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tintingz:
I didn't say he didn't take responsibilities, From that chat Wizkid is forced to take responsibilities, if the lady didn't frequently buzz Wizkid, I'm he will abadon his responsibility.

The lady is smart, she has reasons she buzz Wizkid(an A list naija celebrity) frequently, she's smart that she's also using Wizkid as her ATM.

If they are both mature, they should have gone to the court and Wizkid child support plan will be listed to him. No excuses.

She is reminding him. That’s all she can do. He is a busy man. My wife still reminds me of things I have to do and as humans, we forget sometimes. However, she painted a scenario like wizkid ran away and avoided all financial obligations and that’s not true. I think for matured people here she is doing herself more emotional damage.

She is not using wizkid as an ATM. She wants more, probably like spending time alone

Adalyon:
I personally don't think she's trying to get him back sha, I think she just wants at least conducive Co parenting is all... They don't have to be sworn enemies or lovers, there's something in between these two extremes... Bottom line is he shouldn't be reminded constantly about carrying out his responsibilities to his child and the child's mother,he obviously still has some bad blood towards her... He mentioned how she insulted him years back, he has resentment towards her but none of that matters because she's not a girlfriend he can forget about... She's his baby mama and no matter how they feel towards each other they should put it aside because another human being is involved now.. He is a documented parent of that kid so he should sign papers on time, speak and see the kid as much as he can, and make payments for upkeep on time... Let him do these ones first and if she's still bugging then we know it's beyond Co parenting

Wizkid is a musician and may not have time for co-parenting. Co-parenting would be a dangerous attempt because she still has feelings for him. I could deduced they even had sex in Atlanta based on her next message. The guy is ignoring her on purpose. If she really wants wizkid’s attention, let her get a man who loves her, but I go pity the man because Okafor’s law still applies

tintingz:
Read the convo, I'm see two immature individual.

Girl playing smart, dude forced to take responsibilities.

Please read properly. He takes responsibilities. He may pay the bills late, but he pays. The lady is scheming to keep tabs on him and that’s why he is ignoring her.

She uses excuses like “your son wants to talk to you” in order to hear his voice and when he doesn’t respond she gets mad. She wishes him merry Xmas, but he doesn’t respond. That’s her annoyance - Emotional loneliness

Amakavula:
Exactly you hot the point. I feel for her but that's the truth. He doesn't want her love but she is in love.

I didn’t see this part. Seems you’re an insider. I could tell that she is emotionally lonely and wants more from wizkid. Well Okafor’s law applies here and she is undergoing the emotional distress of a single mom, where men really don’t want you in their lives, but want to sleep with you.

With baby mamas, you have to be careful. They would use your child to blackmail you. She needs to move on emotionally and stop contacting Wizkid. On the other hand, wizkid needs to set up financial arrangements for his kids. I don’t know how he can manage visitations and phone calls, but he needs to communicate and be in touch with his kids. However, there is danger here because the more he keeps in touch, the more his baby mamas would want more from him and by more I mean emotional time and that is how the babies keep rolling in.

greggng:
After reading everything I came to the conclusion that wizkid is a man. That shola doesn't understand how to follow him....pestering a man kinda piss him off. From all the conversation wizkid has been very supportive but the lady want attention . Wizkid attention can only be on the son if he doesn't love the mother. I was so happy when she admitted she has been insulting wizkid....the apology doesn't take away the insult....she runs her mouth like parrot....no man wants such woman. At the end wizkid made an important statement...he is waiting for that child to be 18years. May be they will share that child into 2 by then....who's ever that knows that girl should advice her to stop this public display of shame

Well said. She wants more from him. Insulting him like he doesn’t pay the bills. He pays the bills. Maybe he pays late, but he still pays the bills. I just think she is emotionally lonely.

Ballmer:
This senseless bigoted clown refuse to see all this and want Wizkid to pay the silly child support like they do in the USA like say Na him papa work money for Whizzy pocket.

She wants wizkid in her life more than she wants him in his son’s life. She gets pissed off when he doesn’t respond. That’s women for you.

