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Klass99:
@ Militant1, I don't think you are crazy and I don't think your expectations are unreasonable. Like you, I don't function well with sleep deprivation. Poor or insufficient sleep leads to stress and stress is a silent killer.

While you are busting your ass off to provide for your family, the associated stress from home will silently do you in.This BS needs to stop, you are not asking for too much! Considering the fact that you've provided every necessary tool to make family life easy.

I don't know if you've seen Game of Thrones but one of my favourite scenes is where Tywin Lannister said to Cersei, I don't distrust you because you're a woman, I distrust you because you're not as smart as you think you are. You've allowed that boy to ride roughshod over you and everyone else in this city.

Na so e dey take start ooo. Allowing very young children do as they please, giving into them, not instilling discipline or enforcing house rules can lead to embarrassing consequences. If she can't take charge of two young kids and her home as the matriarch at this stage, when she wan start?

I'm not in support of a help at this point either, a help will make more sense when she starts her new job. Your wife seems like the sort of woman even helps love to deal with, because of a lazy and overly dependent attitude on them. You know the type of helps that skoin skoin use to worry, they'll pack their bags on Sunday evening or Monday morning and tell you they're leaving your house, the workload is three much.

You need to start acting like your username, until you get the results you want.

dangerousd071:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sFZhtuvbyuE

Emotional maturity, she thought marriage is a bed of roses. Ask people who are celebrating 20, 30, 50 years in marriages they will tell u they are celebrating many years of tolerance. Because you brought few properties into ur husband house, he shouldn't have a say over u abi


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3os5Ey3JCSo

DevilSignature:
Even you sef ur head no correct


1 he didn't graduate cos he hasn't finished his project

2. Probably he has committed other offences

3. He wooed the lecture and she rejected and gave him Stern warning and he insisted on

4. He is a cultist

5. He doesn't deserve to graduate

KushLyon:
Since he likes persisting, then he should persist with the department for another year nothing spoil

ogakamwu:
Please kindly advise me if it is okay.

I am a guy of 35 years considering a lady for marriage who is 22 years.

Please is it okay.

You are free to criticize.

I just want to get it right.

Truvelisback:
Good day, fellas. Guys, do u fancy these things ladies wear? Make-up, lip-stick, bango(big) earrings or excess earings on the ears, nose rings and so on?

silibaba:
I love it GENEVIEVE NNAJI way.

ImaIma1:
Lol...as per it's only God that we should reverence; not like He makes life difficult for us.

mariahAngel:
Are you saying the husband of the woman in the story is worse than the devil?

GloriousGbola:
My sis is a doctor in Yankee. At a point like 12 years ago when they had not found their feet and she was doing residency her husband lost his job and everyone had to chip in till they got back on their feet. Now imagine my sis saying some western I don't owe anybody anything nonsense.

My dad had an older sister who was literally held back at home while everyone else went to school. She was the one taking care of them. So she wound up uneducated. As a child I saw the woman as a leech chopping off everyone else in the family. But as an adult I understand that her future was sacrificed for the rest of them.

Sometimes when I see some of these things I can only say omode lon se won. (which my dad used to say to me when I spoke nonsense and thought I was talking sense) Because you will not understand some things until you are older.

GloriousGbola:
This is oga bone saw na

There is no free speech in Saudi

Even the people who are able to get out, they go after their families

The Arab Middle East is a pure police state run by hereditary monarchies.

One would want to feel sympathy to their plight but they are collectively a bunch of racist asssholes who will show colour once you enter their trap.

ImaIma1:
Stories like this annoy me. A husband should be respected, but he is not God and should not make life difficult for his wife. The lady married a man and not a needy baby that needs to be fed like that constantly.

If man and wife cannot come together to ser how they can make life better for each other, that marriage is trouble.

GloriousGbola:
Sure, a lot of parents can decide on a great retirement plan, at the expense of their kids.

Why should I send my kid to a private school when I can send him to a public school and use that money

I remember some truly scruffy looking kids in my uni days who everyone kept saying forget, their dad has money in stocks.

Maybe that guy is the kind of one you deserve, one looking out for himself first.

A parent can decide their obligations are to provide you with the most basic provisions, which would free up money for a big retirement plan.

Be careful not to jump on oyibo ideas of entitlement.

LadyExcellency:
A typical Nigerian.

The Officer will lose his job.

Farfalla:
I imagine it's because he's rich and famous?

Zooposki:
Where are the good men in Saudi Arabia and the rest of the Arab world to breed with, when most of them are fanatics. Or are you going to blame the young girls forcefully abducted in the North and forced into marriages for not picking good men to breed with.

The whole male specie is already rotten. That’s why God had to send a flood. We Women should do the same by breeding them out and starting afresh.

Zooposki:
A woman cannot train a man. They can only do so much. The fathers have that responsibility. Just so you know.

Zooposki:
Everyone is tired of these men. Most women in China, Japan, the Western world etc don’t want children anymore. That’s why their birth rate is so low. The government have tried to bribe them with incentives to have kids, it did not work. The latest plan was to ban abortions, but I’m not even sure that will work.

Zooposki:
The women should practice selective breeding to breed out most of their men, so they can start all over again from scratch.

peacefull:
Thank you so much for everyone who gave me advice!

I appreciate everyone!!

I confirmed about my husband is married in Nigeria.
He married in 2013. I'm still not sure.
But at least around 2013, they got married.
This woman is long time I suspected.
I was suspecting, But I tried to trust him.
I'm a really confusing person.

He has a daughter too. I still don't know how old she is. But very lovely little girl.
And they have own business, I should say they have own company? in Nigeria.

I already decided to allow everythings.
But I'm hurt. Very very hurt now.

I'm still not tell him about anything.
I wanna hear the truth from him.
I wanna know about what he wanna do, what is his plan, what about our marriage, our future, what is he thinking about or planning about his daughter etc.
I wanna ask him many many things!
So, I will talk to him.

At least we are still married.
And that woman is a his second wife.
He still not dump me. So, maybe he has his reason.
Maybe he get tired with me, maybe he fell in love with her, maybe he wanted have a kid with Nigerian woman, maybe he doesn't love me since beginning etc, etc, etc!
And I don't know why he still hiding about it from me?

At least he is still with me. Still continue to married with me.
So, he must has his reason and I wanna know.

I hope and I wish this is my misunderstanding.
But I saw pictures.

Maybe many many peoples, maybe most of peoples are their side?
Maybe support them?
Because they are Nigerian and I'm not.
Maybe very funny things to someone?
They are laughing at me?
All of his family and her family are laughing at me too?

I'm a big fool for long time.
But I'm still wanna be with him.
Maybe something wrong with me.

I know I shouldn't write about my private life, my marriage life on internet.
But I didn't write everythings.
I'm always writing only few things. Because I can't write everythings.

Anyway, Thank you so much!
I got to know the truth! I just remain talk to him.
I really really appreciate everyone!!

envoymedia:
https://igberetvnews.com/1427419/can-comfortably-buy-man-put-house-nkechi-blessing-video/

Farfalla:
Bey is like Jada Pinkett?

jeff1993:
He is a FO.OL for getting her bailed out!!!

Dunno why some guys are just plainly ignorant or stu.pid .... Is it until she kills u, that's when I would know. Imagine if it was u that struck her with visible injuries. She would Sue your Add and take all your money for claims of damages!!!