That shows how feeble, incompetent, mentally derailed you are.
I will never take anyone serious again on this thread.
Most of you are shameless women beater, thugs and a disgrace.
If you can't resolve issues without physical combat then you should work your attitude.

Yes, your animalistic side is beginning to show.




Hypocrite.





I am sure if I were near you now, you would throw a punch.





Violence is violence, whether it be against a child or an opposite gender.





I don't know why some of you people consider violence against woman unimaginably worse than violence against any human being regardless of gender.




I am sure you don't think too much about it when a woman physically assaults a man or a child. Women assault men, assault children, assault their fellow women (usually maids), but these assaults are hardly ever news for judgmental people like you.





But once it is a man assaulting a woman, your manhoods start nodding and then you suddenly have an opinion, as per Saint Obi that you are.

carammel:
You are right, verbal abuse is bad and can mess with one’s mental health but NO, going physical in retaliation is not the best means to resolve such issue.

Match energy for energy, if they insult your father, insult their own grandfather.

Picture it this way, if you are faced with someone that you know deep in your mind would beat you blue black if you try getting close to them, would you still fight them physically simply because they abuse you verbally?

It is natural to avoid a fight that you would lose.




However, humans can be emboldened to fight if they know that the outcome would be favourable or if they feel that they have a protective support.





If Doyin and Pere were in a place where there were no rules or cameras, I am sure Doyin would never run her mouth at Pere because she would fear that the outcome would not favour her. There would not be Big Brother's rulebook to restrain Pere from battering her.




It is like a child in the presence of her bigger brothers. Such a child might be emboldened to abuse every passerby. But let that child be alone, he would watch his mouth.




That is how life is. We may get really angry, but we never lose sight of our chances. If the fight will end in defeat, or if we feel we won't get enough protective cover or support, we would not fight.

DOptical:
No. You're either fine or not! Haven't you seen Ugly light skinned people?

Some ugliness are deep.




But some are not so deep.

lokoloko84:
Don't deflect my mention.
Only weak men beat up females and I for once will never do that no matter the issues or disagreement between us.
How many people will you even beat?
In life common sense should tell you that people will offend you and the best way to deal with such persons is through mental strength and that is possible best way.
It is shameful to fight a woman no matter the provocation.
Yes,weak men do that. I am not saying I am perfect but fighting with the opposite sex is irritating.

OK, if a woman goes haywire on your child, beating him physically, you will use mental strength to save your son?




OK. If a woman assaults you physically, grabs your shirt and won't let go. You will use mental strength to get away? If she is not being reasonable, you will try to be reasonable until they break your head.




I remembered watching one CBS Reality show. A woman was causing trouble in a mall. Customers were beginning to be scared because the woman had pulled a knife on one of the shop attendants. Someone called the police. A policeman showed up. He took the shop backdoor, approached the woman from the back, grabbed her, and slammed her hard on the floor.





The mad woman shouted, "How dare you put your hands on a woman?"




The policeman said, "If a woman wants to be a man, I will treat her like a man."

DOptical:
I don't know why some people bleach tho. Because bleaching won't make anyone fine regardless.

Bleaching can actually improve appearance in some instances.

lokoloko84:
This thread has shown the hypocrisy and how messed up the lives of most persons here.
The reason why this is a faceless forum.
How can someone justify rubbish because of stanship?
Both of them were wrong but what pere did was a disgrace.
As a man that was physical violence and should not be tolerated whether on camera or not.
That action showed the tendency of physical abuse.
What he could have done was to ignore her.
Are men on this thread saying that,they would have gone violent,If their wives was provoking?
Only weak men do that and if showed lack of mental discipline.

Oshe, strong man.




Let me tell you the truth, there is no perfect human being.





We are human beings because we have weaknesses. If we are perfect, we would be God.




So, stop being judgmental.




There is no assurance that you would handle that situation better if you were in Pere's shoes, locked up in a House with some mannerless loudmouths like Doyin, with no escape route to drive out and relax.





Let me give you a scenerio.





Have you read "Lord of the Flies" by William Golding?





Well, it is about English boys who would never have thought that they could harm a fly. At the end of the novel, nearly all of them had turned to savages who had murdered a human being like themselves.




In fact, Ralph, joined in the murder of Simon and Piggy excused the deed as a mistake.





What did the writer achieve with that novel? It means there is a primal devil in all of us. All that might be needed to unleash this devil can be as little as a change of environment or oppositions.





