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Does he even consider you his girlfriend. At the rate you are going you will sleep with 50 men in one year. Then your posts will become "My fiance found out about my whorish past and now he wants to call of the wedding, nairaland abeg help me". You seem to have self esteem issues if you really want to turn yourself into a LovePeddler to keep a man. I don't understand your logic.

My husband's love has not reached that level. Hmm. He is so anti new food. One day I ordered frog legs o common frog legs and he almost had a heart attack because I was eating frog legs. He will not even eat nigerian foods that he did not grow up with. The only time he will experiment is maybe at a chinese bistro otherwise it is always steak and a salad.

This is enough to drive a woman mad. I was apart from my child a week after he was born in the intensive care unit. I was only gone a week but I almost went crazy not holding my baby. God please help this woman. She is actively searching and not just sitting at home and "leaving it in God's hand". Reward her hardwork. She will find her child.

If you love naija like I do work yourself to the bone and prepare your life for nigeria. That is our focus right now. We know we want to be in Nigeria and raise our kids there but we have to set ourselves up so we are working hard like mad people now to set things up in nigeria and also here in the states. From the day my parents forced me to come to the states my plan was to make nigeria my base eventually. Luckily my husband is on the same page. America is still home and I love it here too but my heart is in Nigeria. There is no place like home

My cousin's say otherwise. Though most of the kids they are around are priviledged pampered kids but they say that youngsters in nigeria are just out there. The fact is it does not mater where you were raised it matters more who is raising you.

pepperspray you know darn good and well that in nigeria autistic people or people living with mental retartdation or developmental disabilities are either killed aby their family members or hidden from the public. How many of them have you actually seen in Nigeria. My aunty has a son with cerebral palsy and he is a very bright kid. He is the only one that I can truly say I have seen treated well. I went to primary school with a kid with down's syndrome and I remember that whenever you go to the toilets in school, he would always be in there playing on the floor. He probably even ate the poop and nobody cared.

One I was a kid I wondered why we had upper lawani, upper mission and upper sakponba but no lower mission etc.

JustGood na wa o. Are you married? If he spends the way he wants who will save for their retirement.

As a child I had a very unhealthy relationship with my mom. I remember fear, anger and even hate. I had to pray and actually search my heart to finally start learning to see the love my mother had for all of us. I still think she made alot of wrong choices in her attitude to us but now that I am older I worry about her the way a mother worries about a child. I still say one of the best gifts God gave me was sparing my mother's life. If she had died when I was a child I would only have memories of a wicked person that only wanted to hurt me and hated me. You will feel much better if you start trying to forgive your mom and I can sense that you are trying. I have a wonderful relationship with my mom now and now that she is back home in Nigeria I miss her dearly

Honestly I don't know how people survive in nigeria. I paid 4000 naira for diapers that I can buy for $11.99.

The new bond girl was born with six fingers and had it removed

I think they tie a string to it and cut it off when the baby is still a new born. Morenike just made me remember a girl I knew as a kid who told me the same story about a little mole she had close to her little finger. She said the exact same thing about an extra finger. Fummy she was also yoruba. I wonder is it has something to do with inbreeding.

Have you said this to your wife? She might not even know that she is doing it. I do it myself but I am aware of it now and apologise especially when I know the boys were extra hyper that day. I probably would never have known if my husband did not tell me. It can build resentment. If you have to talked to her about it do so.

Mybe you guys should read this first before you think you know what he is saying.
Anyway to the poster, how nasty can you be to be boinking someone that stunk like maggoty cheese. You are nasty sha.

I left for two weeks earlier this year. What is the big deal. So long as you both agree on it. If you have to worry that yoru husband is cheating when you are away then he is probably cheating when you are there.

Which head are we talking about here

No you should not keep quite. He is still attached to them infact it seems that he still considers them family. He needs to stop all contact.

I don't celebrate christmas the commercial way. We never did as a child. I will not have a christman tree in my house and my kids willnot get christmas gifts from me. I don't mind having a sign that says "JESUS IS THE REASON" or something like that or use the opportunity to tell my children the story of Christ's birth and why he was born. They will ask questions but they need to know that all the santa bullshit is just that bullshit

Ruby Pearl is there no other day care in yoru town that your nieces and nephews have to go to one that they do not change diapers or feed children. Have you said anything about it to them.

Sure he willchange and so will you. The bottom line is that you can only pretend so much. You just have to know what his core beliefs are.

MY husband is not so bad but he does sometimes. I don't even complain anymore. When I feel like I pick up when I don't and he is looking for his wallet in the morning I ask him to go look in the pile of clothes he left on the floor.

Nigeria for you. Easy solution even if it makes no sense. Why make life complicated for the avergae person that wants to upgrade their vehicles. If they are so worried about a vehicle being bought was stolen then they should set up a system where you can look up a VIN number or keep better records on the state level. People still have this mentality of "I DECREE!!!!!!" in NIgeria. There are many more other options but they know it will take more work to implement so they don;t want to go that route. They want to go the moomoo route as usual. I dependable system for registering motor vehicles has long been over due in that Nigeria.

Tara shut up please. Why don't you direct that anger to your husband

Plus Queen I agree that it definitely brought us closer. But wait o. You have 11 children? Tell me you are just playing

He was there with both. The first one he actually held one leg and the nurse held the other. The second one he sat behind the doctor and watched the whole show.

Not only has he said it to his friends, he has even said it to your face. What more do you want to hear. I know you love him but do you really want to love someone that does nto appreciate the love and sacrifice. Trust me, marriage is a sacrifice or compromise whichever one you want. You will hate your life if you are married to someone that cannot give you credit for anything

Thanks Savanaha for pointing out that he threatened her physically before she raised her voice. You can tell that he beats at least one woman a day. He was even feeling cool with himself. Ignorance they say is bliss

I don't see what the big deal is. No child is an accident by the way