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advanceDNA:
.. No one made u women into a LovePeddler...u did that by ur own decision. how this has become gaslighting is very funny....

Deceived?? drawn out?? Ontop the same fvck u so desire to fvck....... Keep deceiving urself.....If anyone is enticed by social media.....it is the men....u women dress nudé, u consciously entice men, some of u even make videos online saying how u want to be fvcked and how u are not cheap .....yet u are the ones claiming victim......

Lol.....let me get u well.. so u want men to be responsible for u women's sexual discipline/ chastity? ...haba! Madam does this sound right to u??

Cry fowl?? U are the one crying fowl here because men get to have a choice......the same choice u have but u don't want men to have it..

u spread ur legs anyhow in ur teens, u fvck any bad boy weda rich or not...... When u want to marry, u say u want God fearing men and rich guys that will end ur bill paying days and care for u like a baby..

Same.....When a man wants causal sex when he's not ready for marriage...he chooses any random casual partner because it's just sex. ..when he wants to marry...he dare not chose same way.....this is common sense... which I bet u also expect from ur brothers and and sons

.. but u want other women's sons to forget u women have slept with 40 men and 10-15 abortions to match ..... well done... U choose to fvck around and expect it not to have consequences then call it gaslighting... lol ..u are comedian

Lol, really? Okay. How come this bit of advice is popular around the world...'If he loves you, he will wait?' a piece of advice commonly given to young girls? I'm guessing it's not exactly the girls pressurizing guys, 🤔.

Who owns the majority of books on seducing the other party? Tricks to make the other gender like them? Is it women? Nope, it is men.

Yes, women have choices, but they don't go around making men broke, before coming out to say they want a rich man. Men seduce those small girls and sleep with a lot of them, then come out crying for virgins. Let's not add the much higher rate of rape amongst men.

We don't choose to f around o. From even 12 years to 29 years at least, there is mad pressure on women from guys. Guys will convince them that they love them, only to sleep with them and leave them. Over and over again. Yes, you can argue about the will of women, but can you deny these things?

Men are very wild sexually, frolicking about and not caring who they use. It really doesn't make sense to start devaluing women after this. It's the women you guys contribute to creating that you get.

It is better that men change their values by not encouraging wild sexual behavior amongst themselves, to better keep their women. They say Nigeria is full of promiscuous women. Check out the men, do they respect their women?

A country with chaste women, is a country where their women are protected by their men, and respected. Check any country with good women, look at their way of handling their women, sexually or otherwise.

You can choose what you want, but don't plant corn and expect apple trees.

The only guys that deserve this honor, personal opinion, is guys who truly respect women's wishes. They have never kept pushing on any lady, only to sleep with her and go. Guys that will NEVER play hide and seek with a woman, he doesn't go there nor give her any ultimatum until she blatantly says that she is also ready for sex, no funny half assed green light. Those guys that know how to control their dvck. They NEVER contributed to the so called loose girls. Loose guys deserve loose girls, and disciplined guys deserve disciplined girls.

Well I'm not surprised.

advanceDNA:
Madam...You understand joor... U are just doing what u women do best...ie. "refusing to be responsible for the outcomes of ur own decision" ....

having sex is a personal decision....penîs is not randomly flying about the streets and jumping into pple's vaginas without their consent .. how u arrive at men creating whores is weird......if u chose to close ur legs and stay at home....please how will men make u a whoré??

It is a personal decision, yes. Unless you are pressured, coerced and deceived.


Staying at home, lol. A guy once told me that he would rather have casual sex with a girl from a good home than bed a prostitute. I asked why? Guy said quelling his urges with a prostitute meant that he was a loser. That is how most guys think. With social media, it is in their houses that most girls get pressured, decieved and drawn out.

I'm not going to be gaslighted here. Girls in the University are considered fair game. Being a stud that has slept with many fine girls is the ambition of many very young guys. Telling stories of who they've done is a favorite past time of guys. You can connect the dots if you wish.

Yes, you guys are fond of creating whores. And then crying wolf.

It is so absurd to me. You still want to control your son at 37 years. It seems so weird and odd to me.

jeromestarks:
Quick question before you get the explanation you need.

Are you a virgin?

