₦airaland Forum

ALLNIGERIANSMAD:
useless Chinese man,he would have sent the soldier directly to market but because he's stingy.

He should send a Nigerian Soldier to the market??

A whole national asset?

Chai!

ScalesDemy:
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Set up a digital marketing company
Social media account
Branding
Marketing
Graphic Design
CAC registration
All of the above would cost at least #150,000

Get your international passport - Minimum of #30,000

YouTube
If you can, start a YouTube channel for an additional source of income, on this channel, you can discuss and proffer solutions to common digital marketing challenges for Nigerian entrepreneurs

This should cost around #150,000 upward

Total: #430,000

Within 6-9months, you should be able to make enough money to relocate to Rwanda to continue your business.

Passport N30k?

Is it only the cover page?

PAQ:
Money or no money, dont u just love it when a group of fine people hang together?

As in.

Nice pictures

dbig3:
I'm just 20 years so there is a lot of hope that i will make it b4 22. Who's with me??

If you don't become rich like Regina's husband or marry a very wealthy spouse by 22, what happens?

Who told you Need Nwoko made his money at 22?

You a 20 year old are comparing yourself with a 60 year old man....

Someone old enough to be your grandfather.

Kwatinue.

samwillyco1:
Happy Birthday Regina


This Millionaires making young hustlers look stupid with their extravagant spendings.

How are they making you look stupid? Do you know how long it took them to build this wealth?

The primary source of the wealth (Ned Nwoko) is in his 60s.

AY is 50, if I spot Ramsey Nouah is also in his 50s.

Regina's mom who gave her a dollar cake is in her 50s.

So who are you a 'young hustler' competing with? Your parents' agemate?

Besides, not everyone would be rich enough for extravagant spendings.

Work hard, be content with what you have and pray for God's blessings on your legitimate hard work.

Godliness & contentment is great gain.

Nosayer:
I've never supported Tinubu's candidacy or Buhari's personality as a president yet, even the commenters here don't know how shameful that sounds.

If you know you won't respect the president because of his ineptitude (which is justifiable), it's better you reject the award than stupidly collect without showing some courtesy.

It speaks more about her than it does about Buhari.

I agree with you.

But again, she worked for the award. Should she reject one of the best fruits of her labour because she doesn't like the source?

That's the million dollar question.

sukkot:
most nigerian men dont deserve love. the women are the way they are because of the men. so they all deserve each other. they are both created to torture each other

Happy Birthday Asisat, more of God's grace and blessings to keep shinning as the star you are.

I claim her as my co-birth month

Her trophy room would be awesome

Persephone1:
You did no wrong, let him go and fix his character. Person wey no respect elders no fit respect you madam. Relatives or not, that man is some uncultured being that needs total change of behaviour .

Aifenipeni aifeyanpeyan.... imagine? Being rude to future inlaws? No remorse, no calls about the wedding like he is doing you a favour. Red flags everywhere .

Gabless:
I am 28 years old, a graduate of one of the university in South West. I work as a contract staff in a bank
I met this guy about a year ago through my best female friend, and the journey started. I took him to my parents and he also took me to his parents too, and the wedding preparation started. We were suppose to do family introduction but my parents says there is no need considering some logistic reasons. Although my mum has her reservation conserving him. But since my father has no objection I think am good to go.
He has sent money for some preparation since he is not residing in Lagos. The problem started after I went to idumota with my aunt to buy our engagement clothes. It was my aunt that drove me to the market. When we returned, my fiance called me, we talked for some times, but he couldn't appreciate my aunt for her kind gesture. Although my aunt didn't say anything that day but she wasn't happy. My dad also complained that.he has been rude to him. The same goes with my mum.
The last straw that broke the Carmels back was when he was arguing with my aunt over the phone. He did not know I was in my aunt's house that particular day. I wasn't happy at all, thinking that if he would not regard my parents how would he treat me after marriage, so I confronted him the second day over the phone, telling him that I'm not happy about the way my parents where complaining about him, and that attitude of him is creating fear in me. Instead for him to be a little remoseful and even call those people and apologize, he was arguing with me, still in my aunt's house. So I told him, maybe we should put the preparation on hold thinking he would at least try and apologize to them. He just said, is that what you want and ended the call.
Everyone was surprised. He didn't call back it was his mum that called my mum, she didn't even persuade them to stop me from taking such step, and the guy too didn't call me for like too weeks until when I called him and he said he wasn't interested in the marriage again.
Actually,I wasn't happy and I have been downcasted since then, but on the other hand, May l ask this question does this guy really loves me?. Is he really mature enough for marriage. Is it all my fault? Please don't insult or abuse me. I just want to know if it's all my fault.

