₦airaland Forum

Onlydaughter:
So you always escape

Lol for where... they will just sit behind me and use Bible to destroy my eardrum

What of the ones who will begin to preach on the bus where nobody can escape

"Alright" is correct but not acceptable in formal writing

You can add "passport". People say "bring your passport" when they mean "passport photo" or "passport[-sized] picture"

omoiyamayor:
I mean I can't marry a virgin too,I'm sorry to say this but I will prefer a partner that has better sex knowledge.

Do you really mean this?? As in you can discard someone for being a sexual novice?

Abiodunspectre:
Swallow is a better option but Nigerians wants to be like the white man.

The white man eats roast turkey and potato at Christmas time

So rice will become a status symbol once again!

Rice is for the haves and beans, swallow and yam are for the have-nots

EmptyCoconutHead:
mechie onu

Suk tie!

Afforda:
Suggested Solution

I have a similar problem which I am still battling with and I pray God will lead me through.
The drugs are working but your friend is going back to his vomit..

Wow! Sorry about that, at least you found the cause.

Since July? They should have started analysing stool by now

And they are giving him enough antibiotics to turn him into an clean petri dish.

Get to another hospital, they are not serious

By the way pawpaw leaves and seeds can be used to kill parasites so people who are suggesting it are on the right track

Pawpaw fruit as well is anti-microbial

0monnak0da:
Anyway for those who are interested

There is a vaccine

Yeah, I have been vaccinated

PoliticalWitch:
I know what you are thinking...but the reason why our maternal mortality rate is bad has a lot to do with access to care than quality of care. Some women are too poor to access care , or live to far from a goood hospital or PHC center, or a CHEW. And to be frank, we don't have enough doctors and nurses, talkless of specialists.

Also, part of the fault lies in the patients too. A woman gets pregnant, and won't register for antenatal....and then turns up with serious pregnancy complications that would have been detected earlier and stopped in antenatal.(And those are women who can afford it. A friend of my mum died because she didn't turn up on time to hospital, and she could afford care!)

The copule here can certainly afford good care here in Nigeria. And there are many good hospitals that can take care of the pregnancy here. They went abroad more because they want American citizenship for their child (which would be very useful in the long run for university admission...leg up).

You are right about all of that. Some people can be very lackadaisical with their general health and not just in pregnancy.

At the same time the inferior quality of care in some places during such a critical time can't be understated either.

A lot of women and children have died needlessly because of neglect by staff and not enough specialist knowledge/ facilities. So if one has the chance to escape with his life, he wouldn't choose to forget himself just to be patriotic

Are you sure the couple here haven't lost a baby in Nigeria before? Some cases need state-of-the-art and sensitive equipment. And not just "good care", but excellent to the point of spending millions. Their doctor could even have advised them to go abroad. 24 years can never be a joke

Some of those white south Africans are very nice, not all are racist

It's possible not to like another ethnic group in your country but still like other people outside

Just like we have issues with tribalism but can still be fond of foreigners

Yohh:
Good news, God bless the newborn.
I'm very sure the delivery is through either IVF or Caesarian section if not both but they will keep silent on those
It annoys me that they won't aknowledge the fact that God did it through the work of technology so as enlighten the ignorant church members.
And the ignoramus members will still be welcome on stage giving trash testimonies about how Jesus saved them from Satan because they didn't deliver through surgery.

You are right

There should be a balance and interaction between science and spirituality

It would be beneficial to their congregation if they could forfeit a little of their privacy and explain to them what happened (if it was not a natural birth)

AlphaStyles:
What is it with black man and obsession of running to America to give birth? U haven't seen white man run to Africa to give birth

Um, maybe because our maternal mortality rate is appalling??

RexTramadol1:
This co

I was wondering why they couldn't have cleaned up the fluids before taking that picture but I think that's just the baby's skin

You guys laughing at OP would be surprised

I have seen where the man complained about the soup and the woman said that that's how her mum used to prepare it for her father and her father liked it, therefore he must like it

This is not a dumb question, some people don't listen. Style is necessary at times

Lol funny comments

So now a white south African is not oyibo but Indian people who arrived here yesterday are oyibo

Lol because (f) is the one asking. Funny people

He jumped and her hands were on his waist, at the highest point the photographer pressed the button

Badboibipo:
Lol and fucking handsome too.....too bad I'm a psycho

Hmm. Do you describe yourself as a psycho or just someone with deviant sexual interests?

kizzoh:
Like seriously?