Perhaps, you manage your anger better than Pere, but I am sure you have your own weaknesses too. Would you rather I called you a weak man whenever those weaknesses of yours come to the fore?

IconicR:
Pere should be disqualified

He has shown violence tendencies so many times on this show

He's quick to go physical and if biggie keep allowing this thing then they did Tacha and Beauty dirty

Give us three examples of such times?

You sent your nude to your doctor to see your rash and pile...?



She must think we are fools.

IamKizzbrown10:
It hurt to see artist die, i always likes of wizkid davido and burna boy shouldnt die cause it will hurt me down, wel "Dear mohbad , I pray your troubled soul is
at peace. May you sing now with the angels in heaven.
God rest your soul."

You have forgotten that even you yourself will die one day. Instead of worrying about that, you are worried about someone else's.

Any of Adekunle or Ilebaye can win the show. It would make me happy.

Olodo24:
Mercy
Ceec
Ilebaye
Alex
Adekunle
Neo
Whitemoney
Sholzy the fake housemate

Thank you.




What a list.

Please, who are those up for possible eviction?

Taking Mouth Gig from several women?



My guy, you are finished o.



Your body must be swimming in venereal diseases of every kind.

Threebear is the GOAT.



The organizers kept White Money in that show for reasons best known to them.




I hate favouritism. Why did they not evict him?

Threebear:
He's stronger than Venita but Venita had alliance this week from Adekunle's people and Adekunle is stronger than WHITEMONEY.

YOU DO THE MATHEMATICS.

OK. I want him sent home anyway. Entitled fellows like Mercy need to be brought down from their high horses.




This show is not her birthright. If you don't work, you don't chop.

DrTee1:
WM isn't going anywhere. You see how calmly he took his automatic nomination? Compare how he took his nomination with how Doyin took hers...

I feel Ilebaye knows that she's strong outside - although we may find out today that although she would not be evicted, she may not be the most voted HM of the nominated four.

Doyin and Venita are must likely going home today. The only way WM may go home is if three housemates are to be evicted. WM is certainly more popular than Doyin and Venita.

What we do not know at the moment is who is more popular of Ilebaye and Hazel Whitemoney.

By the way, why is WM called 'pork' by some people and why does DSimmer call Baye 'rapist'?

How does his overconfidence translate to anything?




He is confident because he won his own season. It doesn't mean he cannot be evicted today.




Although, I doubt that Venita beats him on the poll. I think he is stronger than Venita. But don't use his overconfidence as a benchmark.

garfield1:
My bros,you've said it all.you are really experienced in this things. but why do men simp for half castes?

When I began that relationship, I had one thing in mind. To be a proper gentleman, the way my dad brought us up.




Respect your woman, and all that.



But some people take advantage. Instead of reciprocating, they consider you a weakling and want to take charge.




The same thing I did with her was the same thing I did with my wife when we were dating. Respected her, shared chores, gossipped, shared secrets, and all that, but my wife never took advantage.

ItisHi:
for sure he looks like a potential rapist and a sex abuser but I don't think he can't do that on live tv. Mercy too no be kid, that girl na street.

How do potential rapists and sex abusers look like?

Godoverevery:
Well you go change relationship tire then......I was once like you nah so I can relate.

Relationship is not a do-or-die affair. You can change it as many times as possible.


I am married now, and my wife and I share a very healthy relationship. Of course, fighting and quarrelling is allowed. But no insult. No disrespect. No raising of voices. Once I am the wrong party, I admit. When she is in the wrong, she admits. We respect each other. We don't talk down or belittle each other by scolding each other like scolding a dumb fellow.

When you live under the same roof for 6month to 1yr with your lover.....you go learn how to stomach disrespect once in awhile and patience.

When you start stomaching insult, you are becoming helpless and your self esteem is dying.



I said it here once that I could see helplessness in Adekunle because I had been there at a time in my life. Coincidentally, the girl was biracial too. At a point, I began to even believe her that I was useless without her. She would gaslight me into believing that I was overreacting when I demanded to be addressed with the same respect that I addressed her with.




The fact is that Venita has very little control over her tongue. And if you allow her the liberty, you would never be happy with her. It would get to a stage that you would begin to rationalize the insult sef. It is at that point that you would start saying to yourself after every insult, "I have to be mature. Insult is a part of relationship".




