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Now they are shouting ambode, when walking through LUTH gate just try and peep into those drainages its filled with dirt, is it the govt that filled them - NO .

Walk down to the college of medicine gate, that one is even worse, the dirt from the gutters overflow, is it the govt that poured dirt there, NO

Those places are where there's heavy flooding, the drainages are filled with dirt to the brim so any time rain drops theres trouble .

we caused it we deal with it.


You guys should leave Ambode abeg, he didn't fill the gutters with dirt.

I personally don't believe in posting photos on social media especially l events like prewedding, wedding , vacations, pregnancy, baby pictures etc etc etc etc.

I have always said it that a lot of nairalanders don't read to understand.

bigpicture001:
....no even uncle chase a gal away from her father's house when her mum and herself are still alive. no village traditional ruler will accept that. yes they will eventually take the property of thier brother but that is when the gal marries away and the wife of the deceased is dead.

Well experience has proved otherwise.

If what you say above is right that means people are taking advantage of culture to do the wrong things (things that are even wrong traditionally)

bigpicture001:
it is very easy to criticise on nairaland...the whole of the igbos should rise with ceaseless pprotest against the supreme court judgement for disruption of thier culture...no igbo family chase away dia daughter when sh is not married..they still haws her and care for her..wot they are against is women's double inheritance from both side of thier world...thier eventual husband and thier father..if this is discontinued...a lot of men would go straight to extreme poverty...take for instance...a father dies...and the married daughter who is a joint inheritance with here brothers refusing to section the sale of thier dad's commercial property because sh is also a beneficiary even in d fave of acute poverty in her father's haws..her reason is because sh hopes to pass down inheritance to her children..sh is not poor cuz sh married a wealthy husband and so doesn't feel d poverty thereby..tying down her brothers in poverty..how do u see that..you ppl of Mr and Mrs equal ryt....leave the people alone to manage thier tradition Av seen a lot of brothers who gained financial stability from dead father's estates...these should only b bycuted wen d father himself makes a will and then include the female child

So the problem is with the double inheritance both from the parents and husband.

What if I say where I come from as a female traditionally you are entitled to inherit(anything inheritable including lands) both from your father, your mother(if she has personal properties) and then your husband and we seem not to have a problem with it.

As a matter of fact there really is no basis for the "first son" phrase I see people throwing up and down.A lot of evil people his under culture of I am the first son to wreak havoc even to their elder sisters.

What we tend not to understand is this is why once you don't have a son in some cultures there is a problem, that's why the boy child is given more preference that the female child, that's why women from those areas seem not fulfilled until they have a male because they know those females are not recognized traditionally and can't get much recognition from their fathers, the evil uncles then swoop in to take everything.

Simply amazing.

Selfish man

Good move by the late papa

The only thing I seem to agree with is malaria resistance and its both males and females.

I honestly do not blame landlords who charge high for damages.

We rented a flat and even as a tenant I was almost cursing the previous tenants inwardly, it was as it they had never scrubbed the bathro tiles once, kitchen tiles that was cream was black, the whole kitchen was black. . Behind the WC in the master toilet was super black.

The change over in the kitchen was black from soot, in fact the electrician that helped us changed some stuff in the house asked if it was firewood they were using in the kitchen.

That's how I carried hypo that it will clean the tiles I poured everywhere The thing no even shake body. I remembered that plumbers say they use one chemical to clean tiles so I hired the plumber that will changr some taps to help me clean them up and buy the chemical. He poured the acid oo, we had to buy 3 times before the everywhere looked like a place befitting for a human being. In fact the plumber told me that he was even doubting it will work.

That's how I went to meet the landlord wife downstairs and asked what happened, she laughed and said that she had even tried cleaning and that it was even worse than what I saw, that she cleaned it up to what I am seeing, that did I notice they had to repaint the whole flat, I said yes she said the whole walls were black that the flat has been there for almost a year no nobody came close that she had to tell her husband that if you don't repaint this house( very large 3 bedroom oo) nobody will rent it, that she knows the reason we even attempted to rent it was because its painted now that in that black state no body will.

The landlord had to change some stuffs in the large junction box, (I wonder how that MEM electrical box got damaged the whole thing was black) repair some doors and put some keys. We changed some lampholders sockets, did some plumbing work.Those people wrecked that house.

