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Irijosa777:
I'm the last born in the family, all the members of the family had gotten married except me.
I'm 32 now, just rounded up my study. I'm into farming, school works and doing catering work as well. I'm financially balance. I have not gone into a relationship before, I just ignore that aspect because I believe in the principle of "one thing at a time".

Now that I'm through with my study and I have something doing, I'm planning of going into a relationship and get married at least by 2023 but I'm perceiving there's going to be a problem between me and my family.

My family is very selective, very selective... There was a time a friend started visiting me anytime I went to the village, my mother notice it and told me that the girl is not welcome in the family, she gave me her reason too, I told my Mom she is just a friend and nothing more.

Today my neice got married, I invited my crush and she came to the wedding and I introduced her to my family as my friend, when the ceremony was going on, my sister told me and I quote "this girl you brought is not acceptable, she is too old for you, "common" she is just 27 and am 32... I told my sister that we are just friends and nothing more, then she said better...

I don't want to have any issue with my family in marring a girl but I'm afriad problem might be inevitable because I won't want my family to choose who or who not to marry, I have never had issue with my family before, they love me very much and we are living happily.

One mind is telling me to follow my heart another mind is telling me don't let a woman bring issue between you and your family...
Gosh! family get wahala! What is wrong in marring a girl of 27 years and I'm 32. (5years different)

I'm not ready for any family wahala...
Please how do you handle this kind of issue.

Bro, be ready to do what works for u ... the family choosing/approving for you isssh don't always end well...

Every relationship/home/marriage will go through its hell whether made in heaven or chosen by your family ....

What would pain u most is when you start going through your own isssh and your family now stay aloof after "choosing/approving" for u....

You have really done well by being financially independent ... next step is to step your as.ss out and get your own place as a man .... e get why

FahBuLous:
I have 20k and I wanna learn a skill cause there is no profitable business to start with it, I want to acquire a skill instead, please what skill can I get with 20k..
This is a matter of urgency pls ..
Help me mention the right people to push it to front page pls..

Learn photoshop and how to design via some udemy/skillshare videos which you can get for free online ... na data e go chop

After learning, you can then proceed to animation for adverts, etc... but you'll need to get a computer sha ... preferably, a laptop ... even if na old, used dual core, so far it boots to windows 7 or 8, u are good to go

I am into motion graphic animations

If u need more clarification, feel free to message me or whatsapp zero 8 zero 343 one one one 4 seven

That sandstorm is man made .... that i can assure u of ...

... some weeks/days ago, na excess rain and now, sandstorm

Forget it, Uncle Sam is busy cooking up something for the chinkos to get busy with ... probably as retaliation for corona virus ....

Penywise:
Which site are you using to apply?

I don't know why everyone is not willing to post the website for the application ...

That's it down there jare:

https://www.recruitment.frsc.gov.ng/

titjide:
Jobless and unwise people everywhere, this includes the mod that pushed this to front page. Clout chasers

You no nice at all ...

By the way, NL notified me that u sent me an email but I couldn't find it

24brains:
No woman, no cry. A girl that barely said yes to me yesterday is demanding 60k from me for wardrobe allowance.

Giving her the money is not the issue. but i fear a relationship built on such ground will collapse in no time.

What happens when hair and feeding allowances enters? i sometime wonder if having a girlfriend is worth it because almost all of them have multiple boyfriends whom they cash out from. i see no difference between them and olosho. petronizing olosho gives much rest of mind than a girl who is yet to be your wife.

Nairalanders, how do you people cope with girlfriends palava in this present state of Nigeria?

Bros, na ticket fee be that ... A way of welcoming u to the great club ...

By the time she's done with u, you'll hardly have a good boxers without holes

TinkTwice:
Hi guys, this is urgent!!! On red alert.

For long time/years now, I've been battling with this skin disease and it just became worst like 3months ago, with some serious middle chest pain. honestly, I gave up on this skin, especially my chest, neck and back region. And I'm all about chasing money.

But recently, my new girlfriend of 1month plus, saw my chest and back after our nsorinso and has declared "No more knacking", until the skin clears. That she can not even wear my clothes, if she's sleeping over, and I might transfer the skin thing to her.

Brethren poop! The pictures of my skin, drug and creams I use is there oo..i

.. If you have any natural remedy, pls prescribe 4me,im tired of the oyibo concoction..
Did I mention I have romatism? The seasonal skin scratching don tire me abeg.

Gracias

HEALTH

It could be your environment ... or the water ...

Stop the antibiotics and stick with the cream u are applying externally ... if u see a change, then the stuff is in your blood ...

