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Islie:
Alia, who was suspended by the church after his declaration of interest to run for the post in the 2023 general elections, contested against the former Attorney-General of the Federation (AGF), Mike Aondoakaa, and the former National Chairman of the Peoples Democratic Party (PDP), Barnabas Gemade.



https://saharareporters.com/2022/05/28/2023-suspended-catholic-priest-hyacinth-wins-benue-apc-governorship-ticket

This priest may be tempted to pull out of the suspension and decide to marry and live another life

It's left for the Catholic dioceses to accept him now or allow him do whatever he likes

Kosoco:
Wetin Bishops go talk now

He will remain silent

Ikokobara:
Please house, what's the best and fastest way to cook your beans...
The cost of gas here is on the rise ��‍♂️

Precook and continue cooking the next day, I mean a situation where you will eat it tomorrow morning or dinner

Just Precook and leave it till you are ready

That's about 6/8hrs apart

MrOjay1:
I read in a newspaper that eating yam that was peeled BEFORE boiling causes increased sugar level which causes diabetes.

On the other hand,some say eating yam that was peeled AFTER boiling isn't healthy as it still contains natural toxins in the peels which is harmful for the body.


So which do you think is better?

Cooking yam with the peel adds flavor to the yam that's all I know

ifyjobs:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0-fi5V2fEto

Did you fry as its wet, did you add salt

It looks nice

Isabelle16:
This morning, my boyfriend, my first and only boyfriend texted me the message bellow:

"Anyday anytime, feel free to dump me without hesitation if you no longer love me.Don't forget to inform me quickly when you take such decision".

I'm still figuring out what that means.I begin to doubt his love for me.I'm restless.Did he actually love me?

Is possible you are stressing him and he may have decided to take whatever you come up with

this thing is just eating me up because i have been dating this girl for a long time and i really love her and i don’t want to leave her

What makes you think the seer was not referring to you
Ignore such people and stop going to them to see nonsense

Dorwadora:
No shitting though

I feel like something is lost inside me, like I'm missing something in my soul. The urge to cry is overwhelming me and for some odd reason I'm getting restless because of it.


I've tried watching people burying their pets on YouTube but I'm not crying.........


Somebody, anybody, kindly recommend a sure thing I can watch online or do that will make me cry and feel free in my soul.

If you want to cry, cry its part of an exercise for the brain and eye

Gracelander:
I never knew this is what heart break feels like, I'm shattered and broken.

I started dating him from 100 level till we graduated, it's been five years now. We suffered and passed through a lot together, I made a lot of sacrifices for him and even had two painful abortions for him.

But he always complained that I got fat and he liked slim girls, he broke up with me in the most excruciating manner. I noticed changes a few months back but he kept lying to me not knowing he was seeing another girl.

The girl chatted me up few days back to know her stand and I told her everything, he even posted pictures he had with the girl, this is someone that hates pictures and hardly takes one with me regardless of how much I beg. He doesn't even post his own pictures but he's already posting the girls pictures.

The girl is his spec and more attractive than me... I'm just ashamed of myself. The girl decided to stick with him even after everything I told her so she could leave him including the abortion part.

I've wished him well but I'm in serious pain, I've been crying for days now and unable to eat. I gave him everything, he was my first ever guy. I wish he could come back, I'm ready to forgive him.

How can move on from this heart break, it's killing me slowly.

Before you finally kill yourself, let me point out areas where you got it wrong

Friendship is like gambling its either you win or you loose

Don't ever put your entire heart into any relationship because you don't know what's in the mind of the other person

From on set you kept him busy with sex and he already told you he likes them slim and you are fat, he has already told you about his spec, what makes you think that you will slim down automatically or he will change his taste of woman

Now you tampared with your womb twice, who ever told you that you can pine a man down with sex

Now that you have been heat, congratulations they are all part of life learning curve

If you dont tame yourself another one will happen because an very sure you have no relationship experience, so count this as part one, more are coming

These are issues that will train you to grow with sense and maturity

He will still come back to open the wound he caused for you and you will fall again

Now you can go on a break from relationships and ask yourself what lessons you have learnt

Any way sorry about everything, when you hear heart break, this is one of them

Ninobraw:
I just relocated to my own house recently, I have killed 2 snake since I came, there re lot of rat and cat around, sometimes cat match the roof of the house making noise untill someone advise me to stone it immediately I hear it noise, really it has reduced since I have be stoning the cat, now how do I get rig of snake totally from my environment

That's a normal thing with new site

You can take the following measures

Put net door in all exit doors of the house

Have a bottle of snipper at home but kerp it out of reach, it kills snake like mad once you spray it in it after sighting it

Clear bushes around your areas especially the next compound with unfinished building around it

Alternatively, get some one to farm on the next plots around your house

Lastly, be observant around the surrounding and keep your children indoors especially when no adult around to watch them play outside

MrOjay1:
My younger cousin is what you will regard as a typical big boy.He drives a good car and is living large.

