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stupidity:
thanks for your input. I’m not married yet. That’s why I’m here to learn.

Ok

Nelsonmoney:
Hello everyone I need your advice please

My brother has a gal he wanted to marry already they have a son of 3rys old. He own a business which they both managed and the problem is the business is not flourishing like it used to and things are getting worse for him.

He went to some places and was told that the girl family background is the cause of the problem. Before this issue my aunt has warned him that the girl is not his real wife through prayers and revelations. My aunt advised him since he hasn't paid her bride price he should leave her.

According to him the girl is nice and he would want to marry her but due to these problems he wants to part ways. please i need your opinion on this issue.

Every business have its good times and bad times

How often do they pray or talked about the low turnout of the business

There is no way she will be responsible to the downfall of a business she is jointly doing with your brother

Once there is love in their relationship, every other thing will be settled with time

You need to meantion the kind of business they are into so that we will understand if it's a business that is steady or not

acecouture:
Good evening, first of all I want to apologize for any grammatical errors and blunders am going to make thank you.

I don't know how and where to start from but I will make the story short and brief. My dad took my mom to court accusing her of which craft, threat to his life 2017 and January last year he divorced her,mind you it was 28 year year of marriage. My dad is 60, am 27 years.


I had set back concerning my education,i had to withdraw from a federal university to a private university, 5years was wasted. The main reason of going to a private university is simply because of the university strike ,am getting older... thank God and in my final year now and am doing well ,but my father suddenly withdrew every support on me including my sisters because we took our mother side.

About my mother, months after the divorce he took her again to kings palace concerning property, well he happens to be a successfull man I mean he is worth up to 100 million naira. Out of 13 houses he has and several properties we don't know about he only issued us one and that was the first house he built.

My mom won the case but with annoyance he withdrew his support on me, my younger sister's r through in university(o yes am the first born and only son with 3 girls). Now I have now where to run to ,I haven't paid school fees and am in final year.i don't know what to do

My mom can't raise the money , neither can I .I have a business but is just for feeding
Please I want to extort money from him in a legal way,am not after his properties but just to finish from the university.

Pls and pls I need your sincere advice, I battling with depression (bipolar disorder) .there is more to this story but am ready to answer any question
Thanks you
PS .sorry for the errors once again

At this stage
Meet your dad one on one, ask him why he withdraw his sponsorship of you and your siblings education

Listen very well while he is speaking and after that he will definitely say that you took sides with mum

Tell him you are sorry and that you are going to bring your sisters to apologise to him

Secondly, if he accepts you people apologise, that is where the real game will start

Play the fool and keep supporting him with your sisters too

Continue this until you graduate and find your level as being stable to stand on your own

You and I knows that what he did to your mum is bad

Keep your support to your mum coded and put her in the light of what you are doing

Forget about his relationship with your mum he is stubborn and wicked and he is out to melt his wickedness on any of you that doesn't give him the stupid support he wants from you guys

Always tell him the sweet words he wants to hear in as much as that will make you and your siblings have enough cash in school

Whatever he is doing, give him your support and play the fool.

Don't argue with him because he will see it as a challenge

Continue with your sisters to play the fool game with him

Don't be surprise you can save some money and give your mum to start something doing

Don't ever meantion your mum issues to his ears, he forbids to hear that

As time goes on when you guys have found your bearing, pull out from him and you will see him suffer more from loneliness and that is when he will start having his own depression



Encourage your mum to Pls play along with you people so that your education won't suffer

You want to over work yourself over a pussy

Your woman likes sex and you think you have gotten something to cherish ❓

At your age now, follow natural way of satisfying a woman with out looking for enhancer

Your heart beat and heart rate determins your strength, anything more than that, be ready to find your self in an emergency unit of the hospital

If she likes sex and you can't go rounds to satisfy her, leave her to find her match

You don't need any drug to last long in the bed

For how long will you be taking drugs just for sex ❓

You are too young to complain because such complains will come up at older age not now that you are still vibrant

Learn how to delay ejaculations that's why you are the one in control

Lastly,
Wotk on yourself
Your life style
Your feeding habits
Your anger management
Your stress levels
Your state of mind
Stop taking anything minerals

Frances95:
I never had a reason to think about this but my husband complains a lot about how he has never seen me cum.
Actually, I enjoy sex but this cumming stuff is bothering me. Are there things I'm supposed to do cos my husband has tried his best to make me experience this but it's not working
Is this normal or something else is involved.
Please ur advises is really needed

Sex is a thing of the mind

Your state of mind at any time determines if you will climax or have orgasm during sex

It's a thing of psychology

Before sex free your mind of all worries and troubles

As you are a woman, you are expected to tell your man how you want sex to be not him determining how it will be, because come what may, a man will have orgasm but its not like that in women

Try and engage yourself with enough kiss and fundling with your nipples which will help to stimulate and prepare your body for sex

You can stand and let your hubby cuddle you while standing and the same time rub your boobs for you while kissing your
It helps to get wet down there

Don't ever engage in a rush sex, let him take it easy and slowly, with a gentle touch while you close your eyes and concentrate fully in the action

While all these are going on, you will be enjoying the friction but the altimate is the ability to reach orgasm

Watch soft porns in your private it will help stimulate and prepare you

Lastly, there must be enough romance and when I mean enough romance, let hubby know that you need enough romance to put you in the right track.