First, one year is too short for a long distance relationship.

Secondly, you dodged a serious bullet. You do not want a man/husband who is not humble/invested enough in your marriage to be respectful to your family.

I also do not understand the kind of engagement with your family that would lead to him being rude to them especially your father. Especially because your father was his fan and would have seen him through rose tinted eyes; also, a lot of men 'respect' their women/wives' father's irrespective of the madness they bring to the table.

While your family members are third parties in your marriage, PLEASE marry a man who respects and regards them.

Also his mom calling your mom without trying to make it work speaks volumes. Except she doesn't want the marriage to hold, she would have tried to pursue peace even if both of you (intended couple) are misbehaving. Or even get an understanding of what happened.

An advise to you: carry your family more respectably. I don't see any reason why he should be so 'familiar' with your family that he is 'arguing' with them. Except your aunt is an integral part of your household, I am wondering the business they have together in the first place.

Munzy14:
This! Thumbs up!

The moment lovers realize they are meant to put themselves first, Before anyone, even their kids. The better they enjoy each other to the fullest without third party influence.

As for the ladies comments, they are attaching Emotions as always.

Men work on logic.

@bold:

Must be the joke of the 21st century

angelfallz:
Why rent a place that is not to your taste in the first place?

Older houses have landlords with small fear of God so the rooms are much bigger and house spacious.

I have never gotten the hype of plantains and fried eggs.

I can't remember eating that combo voluntarily.

Even if there is no contract, how would someone offer the song writer & part singer N100k for a 'hit' song?

N100k?

AfroKnight:
nature vs nurture

Which is more potent?

The eternal argument

True.

I believe a wedding is a once in a lifetime ceremony and should be properly planned for.

If for any reason the couple can't afford a big/colourful wedding, they are free to cut their coat according to their cloth.

Some do the above and celebrate the milestone anniversaries very big.

God bless their home.

Fred166:
Good evening everyone.

Most nigerian movies can be so meaningless. You can even fathom the message they are trying to pass. Always acting meaningless scripts with funny titles.

We also have a TV in our bedroom, so my wife was watching a Nigerian movie while I was working on my office files.

I can't even puzzle out the excitement in that movie. All I was hearing is some lousy actors making noise and the poor suspense sound track. You need to see my wife looking so tensed & serious, flapping her both hands like a bird that is about to fly while screaming “enter the car drive! drive! drive!

I said Aunty easy o, Then I asked her the title of the movie, she said "The pregnant ghost". I said pls came again, you say? She didn't answer then I picked up the remote to check the title then booom!! The pregnant ghost

I was just laughing seriously, I've to capture it. then I asked her whether she have seen a ghost before not to talk of a pregnant one? And she said what! If I want to know if ghost dey carry belle that I should join her and watch the movie too.

I jejely carried my office files and my laptop, walk straight to the sitting and continue my job. Because if I talk otherwise about that movie na problem for me and I don't want her wahala this night.

Then she asked where am I going? I said this movie is so interesting and it's making me loose focus on the work I'm doing, so I'm going to the sitting room were I can concentrate.

Abeg, those of you that watch this kind of movie, please what are the moral lessons?

Funny movie title.

Nollywood movies are wack jare!

But again, we watched Harry Potter, Lord of the Rings and other movies based on witchcraft and magic.

Leave Nollywood with their pregnant ghosts joor.

Ajagilatrensing:
The husband has been the one paying all the bils from day one till now (5 years) that the woman and the kids now have authorization (green card and work permit). Those alone cost the man like 4m.

The woman work as a care giver after doing some months course/ training.