Women - what’s she trying to achieve by revealing private messages/communication. Later she would claim has she handles all financial matters and she getting no support.

From their conversation, wizkid doesn’t want anything to do with her. She is still using the son as a bait. She is emotionally lonely.

On the other hand, wizkid can do more by being in the son’s life apart from handing bills. However, this is very tricky as Shola might get pregnant again.

thegentleman:
Have not proposed to her to marry me, but of recent we have been talking about how it will work out, it's all in my hands now... she seems ready, but don't want to start what I won't e able to finish because seems there is more to marriage hearing from people that are already in it.

Oga don’t try it. Go and increase your earning capacity. Money/finance is very important in keeping a happy home. If you strongly feel that the masters would increase your earning capacity and you have the funds for it; please go ahead else go and look for another job or business that can improve your finance.

As at now, you are not ready for marriage financially. Please know your girlfriend earns more than you at the moment. Women are wired to be dependent on a man and look up to their male companion for leadership and guidance. She maybe understanding now with the view that things will improve in the future. However, if they don’t, she will haunt you consciously and unconsciously. She would lose all respect for you. She would disregard you and you would regret the day you wedded her.

Finally what kind of life would you want your children to live. I bet you would want a better life for them. To be blunt N50,000 or N110,000 would not be enough to cater for your kids, living expenses, feeding and even emergencies. Don’t go and dig your grave. If she is understanding, let her wait and even if she leaves, you will get another one especially when you are now financially buoyant. Success attracts women like Bee to a honeycomb.

Advice from a married and experienced man.

Ibu Ibu - this your story no make sense.

I hope she can afford the lawyer fees. Drake should not agree any out of court settlement. Make her go broke from paying lawyers. Drag the case, till she has to draw on her line of credit and can’t afford her lawyers anymore

From the look of things, I think this was planned

The people Buhari surrounds himself with - all after material gains and putting their self interest above the nation

NobodyKnows:
Cococandy, leave me alone!
This is not the first or second time you’re insulting me because you don’t agree with my opinion. You probably wont remember since you go around insulting random people on here whenever they say something you don’t like . You need to understand the fact that you cannot force your opinion on anyone .thats the big mistake you’re making .
I don’t want to dig up posts ...
The only time you didn’t insult me was when I said I said I liked your meat pie and kitchen on that thread.
If the mods eventually ban you , please deal with it . And if they don’t ,please change
Have a good one!

Are you Canadian?

With this drama going on, it won’t still stop women sleeping with him. Now you begin to wonder what brains do these ladies have?

Also, my advise to every young man. Never marry a single mom. Don’t be a captain save a hoe. Don’t get involved in an already existing family. Start your own.

Wizzy this is not a fight you will win. Make your peace with these women and take care of your kids. You are embarrassing yourself. Regardless of the issue you may have with them, never take it out on innocent kids. They were not part of the bargain.

Interesting comments. Based on what I have read, many Nigerians are not Christians, but churchgoers. A Christian should know his/her bible very well and model his/her life like that of Christ.

If Jesus come to Nigeria now, he would be worse than Freeze and Nigerians will crucify him again. What is the difference between what the GOs are currently doing to what the Pharisees and teachers of the temple did during Jesus time - no difference at all. Take your time to ponder on this and because Jesus was obstructing their normal business, he was crucified.

Study your Bible and stop worshipping men who have sold their souls for material things. God is not interested in your money. Jesus consistently said - give to the poor. If you must follow me, sell your belongings and give it to the poor. Jesus did not say, give to the temple or church, he said - give to the poor.

Wake up

I’m surprised at how blogs and even mainstream newspapers ran with this story. Daddy Freeze was informing Kasali what the GO cabals did to him and that he should be prepared. Freeze has said this previously when he started on how Paul Adefarasin wrote to his employers to sack him and also pull their advert from Coolfm.

durandnaija:
All y'all promoting hate speech against gays u ain't going anywhere. Why would you want to go to counties that have legalised homosexuality? Hypocrites!

