₦airaland Forum

Grow up and stop wallowing in tribalism. It's not healthy and makes you subhuman

jaxxy:
Yeah sure it can I forgot I guess everybody came out stark naked. Dumbo

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Hohenheim:
What was the reaction of your friends and or family when you revealed to them that you don't believe in god?

For me when I told my friends they were bewildered lol they couldn't understand not believing in god. My guy even started preaching and quoting bible for me and na me and him dey smoke, drink and fornicate together o. The thing shock me.

Share yours

Na their way. Dem too dumb, they can't see beyond White man's religion

Craze lol

jaxxy:
There is no reason why she should be naked. Let’s hope there’s no fowl play.



Sm1 can strip completely naked in such a condition underneath a pile of debris?? Oh wow!



because it’s is un

See stupid comment. Una go dey comment like say una no get sense, dey suspect foul play there like fowl that you are. You obviously don't realise the force of impact can shred whatever they were wearing

Aaronsrod:
I just pray you are all covered in the Blood of Jesus.

This is not a true Christian country.

I will remain in Nigeria where I can be safe from Satans gay agenda.

See mad man

PastorM:
I’m one proud mama right now.

My 20-year-old son, Phillip ran a half-marathon (13 miles) this morning to raise funds for Zoe’s Place Baby Hospice, UK. They look after terminally ill babies.

He completed the race in just over 2 hours.

My selfless son, a University student, gave up his evenings to train and raise money for a hospice he has no personal link to.

Black boys (in the UK) usually have a bad rap so let’s commend a good deed when we see it. Thank you.

Maybe you need to question your judgement as a mother if this is "selfless" to you. People do this every day. I'm sure at least half of those who ran the marathon did it for charity purposes. If this is new or surprising to you, you certainly have been demonstrating bad, selfish judgements all these years. Thank God your son is different.

https://www.nairaland.com/4250945/give-birth-usa-cost-procedures
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Dollywood:
What do you do about the long dark winter that keeps everyone isolated?

Chief, what's with you and this loneliness sef? Na so e hard reach? Learn to make new friends or download a dating app or something. Don't come here and start complaining.

Kill them off or feed to dogs. Always a good option

Una go mess up with olosho girls, but finally go find deeper life wife

Cutting my cloth according to my size.
Not envying others
Not being influenced by money.
Focusing on my own goals and staying in my own Lane

Una dey cause overpopulation in Nigeria and Una dey happy.

We are such a pitiful lot. Would these guys have accorded this relic any respect if it wasn't originally stolen? The culture they have and are born with, do they even accord that any respect? Instead they will be following pastor up and dan.

Rolly22:
Seriously the way Nigerians complain of Taxes abroad marvels me and I keep asking, Do they want all those good basic amenities of life for free or what

This is the most insightful post I've seen on this topic. They come from a country where they've always felt entitled despite not paying taxes. So it amazes them when they learn they have to pay in these countries. It can sometimes be a long bridge to travel.

Dollywood:
The stuff im saying is that, people should be aware about style of life in Canada, it's a very cold, depressive, dull and uneventful place to live for an average African. Yall should tell them what they can do to help themselves from those ruthless mental torture.

You should speak more for yourself and not for the average African. Some people don't even know what you are talking about. Again, like many people have said, is not by force to live in Canada. You can always go back home to Nigeria where it is lively every single day.

shupy:
You can always return to Nigeria where everything is lively.

Good response lol

What's up with all these rubbish news on FrontPage these days sef

Vanity

sirjamesjnr:
There is no sure thing as a sexual quota. And there is no such thing as a ‘hoe’. Men that slut-shaming women are not mature to be in a grown-up relationship. No lady is not accountable to any man for her past. It's none of a man's business.

That lady A has one guy she sleep with when she was 15 till she clocks 30 and married, lady B has a body count of 100 before her 30th birthday. The truth is the two ladies have sex and they don't owe you any explanation.

If you are going to marry for 'purity" look for a virgin girl. Do not condemn a man who wants a team player, homemaker, companion, and someone who can resonate with him. A virgin girl can tick all the boxes agreed. If you found that virgin girl with these qualities good luck. There is a lady out there for every man. Time is hard, while the world is moving forward, the Average Nigerian man is talking about body count. Shouldn't you be worried about a lady who can build a great home with you so your generation won't abuse you? Whether you are wealthy or you are coming up, I will like to think you need a proper woman to build your home with you.

My time in this uncertain world, both in the corporate world and among great minds. What we care about are ladies with decent character, basic moral values, ethics, cleanliness, abilities to accept responsibility, and willingness to learn something good. Never for once within this circle of friends and learned mind do we care about what a woman does with her body. What you do when you are in a relationship with me is what matters.

To that man who is in a decent relationship:
I know how you feel. When you develop strong feelings for a girl, it’s hard to think of her being with other guys. Even though you can rationalize that her past relationships happened before you met, it doesn’t make it any easier to accept that there were others who had been intimate with her. But you can’t dwell on this. It will destroy you, and it will destroy your relationship with your girlfriend.

Unless your girlfriend is the kind of girl that is very flirtatious, and who loves all the attention that she can get from guys, you probably don’t have anything to worry about. If she were a “hoe” she wouldn't want to have a decent relationship. So how do you get over this? There are only two things that I know of that you can do:

1. Don’t torture yourself with the details. There is no reason for you to know with whom she did it, how many times they did it, what positions they did it in, how big the guys were, and if they were better in bed than you or not. As tempting as it is to ask her these things—don’t! And stop her from volunteering that kind of information. Knowing these things will not help you or your relationship with your girlfriend in any way. They will only become mental and emotional burdens to you—obstacles and barriers that you will constantly have to overcome in order to treat her the way that she deserves to be treated. You protect yourself and you protect your relationship when you avoid rubbing your nose in her past.