He is not supposed to be disturbing her for sex, but she can disturbie him with all her family financial problems.
You are all advising her not to give in to the man's sexual demands , but no one has told her to stop her financial demands from him too.
Op let me tell you this, that man's virginity is his money,. And he has been giving it to you freely for about two years now. You dey enjoy am e dey sweet you .
Now your turn to do something for him, you are giving excuses thinking you are smart abi.?
You can't eat your cake and have it . If you insist he waits after the wedding before giving him the pie, why don't you also wait after the wedding before getting any financial gains from him.
You think say na only you get sense abi?

You are not making sense. Paying for somebody to go to school is not a sin or a societal ill and sex before marriage arguably is. Why would a practising Christian coerce someone into doing what he believes is wrong?

How can you compare the two when they are completely different. Where does it say anywhere that giving somebody money is a moral problem? Are they exchanging sex for goods?

Money can be paid back, can sex? Can virginity? Female virginity that you people use to insult somebody every day??

steppin:
There's nothing wrong with the girl, so your analogy is wrong.
Even if there was something wrong, the owner of the car can choose to drive it even with the fault(s).
There's no excuse for this kind of behaviour.
You're simply giving the man a go-ahead order to cheat.
I witnessed this first hand from a friend. The wife insisted they can only have sex on their wedding night and my friend had to agree, cos he did not want early problems in his marriage.
He simply slept with his old girlfriends till their wedding night.
He argued that since the wife doesn't recognise the trad wedding, then it cannot be seen as cheating in their marriage.
So tell me, is it better this way?

You are just making crazy excuses because he's your friend

Tell me, does sleeping with an ex when youre due to marry very soon making any particular sense to you?

Its your fault for keeping that kind of friend that will warp your reasoning into something unrecognisable.

She explained her stance on an issue which he agreed to, now he wants to change it after so many months and all you know how to say is that your friend ran back to his ex. Well done

slimanyd:
!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Hm

But why are you advising her to sleep with him? He's not supposed to be disturbing her

If he was so great, why was he banned....

shadeyinka:
I think we are not opposing one another. We have only misunderstood each other.

1. The OP asked a question:
Why is it that our society frown at men keeping dreadlocks?
2. My Answer:
I gave three reasons why our society abhor dreadlocks on men
a. It is never a surprise that a mad man has dreadlocks
(Synonymous with dirty mad man)
b. Rastafarians are known to both keep dreadlocks and smoke weed/ganja
(Synonymous with weed smoking)
c. White garment churches subscribe to dreadlocks as their Nazarene culture

These are the answers to the OP as per why our society do not appreciate men having dreadlocks.

I haven't given my personal opinion on this. I have given what our society thinks about men having dreadlocks.

My personal opinion:
It looks horrible on 95% of men who keep dreadlocks. Too many variables have the be right from the completion, to the facial structure, to the length of the dreadlocks, to the thickness of each braid , to the color of the dreadlocks, to the grooming of the locks, to the affluence of the wearer etc.

If you ask me: many look like gorillas. No insult intended. You may like it, I certainly don't !

Now this is an intelligent answer

GrossPrice:
First, ever played with Lego?

There are two kinds of Lego; the first is classic and the other "thematic lego".
With classic what you build is up to your imagination, with the thematic you can only build what you see on the box.

The virgin is the classic Lego, and the unvirgin is thematic.

Secondly, your statement above is not different from saying; I'd rather buy a used car with 30K miles over a brand new car - because it has proven to be reliable. Your thinking, it has gone 30K miles, it must be able to go another 30K miles without breaking down. I can't buy a new car, it has not passed through the rigors of Nigerian roads, neither has it experienced the prowess of Nigerian mechanics nor has it drank the elixir that is adulterated Nigerian fuel.

Really, you sincerely believe - the man who married an unvirgin has a far more peaceful and prosperous marriage compared to the other
who married a virgin.

Wow

slimanyd:
[b]Am sorry to break your heart with these statement below.

Please ,Define Virgin for me .A Virgin is someone that has never had any sexual aroma with the other sex be it kissing , smooching and even seeing ur naked alone has nullify that virginity claim of urs . Am sorry op , You are no longer a virgin . Erase that mentality , Assuming you never kiss your guy before , The story would have been a different and I would have adviced you accordingly

NB

If you leave that guy that has stayed with you for good 2 years without having sex with you. You will forever regret it . Quote this statement of mine today. Your next relationship will be worst and you might fell into depression at the long run because the later guy you will finally lose your virginity to will be worse than these present cool dude you're dating .

PS. Am not an advocate of immorality but God is a merciful GOD. I won't say more than these . Think twice before you regret your actions . Sim people will be hear telling you to leave him for another guy, lol. I pity you . U never sabi how worst the next guy will be . and am sorry ,the next guy you might meet might even ask you go sex a month after meeting you. Just think . Think and Think .[/b]

Wow