The more u use the likes of fulsin or others, they will push em out and of course, show up on your skin brova

andronite:
HI guys,

My friend who is a US citizen, single, no kids, no wife, and has been working in the US for close to 10 years. Things have gone well and he was planning to settle down this August. So he came to Nigeria about one and half years ago to do introduction and engage his high school sweetheart. Note, this is also when they officially / seriously started dating . All has been well, and the both of them, their families were preparing for the wedding in August. However, last week he just discovered that his fiancee recently went to visit her ex boyfriend. When he confronted her, she said she went because she was bored, and she refused afterwards to change her phone number (he wanted to stop them communicating), saying she didn't sleep with her ex, and she only went for a hangout in his house.

My friend has cancelled the wedding as we speak, and everybody is begging him to re-consider. Between, the lady's age is within the range of 33 to 36. And my guy is between 37 to 40. He is confused as we speak, because he is taking a hard line on the issue, he doesn't want to start his marriage life on a wrong foundation. At the same time, he is feeling hurt because of her unseriousness.

What should he do?

He did the right thing ...

Infact he should forget about her and look for someone else ....

If she did it after engagement and knowing fully well the US guy wants to marry her, I can bet it with u, she will do it again ...

Her ex no be moomoo na ... Dem go f.u.ck wella

illicit:
We need one

Where?

Pls don't say Nigeria or I'll puke

sandra50:
Did your wife experience fever too..a friend of mine has been experiencing same thing and actually tired of going to the hospital..she did herbs.. antibiotics many types recommend by doctors..at first she had those two whitish things and it was painful..from there the pain moved to her chest..then cold..fever and burning stomach..she has since been going from one church to the other thinking her problem is spiritual..your reply can help.

Yeah she did ... An average doc will recommend augmentin but erythromycin would fix it ... And also, warm water + salt gargle till it goes

And my wife's own is triggered by taking cold drinks ...

Oralissue:
Expecting your reply sir

My wife does have it so that's what we buy ... Just asked her now sef ...

Erythromycin is the drug

Update: do warm water (with a lil salt) to gargle as well

Oralissue:
Am new here i just registered today, hoping to get answers i having be living with pains in my mouth. for months now and it gets worse daily. i have meant with doctors did a swap test and found nothing in their test, i was asked to return 2weeks time, but my conditions is getting worse i feel feverish, weak and pains all over my body especially from my throat there are red linings at the back of my throat and white puses on the tonsils, please help out,
Any solution even if its local

How can i get this to front page

I have exams and its really disturbing

I have also taking several antibiotics nothing worked my oral swab showed no growth of any microrobes in my mouth


Please what could it be and what solution can help out

Its tonsillitis.... and has nothing to do with suckinf toto as claimed by some people ... I'll ask my wife for d drugs she used for hers ....

There's nothing to fear bro

Stephen2324:
Please which song can you recommend for someone with fresh heartbreak?

Sade adu - soldier of love album

A. 1. In another time
2. Skin

B. Sade adu - love deluxe
1. No ordinary love

C. Kellie Rowland - better without u

Put all on auto repeat, close your eyes cry if u feel like but ensure u sleep

KennethEnyi:
Please thoughts on what this person because not looking great at all

Big hope dey ... That cert doesn't define such a person

zeenaman:
I would like to hear from experienced couples here. 19th of this month made it two months since I've been married, yet my wife has not conceived. I'm getting a bit worried. We have intercourse all through her ovulation, though we plan on seeing the doctor this week.

Could you render advice as well as share your experience here? How long did it take you or your wife to conceive after marriage?

2 months is short to be worried but I'll advise u see a gynaecologist who will probably request u run SFA (seminal fluid analysis) to be sure your sperm department is In order and if not, he'll get u fixed.

Your wife too would run scan or at worst HSG ... To be sure her pipes ain't blocked ... And it's usually painful but worth it ...

Other test would be requested if needed and in months, you'll be fixed and ready ...

Quick tip: if you got infection, your sperm department will be on shambles and the count will go down low but it's no big deal bro ...

Keep anxiety away as well cos if can do u both a lot of harm

Most people are uninformed about Israel ...

Same Israel that created a machine that produces water from air ... Google watergen ...

I think conscience and certain conventions are holding them back from decimating their enemies

MsAllison:
pray for Isreal

you won't see those terrorists sympathizers here but when Isreal starts now they'll be crying

Yeap and I personally think Israel allowed that site to be hit ... So, they would have a big excuse to use certain weapons ...

If iron Dome fails, will David's sling also fail? Or the other mobile batteries being position all over Israel?

