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Tell her to date the guy, then be visiting you at a hotel 🤷🏼

Most Nigeria women abroad don’t like white boys!

No legit company will chat you up on WhatsApp to offer you a job.

The same people ‘parading’ Davido last week are here to preach he that hath no sin. The ones who lambasted Yul and called him community penis have all found God and know what judge not means.

Hypocrites calling out hypocrisy as usual. Just a regular Sunday on Nairaland.

What exactly is the cause of her rantings? She’s not had the child yet she’s talking about lawyers and support. She says she has a lambo and she pays $500k in taxes, she may end up paying Davido child support.

In the concluding part, she went back to sleep in his arms, her phone light came up as it was on silent mode, he picked to see who had called, it was chicken republic, shortly a whatsapp message came in and he snooped. He saw the conversation with chicken republic and almost died. She forgot to delete them.

He asked for a divorce, she insisted on getting half of everything, the court granted her wishes. Chicken republic now lives in the house he built.

To answer your question about why men cheat! Men cheat because there isn’t any serious repercussions for a man cheating. What’s the worst that will happen to Banky? His wife leaves and there are 100 women waiting to scoop him up in a heartbeat.

This may not be fair but it is the reality.

No man wants to be kept. It’s the lack of opportunity that keeps people. We should all come to the understanding that if you are in a relationship in this generation, the probability you have been or are being cheated on exceeds 90%. It’s a possibility that Adesua has cheated on Banky too.

Being cheated on is one of the risks you take for the numerous benefits of a relationship. Some people believe this risk isn’t worth the benefits so they stay single. The only way to ensure you aren’t cheated on is to stay single.

Atleast one person willing to let the other have their way all the time.

She should go back to school for a Masters in Computer Science. All these things you learn on Udemy and YouTube will not lead her anywhere.

Unless you want her to be on Nairaland hassling people to come edit their photos for #2000.

Any man who doesn’t rape any woman he sees including his family member has control of his sexual urges. Having consensual sex is a thing of pride not shame.

Sex has always been the prerogative of the best of men. The finest, the most confident, the wealthiest of men gets the most sex. The number of women you sleep with and the frequency is a confirmation of being in this elite group of men.

It takes effort, discipline, tact and strategy to pursue a woman and get her, so people who choose to resist their sexual urges and the ones who would rather act on it both show discipline albeit in different directions; the direction they believe is beneficial for them. If that makes them dogs then let the dogs breath, do not suffocate them.

Back in the days when I would invite a chick over and I wasn’t sure if they were dtf, I would offer a massage. I will usually start from the shoulder then work my way to the back and then the waist, if at that point there is no form of resistance, I would have gotten the confirmation I wanted.

Physical touch between opposite sex, whether it be as simple as holding hands, hugs, massage or dance is a way of communicating attraction.

If you walk in on a guy giving your wife a shoulder massage, would you shrug it off as ‘she must be tired’?

In all of these pictures, there’s no proof that the girls were making the purchase or withdrawal for the men. I think these are just horn.y guys. They are like buy what you want to buy let me take you home and deal with you.

The characteristics listed above are ones of a woman nobody wants. You can’t call yourself faithful unless you overcame the temptations of cheating. It’s like a broke person saying they are not materialistic.

Giving advice is easy! Living the advice you give is the hard part. Everyone knows the right thing to do when their lives wouldn’t be affected.

All five points are very very very relatable. You tell girls these things, they say you aren’t intentional. And the guys who put in all the effort to do all these things aren’t even appreciated because women think they should come naturally with love.

I know there’s another guy doing all these things for you that makes it seem easy, but once he has you, things will change too.

You haven’t seen someone worth cheating with. The desire will overwhelm the guilt.

The waiter lady is mad funny. See as she off camera. No time for hanky panky.

It’s all about optics, outlook and perspective. She may have dated people in the past who didn’t mind these things. The question is do you mind? If you do it’s your responsibility to communicate your displeasure to her.

It’s up to her to decide what’s worth more to her, you or the other guys. It’s up to you to decide on how to proceed based on her decision.

If you have put in all these efforts and they haven’t yielded results it’s because you are not an attractive person. My suggestions to you are;

1. Referral - Talk to your married friends and relatives, tell them you want a wife. Most married people always have those single friends who are willing to settle down asap. The downside of this is your wife may not like you, she just wants to marry.

2. Platonic friends - stop chasing something serious, look for friends, while most people make platonic friends in childhood, teen and early youth, it’s not too late for you. The goal is your friend may fall in love with your personality. Your looks, status or whatever makes girls not to reply your messages wouldn’t matter to her.

3. Give up - Jesus did not get married.

He most likely never liked you or he got tired of you. All the maltreatment was him pushing you away, you just didn’t take the clue.

What’s happened has happened, forgive yourself for your lack of self respect and move on. Do better next time.

She wanted the outing not you. She could not tell you she wasn’t going to come, seeing as you spent money in anticipation of a private moment with her.

Imagine you meet a girl today and she starts talking about marriage tomorrow, would her desperation not scare you? Thats the same way your desperation to knack scares her.

Where’s the fun in that? If he replaces her husband another guy will replace him.

Most of Trump supporters are racists.

The Yorubas don’t have to dispel sheet! The hate & name calling was on both sides. There were also more yorubas condemning the outburst. Noble should stop playing the victim.

APC wasn’t responsible for the polarization, it’s not the first time Yorubas and Igbos have clashed, it won’t be the last either.

One reason they are one of the happiest country in the world.

There are many women who saw short term courtship as a blessing. They got married, got divorced after two years and are back to chasing the guys they once called time wasters.

You were a good girl but your desire to get a husband did not come to fruition, you then believe the solution to getting someone to marry you fast is to be disloyal?

The reason your man isn’t in a haste to get married is because there’s another lady who has taken your advice to not be loyal, she’s cheating on her own bf with your man. The opportunity cost of marrying you is that he would have to give up the pleasures of being with the other girl.

The bottom line is marriage is not the ultimate, there are relationships that are way better than some people marriages. If you leave a decent human being because he’s not ready in six months, whatever you see in the hands of 4ck boys out there is your cross to bear.

These days I don’t find any Naija comedian funny except for Aproko. There was a time when comedians did it for the passion, these days it’s all for the money. Comedians today just dance, insult the audience and bill e-money.

Being called stingy by a lady should be seen as a compliment. It means you are prudent and you have your priorities in order.

When you have gathered enough even your stinginess will be considered generosity as opposed to a generous broke man. Imagine you have 100m and assist a lady with 500k, would she not appreciate you over someone who has 150k, who gives her 50k?

Everybody should be scared of marriage. If there was a research that 50% of airplanes will experience a crash, would you not be scared of flying? Infact if you aren’t scared of marriage I’m scared of you.

He can’t wait for her to enjoy her record for one month? Let’s see how far he goes. 93 hours to go.