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[quote author=MindHacker9009 post=125981997][/quote]You clearly have not met their type.
Read Proverbs 31. Then come back to like and share this post.

Randal:
Hello, it's not news that we're in a new year and we all have desires to start something to make money.

I have 200k and I don't know where to put it and make good profits.

Please give Me ideas.

Network marketing with tested and trusted products. (Not a ponzi).
Learn the business patiently and grow exponentially with time.
Contact via email if interested.

SapaProMax:
I need answers

It depends.on the rules of the place of marriage. No need starting the marriage rebellious.
But if the place of marriage has nothing against, I believe it's not a big deal. It could be a cultural rigidity deliverance.for you. God is.not against ladies wearing trousers as long as it is not cross-dressing.

Zonefree:
the audacity

It's called marketing. You might want to consider it this year.

renderme:
Congratulations to them. The lady's name is Boluwatiwi. Such a unique name.

Powerful name.
Thats Chidera in Igbo.

God bless their union fruitfully.

Kobojunkie:
You reject Jesus Christ's very own teachings regarding religion and so it must be false? Abeg avoid me!

If you're not of the devil, then quote where Jesus preached against Christians.
Remember, all liars are from their father the devil.

John 8:44
You are of your father the devil, and the desires of your father you want to do. He was a murderer from the beginning, and does not stand in the truth, because there is no truth in him. When he speaks a lie, he speaks from his own resources, for he is a liar and the father of it.

Bacteriologist:
Peter Obi is a true leader who commands the sort of influence that mandate thieves cannot.

It is both.

Kobojunkie:
You pretend each year to listen to Him, yet you don't know this still?

You made a false claim of what Jesus said, so you can't provide a bible reference.
Do yourself a favor this tear. Stop twisting the word of God.
Simply accept and obey the Word of God as written an revealed.
God bless you Kobo.

Kobojunkie:
Jesus Christ said if you are a Christian, you are not of Him— you can't stand against Him and at the same time be for Him. Stop attacking me and go answer to Him why you chose that which is against Him all the while pretending to be for Him.

Kindly share your bible reference for the bolded.

fergie001:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fXoIMyQxo7M
President Tinubu's New Year message to Nigerians (Video)

This is amazingly stellar and inspired.
God bless Mr President.
God bless Nigeria.
God bless well-meaning Nigerians.
Let's build Nigeria together.
A very prosperous year 2024 to us here on Nairaland.
God bless Mr Seun Osewa and the Mods.

Kobojunkie:
Wetin concern your Christians with Jesus Christ? Jesus Christ said those who worship other masters can never have a part in Him — Matthew 6 vs 24. He said those who bow to the doctrines and traditions of men worship lies and are against Him — Matthew 15 vs 1 - 14 and Mark 7 vs 1 - 13. So, why are you dead set on turning the Truth of Jesus Christ upside down so you can score one for your religion?

So you're the only one observing the Truth of Jesus Christ?

iwaeda:
What are you regrets in Year 2023?

That I missed the 2 opportunities to attend Joshua Selman's ministrations.
But God is faithful I am still blessed to watch him online.

Solvik:
Happy new year people

Happy New Year to you Solvik.
I am a Foursquarian too.
This theme will be our testimony for the year 2024 and beyond in Jesus name.

Kobojunkie:
Use your brain for once. Why in the world would I seek to approve that Jesus Christ condemned, and warned are thieves who are against Him and His followers?

So there is no Christian except Jesus Christ and may be you?

Kobojunkie:
They are all the same frauds.... You are simply hoping you will gain from them in some way hence the reason why you exalt them above the other gods of men out there. Their own brand of lies is not different or better than that of the over 47000 cults denominations out there in Christianity.

Is there any body or any believer you approve of?

officialwdhtvv:
Moment lady calls her dad before accepting her fiance’s marriage proposal

#wetindeyhappentv


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zYmpjbvfsv4

https://www.instagram.com/reel/C1hkJovvI0D/?igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

It shows her dad did a great job of teaching her accountability.
He simply needs to ensure she trusts him enough to also become accountable to him.

