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QuinModah:
They are used to below 100k pay range.

It's sad.

Instead of them to read and learn, it is to be making funny assertions they know.

africanusvu:
That u feed him from ur runs doesn't make him feel he now have male children,what he needs is male children to continue from where he is going to stop and not food,ok?

If he is serious, he can reject the food & continue the hunt for male kids to continue where he stopped.

CaptainAyub:
A man will feed and cater for his family for 50yrs,nobody will hear.
But once power falls into the hands of the other gender,headline go arise

The logic in this post.

Blaze14k:
That made them stronger. All the dad needs to now is to apologize to the kids for all the trauma they pasted through and i believe they will feel better.

This is the reason they keep messing up. And the fact you have to forgive and provide basic care irrespective of how they behaved while young.

You think 'an apology' would erase the trauma of watching your mom thrown out because you have no brothers or the fact that your father prefers you were a son?

Anyways, the poster & her sisters are playing their part as they should.

Light78:
Fake as usual. Which companies pays that amount?

Keep fixing your dream remuneration

Lol

You don't think any company pays that amount?

classicfrank4u:
at least I learnt smtin... "witches can't cross the ocean"

I seriously cracked up.

Congratulations, God bless your home.

Kobojunkie:
It is only parasitic lifestyle to you because you are not a rich man who can easily spend on the girl of your desire. Those rich men who spend on the girls aren't complaining as they readily buy the woman's desire and time with their money. The girls themselves aren't complaining either because they found their standards met by these men. So, why are you?

hifocus:
Alex is effeminate. He's likely gay. As for IK, well, only God knows why his beautiful wife left him. Found out he's gay, perhaps.

Loro kan,

They are both gay abi?

angelfallz:
Happy New Year Bukatyne

Thanks, I wish you same.

This would be a great year for us all in Jesus' name. Amen

@ Topic:

It is majorly men without gold concerned about who a gold digger is. Just how women a little lacking in beauty complain about men's preference for youth & beauty.

While there are a myriad of reasons why women want rich men, a number of them have become wise enough to know that a lot of poor men chase women who they need (believe are resourceful enough to manage their lack) and go for who they want when they have hammered.

That's when they suddenly realize that their wives/women are looking old, badly behaved, looks dirty, isn't sexy enough to cater to their desires, is too churchy etc. forgetting that those qualities were what made her able to manage him in the first place.

People who meet while younger (in university, service, fresh from service, just joined the workforce etc.) can take certain liberties with their choice of partners because they are easier to groom.

A woman in mid twenties and above needs to consider her man's financial status, ability & willingness to earn more, financial responsibility, generosity etc. amongst other characteristics.

seanwilliam:
Well, being with you is quite different from being supportive. Most girls that choose to be with broke men do so because they can’t find better offer as at the time . Some are even there, disrespecting you, cheating on you without adding any value or contribution towards your development , so if such a guy hammer, he’ll definitely dump her.

No sensible man will dump a respectful and supportive lady that stood by him doing his struggle days.

There are exceptions to every case but me and you know that atleast 95% of time, a man will not dump you if you were there when he was down.

Most ladies that say this will never tell you what they did to him when he was down .

@bold:

If she was so terrible, why didn't he dump her then? Why wait until he 'hammered'?

adeola1097:
It takes a lot to see a woman that would love you genuinely, Only your mother would do that and that comes with t&cs too.
For them, it’s usually transactional since they work with their emotions unlike men that reason with logic.

@bold:

This is what happens when you cut & join ideologies.

How can an emotional being be logical enough to be transactional? Or a logical being be emotional to fall in love 'without a reason'?

jeromestarks:
I write her projects.
I bathe her sometimes.
I satisfy sexually.
I protect her.
I defend her.
I give her advice.
I help her sleep at night because she's always stressed out.
I am her phycologist.
I help her study for exams ( I literally read the course and become her lecturer on Saturdays after breakfast.
Sometimes, I wash her clothes.
I massage her when she's having trouble reading.
I know all her love languages.
I visit her in her office and help her out with some analyses.
I once spent a whole day with her in hospital when she had serious worm infestation ( I could have just sent her money but no, time is more precious. I sat beside her bed and read some stupid children story books to her). I did that even though I hate hospital environment.

This is sweet.

Theunbothered:
When men go for what they want women will be screaming "misogyny" "sexism" and all manner of rubbish.

You will be the first to judge and judge harshly until it gets to your turn.

@bold:

Anyone intimidated by the 'society' because of their relationship choice (once it is legal) is not serious.

Akuruoulo:
Giving liabilities a simpLE reason to be more of a lability.
Can't they make money for themselves since they think they need money ?

Only women of value gives a broke man a chance. They are independent and not gold diggers.
A very poor girl wanting just a rich man should be on psychiatric check.
What stopped her from making money since she loves money ?



A simPLE man will never fail to disappoint

@ bold:



'Real men'; 'women of value '.

CruelDove:
That kind of ill mentality is mostly common among poor men with inferior complex disorder. Rich men don't think that way. They are never stingy with their money.

Who says all rich men are generous? Or a healthy complex?

@Topic: married to a man that hates going to the market. Hasn't gone in years.

Does supermarket runs when required.

I also hate people going to the market for me. I love the walk the length of the market, take in new products available, interact with sellers & co-buyers and haggle prices with sellers.

It is my opportunity to interact with my community/society.

rickpat:
since you ain't a fan of relationship or MARRIAGE.. Don't you think you are only adding more to your frustration by reading, commenting and trying to prove a point in Marital and relationship issues?...son save yourself the stress and stick to your beliefs

rickpat:
look bro,any man or woman happily married and tells you he or she doesn't do things to please his or her partner is a big liar...forget all these alpha nonsense you kids claim online, marry your wife,the way that works for you...have a great year...I laugh when you people throw that word simp around... Lol

Nice initiative, recording in very poor taste.