We haven't been in contact for a long while so I decided to get his number and call him to catch up on old times. I really wanted him to put me through his line of work so I could solve my personal issues. He invited me over to his place and I stayed there for 3 days.

Omo after the first day there,he gave me his clothes to help him wash and instructed me to clean his flat.Hmmm I did it o

He came back with his woman and didn't even mutter as much as a thank you.

He even told her I was one of those his family members 'wey no get levels'.He said it in a very spiteful and disregarding manner.This na person I senior o and he do visit us then when he was little.

I was a little pissed at that descrption and he noticed it.there are other humiliating stuff that happened that day but I don't really have strength for typing.He was just using me to shine in front of the girl.

Before I left,he told me I will need to humble myself before him unless nothing for me.

I'm thinking of going back there to apologise to him for being pissed at him.

How do you guys see it?

I really need his percuniary support to solve my personal issues.

If you want to benefit anything from him try being humble

He doesn't want you to rub shoulder with him, even if you are hus senior

Go back to him and me him know that something was disturbing your mind that period you reacted

Then keep calm and be loyal as if you are an apprentice

Mikee19:
No ma'am. Don't agree with you

OK naw
State it

itsweet:
What will be your reaction if your newly wedded husband ask you to resign from your 80k job and become a full time house wife?

I would have accessed him and be sure that my salary doesn't make sense to the family

Then I would be very sure that my depending on him doesn't make me a slave in my marriage, home and his family

Thirdly, I will make sure his atm card has been within my reach while courting

Then having been satisfied, I will accept with a monthly pay

achimendy:
You're right on this one.

Thanks

achimendy:
You're right to some extent though, but saying women hardly know they are infected, for me that's carelessness on their part.

It's not really carelessness but their sexual organ is internal, not like men that their own is external

By the time the infection is busy causing harm , only the man's dick will feel it first before she gets to know

At times they do get discharged but because lots liquids comes out she may not know until it has a foul odour

Women also have a bacteria that kills diseases that gets in there

Though they get to know they are infected at times when a man notices any discharge

dre11:
Man Allegedly Kills Ex-fiancée For Leaving Him For Another Lover After 10-year Courtship




http://saharareporters.com/2022/05/26/man-allegedly-kills-ex-fianc%C3%A9e-leaving-him-another-lover-after-10-year-courtship-family

All because of marriage yet those in marriage are not finding it easy

This guy will be handled the way Osinachi husband will be handled

Men must learn to stay away from beating women

NLElder:
I have moved on too. I only want tbe obsession with her to end too. It's now like punishment. And I have my wife, yes, but how many percent of the te do I have her?

Honestly, this is the first time I am reading an epistle that was soo interesting

You have tried, honestly I can feel your pain if loosing her yet you know you can't really have her forever

Lack of sex in your marriage pushed you into what you are in for

Be grateful to God that she didn't take in for you because you would have been in a different situation

I think you need another side chick or your move close to your family

I don't care if men have side chick, what I care for is, providing for your wife

Men cheats and they do that for fun and not to hurt their wives, they still love their wives and still love the side chick

Abel7777:
https://premiumnewsnigeria.com/2022/05/27/homicide-fg-files-charges-against-osinachis-husband/

How I wish I am the one to decide this man's case in court

Das1mama:
yes sure I know she has moved on but d issue is, for me to get her off my mind and soul is to disconnect any form of any communication with her as have blocked her from all social apps, but d problem is I don't want my son to pass through what I suffered and still affecting me today which is Mother's love, in spirit of Truth the only time I witnessed mother's love was on the day she was buried.

OK at this stage, you have to calm down and help yourself

Get a matured woman and be close to her she will be your companion

Once you start a new friendship, she will be erased from your mind

Don't put all your trust in every relationship

Anything can happen along the line

As for your son, his God hasa better life plan for him

Just pray he gets a loving step mum and that's all you need to be happy forever

Wizywiz:
madam Frozen long time...been long I saw your comments...how is ur family and hope you are fine and good?

