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PUSSYHOE:
You posted the dumbest thing i've heard read" not all manipulation is evil" then i asked for example so you can Justify your dumbness.

You are obviously not intelligent. Google the meaning of manipulation and school yourself instead of remaining in ignorance.

You are in no position to call someone dumb when you can't even think and comprehend simple words. Remove the big plank in your eye first.

PUSSYHOE:
Example!

You are intelligent. Figure it out. If I have to spell everything out for you, then you are not as intelligent as you claim.

PUSSYHOE:
I don't because it doesn't correlate, i am much more intelligent than the average person. You just need a justification for being evil.

Then you should know that not all manipulation is evil.

PUSSYHOE:
I don't get the correlation.

If you open your mind, you will.

PUSSYHOE:
Mother of God!!!! so taking advantage of someone isn't evil?

Even money can become evil depending on who is using it and for what purpose.

PUSSYHOE:
So taking advantage of men is inbuilt, they are evil walking around So ego is as diabolical as manipulation??

And who said manipulation is diabolical?

Raydans:
Game. What game are you talking about. To me there is no game. If women were not manipulative in the first place. Such kind of secondary alphas that you formulated wont be created and everywhere will be peaceful. Women are know to be manipulative even from creation. Eve manipulated Adam to eat the fruit. Those were the first human. And now that some of these men are conscious about women manipulative tactics. I don't see anything wrong with trying curtail it. Is it by force to be manipulated.

Your focus should be on miseducating women such that they would no longer need manipulations to survive, coexist and live a life of there own

It means that manipulation is inbuilt, default and it exists in all women. I doubt that it can be changed. It can only be managed and men have to live with it. It's just like some features in men also that cannot be changed but managed like "ego". And we live with it. Some are overinflated while some are toned down.

Left to me, there shouldn't be any competition between the sexes... with everyone trying to decode, decipher and dominate. But that might be asking for too much.

The pseudo-alphas are the emotionally shattered ones. They are usually bitter and angry misogynists. Those are the lots we have on this forum who actually believe that they are alpha males.

stormborn28:
like I said there will always be bad choice that choice can be suicide... Whether the number is insignificant it is immaterial

No...the bad choice is not suicide. The bad choice is living life recklessly without caution and thought for the future and missing out on the numerous good suitors. That is what I mean. Stretching it as far as suicide is just being dramatic and overly critical.

Although, I also recognize that marriage is not the ultimate achievement for everyone. So people should stop this stigmatization and prejudice about women not getting married on time. It's really not our business. Let them and their families worry about it.

stormborn28:
okay...your former statement says the person is free to make a choice at the end whether good or bad..... And when that goal is not in sight some do take suicide which is one of the bad choice

How many women have you read of in the news or heard of in your environment that committed suicide because they didn't get married on time? If any, it's an insignificant number.

Suicide is a far stretch to what we are talking about.

sisisioge:
Are you sure? This is me too...I don't get irritated, I just lose interest. Yes, I once dated one guy for a decade but after him, my attention span has been short. Don't get me wrong o, I'm a very nice doting gf....but e no dey tey me to start feeling trapped.

Maybe if she finds someone she could enter the lagoon for, maybe things would change. As for me, I don give up on.myself

I think it happens mostly when the guy is the type that doesn't give the girl breathing space. Always there everytime

stormborn28:
then anyone is free to take suicide

Please what has suicide got to with this? I don't see the link.

stormborn28:
go and check the ratio of male to female.. Then you will understand

Then let whoever is going to Shiloh go in peace. At least they won't come and disturb you to go with them.

This idea of threatening and bullying ladies with "Shiloh" needs to stop. It's their life and they are responsible for the decisions whether good or bad.

Larryfest:
When you start attending Shiloh 2039 in search of a husband then you will be ok..

This shiloh thing is becoming overused. Besides, is it only single women you see at Shiloh when you attend?

What of the ones that empty all the saliva in their mouth into your own mouth?

Good to know that guys are getting worked up over Sandra's threads.

