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salford1:
He was a genius too.
His lyrics, his ensemble, his back up singers, his vocals. Everything was up there.

He was just excellent

He was a super artist

He was excellent in what he does best

We may not have another like him

Rest in peace

NaijadrivaCars:
Awanna ray awanawana ray

wata so gban nna

He wasn't the one that sang this song, it was Raskimono

I think you have to put everything down in writing here and his full details and everything about the transaction

People who knows him will tag him

Even if you see his picture on Facebook, post it here

He is a scammer and his identity doesn't need to be covered

Eddykul:
With the increased costs of going to the university, i am just wondering whether it is worth it any more. Stories about graduates struggling to find employment and with more and more alternative routes being developed, is it still worth getting a degree?

Is it true that there are so many graduates these days that employers are now looking for work experience?

Nowadays, it is the people that didn't not go through the university that are employing graduates. #FACT

Graduates are no more getting jobs like before when university was university, after spending so much time, spending money just to learn, you later come back to square one in becoming a business owner. #FACT

Most people are getting jobs on what they didn't even read in school just to earn a living.

Nowadays work that human beings are supposed to do, it being done by robots..

I am thinking of collecting my five years tution fees and also school hostel rent fee and course materials money from my parent to start up a business.

Is going to the university worth it anymore?

You are about doing a mistake that you won't know the effect until you are at a cross road or a positive position where you would be regretting not going to school

Those days graduates gets job as soon as they are done schooling, it's not the same with these days because of economic factor and others

I will advise you go to university, while there get the knowledge and think of what you will want to do so that after schooling you go into a skill as a graduate not a semi illiterate

Unless you have lost desire for education, then it's up to you

You can't compare a graduate and a non graduate in any area of business

babajeje123:
This is what I do. I carry my babies more and it made me to bond with them even more than their mum

Yeah, that's babies for you

Anyone of the parents that carry them or plays with them often especially from infant, is the person they will be closer to

ChizzyBuna:
God cannot deny his creations

Lol

purelyobjective:
You don't have a penis and as a lady you will be bias about the topic because you want marriage by all means necessary not considering sexual enjoyment but rather concerned about being married and having children.

No woman wants marriage by all means, pls take not of that

The penis belongs to men but used on women

purelyobjective:
Men only!

There is no way it doesn't involve women

makydebbie:
Didn't you read where the op said she's too young? Don't you have a child too?
And you're a woman too. Wow.

I didn't see that part that she is too young
. If that's the case, he should stop her from visiting him, simple

ChizzyBuna:
Ladies need to understand male psychology..
We are not designed to be stuck with one puna for the rest of our lives.. Hell No
We are designed to have variety
To have Options
No matter how much you love your wife
It doesn't stop a man from cheating..
We get tired and bored of the same shape,size,texture of puna over and over for years..
That's why we want to taste something different and new to spice up, clean mouth and move on..
Ladies should accept this bitter truth
Or else you will forever suffer in agony as to why he cheated on you.
You can give him all the sex in the world but he will still taste another pussy as men we love variety, we love options..
This doesn't mean we don't love you
We are just bored of hearing the same
Moaning, the same touch, the same feel, the same smell. It gets too boring
So ladies need to understand us men when we cheat it doesn't mean we don't love you. We do but we also love variety..
Accept this truth or forever remain in pains and heartbreaks from your husband..
Men will always cheat, it's our nature.
God created us like that, and everything God created was Good To His Eyes.

God will equally deny you for quoting this rubbish

If you want to cheat pls cheat and don't ever suspect your wife

What goes around comes around

Cheat to your satisfaction and don't get mad when she cheats too

Both of you are created by God

Gaggii:
I observed that my that some babes always pee before sex and none of them is ready to tell me the reason.

I just want to be sure am safe because is not all of them that does it.

