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My little sister and her fiance do not even kiss. They do not want to fall into temptation but they love each other dearly. As for me I wanted to but my husband just whined and whined. I ended up giving in and rationalized it somehow. I cannot call anybody a sinner because I failed in that aspect myself.

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Timmy you have a point. I knew someone that I was so disgusted by her behavior but when I think back now I realise that she had such a horrible radar for men. She picked the worst and within two weeks she was talking marriage but they usually fled after they got what they wanted. I think she genuinely thought that sleeping with them and spending their money made her their wife to be

9 men ke? Was that her full time job. That is too much even for a man. WTF When did she have time to go to school or even interview for a job. Very busy woman indeed

You really have to look at the bright side. You did not marry this guy. There is nothing worse that a man without honor. Focus on yourself and do not worry about what his wife does or is doing. You just have to learn to love yourself again. Don't let this turn into bitterness. The fact is that Kola might love this woman and she might love him back and they might be very happy together. Let them live their lives. YOU HAVE TO NOW LIVE YOUR LIFE TO THE FULLEST. Do not consider them in any decisions you make. Focus on you.

She can then say that is okay as long as he also cooperates with her fantasy of him taking it from behind from another man. The idiot husband might actually want it sha

The people running Nigeria into hell are elders. These elders are a bunch of shameless, morally bankrupt, agberoitic people you can ever find. So no elders are not always right and in a culture were so much emphasis is put on a group of people always being right you have a situation like Nigeria

blend tomatoes, red bell peppers, onions, maggi, and 1 can tomato paste together

Heat oil and then pour blended vegetables (lower heat before pouring)

Add rosemary, thyme, curry and bay leaves (2 to 4 leaves)

Add salt to taste

You can let the tomatoes dry a bit or you can just let it get to a rapid boil again before you add the rice (depends on how much tme you have to cook)

Kind of guage your level of water to rice. I use my eye as a gauge (LOL) because I do not like to add water once I have added my rice. If you have to add water then use chicken stock and add a little at a time.

Never blame the other woman? There is a reason why she is the "other" woman. Of course she should be blamed just like the husband has his own blame.

sugabelly:
The Man used to BEAT her.

Please, telling her not to do it behind his back is just being unecessarily wicked. We already know that he is opposed to it. We also already know that he is physically stronger than her and is more than capable of harming her.

What else is there to talk about?

Do you go and discuss with a Lion that is about to eat you the Gun you are trying to bring out to shoot it?

Abegi jo! Go and build your house BEHIND HIS BACK and PUT IT IN YOUR MAIDEN NAME! NEVER EVER TELL HIM. If he never beats you again then it's your good luck, but the day he raises his hand against you grab your children and go.

Who wants to their children to be around someone they don't feel safe with?

All this husband and wife rubbish is nonsense.

A man that calls himself your husband does not threaten you, endanger you, or make you feel unsafe. That is called a Tormentor.

I don't think most people saw the part where someone said he beats her. I did not see t at first but when I did I changed my stance on not doing it behind his back. She needs to build and start a life apart from him

His wife s due around the same time. Nobody on earth knows for sure exactly when they will deliver unless it's a scheduled C section and that is even if the baby does not come before then. I had my first child 1 week before his due date and I was not in labor for 24 hours. I only pushed for 1 hour and the baby was here. So you cannot say that the wife's wishes should be ignored for the best friends wishes to be a best man because she might be in labor for more than a day. If he had a job appointment I would not say that he should not go. I don't even know how you can equate a job that he must go to to traveling for pleasure.

What does sentiments mean abeg. Please biina educate me on what it means. Sentiment to me is going to your best friends wedding to be his best man while your wife is about to give birth. Being there when your wife is going to give birth rather than going to a wedding is responsibility. Every man and woman is different. Maybe for you it is no big deal but the poster has said here that his wife says he should not go so it is important that he be there when the baby is born.
He does not have to be there to pull the baby out of the birth canal but she might need her husband for support so who in the world is the best man to give him to be at the wedding and risk missing the birth of his child. It might not be a big deal to the best man but it is a big deal to the wife and that is all that matters. He cannot disregard his wife's request which by the way is not unreasonable for a selfish request from a best friend.