Those terrorists have given Israel a good excuse to crush them ....

Let's wait for what Israel would do next

Jerryherd:
Man-made earthquake from US

Chop knuckle ��� bro .. u jasi

Mainlymanof:
Please come to my rescue, I am dying with depression. How can I be happy ? I'm not enjoying my sexual life. People say it is an advantage that I have delayed ejaculation condition. That so many older ladies love long lasting men on bed. Yes it's true but at my age I am not up to the level to mate with older ladies that do really love delayed ajaculation. At my age some of my age mate opposite sex can't be able to take pe.n.is not to talk more of long lasting sex . No matter the time we trust I will not cum, until I will get tired. And can't even thrust again. How can I father a child when I can't pur sperm inside my wife. How will she be able to get pregnant na. It is so painful . Help me out please. I need your advice now pls

Updated

Go and run SFA test then see a urologist to be sure everything is fine in the konko below department

obembet:
Who know the functions of this buttons, I do press it but I don't get result.

We learn everyday

According to DStv, they are there and can be programmed for specific purpose in the future

dimeji248:
I'm feeling useless to myself, seem like there's an evil force after me, I need all Nairalanders prayers, I don't mind wherever the prayer is coming from.... I quit my job 3 months ago [ 30k job in an audit firm, I travel from Lagos to akwa Ibom to get the job last year ] I did the job for one year, I couldn't buy a pair of shirt and trousers for myself, it got to a point my siblings in Lagos were the ones sending money to me, so I had to quit the job this year, and I came back to Lagos, since then no job was forthcoming.....

I will be glad if you guys keeps me on your prayers.
Thank you.

Bro, stand firm in faith and believe that all will be well. ....

Try another approach: why not acquire a skill in IT/Media?

I believe u will do fine in that instead of looking for jobs sir

TempUser:
Gramophone (plastic)

U no nice at all ....

CentiLion:
Glo is location dependent. itcan be great on your location but trashy in a different location.

Yeah, very true .. I agree

CentiLion:
Glo is location dependent. itcan be great on your location but trashy in a different location.

Yeah, I agree

Kiddo01:
Good morning dear brothers and sisters in NL, I know this may be funny but I decided to bring it here. I'm 30 years old now. When I was growing up as a young boy, I discovered that other boys of my contemporaries, my peers had two scrutal sac (talking about the two ball hanging down from the male genital) but mine is just one.
I dated a girl who once told me I impregnated her but I don't know if she lied to me.

I've carried out research in the internet but with different answers though I've not gone for medical check as to know if a man with one scrotun can impregnate a woman. Do anybody here have similar situation? Have anyone amongst us heard such complain?

Please doctors in the house, what is your take on a single scrutal sac? Have you come across this problem? How did you handle it? What is your advice? Can it produce a child?.

Advice please.

Bro, u can impregnate ladies well well with one ball ...

Just ensure u keep it healthy ... Go and run SFA (seminal fluid analysis) to know your reproductive health status then if anything needs to be fixed, fix it, get married and start churning out beautiful babies ...

And yeah, stop bothering your head ... There is nothing wrong with u bro

IamCookie:
A friend sister on Facebook was paid through bank transfer for services / products purchased and later realised the bank alert received was fake. This begs to ask a disturbing question as to how can someone identify fake transfers, almost immediately? Find below the post of the lady on Facebook.

It's pretty easy

A fake credit alert will never give u your accurate bank balance ... That's the easiest tell tale ... The fake alert thing is done via an android app ...

It's cos of this that I disabled my SMS alert ... My bank fought me but I prevailed ... Mobile banking and internet banking is ok ...

LMS1:
Guys Pls I Wanna Know,
I Ve Gat This LG Flashdrive And I Have Lots Of Data In It But Unfortunately Some Of The Data Just Stop Opening But They Are All Intact.
The Cause Might Be A Worm Or A virus And I Want To Format It Tho But I Want To Know If Incase It Still Persist Can The Flashdrive Be In Anyway Reparable?

What is the flash displaying?

Try and scan with 1. Malware Byte 2. Avast

Most likely, the original file is intact, copies and hidden in the flash ... U just need to first clear the virus on it and your pc ... That should sort it but if not, lemme know

Cashew:
Does anyone know which bank card can allow you make payments of $200 or more with your naira card. I have tried many cards, not working .

Are there special cards that can be gotten from the banks ?

How do you guys pay for Google ads, etc

I will appreciate responses

The cards have been blocked again bro ... No thanks to our govt ... They block then unblock ... They've been doing that since 2017 ...

Try get UBA web card ... That does work... I've not used it o but I was reliably told it works