ken711: I have been dating a girl for about 18 months now. Very pretty but my brothers, let me tell you... Look before you leap when it comes to pretty girls.
From the minute I met this girl it has been one money request after another. If it was small sums I guess I wouldn't really mind, as I have always worked for blue chip companies and can afford it. The thing is, her requests are always very big!.....20k this, 20K that.....but my brothers, I have to tell you the one that has made me even disappointed in myself.
She lives with her parents and they are the most dysfunctional family I have ever heard of... Everyday one person is fighting the other, and this my girlfriend, as fine as she is, is the most arrogant, prideful, violent & rude person I have ever met. She hounded me everyday that I must get her an apartment of her own, so she can escape her home, and I agreed to but by saving monthly.
Would you believe, one night, when she was working at a bar as an usher for guinness, she gave her number to 2 different men just because of this apartment. My spirit kept telling me that she gave her number out, but she kept lying...only for me to catch her texting one of the men when we were at church of all places.......
She even went as far as going to meet this rich man at a hotel, but the man ran away when she made that request, and I as a fool decided to finally do it for her. (I suspect she cheated on me that night and I always tell it to her face because she has cheated on me twice before)
I live on the Island and tried to get her to rent here as well, as I really want to keep an eye on her..... She has too many guys around her who live in that area and she is this kind of person who cheats out of revenge, even over small things.....this girl refused and threatened to break things off!....bro, as a mumu I sent the money to her to rent the place and for other things, about 400K.....
Ever since that money left my account, it's like my eyes cleared!!! I couldn't believe that instead of saving my hard earned money, I went and sent it to a girl that has cheated on me twice (or even more), lied to me, slapped me and done so many things.....but I just decided to leave everything for God, seeing as she was desperate.
The problem now is that the demands for that apartment is now becoming too much!!! The expenses just to get the place finished are such a burden on my financial and mental state...
The worst happened about two days ago, she wanted me to pay 20k. Infact I just got so tired of bills that I kinda was stalling on it, but what happened next truly shocked me. Would you believe this girl started punching me, slapping me and even tore my shirt cos of 20k. She even threatened to break my office laptop (working from home) until I sent the money, after that she left........
Now she is trying to apologize so that I will pay for bed and gas and the remaining things....my brothers, I know u will say am a fool!...I accept...I am a handsome guy, studied abroad, I just don't know why loneliness made me fall in love with such a sadistic user... My only problem is, do I pay for the bed and just finish what I started or just free the whole thing and the nearly 500K I have already spent...
Please help!
In this day and age you are still going after a jobless and directionless girl/woman in the name of relationship where there are thousands of women with good jobs praying for Mr Right in churches and mosques each passing day and night? Apart from beauty what does she stand to offer? NOTHING because she is a dependent living with parents. The girls parent are in a dysfunctional relationship. You went after her beauty to enable you brag that you had her as a trophy.
For God's sake, LOVE should not blind you into a dangerous relationship that will not last. This girl will move to next father Christmas if you fail to pay her bills. Get out and run away from that relationship because you have dependents who will better appreciate that kind of spending than her. As a professional accountant, we refer to your relationship as Sinking Fund without collateral investment, a figurative misnomer used to describe irrecoverable or unfruitful investments losses.
Use that money you used in paying her bills to invest in the following,: Shares, Treasury Bills, Real Estate or Land or open a business for yourself and pay yourself in the long term.
I started masturbating partially at the age of 19, I was a shy guy I don't have a girlfriend, everyone taught that I was a virgin. This masturbation became serious at the age of 24. I decided to quit Masturbation.
I said let me visit a prostitute, I paid her 3k, we started romancing each other, but I noticed that my dick did not erect. I was highly embarrassed, I thought because the lady was older than me, she was 33 yrs.
I visited 3 more prostitutes which are young girls in their twenties, it was the same thing, the dick did not erect at all.
Note: I normally have rock erection Even when a lady sit on my lap, early morning waking up I also use to have rock erection before I meet the first prostitute. From there I went back to masturbation again partially. At the age of 21 I made my first 1.5 million naira through business, but I noticed since I started visiting this prostitute my business collapse I could hardly boast of #200k in my account.
Around 2018 I decided to get a girlfriend, because all prostitute I meet my dick cannot rise to penetrate them. My first girlfriend was cute, I love her and she loves me. One certain day something led to something we got intimate, I romance her very well she was already screaming, she wanted me to put my dick inside but I noticed it was flaccid no erection at all. She noticed and got up and dress herself. After that day she started giving me attitude and that was how I broke up with her.
I got about 4 more girlfriend all of them broke up with me when the notice that my dick does not erect. After all this I felt like the whole world is gone, I finally got another girl friend. Anything that would lead to romance I normally tell her that as Christian we must not have sex until we are married. She would say that this is the first time she is dating a guy like me. That she loves me with all her heart. We have dated for one year now without sex, I promise her that we would have sex on our wedding night.
