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There is nothing like freedom, honestly

It's better to have less in your pocket but take charge of your freedom than having all you desire yet be in prison

Tadeknkeepcalm:
So no one caught on to his false tactics all these while

Or no man was brave enough to challenge him even if he "supposedly" had a gang? When you can clearly tackle him and lock the door.


And even those male colleagues in the office, no one was smart enough to catch on, or they couldn't tactically and bravely face the gang

Easy said than done, pray not to have anything with an a robber armed or not armed

For the fact that he came on as a robber is enough to dread him

You see why they ho out to school and get good grades, here, jamb and post jamb will toss them from up to down

saintvc:
IS there a law that prohibit doctors from showing happiness after a successful surgery. Is it a ploy to show that one is an expert.Like putting a serious face shows it is a normal thing and the doctor is perceived as a professional.



ordinary prayer, Pastor will jubilate with you.

He is doing his job and for every successful surgery, he adds more knowledge

How many jobs will he do and keep showing gratitude

He is already fulfilled within him for every thing done successfully

Yemialade:
Hello my fellow nairaland brothers and sisters,hope you all are doing well cause health is wealth.let me start by saying a big THANK YOU to you guys for being a supportive family,your comments on my blurry vision and to see a eye doctor really helped me,my left eye is now in better condition. i need your help cause am worried for my future.i rarely see my ovulation this days after my menstruation which is regular.please help,i dont want to be barren.i hope to have my own children in d future.i dont want surrogacy in the future.am 23 years old.

You need to ask a doctor what it takes to do fertility test

You are actually ovulating just that you don't feel those cramps

Stop getting worried over non existing issues pls

You mind too can play tricks with your brain, so relax

SweetCunt97:
You are simply the naive one. I just saw d take a bullet talk.. Buhhaahhaha. Sure he'll do that to be fed and given shelter and all but when things turn for good for him I hope he'll still be committed and humble to you.

Enjoy d pm of jobless loafers that will bombard ur mail sha. Goodluck

And you think I allow or accept pm

EASYGURU:
Bro take this advice first before you work with other advice to up your game

Thanks

SweetCunt97:
There are small start-up he could get involved with. A man who simply sits at home while the woman goes out to work is a bummer without shame. Unless he's willing to clean, cook and everything before she comes back.

I can see that you can't answer simple questions

Am done with you

good day nairalanders please guys i need your advice guys,it all started last year their is this girl in my hood that has been coming to our house she call me her husband i thought may be it just one of those thing but recently she came to my house she greeted me but i did not answer since that day she dont talk to me much she even told my dad that i dont give her attention,pls does that really mean she likes me,thanks for you advice and opinion.

Thank your God for giving you wisdom to resist her

Maintain your stand and you will not be accused of anything silly

Because everyone will believe her

YINKS89:
. Alot especially the youth of nowadays who wish to just sleep wake up and be spending money without doing nothing...

Secondly you can't put those words together because it would not make meaning again... How would you want someone to do something wen he can't get what to do? Kindly rephrase that.


The third question would be answered witha question, when is a man due for marriage, seeing a woman to accept you the way you re in all honesty is very rare also it take alot of will... This things only happens in movies even in western world they split the bills

When you chose to date ladies of the ages of 20/25yra what do you expect

When you date 30/35yrs, what do you also expect

skimena:
The first time I heard this word I just couldn't stop laughing. do girls really have fish brains? The girls of nowadays seem to be smarter than this or is it olden days women they are referring to? May be it's a personal view and not a general view. Just thinking aloud.

They can as well call them any thing

Until a woman deals with you, you will not know how effective their brain is

YINKS89:
I don't know of your tribe but majority of ethic group I've seen would always forbid your husband to be idle awhile you work
... Some would even see it as you've cast a spell on him to render him useless

Now tell me

Have you ever seen a man who wishes to be idle

Tell me one thing a man can do if he can't get employed or get himself something doing

Then lastly, tell me what's the way out especially if he is due for marriage and sees a woman that will be willing to accept him the way he is

YINKS89:
In a society we find ourselves things like that don't work, infact some people see it as a taboo and you just confirmed that with the bolded text.

What do you consider to be a taboo in the statement

Mvici:
I had a girlfriend some few months back before the covid 19 outbreak, that was after we went home from school due to the strike and the pandemic, we both are in thesame school which is IBB university lapai, in our final. So at home this faithful day, I put a call through! We both were talking, laughing on phone, so she ask about my mum, I said she was fine and she now ask abt her loneliness because no one at home, I told her but I'm still here with her, she ask what if school resume and what if we should go for our service next year, she now told me to marry another man for my mum.... lol... telling me who knows" that my mum might like the idea if I should table it with her. gosh! I actually laughed about it then on phone with her but inside me, it wasn't funny at all.

The next day, what she told me was still bordering me, so many things were just running on my mind...so even if by mistake I wife her in future and the Lord decide to take me when we have a grown up child like me, who is planning on becoming a graduate this year and have even spent 30 years in marriage already....she won't even murn me for long before accepting another man's proposal or bleeping with another man or probably her one time ex.