Some things should never leave the bedroom.

Anyways, if she did not record it, how would we learn?

Jeon:
Malignantguest, will explain.

Chee59:
TO THE MEN ESPECIALLY.
Please if you can't afford to be physically, emotionally and financially there for your children, you don't need to have children.

I'm begging you with so much pain.

Child neglect is abuse. And abuse ruins life.
Don't bow to pressure to have kids if you know you're not ready.
It's better to have a dead parent than a negligent parent.

Where do these nitwits spring out from?

Teachers are not emotionally attached to students? Leaders are not attached to followers?

Na wa o.

envoymedia:
Jay Jay Okocha And Wife, Nkechi Celebrate Their 25th Wedding Anniversary (Photos)

Former Nigerian footballer and ex-Super Eagles captain, Austin Jay Jay Okocha has taken to his Instagram handle to celebrate 25th wedding anniversary with his wife, Nkechi, today January 3, IGBERETV reports.

He shared a photo of himself and his wife with the caption;



https://www.instagram.com/p/Cm8uqe-sRdk/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

The couple got married in 1997 and have been blessed with two children.

Happy married life to him & wifey. More wins, more blessings, amen.

Since you know you are the problem, why don't you really adjust than pay lip service and dole senseless posts?

Not your fault; wokeness is removing the stigma in divorce hence making it a norm.

Hopefully, the next girl remembers you are just bedmate material and don't get tempted to become a wife to you.

davidtemi:
Just apologize to those who attended your wedding. Rubbish people

NoToPile:
I am enjoying it baje been laughing since besides it's been a while we had such vawulence on this section. Well I am almost certain nobody has anything against him apart from this matter too.

People can observe one's pattern of posts though the Mata no reach to deactivate this mata is small when scammers sef are still prowling.

We have seen worse scenerios , nothing can shock me on this NL again is it not someone that came to Nairaland and said his wife is emasculating him said terrible things about his wife romance section boys yabbed the poor woman taya, yabbed women in general taya laslas the woman came out to say it's not true she was heartbroken, the same husband came to same thread to apologize, still the romance section boys could not admit the lady was right and the guy was wrong to have lied about his wife. If you want link I can give you oo

It was a new year like this the vawulence on that thread no be here.

People should learn to sift between posts/advices shikena

Please link ma.

Happy new year

IME1:
I love my father and mother, brothers and sisters, and so on, men and women so much that I don't like when people generalise!
When you abuse men you forget your sons, uncles.
When you disrespect women you forget your nieces, grandma.

How can we come online and start spewing so much hate because you don't belong to the other gender?
Can we become to the 2 at the same time?

Don't we know that a number of people here use 'm' whereas they are females and vice versa?
Sadly some males here who lash out at women were raised by their mothers - single, widow or divorced
While some females here are still living in their dad's houses enjoying security, pecks and family time with siblings...

So what's all these?
12 pages already?

Hah

Me that started work since yesterday... I thought by today many of us adults would have started getting busy in this beautiful prospective new year?!

Please nau

@bold:

Somehow, they are God's favorite children that all the women and men around them are good.

Zonefree:
The mod that edited and pushed this thread to FP will find it difficult to make Heaven.

Nairaland evening newspapers have succeeded in getting one of our elite members down. Quite unfortunate.

So, na this pattern una carry come this year?

No shaking. As the bird has learnt to fly without perching, the shooter will also learn to shoot without stopping.

A minute silence for our departed comrade.

The joke is on you who have developed hatred for women based on the OP's posts while he is eating homemade Abacha and collecting sweet knacks thereafter

pocohantas:
Yes. He is a regular poster of his trips around America with his wife. I started noticing a lot of irregularities and I began to wonder how he does it easily.

He is always insulting Black women in America. Calls them fat and grumpy. But when someone pointed out his wife is “fat”, he said he dated many slim girls before his wife and none took care of his stomach like her.

He talks down on marrying homebased or grown Nigerian women. But on another thread he said his wife migrated as an adult from PH.

You spend all day shaming marriage and Nigerian women (In America). Telling guys to try Ethiopians. Whereas you are actively married to a Nigerian woman. Then when you are caught in your lies, you start throwing baseless accusations. He is lucky he is a man and some of his gender are here to mansplain and twist logic on its head. A woman won’t get away with this level of hypocrisy easily.

Hopefully peeps would have sense this year and sift through useless advices.

Or they don't and they provide us premium entertainment like their principals in the real world.

P.S.: I see he has also deactivated his account.

Good riddance to bad rubbish.

Michelle55:
I pity anyone who takes relationship/marriage advice online seriously.
Over the years, I've learned to mind my business. I only read and move on!
Op is a perfect example of a frenemy!

Hahahahahaha @ frenemy.

Happy new year.

He and his likes are fulfilling a need: appealing to the itchy ears of this generation.

pocohantas:
Your wife is feeding you meals, whereas you are on Nairaland telling whoever cares to listen that men have stopped marrying and are divorcing per second because men gain nothing from marriage. All this while staying firm inside your marriage, going on trips with your wife and eating coconut rice and fufu.

Na mumu dey take relationship advice online.

If the rest of you like, don’t find a good partner and hold them tight. You will be online commenting “Does your wife have a sister?” … “Is your husband single?” Before you know it, they done leave you.

@bold:

Really?

The year is still very young, let me leave it at the laughter above.

Happy new year