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Wondering why she can't just wear a good bra. What's the point in showing her cleavage online? With proper packaging, the online shamers wouldn't have known anyway.

I hope that the Ikere dam is made to function. It will be of great assistance to farmers in that axis.

Kudos to GSM on this.

This is most disheartening! May their souls rest in peace.

Without family planning, it may be tough in the long run.

There are many graduates from all regions in the country who are deficient in English. The standard of education has deteriorated so badly. The mass promotion in the public education sector and federal character principle which encourages laziness in some areas worsened the situation.

It's up to the woman. Her life, her choice.

Wow! We'll miss him in Lagos. The RRS team is so well trained and different from the regular Police. My encounter with them was most pleasant. I got help and protection without harassment or a request for gratification. I was so impressed.

Yes, I believe that a well managed State Police will perform better any day.

God bless DCP Tunji Disu more.

Speaktruth88:
Plenty English. There are two or 3 people that control gold in the north they have been there since the time of IBB and they have hands in the insecurity in the region. If I know this, these people know this as usual no real action is taken just talking for television

Really?

cynthia500:
“You have brains in your head. You have feet in your shoes. You can steer yourself any direction you choose. You’re on your own. And you know what you know. And YOU are the one who’ll decide where to go,

sorry guys am about to logout now,
I hope righteousness89 takes over from here

take care love you all and sweet kissesssssssss.
bye seun!

You're loved Sis. No matter what happens, with absolute faith and love in your heart, God always makes a way. Please speak out to those close to you. Nothing is ever too hard for God to do.

Many of us have been there, weathered the storms and still standing strong against all odds. Nothing lasts forever except God's love. Pains become gains and joy comes in the morning.

I don't know why I'm writing all these....just an inspiration from the heart. God bless you.

Moblux:
I wish you well girl. Take care of yourself very well so that what you left ( if actually you have) won't resurrect in you and destroy this beautiful beginning. Old habit dies hard they say. But I trust if you take yourself serious, you will be fine.

I could remember the day your mum and dad got wedded at a Baptist Church in Ilorin. I was not there physically but your both parents being NTA staff at the time were accorded Newsline coverage anchored by Frank Oliseh. Rev Dr J.K Ojemola's admonition to your Dad was,
" Smart, don't be smart to cheat on your wife
Smart, don't be smart to batter your wife..."

Congratulations to you!

Interesting perspective!

May their marriage be abundantly blessed. Amen

CaptainZubi:
For about 5 years now I've been battling extreme tiredness . Asides that I sleep alot most especially at afternoons. At night,nonce I sleep around 11pm and not going to work the next day, I can wake up by 10am or 11 am.

During afternoon and night sleeps, the sleep is usually very deep (REM phase or whatever you medics call it, please correct me) and usually characterized by heavy dreams.

Even during work, I'll always take the risk to create some time to have a little sleep. I've been battling this for about 5 years now. What could be wrong.

Have you done a thyroid function test? If the organ (thyroid) isn't working well, you can have that kind of problem.

It's not a major problem. Treatable with one tiny drug per day. Visit the hospital for proper diagnosis please. May God grant you perfect healing.

Clown!

He should study his job description to avoid more embarrassment.

Juliusmalema:
Stone age

My yoruba friend told me that there is a part of Osun state that uptill today doesn't wear cloth and encourages snake worship

Doubtful but please go ahead and name the place so we can verify your friends claims.

Snake worship isn't part of Yoruba culture.

jaxxy:
It’s simple. Lola wanted jude out of group. Paul said no. Peter sided his wife. Group/brothers splits.

Lola wanted or Peter wanted?
Sometimes when a man takes a decision that is not well received by his parents/siblings, the wife takes the blame. African culture sadly.

If Peter stood his ground in support of Jude, Lola wouldn't have had any power to change anything. What I see is this being Peter's choice for whatever reason.

He didn't have to post this online. So immature and thoughtless! He could have called Kanu directly. Amara is known to be a decent lady afterall. Besides, it's obvious that she only needs help for her son.

Mental health issues maybe.

There are indeed local herbs for fibroids (iju in Yoruba). There's in fact a particular large brownish mushroom known as "olu iju" which has been researched upon. A lecturer in Yabatech did a lot of work on this. There'll be other things known to good traditional medicine practitioners. It's sad that most of these things are not well researched and documented for our use and proper control.

However, in some cases, surgery is still the best option.

I don't even know what to say...simply baffled.

May God grant us divine intervention to bring an end to insecurity. The killings are so heartbreaking.

sKeetz:
I'm dating an older woman. The difference in our ages is just 2 years. She is everything a man can ever dream of.

She's very supportive. Doesn't bother me and let's me do my thing. She doesn't boss me or anything of sorts. She's also very independent, but the only thing that stresses me out is our age difference and it's quite obvious cause i even look quite younger than my age and she's quite matured both physically and mentally.

Are there any cons to marrying a lady that is older? Guys who are married to older ladies, are there any traits i should look out for ?

Ps: we've been dating for 4 years now, so its not like i just met her. So i know everything about her and she knows everything about me.