Thanks dearest for checking on me, am fine ams I have always been posting

Hope you are good

JovialJune:
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Another emotionally damaged woman

E pain you well well

Changing his name to his step dad name doesn't make him his biological father and that boy bearing his father's names won't stop his step dad from playing a father role on him

Am happy you are better off, let him deal with his life wherever he is

Just allow that child to bear his names, unless he willingly adopt the child out to his Current step dad through legal means

TforT19:
My husband and I are married for 4years now and God as really helped us but I am the one who initiate sex most of the time and it often makes me feel unwanted because he sometimes turn me down and it hurts �.
I am always on sexy bumshort, trousers e.t.c yet my guy go lock up.
Recently I found out that he's been cheating on me and it's really getting at me because I have never for once denied him of sex.
But however I am managing the whole situation so it doesn't scatter my home.
But I really want to seek advice
1. should I stop making advancement or initiating sex maybe that will make him wants me.
2. I also want to ask if initiating sex all the time as a woman is okay or I should stop for now.
3. Lastly if a man gets steady love, care, sex, good food and attention home. why then does he cheat?

Guys please kindly advise me on what to do.

Some men will cheat even if he is married to a foreign Virgin

Just be loyal and humble
He wants to flex out and he is just making his plans to work out

You don't really need to be flashing yourself on him his mind may be else where

Just relax and be good looking over time he will adjust

If you keep diatuhim ams his mind is else where whereas his body is with you, he may not cooperate

For the fact that your have that idea of him cheating, just advice him to take caution because if infection that you still love him and wants both of you to be Infection free

Boliboli760:
lol, na age dey rush me. I be old mama already.

Just make up your mind and stop breast feeding that's the only solution

Then keep lots of goodies and provision incase she needs food at midnight

Then start wearing bra 24hrs once the fluid does not get sucked, it will withdraw but you may experience slight pains because of the withdrawal

cowboyvs:
Good day Folks, I am not going to bore you with all the details. Ok, I have been a member of this Forum but I really need matured advise cos I am in a dilemma right now. I met this cute babe in 2021. She is from Edo I am Igbo. I was really thinking of getting married to her but I have some serious concerns.

Firstly, sometime last year she came visiting. While she was sleeping on my laps her phone screen lit up so I was tempted to look and I saw message delivered to Mariam. So something whispered to me to check the content of the message. When I checked, I discovered that the message was deleted after it was sent. So being a Guyman, that discovery spurred my curiosity. What I did was to copy the number and checked on Truecaller, lo and behold a Man’s name appeared. So I checked his name on face book and checked on WhatsApp too and I saw it was a married Man with five kids. So I waited till morning and confronted her. Initially, she denied it was a man but when I confronted her with my evidence she confessed it was a married man. I enquired further and she told me they have had s*x like 4 times while we were dating ooo. I butted her out of my house and blocked her completely. But this babe will be using other pple’s phones to call and be sending msgs telling me she is sorry. So at a point I forgave her and we continued, but, I was not ready to start trusting her again. So last week, I was trying to see if she has truly turned a new leaf before making a major move by going to see her parents. I was shocked what I saw in her WhatsApp. There was this random dude asking her out. From their chats she told the guy that she has a boyfriend so she can’t have anything to do with him. But, she sent him a video of her touching her Vagi*a. Telling him she wets and squirts very well. When the guy demanded they see so he can feel her she told him no that her Vagin* is only for her boyfriend. Also I saw so many guys asking her out but she kept telling them she is in a serious relationship and she can’t date them. So I am really confused. She is 22 and I am 33. It pains me so much cos this girl is so loving and caring and also a good cook. She treats me well and has never disrespected me. I am really hurting inside cos I feel this is not the kind of woman I wanna marry like how do u expose the most intimate part of ur body to someone else. Is it lack of maturity or she is jst loose and I didn’t know. I have refused picking her calls but she keeps on begging and sending msgs seriously. I am tired. Please I need matured advise cos I am no longer getting young and I wanna settle down ASAP.

At 22yrs, she lacks the experience of keeping a relationship

Relationship has lots of sacrifice if you really want it to end at the alter

She is having online fun but dating you so that she will feel the sense of having a boy friend

Give her time to get matured, right now she is Linea flower that must attract every man to touch or feel

That's one of the problems of dating an in experienced or exposed girl

You have to train her and she will have to see reasons why she should ignore those admirers

Go and do your home work on her

But if you don't have that patience then pregnant her and keep her busy with the pregnancy

achimendy:
There's something I've been noticing for a very long time, and it's seriously disturbing me.

