PrecioussB: I am young and beautiful but when it comes to dating maybe because of some failed relationships, I rather stay on my own.
I remember even on valentine's day since i had broken up with my bf, i just decided to chill by myself. Ealking to the store, met some guys you know how they toast now, telling me why a beautiful girl like me is not on a date? and i jokingly replied i have one or just joke along.
Now I'm thinking, i might be wasting my beauty and youth because i have not been dating for long, have the zeal and will but don't have the strength.
Shouldn't I enjoy all those things now before I start looking old? My last relationship really exhausted me.
If you want to look at your past relationships, you will be scared of going into a new relationship
Shake it off and move on
You are a woman and you need to be kept and nurtured by a man
You don't have to deny yourself the natural pleasure of life
Keep trying and don't expect much from guys
They too are already running low
Just go out there let the men pick you as the flower that you are
Acme45: just look for sunshow 6600 if you can get that Generator you are good to go. 96% of Firman generator throughout Nigeria are fake , better still get Thermocool 6kva from any accredited dealer. If you buy Firman generator the Firman generator will fire you with problems every month. Am a Gen mechanic.
Thanks very much for your advice, I was able to get the Thermocool generator 6.25kva today
TheEnlightenedO: I have a 7kva semi silent original Firman that can Easily power all these. It was bought brand new in February, I'm moving and looking to sell
bigtimemugu: Gudnoon Nairalanders, I have been working for a company for 35k per month for 12 months no increment. I have been promoted from one position to another without a payrise.
Late may this year my salary was increased to 50k with a whole lots of task, I work Monday to Sunday, 7.am to 7pm some times down to 9pm.
1st week of June a similar company based on recommendations invited me for an interview, they offer to pay me 120k, which I insisted on 150k, finally they agree to pay but when we went to the business place, it is a little beginning business that I have to grow from the scratch in an isolated area. I began to reason if I opt out of my present job and venture into this, how long will this payment last, if the business folds up, where will I start from?
In my present job it might take another 12 months before another increment but I can work there as long as I may wish to work cos it has job security.
Please advice me am confused and I have family with kids.
You are already tired with the first one
Try your luck on the second one because it comes with a higher pay and your experience and knowledge will make it grow
Always focus on the success of your imput not really the pay rise
Your importance and input will prompt them to increase your salary
Zzyzxt: It is because it is different from the senwein Generator we have in the market now.. It is Original and I cant see fake Thermo cool in the market provided you buy from accredited dealer...
phal: Car gurus in the house please kindly help me suggest which car would fit my budget, I am actually planning to buy my first car as my family is growing big and moving from point A to B is becoming stressful for us, hence I decided to get a very good & sharp Nigerian used car with a budget of 500K max.
I want a car that is very durable, reliable, fuel efficient, cheap and accessible parts, meanwhile I don't want Toyota or Honda as they are too common on Nigerian roads & I also believe they re not the only best car options we can get. Though I am looking at Nissan Almera 2001, Nissan primera 2000 to 2002, VW Golf 3 and Mazda cars from 1999 to 2002 models.
Please kindly help me as I need your car expertise to decide which car to go for ASAP.
Thanking you in advance
Thanking
Toyota and Honda cars are rugged that's why you see them every where
You can buy any car you see any where on display and be ready to be sleeping mechanic every month because the amount you are budgeting can't give you a can with the required conditions that you listed
A friend of mine got scammed of a huge amount of money(i cant put the price here) by someone who sells cars .So how do we go about it because the police has really eaten us deep and done nothing about it.
The guy who scammed him has not been online for a month now he just vanished, we visited the parents house and they said they dont know where their son is and the funny thing is that they didnt seem worried at all.
You brought a case of lost of money by trick and you don't want to give full details and the amount involved
So how do you want the advice of suggestions to be ?
Trayceey: A friend of mine just opened up to me about her relationship. She said when she met her man, she assumed she was younger than him because he looked so big and more mature than her and he also acts mature than her.
One day, they were discussing their age and she found out she was older, so she had to lie about her age. The relationship went on and the love grew stronger, then a day came, she asked him if he can marry a lady older than him, he said 'never' she asked what if it's just one year? He still said ' never'. Then she asked him that what if he later found out that his girlfriend is older, what would he do? He said he would end the relationship.
She said she couldn't bear it any longer and so she opened up to him about her age. That she's a year older than him. She wants him to know before it's too late. After opening up to him, she was expecting him to end the relationship but he didn't. He's still coming for her, he still loves her and wants to marry her. But she's withdrawing from the relationship because of what the guy said earlier.
Please advise her. I will show her your comments
Just make up your mind and put your relationship 50/50
Acme45: just look for sunshow 6600 if you can get that Generator you are good to go. 96% of Firman generator throughout Nigeria are fake , better still get Thermocool 6kva from any accredited dealer. If you buy Firman generator the Firman generator will fire you with problems every month. Am a Gen mechanic.