For the fact that you are likely to sleep on her, the jiggling on her may disturb the bladder and make her uncomfortable to keep you for long

Besides every human do urinate after sex, simply because the body movements has mounted pressure on the blader

purelyobjective:
Okay. Size will always be a matter for women.Though most women feel discussing penis size openly is a taboo,when they are alone with friends,they talk about it.Its just like a girl telling a guy that money is not everything,but we know it is not true.E.g, A man with a small penis falls in love with a lady having large laps an hips.During sex an on missionary style,the woman's laps will be an obstacle for the man to even penetrate fully.From behind,doggy style,,the position of the vagina and the load of fleshy buttocks will also be a determining factor.please feel free to critique.

Not true about your analysis on women

A small dick is a small dick and cannot fit Inn or do the exact job of a big dick

olajonzin:
sorry if i type many error in my english.....she came to book game in my shop ....since i am the only one in shop and i only have one laptop for booking...i allow her to come inside where i was sitting so she could be confortable with her booking....ever since then she coming around that she came to greet me ....she even tells me that she tired of her sister....she is staying at her sister place but sister would not allow to come outside...she just manage to come and see me...but...we are not dating....why would she be saying those word to me ....as if we are both in relationship....she even gave me her to call her....i do call her most time i feel confortable to call her .....guy with experience .....what do you think she really up to

Since you can't see the green light, toaste her

vybzkartel:
He has been in courtship with this lady for year. The lady has never gone to the toilet neither messed in his presence. Is this normal? He intends opting out of the relationship because of this; he thinks the lady is either a witch or has some hormanal or organization malfunctioniong

She doesn't even pee. Advise needed

They should stay together for one month so that he will observe other things properly

qwertyboss:
True!
If one can understand, he can trust, forgive, commit and tolerate

Exactly ❗ my point

Gentlec198:
Am Loosing You, My Body Is For My Husband As She Breaks Up, Barely One Month

Good Morning All, My dear Nairalanders in the forum.
Hope you guys are staying safe.

Am writing this long heartbroken article, exactly the way it happens to seek for your advice and opinion.
Early last month April, 2020, I was in relationship with a girl, who used to my best friends junior sister. I sometimes met her in their house when I pay a visit to see her brother (best friend), then I had nothing like any emotional feelings for her, just exchange greetings and I will leave with my friend to my house.

Gradually I became interested and develop feelings for her, one day I had to summon courage and I called her to tell her how I feel, she too has already feeling the same and likes me too, but was worried because of her brother, which I later meet him as a best friend, with the help of his girlfriend and we talked to him, but then he was very angry.

On the 13th April, 2020, even before her brother agreed she came to my house for us to discuss, which she told me, she does not have anything to offer in the upcoming relationship (intimacy), reason been that according to her she is a virgin, and that is the reason why she break up, her last three dates, with the guys, as she caught one among them cheating and other ones she lost communication with them, but any other things she can contribute like advice, finance etc., and even asking what the future holds for us, why I liked her, my plans towards her.

She has good heart, kindhearted and respectful, I love this girl, cherish, care, and I promised not to hurt her, and I was serious to date her, respect her, help and never to cheat on her,
At the first week things went smooth and rosy, full of lovey lovey, she cooked and bring food for me, and even transferred 2k, to my cousin brother, who needed help, when I don’t have it at that point in time
I observed that she is kind of hiding her phone when chatting, even when her phone rings, I will ask her to pick, but she will ignore the call.
The second week, I bought her some body cares and give her money (2.5k) to make her hair.
I do send her text messages morning sometimes at night and call her every day to keep communication active.

The third week, if I call and text, she will not pick or even text back, she will only call when she feels and give excuse, like she is sleeping, when she is not, she started avoiding me, even when I came back from work, she will not feel like her guy is back, no form of romantic act, because I do check her in their street and when am going out to stay for few days, she will be telling me to stay long over there, without feeling she going to miss me, wishing if I had lived far from her, which could be fine for her.

One day I called she didn’t pick, i became worried and angry, I had go out to ask her brother’s girlfriend who called her and she came out, saying if It was me, she wouldn’t have come out, with a frowning face, I asked what is the matter, no response, we were there when, another guy called her and she took permission to see the guy twice, who was asking her, her number, in his friend favor in a car, and the brothers girlfriend told her it is a wrong act, for her to leave me her boyfriend as we are discussing to answer another guy.