Ha Oga you want to spoil business for these men

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RvCkRM6KHQc

Ytea:
The last two women looks scary
If that's their choice, they'll def get men who would be cool with it. I hope they find what they're looking for.

Only a sucker would be cool with that. If they want to be with suckers, cool. The poster is ridiculous because her last name is that of her fathers. She could start her ridiculousness by adopting her mother’s maiden name, which is also her mother’s father name.

I live in the western world and I can confirm that feminism is ridiculous and has destroyed the social behavior in the West. It’s ridiculous if women want to adopt male philosophy. In the West, women continue to challenge men for more right and guess what, they don’t even know what to do with these rights.

Equality is good as we are all humans. However, we are different gender and by nature have different roles to play in human civilization. It would be best if we can all acknowledge our roles and try to be the best in it.

My advise to Nigerian men - do not tolerate these confused women who call themselves feminist. Do not allow their tales get louder before they destroy society. Don’t marry or date them because they will make your life miserable.

Brandler:
In saner climes, when people bash each other they come out take pictures, exchange insurance cards and boom off they go because they understand the importance of time. And in the case where they both think they are right they call the police.
But here , even people that are educated and have full premium insurance the first thing on their mind is to start throwing punches.

And for so long we have been preaching to the men not to beat women that we forget to also tell the women it's wrong to hit a man too.

Well what do we know, we are just a digital marketing and Website design firm.

They fight too. I can send you video links if you are not aware

I wonder why the ladies are masquerading on social media. Sue Wizkid for parental neglect if your claims are true. You cannot shame a man, you will only make him more angry. If he is not living up to his responsibilities, approach the court to address the situation.

Laugh this is very easy. Seems the man is not well to do. Your lawyer contacts me, you will also be hearing from my own lawyers. Who do you think you can threaten. It would be bad for the woman because she wants anonymity and preservation of her marriage

CROWNWEALTH019:
To think this man contested elections from 2003, cried for losing elections and campaigned like he was the messiah, to now come and destroy this country is really annoying. He just destroyed what it took years to build, and seeing youths supporting him makes me feel sad. BMC never wake up

Buhari came back to enrich himself, relatives and friends. This is very typical of Nigerian politicians. The only president that has been able to govern properly without this much drama was Obasanjo, who truly knew what selfish politicians were up to

That looks like the UK. The man should have quickly extinguish the fire to avoid the other cars getting damaged. Then call the police.

When you fear death, you hold tight of your religious beliefs. When you know more about death and the after life, you discard those religious beliefs and many are not accurate.

The Bible is inaccurate with the beginning of mankind. Life have been found to exist in Africa much longer than the Bible historical stories.

All these churches in Nigeria making noise. Go to Saudi Arabia or Iran to preach and demonstrate this madness you are exhibiting here. This things succeed in African where their leaders entertain things to divert public interest whilst they go about perpetrating corruption acts

IbrahimDamola:
I was expecting police to say, 'he was not shot' the holes on the car are not bullet hole' but as usual the police just beat around the bush in their statement, saying so many things without actually saying anything tangible.

If it is stagemanaged he should be in police cell by now for false information and attempt to breach public peace.

Was he shot at or not? Yes or No

Na wetin we wan know.

Don’t be stupid. The car was shot at, but not while he was inside. Have you ever heard of self inflicted wounds before.

I would be expecting the Commissioner of Police to investigate this and even arrest the pastor for making false claims. I don’t know why in Nigeria when it comes to religion, people just get weak or stupid to act or think

Amberon:
Rubbish! The Bible is very clear that whoever doesn't believe in Jesus being the son of God is already condemned.
Stop adding and subtracting to the Bible.

Condemned in what manner? Let me open your eyes. The Hell Fire you are scared of doesn’t exist, never existed and won’t exist. The presumed Hell Fire was described more like a city in the Bible. Do you know what a city is like? Too small to contain the world’s population. If you want to expand your imagination and consider Hell Fire as a country or even a continent - it is still too small for the world’s population.