I decided to ask my mum with play, mum be sincere to me, you and my dad have been married since far back 1986... U both were in marriage for about 30 yrs before he past away few years ago, may his soul rest in peace..this is 5yrs now are you considering on marrying any one or having any kind of body movement or even can stand the presence of another man in your life?

Guess what her reply was....
Mum said my dad was the only man she know in her life and that's how it going to remain by God grace, period! and I shouldn't ask her such again with cry/smiles on her face because she has me and I will give her groundchil........


Seriously I don't know why I brought this here but pls tell me, any girl that can ask a 52 Yes old woman to re_marry even after she has a child, isn't it clear that she can't stay without having sex to anyone aslong as her husband is on a peace keeping mission or even travel abroad? Thanks everyone.

She might mean no harm by asking for it

She was just too forward because your mum never told her that she was lonely

Besides, those days women, who were disvirgined by their husbands , will never ever allow any man to near her

MadeINchenzen2:


I mean like say , nice boobz

or Nice tits

or nice bossoms?


There should be a reason women put their tits out there with their revealing outfits neckline dropping down, exposing their chests.

No woman does such

Some have big tits and some tits can chose to be strong

Why complimenting her boobs, why not her pussy or are you not seeing where its located

Just tell her you look lovely

Simple

YINKS89:
I was listening to radio this morning and the question was asked and in my own opinion i would never advice someone to marry a spouse that is jobless or doesn't have source of income.. Although some people may be of the opinion that it is okay in the case of the wife been jobless but not the husband because he is the man. So guys over to you what do you think?

Joblessness is not a disease or a curse

It's situations that led to it

So If I see a jobless man who will take bullet for me, yes we will get married

A man that will appreciate everything I do
A man that will protect me from the eyes of his family
A man I will leave at home a d go to work, he will assist in domestic things and still make the home good
A man that will love me and make me feel like a woman
A man that will be loyal to me

Such men are rare to find but if lack of job will humble you then you are good to go

Most times women don't need money but affection and attention with domestic help

You are sure of a peaceful home

LilMissFavvy:
Its all about choices. There is nothing wrong with a woman keeping her father's name, especially if you were born into affluence, you can't possibly dump a great name to bear the name of a nobody. Some women hypernate their names after marriage, to add their fathers name at the end, ain't a bad idea at all.

Exactly ❗

AprokoGirl:
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My Own Comment - The Worst Thing That will Happen to a Man (If am the doctor , i will allow him to die in Peace)

There is no single truth in this report

How can a man lye down or stand with his full eyes open, then a nine months pregnant woman will cut his dick

Where did she get the strength from

newdawn2017:
Why will she prophecy positive to one who unremorsefully & consistently hurt her consciously?? Despite her severally avoid him or her & overlooking such wickedness?? Does such a person wish her life with such attitude toward her? D persons should without fail & delay get d consequence of such bitter & unruly attitude towards his fellow human being. Bi stand for justice.

Am eye for an eye, make everyone go blind

If you read very well, you will see where I say try to avoid staying around people who hurts your emotional feelings

Always calm down to read or comprehend comments, it's not about sending a counter comment

She has a rare gift and have to be will to accommodate somethings

She knows when her emotions are about to be punctured and that's the right time to move away

If she continues to curse, have you considered how families will keep mourning

combination123:
Very great n insightful advice

Thanks for the acknowledgement

GogetterMD:
Who handles the money? Na the matter we go still need settle later

Definitely the woman's family

That's the best home to raise the children

BluntNigerian:
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Please ma post and hide my ID... Notify me when posted...

I don't know what is happening to me, I don't know if it is a curse or a blessing. I want to know if there's anyone in the group who has similar case or knows anything about it, because I am tired of this...

Okay this is it, any one who hurts me end up meeting terrible fate in a short time. I can count alot of them, it is more than a mere coincidence.

If I cry because of someone, I end up hearing a negative or Terrible news that concern them sooner than later. I remember when a man lied to people in his dialect against me, in my presence o. I didn't understand, when I later found out, I was bittered, I cried that night and went to meet him the next morning, i told him, sir because you lied against me, someone that is old enough to be your daughter, you caused me tears, you will shed double. It didn't reach two months, his two daughters died, I regretted my statement. I have been robbed in my house where I live alone, I cried terribly and cursed those people that they will never know peace, they returned my property by themselves and as I speak to you, they are behind bars. I can only mention but a few, there was also a period my ex slapped me publicly, over something that isn't serious, I cried bitterly and he was too proud to apologise, he had his Visa then, he travelled and he was sent back in less than a month.

This is serious as I speak to you, I don't know if this is natural, I know things happen coincidentally but in my case, it keeps repeating itself... I can't count all of them. When I was a kid I didn't take it serious, it even made me laugh but now It gives me great concern.