It's a major life decision and she didn't call her girl friends but called the person who has been responsible for her all her life. That's a lady with sense.

MrPresident1:
Matthew 24:44-46
King James Version
44 Therefore be ye also ready: for in such an hour as ye think not the Son of man cometh.
45 Who then is a faithful and wise servant, whom his lord hath made ruler over his household, to give them meat in due season?
46 Blessed is that servant, whom his lord when he cometh shall find so doing.

Until we see this Person, this Anointed of the LORD, coming over us to lead us, better to approach 2024 with tepid expectations, and draw closer to God in all our doings.

You and I and everyone who believes in Jesus Christ as our Lord and Savior, and have been baptised in the Holy Spirit are the anointed of God and His judges on earth. Selah

We simply need to be focused to grow into maturity in our callings and leading of the Holy Spirit.

Giftedhand47:
I have a chronic anger problem I've tried not to get angry and overlook things but this demonic spirit will just do his thing
Pls help me i really need tips from Nairaland family.don't know I may get help here . Thanks

There have been some good advices here. However they are simoly cutting off thr branches. You need to go to the root cause and cut it off.

Luckily for you, end of the year is the best time to make resolutions. The best resolution is to repent.

1. Go Cross-over service in a nearby church
2. Rededicate your life to God by accepting Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior.
3. Join the foundation class to know what the gospel is and what you've been delivered from and what you're saved into.
4. Build your prayer and bible study life- both personally and in the church.
5. Allow God to transform your life by choosing to obey His word. Let your life be for his testimonies.
6. Determine to work for God. We are all commanded to preach the gospel.
7. Be humble.
8. Honor men but only fear and worship God.
9. Beware of church people- even your pastor and church members.
Everyone has their different stages/phases in their walk with God. While some have backslided but still in ministry. They are the ones that cause most people to stumble. Build your discernment of spirits.
10. Don't seek attention. Allow yourself ample time to grow in grace. Seek to know God experientially.

As you are busy seeking thr kingdom of God and zhis righteousness- you will be building both the gifts and fruit of the Holy Spirit.
Anger and other fruits of the flesh (your old nature) dies away.

DeadCountry:
This ignorant criminal is still parading himself as representative of Igbos, doing his British paid work of distracting our people from Biafra restoration.

And you're busy doing the devil sponsored work of pushing the Biafra agenda when you should be contributing to the established nation.of Nigeria.

God does not support rebellion because it is the very sin.of Lucifer that made him wage war in heaven.only to lose and be woefully defeated and be banished to earth as Satan.

When you contribute sincerely to the prosperity of Nigeria, then and.only then.can you get your desire which is a peaceful and prosperous nation both.in the East and.the rest of Nigeria.

You must see yourself as Nigerian before Igbo/Biafran.

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Is this propaganda?

Lol is this.necessary?

[quote author=egobetter4me post=127695790)

I cry everyday.....both at home and while hustling. I never envisaged my life to be like this. I had hoped to meet a beautiful, clean and well mannered graduate from the city. Someone I would truly love and she would love me too. I'd hoped that I would meet her, approach her and we start as friends, then lovers, then I would propose and all. I never planned for it to be like this.

I am so sad with my life. Right now, I'm thinking of applying for masters abroad and probably use the means to Japa and never come back again.

My life is so miserable!

Learn from me. Don't ever let your parents blackmail you into marrying someone you don't love. Pls don't. Just run away for months or few years and they will leave you alone.[/quote]I feel your pain bro.
Mothers are a blessing and a curse if one isn't careful.
Your mother probably meant well but was being selfish.

There are 2 options I see now;
1. You can choose to love her and if she's cooperative,help her grow into the woman you'll love more. Inside every woman is a queen with so much potentials. She simply needs to genuinely feel loved and she will blow your mind. But this will take serious grace, effort and patience from both of you. This is the Christian thing to do.