No big deal if you're matured enough to cope. Many have married older women and have no regrets. Everything depends on the people involved. You obviously love her. As long as she respects and loves you, you're good to go. Turn deaf ears to the amebos (tale bearers) and let it be known that you don't care. They'll learn to mind their business and let you be. Your life is yours to be lived to your maximum satisfaction and God's glory.

Praktikals:
I guess you missed where he stated that Tope blocked all avenues to reach her.

She didn't, judging by what her daughter said. It's the daughter that chose not to relate to an absentee dad. She appreciates her stepfather who brought her up much more.

Some of the comments show so much ignorance!

Kudos to Gov. Oyetola. I hope he's able to work on roads within other towns. The road linking Oshogbo to Ife through Sekona is terrible. He needs to pay attention to rural roads that link farmers to the urban areas too. If only the state can make money out of it's God given mineral resource.

thebosstrevor1:
Are you damn serious, pls dont make me laugh.

Terrorists hijacked a plane and landed in Niger.

I am still wondering how their stupidity and idealogy driven madness helped in giving free speech.

You don't know what you are writing about

I don't believe that the hijack was sensible. However, it was one of a series of many events that eventually led to the collapse of the military regime. A desperate situation often brings about desperate efforts which may not be justifiable.

Many years down the line, a new generation of people may have their misgivings about some aspects of the EndSARS protest. Same way you can easily write off this issue. Those who are witnesses of an event will usually understand the circumstances better and analyse from a different perspective.

Babanah:
I know Gen Gowon better than you think. He is a very simple and humble person. We used to meet him at the Christmas party in Dodan barracks in those day near the tennis courts. My father was not a big man in those days.

I remember we used to have the chance to peep into his official car ‘NA 1’ with three stars whenever visits for official ceremonies like festac 2nd all Africa games etc.

Most of the developments in Lagos were initiated by his administration national stadium, national theatre, eko bridge, new Carter Bridge, Lagos badagary express road, trade fair complex, tin can island port, rebuilding of ikorodu road, western avenue, agege motor road, new Ikeja airport later renamed MMA. The list goes on.
General Gowon remains the most decent and sincere of Nigeria leaders no doubt.

Nigeria was at its heights during the Gowon regime. Since then every thing has been down hill till today

Truly that was the golden era.

The guy is too young to know. Probably he's assuming based on what he sees happening in Africa now.

Gowon could not have stolen so much money back then. Most of the funds were spent prosecuting the unnecessary war, new infrastructure and reconstruction and resettlement after the war. No loans were taken.

We know how he managed as a student in the UK after the coup until the FG later pardoned him.

Very decent and humble man till today.

EngrXrix:
while I don't wish this on him cuz I'm actually a fan, it's also good what is happening, He is paying the price for the reckless behaviour of the nigerian security outfit. I hope this motivates him enough to drive for a true reform in the security sector.

I read a news report this morning on his proposal for Police Reforms in line with his promise during EndSARS.
It's a good proposal that is still being fine tuned. I pray that the final report turns out great for the Police.

Ajibel:
Can you just imagine profiting from the death of their son

Sounds strange to me too! What won't people do for money?

Meanwhile Gbaja is not the killer. They should sue DSS if they don't have an ulterior motive.

Gowon couldn't have stolen so much money. He managed wartime without borrowing. He became an indigent student in the UK where he went to after being overthrown in a coup. I remember his picture taken at Warwick while on a queue to get his food. He's never been flamboyant and he hasn't shown any signs of substantial wealth since then till date. Besides, he would have been investigated and tried all these years.

Probably the young MP is confusing him with Abacha who helped us keep our money.

seborrhic:
Maybe a plant on the officer's car by his enemies to get back at him at some of the things he had done in the past,not necessarily that he was the one that murdered them.
Trust some Nigerians to pass judgement without knowing all the facts,thought and analysis.

Maybe not. The children said the men in red came back later to pick them up but the door was stiff. Maybe it's an abandoned car which was used as a "store" by the kidnappers. They may just be ritualists who found the place convenient for their evil works. The "enemies" may have no part to play in this. The retired officer may also not know about it.

thebosstrevor1:
They were cowards.

Nothing changed.

They didn't achieve anything

Your ability to speak freely today is one of their achievements. You may not understand if you were not an adult in the 90s.

Few days ago, a similar thing happened in the Polytechnic in Zaria. There's problem in the land.

Time to stop illegal mining in Osun. It seems the illegal miners moved there from Zamfara.

iLegendd:
She did the right thing. If it were me, I won't apologize and I'll do worse and even record another one next time.

These bastard parents of nowadays having more children than they can train are the cause of all these.

The love of unprotected sex by poor parents and poor people is the beginning of too many children and crime.

Being poor is not a crime, but being poor and churning out children you can't train is pure wickedness.

Ignorance and lack of exposure is the main issue. Religion and culture also play a role.

You can run an enlightenment campaign on this if you feel deeply concerned. You'll surely get sponsors from some International NGOs who are passionate about family planning.

Treating a child like that isn't right. She had no part to play in her coming to this world.

Typical omo oju o rolari! (one who suddenly falls into wealth). The only feeling she has is how to oppress others with the little she has even when she knows how tough it is to be poor. People like this easily throw away their blessings. Givers never lack. Her indiscretion has made her lose an opportunity already.

I hope the little girl is found and placed on the right path to a better life.