With the help of enough romance, you will be the one beckoning on him to take control

Don't allow yourself to be rushed because that system doesn't work for people that finds it difficult to reach orgasm

Always be in the mood for sex and you can also make the first move

Choose from all the styles you have watched and find one that suits you, but man in top will give you a good body contact and control of the game

At times tell him that you want him to suck your boobs especially when you are with him playing or gisting, that's a woman's turning point

Don't encourage fingering it distract a lot

Idiot

You allowed your dick to mislead you

Now your dick will go flaccid after implicating you

Beast

Them for just light matches

He is running for nothing, he will be caught

He is just postponing his evil day

Again ❓❓❓

That's it

Kill anyone carelessly and get instant judgement,
sacked and persecution

Good judgement

This officer done enter voice mail

Just because your job authorise you to be in possession of a tear gas,

You now use it to assault people, even a minor

The authority will not take it lightly with you

Go and face the music

The devil trailing the police officers this time around means business

Mumu go and face it

candlewax:
its useful to farmers

Ok

Xisnin:
Unwanted pregnancy is not a mistake, it happens as a result of foolish risk taking.
In most cases, nobody was taken advantage of because they are in similar age group.

Even when the age difference is large, are you claiming that a girl old enough to get
pregnant does not know that sex leads to pregnancy?

As to the Yorubas you referenced, you are mistaking tolerance for acceptance.
People who work with NGOs know better, even when the family accept such person,
their lives don't remain the same.

Some families are struggling to survive only for one wicked daughter to add to their burden.

If you think their daughter who got pregnanted by a beast is wicked ❓

Then the beast that pregnanted her is a devil

What a respectable way of showing appreciation to his late mum

I know he wished she is still alive to enjoy the fruit of her labour

Xisnin:
Unwanted pregnancy is a disease, it destroys life, stagnates progess and changes destiny.
Our society should continue to stigmatize unwanted pregnacy to prevent generational
poverty and crime.

You got it very wrong

Unwanted pregnancy is as a result of those idiots that always take advantage of premature girls and pit them in a family way

Stigmatising them is like putting insult in injury

This is one area I love the yorubas they don't stigmatise their daughters when they get pregnant carelessly

That doesn't mean that her family is not discipline but it means that we can't disown you for this mistake but your life is important to the family

No one should stigmatise a young girl for being pregnant it's an act of mistake

I am not encouraging it either

candlewax:
sales of sniper should be controlled it's that easy

Outright ban

His time is up

As pretty as she is,
She put all her love in beast called a man

When there are more romantic men hanging around you begging for attention

Look, ladies, if you can't stand break ups, don't venture

It's for the strong hearts because anything can happen even with a ring in your finger

comradee1248:
We got married in 2013, by 2015 I had a very terrible accident that shattered one of my leg, so I've been down since then, even though the treatment will soon be over, I did up to 6 surgeries costing quite a fotune, which my people paid.

I work with a very reputable Paramilitary organization, my salary has never been stopped.
I have never failed to provide the basic necessities in the house, even bought my own 2 bedroom flat in the process.


My wife gets angry at the slightest oppotunity..
She told me 2 times that the only reason she's still with me is our two kids...

The 1st time I didn't take it serious but the 2nd time she said it I knew I have to think twice over it.

I know I will bounce back to life and use my legs again in few weeks from now.

My plan is to pack my kids and leave her alone...

What do you Suggest I do.

Thanks

Have you ever sat her down and find out what the real problem is ❓

Is packing out your kids the solution to the problem ❓

There must be something wrong and create time to look into it

Once a woman starts telling a man thdst the only reason she is in the marriage is because of the kids, you know it's time she has made up her mind to leave

If the problem is from your attitude or her attitude then sort it out

No marriage is sweeter

They all have bitter /sweet taste

Get married and remain sorrowful

So all these enlightenment about genotype is not making sense to you

You are placing your question on friendship or lovers level

When it comes to proper marriage level, it's a different ball game

But bear in mind,
Women bear grudges 100times more than men

Best option is get it resolved quite immediately

When a man falls, there are so many factors that led to it

A man doesn't just start falling after all his struggles in life

Let's see yours from the following points

The kind of life style you are leaving

The kind of family you came out from

Your upbringing

The kind of friends you keep

The way you talk, careless talk or respectful

Your financial economic spending and saving

Your dress code, appearance and fashion sense

The way you control you tongue

Your eating habits and drinking habits

Go through these list and pick out the areas that led to your downfall

Now that you have risen, correct yourself

First time it's called a mistake
Second time it's called a habit
The third time it's called stupidity

When a man falls, there are so many factors that led to it

A man doesn't just start falling after all his struggles in life

Let's see yours from the following points

The kind of life style you are leaving

The kind of family you came out from

Your upbringing

The kind of friends you keep

The way you talk, careless talk or respectful

Your financial economic spending and saving

Your dress code, appearance and fashion sense

The way you control you tongue

Your eating habits and drinking habits

Go through these list and pick out the areas that led to your downfall

Now that you have risen, correct yourself

The day he will open your chapter, you will forget that you are the one supporting him

lilmax:
there's no excuse

Yes for whatever reason or reasons,
There are no excuses for dropping such women who stood by you for you to find your ground

But its left for your conscience to do the needful

When such men leaves women of that nature, look very well

It doesn't go down well with them

The only option left with them is to go back to such women and apologise to her for breaking her heart or settle them with finance.

But that wasn't what she bergained for in the first instance

Instead of chasing objects they are chasing shadow ❗❗⏺️

Stupid man

It's because of this same animalistic behaviour that made her to fall out of love with him

You are frustrating her in the marriage yet you don't want her to leave

May you be sentence to life in prison for attempted murder

They have carried their madness and stubbornness outside the shores

They will screen his documents to the last paper

Just pray that they won't find any single fault

Even ordinary error in spelling, you will be deported without an extra cloth