Same day she asked me, if I will be angry, if another guy give her phone as a gift that the guy is her church member and he has a girlfriend, so they don’t have anything attached. I told her yes I will be angry and after some arguments and for peace to reign I asked to go ahead to do what she wants to do, since she insisted, even after telling her I will buy, she said she don’t want me to spend money, even the food I bought she refused eating as usual.

This a girl that will come visiting, after romance and being in the mood, she will decline, and said she is not ready, she is afraid and she has sworn according to her until she is married, even asked me to suck her kpetus, and get wet, but will not make out, and this has happened thrice, she will apologies that she can’t give her body, she is a VIRGIN, all the time we are together always virgin matter, but she will be angry and jealous if she sees me with another babe.
And I noticed she don’t open up, sometimes she will be hiding something’s and when I asked her, the only answer I get all the time is nothing, even when I called her to come, she will declined not coming, I will call and still text her, but will ignore and tell me she has no airtime, which I know she has, because I do send her card.

One Sunday afternoon she came with a threatening and frowning face to drop the bombshell, after forcing her to talk why her face is like that, she said WHAT IF I TELL YOU I DON’T WANT TO DATE YOU AGAIN, since she cannot give me her body, that we can be friends, I tried with my best friend girl to convinced her to see reasons with me since am not forcing her, she said she don’t know when she will be ready, and she advised we show move on with our lives separately, no hopes of when she will be ready either in a month or year. this make me shear tears, because i remembered something as she cried she is about losing me, while the other of her friend is crushing on me already she said.

I called and text her that I will wait, but she didn’t respond, next day she text back we should move on our lives, I called her for us to see and finalize it and sort things out, she rudely and angrily decline that she cannot come to anywhere or either to see me. I was very angry the way she responded and reacted on phone concerning the whole issues and I told her, she wasn’t any virgin and never loved me, just deceiving me, maybe her boyfriend is back and don’t want to open up, she replied that am the only guy she had and replayed that she is disappointing in me for saying such.
The next day my friend called her twice before she picked, and on the background he had a female voice asking her why is she till picking up the call and since then none of us has called each other again.

Please I need your opinion and advice, because she had made up her mind, after several pleading and advice.
I will upload some text message chatting we exchanged, when next I login, if it is necessary. Because it has a lot of facts.

Just leave her and ignore her

Unless you are ready to be crying in silence

If you insist, you will get frustrated and it will affect your relationship with her brother

Respect yourself and respect her wish

Simple

If you think you can't bear it, go to her parents and ask fir her hand in marriage and start the marriage rights immediately

Michealsmith066:
I am a young guy of 28yrs.. I’m a Youtuber and also a owner of one of the popular blogs on instagram. ( I make so much money there)

I run 8 Youtube channels but I managed only 3 other 5 are managed by people i pay to create content and upload to Youtube .

I started Youtube business in 2012..one of my Youtube channel has grown to over 400k subscribers. In my Youtube channel I don’t showcase my face, I create only content based on celebrities gists and gossips.

I make good amount of money. As of last year I made 14 milion naira from just one of my channel ( Screenshot below)

Before now I bought a land in a developed area ( big man area) so As God come blessed me last year 2019. I had to develop on my land an built a duplex.

So when people asked my laborers about me, that is, what I do for a living, the laborers who have no ideas answered they don’t know.

Now these people now assume that I’m a yahoo boy ( hahaha ) Going around spreading. So when people see me they assume I’m a yahoo boy.

These people ( mostly matured people) have never for one day ask me what I do for a living oh. They just assumed that I’m a yahoo boy, that I’m too young to build a house.

Should I call them an inform them that I’m not a yahoo boy or just ignore them.

I have all document of which Youtube ( google ) pays me.


Note during this period of building my house I have no time to chase women oh .... I’m i wrong ?

You owe no one any explanation

Understanding contains all the rest mentioned

zedegit:
Ladies, a man loves you so much but he isn't working but an applicant and you are earning 6 figures already. Can you marry him assuming he loves you?