My brother, insult does not have a place in a healthy relationship. Don't let anyone tell you abuse is a normal thing in a relationship. It is a red flag.




I tell it to my sister as well. There are some subtle abuse that if you don't address would make you end up in an abusive marriage. It is not until a man raises his hand to you before you start thinking straight. If your spouse uses words like " fool, idiot..." during an argument, that is not someone you want to be with.

Godoverevery:
I guess were you work no lady have disrespected you before right?? If a lady have disrespect you kindly tell me what you did since you didn't stomach it.

We are talking about a relationship, not a random woman.




If you are in a relationship with me, you can't be disrespecting me and expect me to stay in that toxic relationship.

Godoverevery:
If that how you interpret it no wammm.

But trust me......if you cant stomach disrespect just stay away for relationship/marriage.

Advise your children (if you have any) never to stomach abuse/disrespect.




God, we have a long way to go in Nigeria if you think one should be able to stomach disrespect to stay in a relationship.




Disrespect is a red flag, especially if the disrespectful partner is unwilling to change.




There is nothing healthy or mature about stomaching disrespect.




I mean, where I teach, we are not even allowed to talk down on children. Respect is a core part of a healthy relationship. Disrespect, on the hand, is a sign of an unhealthy relationship.

Godoverevery:
If this things aren't just ordinary bants from you guys.....then we alot of teenagers here who knows nothing about relationship.


What is having BP...........in two people having arguments.
I swear issues that happens between Adekunle and venita on this shows most times are just child play.

No be woman.......running mouth anyhow sometimes nah normal things for relationship/marriage.

There is nothing normal about a grown ass woman running her mouth.




Stop enabling bad behavior in women.





I mean I hear it even from pastors climb to be marriage counsellors. You will claim the podium and tell men that a woman's power is in her tongue, and therefore men should tolerate verbal abuse from their women. Then, you tell men to always walk away.




No! A woman who runs her mouth is not yet an adult. If you cannot trash issues without running your mouth, then you have no business being in a relationship.

Gbadoboy:
Don't mind them. Besides Venita is a bit older and more experienced than Adekunle so it's like an elder correcting her younger one. I don't know why they find it offensive.

This is how you people have normalized verbal abuse.



It is offensive. And that is it.




In a relationship, there is a way you correct your spouse.



In fact, what many of you don't know is that raising your voice is in itself a form of verbal abuse.




I tell this to my children. All this nonsense about "women running their mouth" as normal is enabling bad behavior.




We might as well start enabling wife beating. Violence is violence, whether it be physical or verbal.

ColdHunter:
Not a single one of them is the age they claim.

Nigerians typically reduce their age for whatever reason.

Perhaps, they feel the younger one is, the better their chances of being selected. It is common in showbiz.




It is understandable in civil service where there is a retirement age or sports where the older you get, the less offers you get (except you are REALLY good).




But in showbiz, I don't see the need to reduce age. There is no retirement age.

IconicR:
I agree
He's evil

Evil for being human?



If it was a girl that went for a guy like that, we will not hear anything o.




Men are human too. Pere had obviously bottled up too much from Doyin.





That is why I don't like to conform to society's expectation of men. I clear any rude mofo as soon as possible, whether they be man or woman. That way, I don't keep grudges.




If a woman insults me, I don't look away, especially if I can't help it. I will clear you immediately. That way, I don't bottle up emotions and then lose it by going physical.




That is why I like Dee-One. Give it to them, and apologize later, if you please. You are doing Mr Nice Guy while suffering inside. Then, when you get pushed to the wall,you want to go physically violent.




No. Give it to them, especially if they are not easy on the eye like Doyin. If a duck calls me ugly, I will call them worse names.

eepeepook:
Either Angel has truly matured or Soma is a good influence on her. First, she doesn’t expose her body unnecessarily or finger herself in public. Second, she vents her frustrations to the man rather than sit alone dejected like a poor orphan. Thirdly, she hasn’t fought with ninety-nine percent of the housemates like she did during SYE. To top everything, she didn’t give Soma the Sammie treatment. Maybe that’ll happen later, but for almost the seventh week, it hasn’t happened.

Grammar tip: grammarcheck(dot)net. It’s what I use frequently. Some members are switching to a spoken style of write-ups but adding too many commas.

She came covered up for this season, not because of Soma or whether she had grown mature.




She is still the same angel, only that she had to change tactics seeing that nudity brings heavy criticism.