There are stairs leading downstairs from the kitchen. (its a six flat building and the uppermost floor is not occupied yet) would you believe these people place their gen there permanently just before you climb the last floor the walls by those steps and the decking is black from gen smoke( maybe they felt since there's vention up thete ) its not an open decking oo the flats there is roofed already.

And to think the landlord lives in the same compound , even Me I can't take all that abeg its too much. He's too gentle in my opinion.

When the acid finished work on those tiles Chai I was like yeeeh so this place can look this nice.

I honestly don't blame strict landlords at all,seems some tenants are from hell.

Now I am enjoying the house spent some small amount though but that what we might have paid for agreement fees.

Babinski:
The allegations of the breakaway Pastors is immaterial to the ownership of the property. MFM International had accountability for the money raised and the property purchased. If there had been any inquiry into the church and use of funds as a registered charity during operations in Bowie, Maryland, MFM International would have been responsible and not the Pastors individually. So with the responsibility also comes the benefits. If the Pastors want to start a new church, they should break away clean and start afresh. If MFM is evading tax indeed, it is a separate case entirely.

Very correct, MFM international is responsible when trouble starts in any branch foreign or local, nobody will mention the name of the particular branch or pastor its the HQ that will be called and will take responsibility.

A whole number of branches are built by contributioons from members so I am surprised some pastors that want to breakaway want to also go with church property, I am so surprised.

Pastors have built large branches with help of members, its not a new thing I am so surprised this is happening.

Before they post them outside the country you see them all humble and nice but once they taste the goodness of obodo oyinbo and their eyes open to "the perceived income" of the church from location greed sets in and they are no longer satisfied with the stipend they receive from the church as salary.

You did a breakaway which is bad enough you Noe want to blackmail the church/G.O which even if such is happening there's a 100% possibility the G.O may not be aware.

All this problem will be averted if only those that are truly called by God to go into pastoring do become pastors. A lot are just after money .

TheArchangel:
That is not how inheritance are shared.
In Igbo land, the obi belongs to the first son and the mgbuke belongs to the lastborn. Obi here means the main house where the father receives visitors which can vary in size depending on how buoyant the father is, then the mgbuke is where the mother lives or the kitchen side. Some fathers before they died share their properties and lands to their sons where they will build their own houses., but the obis and mgbukes is the exclusive of the first and last sons and including their own overall share. Take Psquare for example. Jude gets the Obi while Peter abi Paul gets the mgbuke. Then the middle son is given a portion outside the compound . Then the rest of the properties either In Jos or Abagana are shared equally.
Some people often give out lands to their last son if the mgbu

Anything for the females?

Acidosis:
The only way to keep unserious men away is by denying them s e.x and money.

You just summarized a whole lot about the male species.

Flowersforme you will find just what you are looking for, its just a matter of time and yeah men with no sex policy are abound everywhere don't be deceived. Since you have made that decision stand by it, don't let any one feel you are making a mistake.

Heared about this case briefly sometime back.Its been on sometime back almost 2 years I think.

Sebi they want the church building let them have it jare. Let HQ leave it for them

When people breakaway from churches all sort of blackmail happen.

Sorry guys I guess it will fade away .

I have never followed that do not spread under the sun and do not wash instruction.

I wash and spread and spread and spread before using, I have heared so many stories that touch about these insecticide treated nets. Its the net I need abeg not the insecticide, I would rather have a net alone than net plus insecticide that will cause trouble for me. Ordinary net will prevent mosquitoes too.

While there's nothing wrong with making all/any kind of investigations concerning who you want to marry. How you go about it matters.

You want to make a spiritual investigation? Why not pray, whatever any prophet tells you should be a confirmation of what you know.

You are a christain and you have direct access to God, I am not really a fan of cele prophets.

Use your own mouth and ask God directly, if you tarry enough you will get a reply. Shikena

Silly culture so even if they didn't adopt a boy, the girls are not children abi.

I still can't wrap my head round this females dont inherit syndrome.

Those people are rogues.

That's why they made getting the prepaid more difficult.

Hello do you still sell these stuffs and where at egbeda is your shop located.

Zeiya

You would be surprised its still the same.

Its one of the best govt university hostels in the country. Far better than a whole lot of Colleges of medicine hostels at least it looks and feels like where humans live.

Fashola tried on that college abeg.

Bitingcool what's the price for those baby stuffs and the 4 by 6 bed. And your location and contact.

Pls list prices for all.