Waooo, thanks I have my eyes on Thermocool 5kva
Though I can pump water alone and if I want to wash, I can use the washing machine alone
abokikhalifa: I really don't understand what gave this young boy the mind to steal from a store at computer village. This happened on the 12th of June 2020 at otigba street. The boys working for the store said they noticed that phones were missing and some illegal movement from strange faces were taking place. So the igbo boys set a trap and from no wear. The thief fell for it. We caught only one of them as the rest were smart enough to run for their life.
We checked the body of the young thief and saw some charm in is body. Truest Computer village boys now, they removed the charm and still went on to beat the guy before handing him over to the police men at the police post.
ProfDview1: Are you a lady? Do u pray to marry such man that will start beating u at any small tin, even boast of beating u... ?
Babe its a big shame especially when u av neighbors, couple disagree but does it have to be physical b4 u can understand each other..
It is hard to bliv such is coming from u, lady...
See my question, physical fight all time.... Not even exchange of insults.
If you think it's good, I hope u get ur man soon
You are in a hurry to comment with out proper comprehension of my post
I said problems will always comes up in marriage and I listed them
Do you want me to say that then beating their wives are doing good or you want me to say that such men are idiots
If aan should lose his sanity and beat his wife, then he should expect the public to insult him
It's every woman desires to marry a loving man, but if he becomes a beats or brings out the beast in him because of the words coming out from his wife's mouth, then he will be left alone and she walks out
If a man can not restrains himself from beating a woman, then he shouldn't make her to nag
ProfDview1: Sometimes I don't get, you guys married you love each other but You beat your wife, she in turns reciprocate.. Is love lost after marriage??
Apart from being married, a neighbor friend of mine and his gf fight sometimes.. If it was just an abuse, it would have been okay but it is always physical... The lady can curse and the guy too is not sensible at all, he will lock door and start beating her.... I don't talk with the lady coz I don't like her personally but I hate the fact that the guy beats her... The mumu lady too is living with him and they ain't married.... In the late night, they will fight and in the morning, they will be laughing..
I am just bothered, though I don't like the lady but I feel so bad when I hear them fighting and I hear her voice of pain.. She wouldn't leave, they will still laugh again... As in physical fight oooo, I am not happy at all
Why do couple in marriage engage in physical fight??
There is no way couples won't have issues in their marriage
From infidelity, lack of trust, stingyness, lies and to irresponsiblities on both sides
These are the major reasons for quarrel in marriages
Women have a default of running their mouths from morning till night, especially when things are not really getting on well
Men on the other side, will pick offence with such rather than getting the issue resolved
Well, if they fight and get settled and laugh on, then there is love in the marriage
You can't stay in marriage with out having one ugly issue coming up just get it resolved almost immediately because it has spreading effects
Omuneizzy6: Hello Nairalanders, its been a while I was in a grieved and depressed mood, trying to gain back my self.
Let's go straight to the topic. I will really love you guys to help with your good takes on this issue.
Please don't mind my poor grammar.
Sometimes last year, I was in a relationship with this young pretty girl and later she became pregnant for me. Which I had in mind that we will marry in the nearest future but, yet to settle her bride price. Though, we really loved each other, I devoted 90% of my effort and time for her genuinely.
Even one of her brothers has met me in different occasions asking when I will see the family but I told him, due to my Assignment and duty location once I settle down I will do that unfailingly.
Let me cut the whole story short.
During her delivery period she passed on while giving birth. I wasn't expecting that though I was really mad. May her soul rest in peace
I asked the brother what will be the next move, he said is to take her home and bury her. within me (just like that?) I couldn't control my tears We took her home and buried her few hours later.
On the fourth day of the burial, my parents asked the brothers and sisters both the elders. so what next they said nothing, after the burial everyone can leave. That was their reply.
My parents was like what of the other side? They said see, we don't want to bother your son we know how they were before the girl died, they really loved each other... If we ask you to pay anything. There is no amount of money paid that will bring back our sister's life so forget, what you people need to do, just stay, observe some rites and traditions like to buy drinks take care of the families and friends.. Till after the normal 8days everyone leaves.
Although, had it been it's in some places the family might not take it likely with me.. I must marry their daughter first,buy wrapper, pay her dowry, pay for the death, I must also prove innocence.
Now the question is, What is the punishment given to a man who didn't pay her lady's dowry before she died in your Place?
In Addition to that, is there any spiritual implications attached to it if a man didn't pay a lady's dowry before she died... Because I'm just scared.
Mod. please I need many takes on this. It will help a brother.
Sorry about the lose
Your saving grace was the true love, devotion and care you gave to her during your courtship
Your love for her was just enough to save you from the huge debt you would have ended up with
I don't want to talk about your penalties for not performing her marriage rites
800,000 wouldn't even have been enough besides they will not bury her until its done
Made4naijalove: A Nigerian lady has attracted attention on social media after being seen in a viral video getting a tattoo of her boyfriend's name on her face.
The lady who reportedly did this to prove her love to her boyfriend, had "Anjola my love" written on her face by the tattoo artist.
Balenciagaokey: I don't believe this news.. The Family may have bribed the judge, lawyers and policemen handling the case. No wonder they used the word RAPE, to gain public sympathy(We are in the period of rape). Only God knows.. May God Help and Save us.
Why are you reasoning like this
Have you asked yourself what the man went there to do with her
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