Is it only virgins that have a right to get answers from you? Replying questions with questions. Please don't deflect.

jeromestarks:
Once you marry a woman you did not disvirgin, forget it,you have already shot yourself in the foot. DNA test can't save you because the baby is already a mix of your DNA and her ex(s) DNA.

You want to safe money of DNA test and have peace of mind, fvck any girl you want but when it comes to marriage, find a virgin woman and marry. Only her deserves your love and devotion.
She kept herself, she deserves to be kept.

Hi Jerome. I'm curious. If men truly follow your rules, why are there many non virgins roaming about? If men truly follow your dictates, all women should be married to who disvirgined them by now. So what happened? If the men did follow your rules, no unchaste woman should be out there now.

I'm just curious. Is it that the men slept with some virgins and then left them and didn't marry them? Because it looks like that is what happened. Can you explain the non virgins being rejected please? Why are there non virgins? What happened to the men that disvirgined them? Why have those men refused to marry them? Didn't those girls keep themselves as well?

It's doubtful o. It seems as if your guys are the ones creating the so called whores whom you turn around to condemn. Abeg explain. I no understand.

Pedrii22:
Texted back.

Responded.

Pedrii22:
Done..

Ok. Seen and acknowledged.

1Sharon:
You should see a dermatologist, they're the best people to advice you. No DIY or hearsay.

Yeah, I will.

drimzsmoke:
This is your second time of using this word. Ma, what do you mean by hyperpigmentation

Hyperpigmentation causes patches of skin to become darker than the surrounding skin. Caused by different things, in my case sunburn, always itching my eyes, and probably excess heat from many years around the kitchen. You can search it up to know more.

alfajohn:
Public speaking is not your mate. Our educational system failed us we were not trained for such.
We should have been made to make presentation at our early age.

Very true. It is bad when schools only choose the star students to speak or go for debates. Leaving other students to rot.

Pedrii22:
Hi, good morning.

How do I get in touch with you with regards to your sketches.

You can send a PM.

1Sharon:
Maybe what you're using is too harsh for your skin. People think that so many steps in their skincare and expensive products is the best.

But marketing has deceived us. Less is more.

Marketing has deceived us actually. I've used many soaps, but as I get older, less things work. I noticed these mainstream creams don't usually work too. The intense skin care, I haven't even done it. Who has like 30k to spend on products just to remove hyperpigmentation and make skin glow? I don't. My friend whose skin glows uses around 40k and above per month. Skincare only. I just dey see her getting deliveries of all these special skin products via dispatch rider on her social media. I don't know why I no get friends wey go dey dash me like that, but, kudos to her.

One of these days when money comes in, I have to try the expensive way. Because, I must change my skin for the better, by fire by force. For now, we continue with Dettol and the likes.

FalseProphet1:
I see Lagos girls walking nàked in the coming weeks, I see sex starved guys handling their breasts, I see the police picking up these girls under the guise of safe keeping to go and press their breasts and nyash in their stations.

I see the price of condoms skyrocketing, I see youths protesting about the increment of condoms, I see Tinubu sharing free condoms as palliatives, I see the youths promising to vote for him for 2nd term.

This I have seen.

So, because guys are sex starved, it is okay for ladies to be harassed and used? You really thought about this in an unfair way.

I wonder why some people take their partners for granted. How can your baby die, such a sad thing, then you tell your wife in a callous way that you're angry with her over some show, a woman who's still trying to get over loss, a woman that did everything for you. Not only that, you told her it's over in that manner, blaming her for everything... After looking at what she did for you and where she comes from, guy why would you just assume you can walk all over her like that, and get away with it? Na WA o.

Which juju made you feel you could just treat her like that and go Scot free? Your spirit didn't warn you or something? You must have been taking a risk deliberately.

What I'm trying to understand is how I use soap and have this rough hyperpigmented combination tired looking skin WHILE USING SOAP, and there she is, glowing with no soap. I'm beginning to think it's a gene thing. I'm going to bed to stew about it. 😡🚶🏾‍♀️

Secondary school; one of my English teachers betted against the other that I could debate well. They fixed a debate with me in it. On the d day, two girls from my class sat behind me. I remember it was the tallest girl in the class and one other short girl. When I wanted to get up as my name was called, they pulled me down, they pulled my clothes, whispering to me that I don't know anything that I'll say, can I debate, etc. Because of them I sat down and didn't go. Someone else took my spot.