Bagehot:
I'm not sure if you are married, but its pretty much the height of disrespect to a man to insult his wife. Going by what I saw in this video where a 40+ man is pretty much threatening his brother by asking him to come along with his coffin, this is one hell of a dysfunctional family, and you have an idea the kind of quarrels these guys would have had off-camera.

Ultimately, I blame their parents, for not teaching their boys how to dialogue, how to respect each other's relationships, how to resist using very strong derogatory language in relating with each other. That Jude snubbed his brother's wedding is very sad - that both Paul and Jude would allow anonymous strangers on the internet insult and disparage their brother's wife and by extension his children (their nephew and niece) shows how severe this attack has been on Peter. Very sad stuff.

Nice one.

johnson232:
We never saw them argue for once publicly
If it is was majorly about money, they would have long gone their seperate ways
After 2face was Psquare
But they did something extra ordinary because their get squared album break through wasn't through kennis music, which was the major channel to limelight back then.
Their get squared album sold 1million copies under one month
These guys have been making money & never argued for once all through these years
But started arguing publicly when Lola came into the picture & u say it has nothing to do with her?
Even with the recent coment paul made concerning "A WOMAN CAN'T COME IN WHERE TWO BROTHERS ARE WORKING IN PEACE" u should know he was alluding to Lola.

You can't seperate Lola from the bitter dissension in the Okoye's family....

But she had always been there even before having the children and marriage.

I still believe it has to do with money , family and business don't mix for long.

johnson232:
But things were going peacefully until Lola came into the picture...

And you know this how?

Just don't understand why you guys are blaming Lola.

This may not even have anything to do with Lola as some bad belle have been insinuating .

Money may be the cause.I won't be surprised if its because of money, sharing formula or something

Johesu strike is always disastrous, I just can't imagine .

Let them resume quick.


The earlier all the health personell including the nairaland doctors( I wonder if they are truly doctors because anyone can claim anything online) that are always shouting on nairaland about how their work can go on without the other health workers( I have never met a doctor offline who has ever said this) know that they all work as a team and just one break in that link can lead to terrible effects.

tripoli007:
Okay fine .. Aside from the breast,Did you see any other difference in the mode of dressing. What is good for the goose is also good for the gander .. Have a bad night

I am going to have a good night.

What you wish for others is what you get.

tripoli007:
My friend will u keep KWAYET

Resorting to insults/snide comments when you have no point is not my style,

You can't show the spilled breasts abi?

I thought as much

Next time don't post lies on the internet, the truth is almost always on the internet too.

Have a good night

[quote author=tripoli007 post=60829277][/quote]Oga point to where the spilled breast is

[quote author=tripoli007 post=60827913][/quote]So where is the breast and the contors, the breast that you said was spilling out and the contors that was showing.

People saw that pix on the internet and labelled it just to spite, even as it is did u see breasts, is the gown showing all her curves, is it not decent.

Check the link you will see about 5 different pix of that gown.

If u can't show me the breast outside and contors then you lied simple .

You have to show me oo

Cc tripoli007

tripoli007:
Young man ,have you forgotten kumuyis son wedding ,the bride wore a gown with her breast out ,he was excommunicated from the church and after 1 month ,the father forgived him .. Dey there

Lies lies

Show us the picture with the breasts out. I saw this comment and decided to ignore it initially , then you had to quote me to state pure lies.

tripoli007:
Did kumuyis son not violate all of that,did you see pictures of his sons wife ,d Jamaican lady ,emancipate yourself from mental slavery ,a lady deserves the right to contour and do all of that its her day one in a lifetime event

Lool

Check kumiyis daughter in laws picture from the link below and if you can see breast and contours come back and quote me.

I am not even a deeper life member, the reason I m replying you is because what you just said is a lie.

https://www.nairaland.com/1330381/pastor-kumuyis-son-ties-knot

I have sent you the link of a 2013 thread that contains the wedding pix. If u can see breast and contours let me know.

People posting lies everywhere.

Wanice:
Abeg stop that thing jo. This deeper life wedding was this month.

Another nice picture.

Its not until all your breast comes out and your contours in showing and you face is caked before you can look fine

Ukeachu1:
See as you just disgraced our enemies. You should have allowed dem rant a little more. It's painfully sweet when they have a go at the issue. Especially the ugly gals dat thinks poster colour wud save dem on their wedding day.

You guys even have the time to reply some comments

I am not even a deeper life member but I am a christain.

BTW that picture you shared is beautiful.

Natural hair decent gown, no showing of chests.

I would have posted some pictures of a purely natural brides wedding if not for privacy sake.