2. Change the way that you look at people. Start realizing that every one of us is screwed up in some way. There are no perfect people. Every single one of us does dumb things and makes mistakes in our quest to find love and belonging. Your girlfriend is no exception. Choose to see her through the eyes of love and compassion, rather than through the eyes of judgment and condemnation.

To our ladies. I have one thing to say to you. You don’t need to apologize for your past relationships, and you don't need to explain yourself to any man. Simply understand that all you need is to be loved by someone, and if it didn’t work out, move on and build your life. Hopefully, your next relationship will work out for you.

Me personally? I’ve never longed to be with a virgin except for an ex and my girl(I am not with her because of sexual purity). I prefer my sexual partners to already know their way around their own sexuality. That means they’ve gotten some practice. Now I understand that as a man you need some certain confidence that some of you may are probably still forming. But when someone says something derogatory about the woman I’ve chosen to love I don’t reconsider my love. I conclude the person saying it is an idiot and ignore them in the future. I have faith in myself which leads me to have faith in the people I choose as partners.

Ladies out there, know the class of men you allow into your life. Be responsible for your actions.

Says the man who went with one of the most conservative girls on Nairaland. And two of your girlfriends were or are virgins. You should be putting your money where your mouth is. It's as clear as daylight that this was just a self-serving post.

sirjamesjnr:
There is no sure thing as a sexual quota. And there is no such thing as a ‘hoe’. Men that slut-shaming women are not mature to be in a grown-up relationship. No lady is not accountable to any man for her past. It's none of a man's business.

That lady A has one guy she sleep with when she was 15 till she clocks 30 and married, lady B has a body count of 100 before her 30th birthday. The truth is the two ladies have sex and they don't owe you any explanation.

If you are going to marry for 'purity" look for a virgin girl. Do not condemn a man who wants a team player, homemaker, companion, and someone who can resonate with him. A virgin girl can tick all the boxes agreed. If you found that virgin girl with these qualities good luck. There is a lady out there for every man. Time is hard, while the world is moving forward, the Average Nigerian man is talking about body count. Shouldn't you be worried about a lady who can build a great home with you so your generation won't abuse you? Whether you are wealthy or you are coming up, I will like to think you need a proper woman to build your home with you.

My time in this uncertain world, both in the corporate world and among great minds. What we care about are ladies with decent character, basic moral values, ethics, cleanliness, abilities to accept responsibility, and willingness to learn something good. Never for once within this circle of friends and learned mind do we care about what a woman does with her body. What you do when you are in a relationship with me is what matters.

To that man who is in a decent relationship:
I know how you feel. When you develop strong feelings for a girl, it’s hard to think of her being with other guys. Even though you can rationalize that her past relationships happened before you met, it doesn’t make it any easier to accept that there were others who had been intimate with her. But you can’t dwell on this. It will destroy you, and it will destroy your relationship with your girlfriend.

Unless your girlfriend is the kind of girl that is very flirtatious, and who loves all the attention that she can get from guys, you probably don’t have anything to worry about. If she were a “hoe” she wouldn't want to have a decent relationship. So how do you get over this? There are only two things that I know of that you can do:

1. Don’t torture yourself with the details. There is no reason for you to know with whom she did it, how many times they did it, what positions they did it in, how big the guys were, and if they were better in bed than you or not. As tempting as it is to ask her these things—don’t! And stop her from volunteering that kind of information. Knowing these things will not help you or your relationship with your girlfriend in any way. They will only become mental and emotional burdens to you—obstacles and barriers that you will constantly have to overcome in order to treat her the way that she deserves to be treated. You protect yourself and you protect your relationship when you avoid rubbing your nose in her past.

2. Change the way that you look at people. Start realizing that every one of us is screwed up in some way. There are no perfect people. Every single one of us does dumb things and makes mistakes in our quest to find love and belonging. Your girlfriend is no exception. Choose to see her through the eyes of love and compassion, rather than through the eyes of judgment and condemnation.

To our ladies. I have one thing to say to you. You don’t need to apologize for your past relationships, and you don't need to explain yourself to any man. Simply understand that all you need is to be loved by someone, and if it didn’t work out, move on and build your life. Hopefully, your next relationship will work out for you.

Me personally? I’ve never longed to be with a virgin except for an ex and my girl(I am not with her because of sexual purity). I prefer my sexual partners to already know their way around their own sexuality. That means they’ve gotten some practice. Now I understand that as a man you need some certain confidence that some of you may are probably still forming. But when someone says something derogatory about the woman I’ve chosen to love I don’t reconsider my love. I conclude the person saying it is an idiot and ignore them in the future. I have faith in myself which leads me to have faith in the people I choose as partners.

Ladies out there, know the class of men you allow into your life. Be responsible for your actions.

Do you actually realize that high body count is highly correlated with debilitating sexual diseases? Why would you say body count doesn't matter? For some men, body count matters and no one should judge such men for that.

DissTroy:
Are we all going to ignore the fact that some people are advocating hooking a man with juju on this thread? What is wrong with you people?

Isn't hypnotising a person against a their a crime or are we going to ignore it because women are the ones doing it?

Now when a woman wears something as simple as waistbeads, men get triggered because you've all normalised juju.

I wonder what have them the right to become relationship advisors. Absolute nonsense is what they've typed.

All sorts of nonsense on this thread. Absolute nonsense