₦airaland Forum

Yeah, I do. It's one way of enforcing good manners are passed on.

U sure the guy doesn't wanna bail. If the guy is worth it, she can work a transfer after a while. Her marriage cert should suffice. She should do her due diligence sha...

Rosebloom:
This lady recently got a federal job in Delta and met a guy who resides in Abuja .
He proposed and they had agreed she'll work for at least two years while they try long distance.

After they had been in the relationship for a while the guy told her while he agrees to the arrangement he'll retract his end of the bargain if the long distance interferes(he was basically saying he doesn't want long distance). Suggested rather she quit and come look for a job in Abuja or start a business.

Note that he also does not want a stay at home wife.

After quitting the job, he'll call her a leech. Na today?

SweetCunt97:
Yes. Unless he has a job for her in Abuja or he'll give her money to start the business if not, she should forget about him. How can a sane person ask a lady to quit her govt job? As per demigod wey him be or his he a millionaire? Abeg o

Yen, yen, yen, yen

Live and let live. Her life, her choices, her dual citizenship. For 25 years, she stuck by your annoying country.

NOI, u can do no wrong. Strong black woman.❤

rentAcock:
Sad. Another one who has chosen to flee instead of fight.
Another Ivy league educated scholar who could change Nigeria for the better has decided to switch sides.
This is very sad, she will be remembered as a loser
She gave up because she lacks foresight

Me and my household will never flee or beg the white man for visa, greencard or citizenship. We will continue to fight and do all we can for the betterment of this country.

Who is this guy? Plenty respect for you, Sah

Prestonn:
Village kitchen



Just finish frying my plantain


Rice and Gizzad sauce on fire... Cant eat that again today, time don go, I can not come and kill myself by myself

Na to just eat only plantain and take fruits and coffee later.

Stopped at you giving him money to buy you food when you visit. Maka why

Udontmean it. The hustle is real....

ImaIma1:
He did have issues. And he actually ended up secretely marrying a mentally challenged colleague from a very wealthy family.

If she's 10 years old, she's not a teenager. She's a child. Now that you have kids, will you be happy if someone treats your children badly by just 'pressing' them? Be not deceived, God is not mocked! Whatever a man soweth, so shall he reap. Go on your knees and ask God for mercy. The scariest part is that your heart doesn't condemn you and I'm sure you are a religious leader. Repent or it will end in open disgrace.

CNW1:
Good day house. I'll try and keep this as short as possible. I had to open this account cos my wife is also a Nairaland member.

I'll just start from when we were dating. My wife and I (fiancėe then) agreed on no sex till marriage. So we would kiss, touch and romance and I would eventually get to orgasm and ejaculate. This continued till we got married. We've been married now for almost ten years. Being that it is already a part of our relationship, any time my wife is tired or not in the mood for sex she would beg me to just "press" as we now call it. So I would just touch her and press and relieve myself.

Now some years ago we had a teenager living with us as a maid when my wife 1st took in. Because of my wife's pregnancy sex was like once in a month or once in 2 months and pressing wasn't convenient for her as she needed enough time and space cos of some complications at the early stage of the pregnancy. She had to go spend some time at her mom's. So konji was so strong and I didn't wanna have any extra marital affair so while the maid was sleeping one night I went into her room and lay behind her, pressed my erected private part against her buttocks and relieved myself. She didn't even know what I did for she was fast asleep. I didn't touch her breast, buttocks or private part. I only lay behind her pressing my stuff lightly on her backside.

Ok fast forward to now, my wife isn't pregnant anymore, I can have sex any time I want but I still enjoy sneaking into our little maid's room (she is just 10yrs) when everyone is asleep, lying down behind her and pressing.

Recently, a relation of mine came visiting. She is in her twenties. Because of how close I am to her, I would carry her on my laps pressing her backside against my private part and release in the process. I don't touch her breast or buttocks I only carry her on my laps. But I think she would be feeling my erected private part against her buttocks but she has never objected me carrying her on my laps cos she takes me as her elder brother and knows I cannot do anything intimate with her. All this usually happen at night when my wife is asleep. I put off the lights and ensure my relation doesn't see my erected private part. I wear my shorts or underwear so the wetness is concealed.

My question is, am I committing a sin since I am having sexual pleasures with people other than my wife? But I've never touched their breast, buttocks or other private parts. This relation of mine, I can't even remember seeing her unclad. I don't kiss her or handle her. I only carry her on my laps as we discuss and relieve myself.

I've tried to stop sneaking into our maid's room several times and tried carrying my relation on my laps several times but failed. There is this pleasure I just get from releasing through them that I can't explain. I don't intend having sex with any other lady besides my wife cos I'm a very religious person. But I'm not committing adultery I think cos its just me enjoying myself harmlessly without the knowledge of the girls.

You're defiling that young girl's spirit. Please stop

CNW1:
@IfGodbeforus and @Brachaa thanks for your comments. But I didn't rape anyone. I don't even touch them. Whatabout married people that masturbate? Usually I feel some relief after I've done it and don't feel any form of condemnation

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Well, I always advise people to follow the route less traveled. When I finished my NYSC, I made up my mind to dust myself from every failed job search. Y'all spend so much time weeping over lost opportunities...

The truth is that at 40, as an employer I'd be unwilling to employ you without any work experience. Nigerians always wanna start large. Earn less whilst building experience then move.

With 2.1, I'd have done anything to get a job in Kpmg and write Ican. Or I'd have done a masters and start lecturing.

Think outside the box

U no go understand.
I used to work in a company that everytime CNN's advert of modern day slavery came up, I literally shuddered. Nigerian owned businesses need to do better.

emmy512:
But cold Stone didn't kill her naah, whats all this unnecessary talk. He should've sticked to mourning his wife and not putting cold Stone like they killed her, every business in Nigeria is stress,
He should've said Nigeria killed her too, that would've been fair.
Rest in peace to the lady.
All this truck drivers that speed and move anyhow.

Na lie. E high pass that. Maybe 80 percent

Sarcasm bro

walkwithgod:
It's very obvious you don't live Nigeria with this write up. Lagos State that traffic is an major problem even Albert Einstein cannot figure out, unemployment at an all time high, ease of doing business is a Herculean task..

Y'all take Nairaland too serious.

those, bawo? I think say na one lucky (?) female

Jaraontop:
It's your choice. You can as well stay tuned and rejoice with those that will have their testimony soon. Life is a matter of choice, nobody dey force you nah.

For real, wetin beret no go see for Mercy Chinwo head?

Bros, u dey try. I trowey salute for you.

Well, its gonna be a gradual process. Apparently, she has a high threshold for stuff that would ordinarily disgust you. Might be her upbringing or just her person or she might be trying hard to multi task to meet up. Correct her, with love. Sometimes try modelling similar behaviour to show how disgusting it can be.

If I were you,I'd insist we brush together and not let her out of the room, without brushing. You don't have to be so blatant about it tho. Call it bonding time or whatever works for you. E go better

Is this sarcasm?

Acidosis:
The solution is simple. Force your wife to accept the #15k teaching job. Then hire a maid or househelp to cook, clean, wash, groom the kids, and pay him or her 1k or 500 Naira monthly.

ol boy werk on your english make I come back to read your article....