I will marry him if he is not lazy, disrespectful, humble, gentle and an ingrate

Kirinwa:
Considering the government minimum wage of #30 000, it's understandable that it can only afford a Self con apartment. Ladies, assuming a man proposes marriage to you and cares about you, are you willing to marry him in his Self Con apartment?
Your opinion does count. Let the comments begin...

Even if a man is living inside his shop where he sells his wares, he will definitely do d a woman that will share there with

But when a man wants to put his bag where he will need table to bring it down, that's when all this things starts coming up

Seekness:
Please permit me to bring my marriage issues here for the very first time. Its true I've been on this forum for almost 10 years, I'm not very good at opening threads. But because of the necessity, I had to create a new Moniker so that I can briefly share my worries to ease off the pains in my heart.

Though she is very hardworking, generous and kind, but she has some very negative traits that belittle whatever admirable ones she may have.


This marriage has lasted a little over half a decade. But the problems I've always complained about right from the start is what I'm still talking about.

(1) My wife bottles up her anger a lot. If I offend her, she will never (hardly) tell me about it, I will only get to know about it through her facial expressions or her response to conversations, and if I ask her if anything was the matter, she will simply say "there is no problem".

(2) She takes too long to forgive. I can plead with her for forgiveness till "Thy Kingdom Come", yet she is not moved by my pleas. She will continue to wear a sad face for a very long time, (sometimes hours or even days) before she will grant me forgiveness, sometimes even in minor issues that I sometimes overlook if she was the one that did it.

(3) My wife hardly apologizes when she wrongs me. Even if she does apologize, she will expect me to accept her apologies immediately she said "I'm sorry" but she will not do the same if it was the other way round. That's pride!

All of these I have dealt with in silent pains with no hope of improvement in sight.

As I type this message, she is all alone in the room because of a situation we could not resolve. For over a week, she has carried a long face for reasons I do not know. I have asked severally, she keeps telling me "its nothing".

For over two weeks, she has not allowed me to touch her, neither have I had sexual intimacy with her. She keeps refusing all my advances to the point it was so painful after I pleaded with her for over one hour she still did not yield that I almost forced it on her tonight, but I exercised restrain.

All effort to have her talk to me in sincerity has not yielded any positive result for the past eight days.

I've told her of my suicidal thoughts (I'm not joking) but it fell on deaf ears because whenever she crosses her mind over something, bros, forget am! She can't be convinced to take up a contrary view.

Modified: As a result of these, I have relapsed once again to masturbation which I had overcome in the past. Since cheating on her is not an option for me, at least for now. Though thoughts of it are on my mind, but I can't just do that.

Please help a brother. Depression is gradually setting as my thoughts are going wild.

I need good suggestions please...

Seekness!

Guy calm down

You accepted something that was toxic from onset and now its getting out of hand

You guys must have been breeding issues that has not been resolved over time and women ordinarily will keep things in mind and start dealing with a man with it

Pls form the habit of getting things resolved before the next day, depending on the lssue

Don't commit suicide because it will not affect her the way it will affect your families both the extended ones

Masturbating is not even an option because you may harm the nerves in that region

Life is too short for someone to determine your happiness

I will advise you sort yourself out and you know what I mean by that

Don't ask me what I mean because you already know where am going

Johntemmy:
For better for worse
is love enough to sustain
marriage?

Oya share your opinion biko....

Love is like a package that contains everything that you need in marriage

Love will give you patience

Love will give you hope

Live will make you happy

Love will give you peace

Love will make you to respect

Love will blind faults in yours

Love will guide your manners

Love will make you to understand each other like a book

Abbeylanre15:
It is a worrisome feeling whenever I remember that my 87 years old maternal grandfather has decided to marry again. He lost his wife( My Grandma) just last year January. His children decided to get him an houshelp to do all the domestic works.
Late last year that we visited himand I overheard the lady( House help) telling his tenants that a particular woman(under 45) do come and spend nights with Baba. To cut the long story short, the woman has moved in with Baba.
I know you will be wondering how that concerns me, well, Baba has no other source of income than his children and grandchildren. The rate at which he calls everyone now is quite alarming. 10k isn't enough for Baba in a week. Sometimes last month, I decided to blacklist his number due to incessant demand for money. His so called wife too has no job.
His children summoned a meeting n told the woman outrightly that Granpa doesn't need a wife any longer, therefore,she should leave.But Grandpa was against it saying she's her BLOOD TONIC.
Pls what can we do? I'm scared the woman may cajole Papa to sell his house before he dies because she looks desperate to me.