2. You can also speak to her , get an honorable divorce and get her set up properly. Pray for forgiveness in case it's considered a sin. You have to realise you're an adult and your mom should not be manipulating you or deciding your destiny for you. Rededicate your life to Christ and let God lead you through life. As you grow and transform and know who you are in Christ, God blesses you with a gift of a good wife. It takes diligence and patience and faith but one of the best decision you can make for you,your family, your future wife and your children.

ChiomaMee:
Yea, what exactly is the essence of marriage Is marriage a purpose we must fulfill Is it all about having kids??

If I don't get married, does it mean I've defiled God's law?? Does it mean I've not completely fulfilled purpose??

Marriage is one of God's blessings. It is a blessing to meet a partner that you grow together and fulfill purpose together.

However, it is not compulsory.

Jesus Christ our perfect role model did not get married.
Paul the apostle did not get married.
John the Baptist did not get married.
Elijah and Elisha did not get married.

Jesus said some will choose not to marry. Matt 19:12
Apostle Paul wished more people will not marry just like him but he advised that if you desire sex, please get married. Every one has different graces. 1 Cor 7:8-9

As a believer, we learn to submit to God's will and the leading of the Holy Spirit that way we walk in God's Will for our lives.

FanRong:
I'm sorry, this post is going to be a long one. But you're saving a soul if you read through and advice candidly.


My story
We've dated for 6months and we've lived together for the 6months.

On our 3rd month, I found her interesting and told her I'll like to marry her. She accepted but no engagement ring or anything to show. We just accepted by word of mouth.

Where to start from... you're living in sin.
Life has it's rules and principles and you've trespassed so many already.
This babe is an indication that God has left you to live your life as you please because your future with her doesn't look good at all and you don't need a prophet to tell you that.

My candid advice, repent from your sinful life. Stop being the boss/Lord of your life.
Invite Jesus Christ to be your Lord and Savior. Then you can start 2024 on a clean slate.

Find a peaceful way of breaking up with her.
You know the popular saying that there are relationships that should not cross over into the new year with you? She's definitely it.
You're both bad for each other.

God will be in charge if your new life and eventually as you build a relationship with God, you will know how he leads you through life and after transforming your life, you will eventually know when He leads you to your own wife.

God bless you.

FILEBE:
Wether both are true or untrue what did the authorities do about it? All these blame trading , you know the true vandals of lagos. If you live around Agege, it was the area boys that were vandalizing properties. They were the ones that burnt the police station. It wasn't any ipob or igbos . I haven't sited lots of examples where these guys perpetuated their acts on these days. Go there and ask for yourself.
That brought me to saying we will not say the truth to ourselves but use blames to hide the truth

Are you holding people accountable or witch hiunting ?

Since govt has failed to hold them accountable, God is more reliable and efficient.
Ruminate on that for the night. Ciao.

Kk4:
Xiaomi, the world's third-largest smartphone company, has launched its first vehicle, the SU7, a sleek electric sedan. In lab testing, the Xiaomi SU7 claimed up to 800km of driving range and a 0-100km/h acceleration time of 2.78 seconds, thanks to its electric motors named after petrol engines.

Prices have yet to be announced, but Xiaomi CEO Lei Jun advised visitors at the automobile's Chinese debut to "show some respect for the technology behind the car."

Will you be buying this when they start exporting from next year 2024?

Sleek.

yinkus6750:
Why build without proper documents and follow due process?
If you were on the right path, you could have sied the government.

In the voice of verydarkman, he had to learn the hard way. Not funny but can't blame government.

OndoEyes:
It was needed to rejoice and dance on the same day his boss just died? Aiyedatiwa was nothing before Aketi brought him to contest with him and this is how he repaid him. Nothing can justify this treacherous act

This statement alone shows why God vindicated Aiyedatiwa. How can you say he was nothing before Rotimi Akeredolu picked him as his running mate?

Some of you seem so disconnected from spiritual realities that one doesn't even know where to begin from.

God rejected Rotimi and honored Aiyedatiwa. Know this and know peace.
You should be more curious why God would reject Akeredolu.