I am currently 27 yrs and I feel dejected. Does it mean that I may never have a child of mine own. I got tired of my situation I went into 3 days dry fasting praying to God to deliver me from sin and to restore my lost erection. ..
On the second day of the fast I was in a trance and I vommitted a lot of poison. I woke up and thanked God. After that fasting I don't normally have bad dreams of evil spirit pressing down my spirit. But I noticed that my erection have not yet been restored. Please I need help. I need God to restore my Glory. I would never use it for masturbation or fornication. Help me on what to do. I am in distress
Ladikwa: I thought she loved me not knowing that she was just after my money. But I was not able to spend much because I am broke for now, but I have a land I am in the process of selling to start a business which she didn't know, because I didn't tell her cause I don't trust her that much.
Well we broke up because she has a guy that is the main boyfriend, without me Knowing thinking I was number one.
I just look back and imagine how much this girl will have chop from me. Though I love her and am hurt after the breakup, but I'm grateful that all the amount of money I would have love to spend on her, to show my love I can use it build my business and help those around me.
And it taught me how not to trust girls 100%, and to be very careful about loving while using my head. If she knew about the land I wanted to sell she would have continued pretending to love me.
My Infinix Hot 8 Lite which is five months old and it is saving each contact over six or seven times on the phone, resulting in space consumption and the phone filleed up with no space. Whats the remedy?
manuelreports: Ok Aisha is correcting a lot of things. Federal character is now been observed Even the president COS is now a Yoruba Muslim In case you don't know Aisha is now heading the new Power block in the Nigeria sear of power
Steve0979: Is first class degree a ticket to getting a job in Nigeria?
Search for jobs in the multilateral agencies or international organizations because they appreciate first-class than our system which appreciates mediocrity and promotes nepotism. They wil better appreciate your services.
seventy five per cent (75%) of them are carrying US Passports and were part of the first runaways when COVID_19 started in Nigeria sometime in February 2020.
AlexReports: Abuja Based Pageant Organiser Involved In A Near Fatal Auto-crash
The Founder/CEO of Face of Culture Nigeria Africa Pageant, Amb. Roland Owualah, has slightly escaped death, after he came out unscratched In a near fatal auto crash involving his vehicle, along his way to the Karishi Market, located at the suburbs of FCT. The sudden accident occured at mid-day, on the 6th of May, 2020.
According to reports, Passersby were amazed and frightened, when Amb. Roland pulled out without any serious wounds, after his vehicle had plunged and toppled more than three times in the air before it landed disastrously. They reached for him and noticed he was fine and in good health. Speaking with our reporter few minutes later, Amb. Roland narrated his accident, describing his survival as a miracle.
Narrating the situation, he said the only thing he could remember was that he kept on yelling and shouting the name of God, while the vehicle steeped, tumbled and smashed into the ground. He however appreciated God for his mercy, he says, "I appreciate God for his mercy, for according to him is sufficient for all who call on him for safety. The only thing i remembered was calling out the name of God while the Car was Somersaulting and smashing".
Speaking with eye witnesses at the scene of the event, one of the commuters expressed overwhelming surprise, describing the accident as usual and unbelievable. While describing the scene, the eyewitness says, "it so unbelievable that a vehicle that had such impact did not take any life, let alone an injury. The driver must be a very devoted servant of God". The eye witness further said that they had all thought he was gone, not until they saw him come out by himself, without even a spill of blood.
Filomena: There's this guy I met in school and there has been this connection between us. We have gradually become friends. I find myself staring at him most of the time and when he tries to catch me, I hide my face. I have also observed that he stares at me a lot too and smiles and then says hey to me.
We had a small talk in school too. I didn't know he stayed in campus too so one night when I was going out to read, I saw him, like I couldn't believe it because I thought I was not going to see him again after they declared the two weeks strike, till it was called off. So I was really shocked and happy when I saw him. Then he hugged me and I hugged him too and held him tight.
So he then asked if this was my room and I told him yes. He told me he just escorted his friend that just finished cooking for him. I felt bad hearing that because I felt they had something more. So he then asked me which church I'd be attending the following day, I told him and he said okay and told me good night. He didnt even ask for my phone number. I wonder why he didnt.
The other day he just saw me and didn't talk to me and i felt bad for that. So after that day I saw him and he was just busy staring at me and smiling and I wasn't really in the mood for that but I still stared back. He then told me hey and passed. He was with his friend and I greeted him too and passed.
So the last day I saw him, I was coming back from church and was hoping I'd see him again one last time before I travelled. Lo and behold, I saw him coming towards me with some of his friends. He then hugged me and we had a small chat. I was still hoping that he'd collect my number, still he didnt..
I dont know if he wants to have something with me or not since he's yet to ask for my number..
Please guys I need your thought on this cuz I really want to go into a relationship with him.. I want to know if he likes me or bidding his time or just playing around.