This is a very simple case

Get to know the woman family

She could still remain a mistress or a wife if your GP insisted

If a wife, marry her properly, if a mistress, then be Awre that she is GP woman

You guys will draw the calculation of the cost if feeding him per month, divide it among the children and it will be sent to him last week of the month or first week of the month

GP needs a woman especially to make love with and has found one who is willing to accept his advances but I can't really tell if she is on a mission or not, considering her young age

But it would have been better for dad to get a widow of a close age with him, who will be coming and going to her house

Women are like cars, the moment you touch them, you start fueling them

jidamsel43:
Thanks a lot . I really appreciate your thoughtful comment

Thanks too

It think the initial purpose of this God father was to link you up with some one who can stand for you as a mentor and guardian

He is supposed to be your second parents

But hardship, harsh economy and lack of constant communication has made the purpose to be defeated

princessRachael:
Help me am loosing my mind. I hhave put to bed for over 3 weeks and my father inlaw has not called me to even congratulate me. What should i do?

I am yet to reason why they didn't call to congratulate you

Have you been having issue with them before

Are you sure your husband told them that you have put to bed

Are you in good communication with your husband

Anyway, still call your father in law and tell him then ask him to tell others for you

jidamsel43:
This thread is open for married men to share their experiences on how they managed home during wife's pregnancy . Women can also narrate the difficulty that they put their husbands through during pregnancy.

My wife and I have been expecting the fruit of womb since early last year. The result of her pregnancy test in March this year which came out positive threw the family into state of euphoria and ecstasy. I encouraged her to register for antenatal early and she eventually registered in a private hospital three weeks after. She was just 6 weeks when she registered.

She was advised not to engage in any difficult task at home and some other precautions. I disallowed common sense to judge the situation and I threw caution to the wind by telling her to leave all domestic chores for me to handle. Though, she never gave complaints of any pain but I took this decision in order to avoid any complication in her first trimester.
I practical carried out every domestic task at home ( cooking, sweeping , washing, cleaning) . I was doing this with joy because I thought she would resume her duties once she entered second trimester. The lockdown also made it difficult for me to give excuses in order to evade these chores. I made sure that she never engaged in any domestic task but she used to wash only her undies.
When the lockdown was eased early this month, I told her to resume her duties because I discovered that he entered second trimester. Frankly, women need to be commended for proper management of home because I never found it easy at all. I was really overwhelmed and I needed to lessen the burden on my neck. I was amazed by her response. She complained that I was not a caring husband. She expected that I continue to do everything till delivery.
I have the belief that she is trying to punish me because I have seen many pregnant women that are very hardworking. She goes to shop everyday while I also go to work. She doesn't complain of any pain but still insist that I continue to do domestic chores. I have relinquished washing of clothes and plate to her but I still cook, sweep and clean house everyday.
please, will she develop any complications if doing these chores. The last appointment she had, she was certify okay and was just told to always use her drug.


Married men, please did you also experience this with your women or I am too soft

Married women , did you have similar experience and I should deal with the situatuon

From your narrative, she is alright, just that she wished you continue to assist her

Well to me, do the ones you can do just to free your mind

Don't just engage in any domestic argument to avoid any thing that will trigger her BP

When she puts to bed, she will still need your help to do more of the house work, so to avoid issues, help her more with carrying the baby if you don't have anyone to do that so that she can be free to do her chores and still have rest

The benefits it that, your child will recognise you more

CsRockefeller:
Lol. Why?

Nothing, enjoy

Honestly, I feel like amputating the idiots hands and legs so that he will be miserable for life

You are protecting your girl friend who already have five children for another man

What the heck ❗❗❗

CsRockefeller:
Yes I am.

Congratulations