I don't know o. The way he was looking at it and licking his lips in that video I think it is an iroko tree he is carrying down there

LOL. That is the nick name for palm wine abi

Yehmey:
I AM SORRY BUT THIS IS NOT SUPPOSE TO BE A QUESTION. I KNOW PEOPLE LEARN FROM PAST RELATIONSHIPS, BUT ARE YOU TO DECIDE HOW MANY GUYS YOU WANT TO GO OUT WITH. PLEASE JUST LISTEN TO YORSELF, LETS SAY WHEN YOU REALLY FIND THE GUY YOU WANT TO GET MARRIED TO AND HE ASKS YOU HOW MANY GUYS YOU HAVE GONE OUT WITH BEFORE YOU MET HIM, WHAT ARE YOU GOING TO SAY. ARE YOU GOING TO SAY "OH, JUST 15 GUYS", IMAGINE WHAT HE WILL THINK OR BETTER STILL ARE YOU GOING TO LIE. I AM NOT SAYING THAT YOU SHOULD'NT GO OUT WITH GUYS, ALL AM SAYING IS THAT YOU SHOULD'NT BE ASKING "HOW MANY?".

If you are asked you tell the truth. If you have an sense it will not be 15

the same number she s comfortable with her future husband having

Did you know the girl? How can you ask permission to dance with another man's woman and he says okay. What kind of water are y'all drinking

Okay I need to stop laughing at you. I can almost sense your excitement. LOL. Just don't meet him in his hotel though.

This woman is a real moooooooooooooooooo. It is only a matter of time before her husband will start thinking that she is just like her friend. How can you tell a lie for a cheat in front of your husband. I don't even expect my husband to have a close friend that cheats on his wife. We have one friend that cheats but we are not close to him and we encourage his wife to come around with their child. I don't know why a woman that has peace in her home will want to involve herself in her friends stupdity

When you are having sex and you feel like you are about to ejaculate, she can pull downwards on your testicles that should delay it a little and it also feels good. Since you are new to the whole sex thing I am betting that a big part of your premature ejaculation is nervousness. Your wife should not put too much pressure on you and you especially should not put too much pressure on yourself.
The other thing is pre-intimacy pre-intimacy pre-intimacy. Penetration alone will not bring most women to climax so if you pleasure her and she has an orgasm and then you do your 2 second thing I don't see how that should be a problem for now. Relax. Practice makes perfect

Her son is SS. I felt so bad for her when her husband left and then she found out that her son had the disease but she seems more positive now. Happy for her.

LOL. No kids allowed in this section

Okay I used to like her and I thought it was all rumours that she is a home wrecker but seeing her with her so called husband proves that it was not just rumours. A second wife in this day and age is nothing but a home wrecker

This is not news but just seeing his soon to be ex wife and their son at the christening is heart breaking. What can any woman gain from destroying a home? So sad

I remember when that video first came out. I would be sitting in my C++ class thinking "how does it feel". Shoot. That video made a girl want to touch herself in public.

Right after the have the death penalty for fathers that rape their daughters and mothers that know about iy and are quiet, pastors that brand little children as witches and torture them, parents that let people take their children and torture them because they said they are witches, government officials that get rich themselves and do not pay employees for months at a time.

landwin do you really think he did not know that. Some people just like drama. Imagine that that is the first thing she serves him in the morning. SO she has to deal with this from the moment she wakes up. God forbid that the pepper she puts in the soup is pepperish. We will hear how she refused to remove the pepper from the pepper

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HE BROKE HER BONES? ? ? ? Are you serious? I knew it. As soon as she was saying that he wants to tell her what to do with her money I knew he was another spineless, abusive son of a bitch. I really don't know why she is still there

Lagos to Benin is a 45 minute flight. Hopefully you do not get stranded and your wife gives birth. Your friend s somehow making you feel guilty because he stood at your wedding. He is being childish and not being respectful. What f while you are in Benin standing for him your wife gives birth? Is this your first child?

Enroll her in school now. You don't have something good and let it slip away