Okay the last one that happened now is this, I am dating this guy for a while now, his business was blooming well, I do come around and do some chores for him and sometimes use my money to cook for him but one day, in a middle of an argument, he called me a prostitute in front of his friends which I am not, I didn't know what gave him the motivation. I cried so much, I used sell stuffs on pre order then, and it pained me that I used my sweat to cook for him and he ate it that may all his sweat yield no effort. I said it in private. After a couple of time we reconciled but now, his business has died off... Nothing he is doing seems to work. I can't even tell him anything about it.

This is really more than a coincidence, it has repeated itself time after time. sometimes I tend to forgive people quickly and overlook things because I don't know what might follow if I think it too hard and cry over it...

Please, I want the group to tell me what to do? I don't know if this is a blessing or a curse. I need answer

It's not a curse or whatever negative

You are gifted but you are yet to know how to identify it or use it well

But my advice is that, your tongue is powerful and at the same time is dangerous

Best option in the interim is to control what ever that will trigger your emotional being

Stay away from people who hurts you if you can

Always prophecies positively no matter the hurt or better still just don't react if you can

Go closer to God and he will perfectly give you the ability to prophecy into people's life and you will make your fortune from it

Don't always allow people around you know that you have mystic power that can bring one's down fall, they may dread you and you will be left alone

Remember, use it positively

For the fact that Ned can afford to provide equal live and care to his wife

Giving them their individual attention

There won't be any nonsense there from anyone of them

Even if you are not happy, you will also know that you are not his only wife

This is how polygamous family should be, unity and peace

That's their watch word

She is just desperate and once a man detects a desperate woman he treats her like an unwanted guest

ukpahu:
Hear my story. I am Igala by tribe. When i was in the village this thing happen more than 12 years ago.

A lady i was dating then got pregnant and she told me about it, then i asked her what's the next step, she told me that she will abort the baby. One month later, another story that she will not give me the baby because my mother doesn't like her.

Before she gave birth to the baby, i traveled to town and got work in one of the federal universities. I spent two years without going back to the village. The last time i traveled to village, i noticed that she is married to another man with two children o. I asked her of my baby, she told me to divorce my wife and marry her before she can give my baby or if i try any thing funy she is going to charm me.

I told my uncle about it, he told me to forget about the baby that God has already given me a good wife and three children.

This whole thing is giving me sleepless night. I can't sleep. I am always thinking of my baby and my wife is noticing some changes in me.

Please what will i do? Should i take legal action on her? pls advice me ooooo. The woman is my first love, i will continue to love her till i die. She is the only woman i ever loved, even more than my wife. I love this woman but she cost me pain.

You see, you lost it all from day one

You did not state whether you took care of her or the baby, you shyed away from it

When it was time to marry, you left her

You got a job and never took care of her or the baby

If you go to court, the court will still grant her the baby till the child is 18yrs old

It's time you inform your wife about the who situation

It's your baby as well as her own baby

Two of you have equal rights over the child but being a minor she has more access to the child

If you can manage your home by burying her then you really want your child

It's left for her to decide if she will leave her present marriage

If you really want the child go for her

Assuming you took responsibilities over the child from day one, by now you should have a say on the child

She will rather keep the child than to give the child to you, its pay back time

Apologies to her and start getting close to her with a good charitable heart, start from there

seankafor:
His wife should be on a watch out for a possible intruder

Just listen to yourself

So one can't give out a free gift without negative intentions

WILLuKPquiet:

I beg to disagree.

Put down your points

So who will pay 40/50k for such test

When it's free in government isolation centers

Another system has been added to the existing one

Some times opportunity comes at once

NaMe4:
Make una leave this woman abeg!

Exactly, she should be left to brood herself in whatever she wants

Agba2020:
I didn't report to Dad back then for a few. The first reason being that i was afraid that Dad would throw her out or worse... my Dad has a temper. Secondly, i thought to myself "What if i report this and then she totally denies it?" I mean let's be honest, in Nigeria, when it comes to parents, we tend to put them on pedestals... they can do no wrong. Anyway, those were the reasons why i kept it to myself, but it still haunts me every single day. Oh, and i can't bring it up with them now because they are getting old and that kind of heavy shit could potentially make a person's heart give out.

Your points are very valid

Just learn to forget and forgive her

Keeping it up till this time hurts you more

Worst is that she might have forgotten everything about it

So why nurse still nursing it and bearing more pains

She is your biological mum

Move everything behind pls and stop hurting yourself

The more you store people's provocations in your heart, the heavier it will be for you to carry

The next thing is frustration and depression

neonbash0:
"I was once thrashed so badly that I couldn't believe it myself. It was like watching a movie. When I cry after a beating, my children console me. But I still believe my husband loves me. I will never walk out on him."

That's a good one

Remain beaten till you get to grave

Mumu parasite

vac888:
Sex is good, very good, depending on who you are having the intercourse with. Sex can be used for good or bad.
Sex is being used as a weapon to gain superiority, negotiations, bargain, reproduction, ease stress and finally for pleasure or enjoyment. But, most of the time, sex depends on your mood.
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That's the only weapon they have

Besides men demands for it more than women did

A woman mat need sex and draw the attention to her man, she will get it quickly but just provoke a woman and thee after go to her for sex

It's possible you will not even see her lap