Ememmmi:
I have an uncle that passed on early last year. My daddy told me he's my "uncle" but a distant relation because I don't know him in the village. We only met in lagos here so I think we are related but not close relation. Before he died, I use to send money to him especially during covid. At times he will ask and atimes I will send without him asking me. So when he passed on early last year, I was still sending the little amount I can afford to his wife. Its been 4 months I gave birth and she did not even come to see me. Her house to my house is about 500 transport fare to and fro. She knows there's no how she will come to my house and I won't give her cash even if at all she don't have transport fare.

She called me 2 days ago asking of Christmas money. I told her I will send it but inside me I am not happy honestly. People came from very far distance to visit me when I gave birth but this woman didn't even show concern. Anytime she call me will always be to ask of money. She said all her husband relative has abandoned her.
It is not like I don't have money to give her but her attitude is bad. She has only one daughter which she claimed she's in university. I don't know how true is that
Do you think I should overlook her character and give her the money

If her character is bad then she is reaping the fruits of her bad character that's why everyone seems to have abandoned her.

If you are a believer, please follow the leading of the Spirit.
Some times it's the little things that convert a soul to encounter God's love.
But I've also learnt to be sensitive when it comes to giving- some times it is God Himself that's dealing with some people so please be sensitive.

Mysteriousworld:
A younger brother of mine saw a message on his finances phone.
She sent a message to a guy on instagram, telling him she likes his lips, so tempting.
Now shes claiming its not a big deal, that she doesn't even know the guy, that hes just an instagram model...(its true she doesnt know him,and have never met him).
But my brother doesnt feel good about it, he asked for my advice, and i decided to put it here for him to see himself.

Pls is this a red flag... Or not much of a big deal. The wedding is in February.

It depends. If it's a DM, red flag. If open comment, no biggie.

But it all balls down to your brother's evaluation of her character since he knows her better. If he thinks she has hook-up vibes, then she most likely does.

Jogs1900:
These people always like to align with the government at the center.

True. Though if sincere, his reason is applaudable.

FeliciaOja:
I meet him July this year, everything about him is cool. My only worry is his fanatical support for arsenal which I consider the worst club on earth.

He keeps disturbing me of how his club will win the league, but whenever they lose he becomes super depressed and aggressive.

We have talked about this many times and he has sworn to change.
But this night he came back very late and was making so much noise, shouting and yelling
Then I googled scores and saw that his club lost today

I can't take it anymore
He is not the first guy I have dated that loved football. His own is that when his club loss it affects him very bad.

I have even suggested he should stop supporting arsenal but he won't listen.
After this night rubbish he just displayed I'm thinking of calling it quits.

Am I overreacting??

He needs deliverance.
Apparently football is his source of joy, not you and certainly not God.
His emotionally immature.
Is he as passionate and loyal to you as he is to Arsemal?

It balls down to his other attributes.
Do you share core values together?
Is he the type of father figure you want for your kids?

Yemike:
My life have been stagnant for like 4-5 years now. I work in a factory and I also sow clothes.
I've not been able to spend money on myself or to pursue my dream as a result of family responsibilities.
I'm a drop out of FUOYE and I'll so much love to go back to school but the plan has been failing for 2 years now.

I've obtained a part time form from Adekunle Ajasin University Ibadan campus last month hoping to start the new session next year but my problem now is that I have a brother that just finished HND 1, his rent has expired and he'll pay his school fees this January.
I paid his rent and school fees for HND 1 and he has notified me for HND 2.
My fear now is that time us running out for me (I'm 27yrs now) as I sincerely wanted to go back to school but I can't sponsor myself and two siblings.

Should I wait for another year or everybody should carry his cross?

Your brother has completed HND 1 and hasn't started earning money for himself? Even in this Social Media age?

What's the guarantee that he'll start making any money after his HND 2?

You have a large heart. But I fear you are loving others more than yourself.
The bible says love your neighbor as yourself not more than yourself.

I believe it comes down to one question really.
Ask yourself, who is more beneficial to go to school now between you and your brother?

God bless you.