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gasparpisciotta:
Peace of mind is guaranteed in this relationship.

No fear of cheating

Says who?
He will cheat on her with a BLIND woman.

FT Chelsea 1 Vs 2 C/Palace
Stake your house rent

BigYash:
Cut one of 40million potential winning,most especially when its the last game on the ticket. Alabi investors will understand better.. I don't need to explain much..

1 cut 3800 odds. Sofia pains

1 game cutting a ticket , especially when expected payout is a huge sum

The pain is deep

breakthrough22:
Good evenning ,

I came back home from work this night to find out my wife and my son have packed and abandoned me .

My son is 4 years old and I really don't mean to hurt my wife .

She travelled on the 26th of December to her dad house here in Lagos .I missed her so much and I sent her money to come back last Saturday though she said she will be coming on Sunday only for me to call her between 2pm and 8pm without her picking the call .

The phone rang times without number .I later gave the last try and the no was busy answering other call .She later picked and said there was no light .So,she couldn't charge. I was mad because the excuse was too flimsy .I challenged her to tell her but your phone rang .I was mad and I lost trust in her that moment and flashed back to the excuse that she will not come on Saturday.

Seriously ,I was angry and different thoughts came to my mind like May be she went to see another man .

That hour ,I told her I don't want to see her again .I was angry though .She didn't come on Sunday. She came back very early yesterday which was Monday.

I will not lie ,I have been so angry ,ranting and telling her to go back to her parent house that I don't trust her again.

To my surprise ,I came back tonight and she already packed all her loads ,packed my son things without leaving any thing .Her wardrobe and my son wardrobe have been empty as I am typing .She packed everything .

Seriously ,I am depressed cos I love her .I love my son .I can't even allow him to stay over there to start schooling. Me and my wife have been together since 2013 .We have gone through a lot of difficulties together and now ,things are beginning to look good for us .I am so down right now .I called he dad and her brother .It is like they took that decision together .

I have never beaten her before but I do nag especially when bills are weighing me down .His dad and his brother was just shouting at me .Fear of been a single dad or living alone at this stage of my life will make me a walking ghost and the fact that ,I really love my son too and also my wife too will one day kill me .

Imagine ,that Saturday she changed what she saved my no with and saved with my son name.I attached my call history .Check the image of the missed calls.

Please what do I do?I am devastated .


Some of her chats this night ..

[1/10, 9:35 PM] SWEETHEART: Hv always endure with u even though u did not hv money,but u always rain insult on me everyday .am not coming back I want to work and make my own money,u said u hv never achieved anything good bcoz of me!u said I am your biggest mistake in life and now hv made up my mind with you.you pushed me to the wall!u make me carry luggage in the hot sun and cry ,am tired,I cried and cried and endure all bcoz of love so nao am ready to work and earn good for myself and my son.
[1/10, 9:40 PM] SWEETHEART: U can change ur key am not coming again
[1/10, 9:46 PM] SWEETHEART: Am not ,u know is too late for me to come back to .... and u urself know is my biggest fear bcoz I don't like coming here but u make me come back,is too late. Even wen u always tell me to go,I will still wait but u make me come back to my fear It is too late.
[1/10, 9:46 PM] SWEETHEART: ...will start school on Monday here and just take responsibility of it, if u don't want to loose ur son too.

Marry a new wife.
Afterall,women are everywhere.

Yeye dey smell

SenatePresdo:
Okafor's law is not constant.

Some people's worse enemy today is their Ex.

Not for men and sex.
They can have sex with their ex who is their worst enemy and move in,only to remember her when there is another opportunity to fvck her .

Freeko4:
Okafor's Law of Congodynamics states that once a Congo has been shined before (C1), it can always be Re-shined (C∞ ) provided it was shined properly the previous times it was shined (P).
(C1 P = C∞)...

Okafor law
So to all of you dating or planning to marry single and divorced mothers, just know that at sunset, the fowl will always go back home to roost.

but honestly women are created specially to cause emotional crisis in men,I just wonder how God will create such a masterpiece and turn around to install traps and pitfalls in it,I definitely will not blame any man that has emotional issues because of women,that's the way it's meant to be,if you take a good look at a perfectly shaped puffy tits you will agree with me that the creator has more ideas in mind other than for it to be used only for breastfeeding,then what about the ultra soft buttocks,the smooth skins,slender fingers toes,soft voices and the calm facade that hids an ocean of secrets, cunning, emotional traps and manipulative agenda that makes me believe that God created women to be a joy to the smart guys that can find the mumu button and apply mercilessly okafors first law and an emotional hell for those that can't find it.