The husband is not even asking her þo send money down but for to take care and let the man face himself to plan for his old agè now that they have papers

Are they separated or divorced?

efembaba:
The arguments as to whether we are living in a simulation is unnecessary. Whether we do or not doesn't change anything. If I pinch you, you'll feel the pain. If you go without food for several hours, you will feel hungry. If I dash u 50 million, you will feel real happiness. Those much are real since the feelings as far as you are concerned is real. Anything other arguments is an superfluous.

@bold:

You sound like a very very mischievous person

marvelck:
Imagine you are married to a man whose sidechic is this sexy and beautiful, what would you do?

Sidechics are known to have this edge over married ladies ..and it has to do with their appearance. That's why they spend a lot of money to look good and sexy all the time. Like the girl in the pictures below, some are naturally sexy, while others go for plastic surgery to enhance their backside and curves. And they do all this, just to catch and keep another woman's husband....

That's why married women need to up their game as well. They should endeavor to maintain their looks and shape even after having kids. Cos majority of married naija men have longer throat for fine sexy ladies

Is this cruise or are you serious with this OP?

AWONEYAN:
It's clear that you have of different breed spiritually and psychologically.

The guy is still an idol worshiper, a cheat, who lack understanding of marriage.
The nature you see when he was a security guard was his fake nature occasioned by his poor state.

Please don't loose your self in all of these.
Don't go in to idol worshipping, with them cos you don't know the extent they will go.

As per hitting you, he has started a dangerous act, which might continue.

Sister, God may have reasons why he hasn't been able to impregnate you....Have a break. Don't die of depression or abusive marriage.....
God will give you a good marriage

@bold: well said

The husband's unwillingness to go to the hospital while willing to try traditional means also speaks volumes.

If they (mother & son) are not willing to continue the marriage, then let them go.

naijapikin2:
If she's irritating you all you have to do is...






Irritate her back.
That's all

I find men who carry condoms around weird how much more women.

Condom is for sex; except you plan to have random sexual encounters, you would know that you would prepare for sex with your partner which includes condoms if you are so inclined.

Even if you want to have quickie with bae/boo, you will sha do the quickie somewhere.

The condoms should be kept there.

Hmmmmmm.

Brethren, read your Bibles for yourselves, understand and follow it.

Blessedmercy8:
That smell is what I don't like about the head wrapping. So I stylishly tie my turban in a way it's open at the back and a bit in the front.

It's like this his new wife is really opening babas eyes o. Lol....
E remain that their kpof hand blouse wey him go talk about.

If you cover your hair only for service, why would it smell?

SALLYBERRY01:
Is it negotiable?

You no wan learn the prayer complete?

What if due to negotiation, she teach you the one way no pass the sky?

Ezeanna:
Hahaha.

African men, the Saints; the modern day Mother Theresas.

Hahahahahaha

Na really modern 'Mother Theresa'

Ezibless:
If you were my momma's boy,there's no age limit ooo.

She even complains of the beard her married younger bother keeps let alone her son lol

Endure till you leave the house. Believe me,they feel you'd look more decent on a low cut than on afro.

Parents sha....we stil love them all the same

Hahahahahahahaha

Happy birthday ma, God bless you.

expansion1:
How should a wife show respect in marriage as husband and mother in law always complains she is proud but she is trying to stay at her best and keep quiet mostly. However everything she does she is referred to as Proud. Thank you for commenting.

While I can't confirm if you are really proud or not, I am very worried about the framing of the feedback:

Husband & Mother in law.

It always should be: husband & wife on one side.

Ask your husband his definition of pride and respect.

If it is not something that demeans / disrespects you as a person, look at it and adjust/compromise where/if necessary.

@OP:

He has been bursted to be a fluke with very conflicting stories except he is a sampling opinions which should be clearly stated.

@Topic:

Someone said something I really like; it is your duty as a father to plan your kids environs. While you are worried your daughter might not be a virgin (which I find off; someone even takes his daughter to the hospital monthly. Except he has promised someone his virgin daughter in marriage, it is strange and off), your son's might be introduced to crime, homosexuality & rituals.

Join hands with your wife to create a peaceful and loving environment at home so they are not seeking for 'love' & 'attention' outside.

Train them right from when they are very young in the way of the Lord/ imbibe whatever values are important to you and be a good example.

Have a relationship with them so they can discuss with you about life issues.

Create healthy boundaries and scrutinize their associates.

Teach them age appropriate sex education.

Etc, etc. etc.