I have come to realise that women hardly ask for condom during intercourse, neither do they even have any to protect themselves. For me condom is the number one thing that comes to mind whenever Sex is about to happen, but this girls dont care o, they just pull their pant and be waiting for action.

Now my question is, is it that they are not concerned about their health/STDs or they just care more about the pleasure?

Men gets easily infected and it manifest within few days

While women hardly know that they are infected

So they believe that protection is more important for men and when men protect themselves then she is protected

It's easier to get men condoms than women

For a woman to be going about with condom in her bag a man will see her as a slot

When you see woman requesting a condom from a guy she is really avoiding pregnancy

Das1mama:
hello readers, for the past 4-5years, have not being into any kind of love affair with any Lady cos of the heart break I passed through in the hands of the lady I cherished and loved innocently only to be jilted by her, reasons i decided not to be in any relationship was to erase every taught of her from my memory to avoid any other disappointments but my decision is not working at all, I still feel her presence around me each time she speaks with our son through my phone as I don't want my son to pass through what I went through during my teenage days like growing up without my mum really affected me not until death came and took her away recently.. I swear to God am not interested in any love making relationship, I need someone to trust and share my pains with... pls don't mind the way the write up is focus on the point. thanks and no insult my great fellow nairalanders.

It's easier for women to stay alone but not for men

The earlier you get that the best for you

So start looking for a woman to be your companion, you will surely get one

The woman that breaked your heart have moved on, why are you holding yourself back

Olowomi11:
My girl has a bestie,Yesterday,she called me she was going to the guy's place to greet him,i told her "No problem"
Someone saw her in her Bestie's compound washing his clothes....The person even snapped n sent her pics
I confronted her,she initially denied but when i showed her the pics....she said its Normal that he was not feeling really well and he helped him out by washing his clothes


Please Good people,Is it normal??

You are sharing your girl friend with another guy and you are asking if it's normal

Well you are in the best position to explain how comfortable you are with such nonsense

VictorUSA1:
The tradition is not clear about second cousins marriage.The elders are still deliberating on that.

Leave it for them, they know everything

They also know that, there is something they do traditionally to wave off any effects

They know that very well

lovediehatelive:
So, moved into a new apartment, Everything was fine until rain started and we noticed rain drops from the ceiling, signifying leaking roof.

Told the landlord, but he began giving hopes and flimsy excuses.

Took the matter to hand and contacted a carpenter. He got one tape (very strong tape, looks like the adhesive part is coaltar)

He patched the leaking place up in the roof, and we were glad.


To our surprise, the next time, that side wasn't leaking, but two other sides starts dripping.

Could it be that this carpenter intentionally opened a new hole so we can contact him again or it is a new leakage?

Pease those with similar experience should help

Am glad you took it upon yourself

That tape is called flat bar is silver in colour

He did not open another place because he will never do that

Call him again to check every roof leaking spot, and if he repairs it this around it will not drop because he must have taken time to spot the leaking spots

Is always best done very early in the morning when the sun is yet to be out

BabaIbo:
Stop being s*lly and don't support laziness...

Every one in Nigeria is going through something or the other.

I used to have that thought "people are going through a bla bla bla" before until recently. You will even notice it in my acts at some points sef if you observe well.
So forget that talk.

I am also a graduate. Although I am from a comfortable home to a good extent, but I have done hard, odd/dirty and stressful jobs Post-NYSC, I have worked on sites as a server/labourer a.k.a tim buom OR biri sope, I also worked as a teacher earning 15k and so on.
I hustled hard, and God grace found me.

My point exactly is you can't build on nothing. Before nairalanders advice him, he has to set his focus on something. Check the posts I made and you will where I asked somehow related question but las las na wetin dey my mind I do.

In life, it is either your parents make way for you or you make way for yourself, don't expect to sit somewhere without plan and expect someone going through their own challenges to give you your life plan/purpose.

Deal with it, am done with you

VictorUSA1:
My half brother is contemplating whether to marry our second cousin or not.

They first met in a workshop where they got attracted to each other without the knowledge that they were relatives.The family elders learnt of the relationship and pushing back while others said second cousins can get married.The two of them are death in love with each other but contemplating if the marriage could materialize.

Is it legal for second cousins to marry?

Count legality out of it

Whatever your custom and tradition says is what they will obey and follow

Umunna knows what to do in this case