Same for women with single fathers and divorced men..The men will ALWAYS fvck their exes,given the opportunity

[quote author= post=119904826]Source: https://dailypost.ng/2023/01/10/man-accused-of-killing-his-wife-over-bread-reacts-to-allegations/[/quote]Serves the woman right.
It wasn't the first time he was beating her.

A man hits you first and you didn't leave
You didn't stay back and feed him slow poison..
Widowhood with children and money is better than living with violent man

Fmartin:
I am dating a lady, and we are about to get married. She's already carrying my baby.
I have taken her to my parents. I have never taken a lady to my parents before. I have seen her parents too, and have communicated my intention to marry their daughter.

The only thing holding me now is to get things in order before paying her dowry.

The main problem now is that we keep having issues, coz, she's always making calls with her exs. i have confronted her on Several occasions, we have had fights, physical fights as well.

She told me she dont have the guts to tell them to stop calling her. She can only keep playing them till they walk away.
I told her i dont have that Luxury of patience. She has to choose between me and her exs.

Now, the issue is that she's pregnant and I have already taken her to my parents, they all like her.

I would have broken up if not because of the pregnancy. Coz, I wouldn't want to leave her with the pregnancy like that. To make matters worse, She have a kid out of wedlock. Though the father of the baby and her are not in good terms.

I hhave told her to stop making calls with her ex, but she seems sturbon.
She's ready for me to Change her sim card but I want her to use her sanity and end things with her ex in a boldly manner rather than hiding under the guise of changing sim. I have registered a new sim, but It's still with me, I have not given her.

Am confused, I need you guys advices for way forward.
No think insult, coz I gaht over dose.
Peace.....

To be honest,you are a weak man.

A lot of you are on social media insulting single mothers but you still go ahead to impregnate a single mother and intend to marry her.


Truth be told...Most of these young girls who go about having children outside wedlock are not worth it.Many of them are morally bankrupt and sexually promiscuous.

You may not even be the father of the child she is carrying .

A man who is helping a woman is expecting sex in return which he cannot get from his fellow man

The5DME:
It seems lots of folks in Nigeria are getting married for the wrong reasons, hence the plethora of negative complaints about marriage on frontpage. So I ask again, what are the reasons a man/woman of age should get married?

I will speak for myself...
For reproduction without baby mama and daddy drama

Men have started killing their wives over cheap edible commodity.

Bread..
Water..

Kai

MumEmdy:
This so sad, may her soul rest in peace and may God grant the husband and son quick healing, Amen

Lol..Which God?
The one who couldn't prevent the accident or another?

BadNews:
Source: https://punchng.com/ogun-woman-killed-in-okada-crash-family-injured/

Yet another proof that being a Christian and attending church guarantees nothing.
If she had stayed at home like me,tha accident would have been averted and she would have been alive today

3 times..
With snacks in between

Just there.

Too bony.
Not my spec.
I prefer a man has some flesh on him.

The loaf of bread was the not the issue.
The issue is...she was managing a man who bears her.
Her family didn't do anything about it.
They must have been telling her to pray for him and stay put because of her 5 children.

Serves her right.

So it's single girls that are cheap.
Chei..Single ladies don suffer.

chinemezeq:
clapping

Thank you.
Meanwhile,I'm a lady..not a guy.
Cheerio!

chinemezeq:
but through what. Guy, u are educated, don't talk as if not educated, once u have HIV, u are a carrier no matter any medication, there's no more other way to have HIV contracted than sex and other blood transfusion, HIV is one of de STDs

You are the one who needs education.
You have little information about HIV.
You need to be updated and enlightened.

In my position as a medical doctor who has worked across 3 continents,managing people living with HIV on regular basis,I think I'm educated enough.


Many couples are like that
Husband positive..Wife negative
Wife Positive..Husband Negative..
They are called Sero-discordant couples.
Children born to HIV positive women..Negative ,thanks to the PMTCT (Prevention of Mother To child Transmission) programme which is active all over the world including Nigeria.

