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Lawyer Vs Lawyer.

chinchonglee:
When I was 14-22, i was thinking how pple who committed suicide are fools and idiots. But wen I became a full grown adult, I began to see reasons with dem, I began to see the real cause of heart attack and HBP. Mehn adulthood nor easy at all.

R.I.P man! Everywhere rough

Mine is the opposite.
When I was growing up,I contemplated suicide on 2 occasions..In secondary school & in the university.

Adulthood(post graduation) has been kind to me.
Suicide is never an option

virginprincess:
Sometime ago, i had this close friend actually a guy, i rarely trust people but i trusted this guy to the extent i usually tell him about my personal life, i never knew this guy serectly admired me but never told me anyday so i just took him like a friend, the day this guy broke my trust for him was the day he tried to rape me i was shocked, if not for God that guy almost had his way the luck i had was that his mum just returned from work and so she was looking for him, he had to leave through our backdoor, since i was the only one at home, na God save me that day i almost became a victim of rape, since then i hardly trust anyone even my own brothers.

A man who admires you will not rape or attempt to rape you.
He never admired you.
He only lusted after you.

chatinent:
Is being rich all there is?

Money answereth all

chatinent:
And females who play football be looking like men!

It doesn't matter.

Being rich,famous and successful above looking feminine and being a prey to men.

Ehya!
He did the "normal" thing in the "abnormal" place.
Next time,return home to Nigeria and sexually molest women.
Nobody will arrest you.
Instead,they will shame and blame the victim while making excuses for you.
For now,Sorry oh

pozehnani:
Happy baiday to him.

He's not looking bad for a 38yr old. He looks 30. Evidence of good leaving though.

Leaving to where?

Strict Christian man...But he will cheat on his wife

Alexgman1:
Its up to two years since i broke up with my ex (ALEX MARVEY). But uptil now I haven't gotten over her. She has moved on & deeply in love with someone new who she profess to be engaged to.
She has blocked me on every social media platforms but yet i still find a way to stalk her. Following her updates & uploads using a different and fake id.

Whenever we cross paths on the road she ignores me like we never knew before.
Despite the fact that it was her that messed up and did all the lies & cheating, yet i still forgave her for everything she did.

How can i move on and let go of her totally & for good because anytime i and my new girl are eating, walking, bathing & romancing i do imagine my ex.

I need to meet your ex and give her a bottle of her favorite drink...She sure deserves an award.
I hope ladies learn from her .How to totally break up ,off and treat an ex boyfriend .complete oblivion.He never existed.

@Op..You thought you would be given the opportunity to get mushy n fvck once in a while under the context of Okafor's law so you can come online to brag about it and get cheers from your fellow guys while backlashing ladies.
You are disappointed.
Your ex is a Correct Babe.

Chef2000:
Please doctors in the house is there a cure for nocturnal epilepsy?

I have a pretty girl, we started dating 8 months ago, this girl is everything I need in a woman, she is neat, cooks well and humble, so perfect to my taste but she is epileptic.

I have been inviting her to my house for over 5months for her to sleep over in my apartment but she keeps refusing, telling me she has a problem then I later promised her whatever the problem is that I wouldn't abadon her.

She finally came on friday, we ate together and later in the night at 22:38 she started having epilepsy and after about 45mins she woke up and started crying, she told me she has been suffering from epilepsy since Feb 2019 but she hasn't been to the hospital due to financial issues.

So please can we find drug for nocturnal epilepsy, it happens to her only at night like 30 to 35mins in her sleep.

There is no cure for epilepsy. It can only be controlled
If I were you,I will end the relationship immediately.

PS: I'm a lady

Indulging in sex before marriage..

I regret it till date,even though I am married.

danyero:
No longer a Christian.

Same here.
I have since moved on!

Their sexuality..Their business.
Whatever rocks their boat.

Nigerians be watching lesbian porn on the internet but throwing stones on real life lesbians.

And for those preaching...Your God forbids fornication,adultery ..same way He forbids homosexuality.

KendrickAyomide:
yeah, but your mother is a good Office manager. Even your sisters are doing better than Her now

Better than yours.
Cheap fuckers! Zero value!!

KendrickAyomide:
Toto na office

Your mother,sisters,girlfriends or wife are not good office managers

Nanavati:
I pray God's protection upon every good member of this forum

Scam!

God cannot protect anybody.

Imagine the "God and Jesus" inscription on the bus and none could save them.

Phabulous828:
Mine was
5k working from 7am to 5pm, worked for two months till somebody asked me about my pay, I told em that it's 5k, he was surprised cux he know the Firm I'm working for won't pay 5k for my kind of work, he later made some enquiry and we realized that I'm been paid quarter of my salary.

Share yours

175k(2016)

Dbanj(at over 35),despite,all his kokolet and mamalet, got married legally before he impregnated a woman(his wife)...Yet he lost his son.

But his counterparts who have kids with different women(baby mamas) never lost theirs.

This life no balance.

nero2face:
RIP to the dead, but OP why all the emphasis on the Rosary he's wearing ?

To show how useless these things are.

JONNYSPUTE:
....Nice one.

The question is . How many ladies have this mindset?