Thanks.
Make the move and show him positive body language. Thats how it works.
For those of you who think that his calling that money Abachas assets aint right should rethink. The only person who can deny it is not is the man who served as PTF Chairman and Central Bank Governor under his tenure. They can clarify the issue better.
Juliusmalema: That's good though released but he has received his dividends of democracy.
What were they thinking when they were all shouting sai baba...Sai buhari?
They thought it will be rosy?
In 1984 it wasn't rosy under buhari, how can it be rosy under him in 2020?
Buhari is a modern day disaster to have happened to the history of mankind........same way Nigeria is a crime against humanity.
Bros so you be my mate? Was it throwing Fella Anikulapo Kuti in jail for currency trafficking while 53 suitcases belonging to his relatives passed through Murtala Mohammed Airport in 1984 unchecked. VP Atiku Abubakar was Comptroller of Customs who insisted they must be checked but he was immediately transferred to Kano for that affront.
Most Governors of North western states were under house arrest while Governors from other regions, including the vice president Dr. Alex Ekwueme, were thrown in prisons across the country for country and some even died of terminal illness in prisons.
The economy became battered that some parents had to withdraw their wards from school to learn work or trade while the government embarked on trade by barter.
So many businessmen selling essential commodities became penniless as a result of uncontrolled auctions by his government in the name of control price.
If the thought we forgot who he is, let's remind the current and Future generations that we have suffered under bad leadership by GMB in the past.
MTN Group has asked a US court to dismiss a case filed against it last December, in which it’s alleged the South African-headquartered telecommunications operator paid protection money to the Taliban in Afghanistan, endangering the lives of US servicemen and women.
The suit was filed in a Washington, DC court on 27 December 2019 on behalf of American service members and civilians, and their families, who were killed or wounded in the troubled Middle Eastern country between 2009 and 2017.
The complaint alleged that several Western businesses supported the Taliban by making payments to ensure the protection of their infrastructure — in MTN’s case, it’s cellphone towers. The Taliban is an Islamic fundamentalist group waging a religious war, of jihad, in Afghanistan. “The firms allegedly used a network of subcontractors and private security groups to transfer cash to Taliban agents, and in some cases dole out salaries to certain Taliban ‘guards’ between 2006 and 2014, while the group was allying with al-Qaeda and waging a violent campaign against US forces and their allies”, CNN reported at the time, quoting the details of the suit.
“Defendants decided that buying off the terrorists was the most efficient way to operate their businesses while managing their own security risks — even though doing so jeopardised other American lives,” the lawsuit said. MTN has now filed a “motion to dismiss” the matter with the US court.
1. I welcome the idea of having a legislation to guide the control of Infectious diseases. However, the current bill is ill-timed. Nigeria is currently struggling to control a global pandemic (Covid-19) and is succeeding in getting the most deadly Lassa Fever outbreak in the history of the country under control. The National Assembly should wait for this to be over to enable critical stakeholders participate actively in the process of enacting the law. You don change the rules in the middle of the game. You don't start making new rules of engagement in the middle of a war.
2. The Bill does not respect the federal structure of the country. Most of the Infectious Disease Control efforts happen at the State level under the leadership of the Department of Public Health of the State Ministries of Health. The Bill as currently worded gives absolute powers to the Health Minister, DG of NCDC and law enforcement agencies. It can only work in a Unitary System not in a Federal system. It will cause more confusion than solution in the system.
3. The bill has many provisions that violates personal privacy and confidentiality of patients. For example, section 8 empowers the DG of NCDC to request ANY health information from health workers. Sub-section 4 makes it mandatory for the health worker to provide any personal information of the patient to the DG "not withstanding any restriction imposed by any written law, rule of law, rule of professional conduct or contract". This is not acceptable to me. It gives an absolute power in obtaining people's confidential information to one man which can corrupt absolutely.
4. The bill criminalises Infectious diseases. How? It empowers the police and health officers to apprehend "any person" suspected to have an infectious disease on "any street, public place, shop or public transport" and take the person
They are all agents of Mr. Bill Gates of Hell. For those of you who think it is a conspiracy theory read this link.
We should not be judgemental. What if the officer and the team did something heinous to her before that video? there is no smoke without fire. I dont trust Nigerian policeman one bit.
wisdomiskey: #billgates is currently trending on twitter as new videos have emerged showing Americans taking to the streets to protest against Bill Gates and his push for mandatory vaccines in the near future.
Are some of you even aware that our House of Representatives has pushed for a bill for mandatory vaccination for all Nigerians while we were indoors for COVID-19
Just because Bill Gates saw the solution to the Covid-19 crisis, they're demonizing him. This is the difference between ordinary people and great people.
Which solution? His intentions is to microchip to everyone on Earth as a depopulation strategy.
Food › Re: The Monkey I Killed Early This Morning by rhames(m): 6:05am On May 16, 2020