Undetectable= Untransmissable
HIV is not a death sentence

Sanmel:
I would have said it's a lie but I've seen it happen where I worked before..
This one was around 7 years in marriage and the woman came to deliver her 3rd child..

I've always seen cases of men hiding it which I think is more common, but for women, it was the first time. Mehn! I was astonished..

From experience as a doctor,women hide it more than men, for obvious reasons.
It's easier to convince a male patient to inform his wife about his status..not so for females
An HIV positive woman will keep her drugs in the kitchen where the man hardly enters.She goes there and takes it at the appropriate time.. usually early mornings.
She will collect medications for her expectant baby and be giving the child right under husband's nose,he will think it's just children's multivitamin

LKO:
Does this information also applies to a man who is positive and on treatment?

Yes..Male and female.
There are husbands who are HIV positive but their wives are negative.
My cousin's husband is positive..9 years +.
Wife is negative.As at last month she registered for ANC.
They have 2 children already.
This is the 3rd pregnancy.
His viral load is undetectable because of medications.
Undetectable= Untransmissable

usedcardealerph:
I really don't know much about it as it's there personal issue. And what I said up there is all I know. She discovered she was hiv positive when she was pregnant for the first child. And according to the husband he was scared it'll affect the child but it didn't after proper care was taken on the child. The boy is 7yrs nw and he's healthy and hiv negative. Don't knw how but God did.


And what do u mean by if the husband didn't get it up till now then he'll never get it again....are u a doctor??

Comments on this post makes me realise that nIgerians don't know much about HIV.
There are many couples -one is positive,the other remains negative
They have unprotected sex and have negative children.
They are called "sero-discordant couples"

People who are compliant with their medications usually have high CD4+ count and undetectable viral load,hence they can't transmit the virus through sex .
They are healthy looking and go about their normal businesses.

Pregnant women,like other positive people,take the medications.
There is a special programme in Nigeria called PMTCT(Prevention of Mother to Child Transmission) and it's very active.
The New Born babies of HIV positive women are given medications for a while, usually syrups.
They turn out negative.

HIV is not a death sentence.
Lack of information and education still causing stigmatization and unnecessary panic in this age and time.

chinemezeq:
tell those who said he has to go for test, as if they don't know that he has HIV too

He may likely not be infected
His wife has been on medications.
Her viral load will most likely be undetectable.
Hence,she can't transmit the virus through sex

vickydevoka:
How

How what,please?

Women are very secretive about their HIV status..
Truth is . many husbands of infected women do not know

Bad roads
Untrained ,careless and impatient drivers.
Condemned /Scrap vehicles.

These are the major causes of RTAs in Nigeria.


To be honest, people ought to limit travelling during festive periods...
Unfortunately,this is when they choose to roam about the most

zimmaking:
I think i love this girl and i want to settle down with her this year.I saw her father who is in his 50s wearing stud/tiny earing yesterday crossover.is dis a red flag on the family?

A man in Nigeria would not want to be judged for wearing studs..they call it fashion.

Now,tables have turned
Studs now seem to linked with irresponsibility.

Life!

lordm:
Jesus, may God continue to protect us all

Lol..Joker!

There is no God that protects anybody.

Lol..He didn't kill her well.

Shameless woman.
What are you at 48 doing with a boy of 31,who are old enough to be his mother?

When you advise them,they will say..Age is just a number.
You don die na..
Serves you right.

Older well to do women should avoid young boys esp in that Abuja...99% of them are after free sex and money.

Blessedmercy8:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O8HN99pXf6w

A popular vloggers girlfriend just broke up with him now because he told her he wants to have a time out with his daughter by taking her out alone this Christmas but the girlfriend wouldn't have any of it and broke up with him.

Seriously, some girls are dumb. How can you love a man and not love everything about him including his kids? What if it's your own child, won't she be the one proudly posting it that father and babygirls time out alone? But because it's not her own biological child now, she's getting angry.

This one is just a gold digger. She's not ready to be a responsible mother and wife.

Some ladies are simply not sensible.

There are reasons many men avoid single mothers...
Their attention will always be divided.
You are dating a man who already a child or children...and you expect him to give you 100% attention..you are ment!

emorse:
Money wey you for use chop up.

If this op is my brother,I for slap am big time.

Money he for use chop,add flesh,he is sending to a broke entitled internet lady..
I'm pained!

PS: I'm a female