How many men also have this mindset?
Look at how men are so bitter about this post.
A typical man wants a woman who shares the bills but he doesn't want to assist her with house chores.

That's fine.
A man supports his wife.
Woman supports her husband.
I work..I support my husband in paying bills.
My husband has hands..He assists me with chores.
While I am preparing breakfast for the family,he is bathing the kids.

We have bills such as school fees,rent,home keeping allowance..He brings 50-70% and I balance with 30-50% as the case may be.

It will be unfair if my husband just relaxes in front of TV or in bed,doing nothing while I struggle to cook,clean,bathe the kids,do the laundry,etc.

It will be unfair if I "hoard" my money while my husband struggles to pay school fees,utility bill,house rent,etc.

Marriage is all about supporting and assisting each other.
Its not a war zone or "I get sense pass you" venture like people on this platform make it look like.
Let's stop this unnecessary bitterness.

25k salary.

People are really out for suffering.

SexytorresE:
after u open mouth “waaaaah”... to insult me first, u still took time to explain ? That’s interesting . But I don’t need the explanation kindly pocket it my dear .

You wanted to shame your fellow woman for her marital status..and a man stood up for her.

Women sha.
Keep hating on yourselves.
That lady is 100 million times better than many married women.

owo8184:
I am a young married man with 2 kids. The marriage is 6yrs now. Due to the situation of the country, we’ve not been staying together. I hustle in a University environment in one of the states in Southwest while she works as a freelance for some organizations in Lagos.

I normally come home (Lagos) on monthly basis. But during this lockdown, I have been in Lagos with my family.

Prior to our marriage, there is this guy she met when we had some misunderstanding. They started a date but later called it off when we settled. She didn’t give me the details but based on what I read on her phone back then, I knew they made out together. The said guy is now in Port Harcourt but I am aware he normally comes to Lagos.

Just today, I heard my wife giving someone a description of where they will meet somewhere in Agege (where she uses as her office). I was curious to know the person. I didn’t ask her because she would find a story to cover up. I found a way to check her phone and saw that her ex - the said guy was the one who called. May I say that we have fought over this guy several times even before and after our marriage. She won’t let this guy be in her past. She’s either calling the guy or the guy is calling her. This time, I chose not to raise my voice but monitor her closely. She left home for work today. I may not be able to give details but every surrounding clue indicates that my wife has a date today. She returned home and I found a way to check her whatsapp but alas she has deleted her chats with the guy.

Just this night again, she received a call from another man asking her when she would come to his office. She once told me that the man was asking her out. In all these, I want to believe my wife is up to something. Infidelity is the last I would accept in this marriage.

Should I confront her with all these observations? Please, I am confused.

See how this story is paining men on this forum.
Same people who proudly and irresponsibly indulge in adultery with no remorse.
They can't swallow a tiny pill of what they serve.
Clowns!


@OP...
My advice to you
1.Find out what you do that makes your wife go out to meet other men.

2.Look into your character and change the bad parts.Be soft spoken,love her and talk to her calmly.

3. Wear clean clothes,change your underwear regularly. Wear good perfumes.Stop wearing Adieu Papa,APC/PDP T-Shirt..

4.Stop checking your wife's phone.
Stay away from her phone.
What you don't know cannot kill you.

5.Use protection, if you must have sex with her.

6.Pray! Pray!! Pray!!!
There is also power in a praying man.
Fast and Pray against strange men that want to destroy your home.
God hates divorce.

7.Hustle and improve your finances.

And most importantly..

8..Watch WAR ROOM(the male version).

Hope this helps.



PS: This is the same advice that women with adulterous husbands are given.
What is good for the goose is good for the gander.

Okorie to kill Okorie..the first Okorie must be a Fulani herdsman..

SoccerUSA:
As seen in the topic, I have two friends that travelled to the U.S, One travelled 2014 and the other one 2017, though before they left we had a good vibes we were both close if not best friends before they left.

The one of 2014 stopped texting me at 2018 or so even when I wished him birthday wishes and same with the other. I knew this because I only texted them on Facebook and you will know when they read and not reply.

I don't hold any grudges against them though
Did you guys think it's normal? Like if I leave Nigeria, Would I also ignore my friends text even if they do not request anything from me?

Please can someone just explain to me so I won't see my friends (maybe former friends) as bad ones.

Same way married women Ignore their single friends.
They believe they are better off than you are.
They have arrived.

So mind ya business and face front.

He wasted his life the day he decided to join Nigerian Police force.
Useless people

UDOKABESTLUV:
https://www.sunnewsonline.com/anambra-girlfriend-stabs-boyfriend-to-death-over-pregnancy/

Premarital sex and its complications.
But this generation will not listen.
They keep "tasting and testing ".

Married at 13?
With 8 children at 26 years?

I thought Igbos say this can only happen in the North

Fryzi:
Got drunk after a party, on all other bedrooms in the world, it was his bedroom you fell asleep on. Ok.

RIP to the dead.

Its not an excuse or reason to have sex with a drunk woman in your bedroom without her consent.
Well,except in Zoogeria.

Suarez has been phenomenal for Barcelona..

And this is how they wanna part ways with him?

In a malicious manner?

Na wa oh

16 years romance will end in a bitter way