If they were guys, food don set

Women believe it is a natural thing to breastfeed. Therefore, it should not be an issue if it's done in public. But for me, I always have this apron for covering while breastfeeding in public. My breasts that I have been hiding and protecting all these years is still mine to protect. Breastfeeding didn't change that.

[quote author=AntiMCU post=82722980][/quote]I see that I struck a cord. It's alright. You'll be fine.

NiRfreak:
Dreamers.

Sure they are

AntiMCU:
What's are characteristics of upcoming?

Specifics I mean.

Who are the "upcoming sane dude" you mentioned when you quoted me?

I believe money is the major issue here. If most of the guys on this forum always reacting and forming theories land good money, the narrative will change.

pocohantas:
They live in Romance section.

Guys in Nigeria want to bail out- fine.

So, the same Naija guys who are broke and ladies are advised to drop their gold-digging to build with them. Are suddenly the same men that have millions to travel abroad- hence the high number single ladies. Wonderful.

What of the numerous guys abroad that will come home this Xmas to pick wives?
Does that balance the equation?

People wey wan marry go marry.

They like generalizing their own predicament and situation.

AntiMCU:
The OP is not contesting that.

Of course people get married every Saturday.

But you also know that there's an increasing number of guys within marriageable age that wants to bail out.

Right now, the figure might be insignificant.

Doesn't mean we should rule it out.

The economy is at its "best": the last thing on the mind of any upcoming sane dude is marriage.

If the number is definitely insignificant and might probably remain so. You might not have noticed that there's also an increasing number of upcoming guys getting married. One of the ones I mentioned that got married on Saturday is about 27 while the other two are over 30.

It depends on available resources and each person's priority. Besides, not every guy in Nigeria is struggling...even here on Nairaland.

Sandra8:
You didn't even comprehend any of my post dear, I told you in my previous post to keep your knowledge to yourself. I don't want to learn about b*tch niggas. That's not my field, it's yours. I never claimed omniscience dear. I respect your wisdom just keep it with you okay baby

He's probably too intelligent to comprehend. Those guys are intelligence detectives. You will be meeting a lot of them.

NiRfreak:
If we all notice of late, unlike in those days, we will realise there is this proliferation of guys who are well into their late 20s and early 30s yet still having no mind to take a lady serious in relationship that may culminate in marriage. In fact their mind is far from marriage and on something else - which is, travelling out of this country.

Yes that's the truth and the reason many guys aren't planning to marry is because they set their eyes on crossing the frontiers of this wretched country into a more sane country, so there's no point to form a serious marriage oriented relationship because the goal is to jet out of the country.

So ladies, here you have it, the reason you can't find a husband today is mostly not about you but the guys who all are bent on leaving this shit hole, cos an average guy of marriageable age today is planning to leave the country, In fact has been denied visa a multiple times yet not giving up.
Many guys won't tell you this, but it's the fact. May God provide your husband.

Yet two male friends and a male colleague got married just this past Saturday. Nigerian guys and they married Nigerian ladies.

Seems some of you guys here are not living in the real world..

internationalman:
And some senator are receiving 23m

And asking for exotic cars

ojonugba2014:
u that have gotten p.hd in sense,clap 4 urself. u better change ur poor mentality b4 it wl be too late 4 u,mtchw

Mentality detective. Remove the plank in your eye first.

ojonugba2014:
where is ur sense of reasoning located? in your Anus right,mtchw

And from this nonsense you wrote up here, you think you have sense? If you feel the need to be disrespectful and foul mouthed, do it somewhere else.

EmekaBlue:
Be sharing ur cousin's story....ur own will be 50years marriage grace if u no take time

i know ur type frm ur writing

Ignorance sometimes feels like knowledge. Keep knowing.

murphyrichy:
hmmm, May God help her ooo..but pls wen does menopause starts? 45yrs Right?

Let her, her man and God worry about that.

ursamajor:
You are the cousin.

Lol...naaah. Already married. After one sef