At the University level, 300 level to be precise, we had a group project. Everyone in my group was messing up when it came to presentation. Nobody even expected me to make anything better, as I was known to be quiet and antisocial. However, I knew the whole thing back to back. When it got to my turn, I don't know what entered me. I just looked at the fact that I know this project too well, to hell with whoever is looking at me sef. I spoke and everyone was dumbfounded. Even the lecturer was so pleased. I saved my group with my presentation. It was so surprising to my set, that girl that everyone assumes knows nothing. That week, I received admiration and hailing die. Some people even asked that I should come and teach them. It was a short lived bit of Fame, but it made me happy.

You can overcome your fear of the crowd at any age. Once you do, you can always do it again.

Cute. The guys deliberately trading insults for the compliments you feel she needs,hope you will use those compliments to buy akara. Stingy ass dudes. 😪

Some people are trying to complete their Christmas flex money. By fire by force.

Finally, my chance to give an opinion on this so called fake life.

Looking good, posing with nice cars and things is not fake life to me. Even using make up that differs from your natural look is not fake life to me. People have bastardized the notion too much.

So you know what fake life is? It is actually lying about what you own or how you look like. If you don't claim these things, then you can't be said to be living a fake life.

If I'm poor or ugly it doesn't mean I can't take nice pictures in nice places or dress up nice. Not everything is fake life.

This thing is painful.

Ginomel:
Only the wise will understand what you just wrote.

You can even add those friends that saw you as unexposed because you refused to live their lifestyle.

Now they are getting old, they have started understanding why you were not interested in that lifestyle then. They just realised now that it doesn't worth it. Something you discovered even when you were far younger.

I tire o. They are JUST realizing that you can be happy without sleeping around. That a person whom isn't the finest or most popular still has value. I want to talk about this in depth, real depth.

Going with another woman is a decision that can be made despite the best attempt to satisfy a man, so it's not the fault of the woman. At worst, a man can decide to divorce so that his next move will be without dirty hands, so if he does things behind the woman's back, that is his way of handling things.

However, for women, I have something to say. How do women treat the house help badly and not realize that they are creating a 'Cinderella Situation' ? Come on, you are three times the age of the maid, then you shout on her and mistreat her...then you are fastening the process of your husband noticing you are older and grouchy, while she's a helpless, 'pretty young thing'. I'm not supporting men, but this maltreatment helps the man look more in her direction, pity her, and finally notice how hardworking and fine she is.

If as a woman you act like this... Congratulations. Because singlehandedly, you have created a Cinderella (the help), and now you will be that older mean stepmother in the house. Which leaves less sexual attention diverted to you.

Anyway, you never know what men's kinks are. If you're lucky, that promiscuous hubby might prefer a 'wicked stepmother ' sexually. Who knows? Many men are freaky.

He he...let me see any of those guys or girls who never considered me to be in their class when they were younger. Could never mix with me, were too pretty or too popular, too big, really. I will never believe their 'changed' characters. You're older now, you're now humble, abi? You're older now, you can now talk to me? Now you're older, you're not that highly sought college beauty, now it's cool to hang out with me abi? Now that we are all old? I won't accept to be anyone's fall back friend. How you were up in the sky before, stay there. They form holy, they form what not, I smile in my mind. Only if you can give me a very sincere apology, like, sorry for how we sidelined you. If not, claim humble wherever and whenever, I will never believe it. They're only mellow because the world has mellowed down for them. If God were to turn them young again, they would never hang with me.

Lol, and they want the world to believe that women are the sex crazy ones, the promiscuous ones. A lot of times, as shown in these images, ladies are pushed. Yes, not completely innocent all the time, but most times they are pushed, even into becoming sexual maniacs.

When one is a single searching for a partner and for years this is the harassment you'll be facing. Head on demands for sex, no respect. It ends for some ladies, and some other ladies never get to know what it is to meet a decent man, or to be courted decently. Then the same men come out and make them look like ho.es. It's really sad.

Your family doesn't love you, after everything they discovered they are still pushing you to a married man, they didn't see any fresh man for a single lady with no kids like you. They are pushing you to a man with plenty baggage, where you and the first wife will be at loggerheads. I don't think they really love or care about you.

You better run, with your slippers on your head.

Opanka44:
My Brother, the trend is worrisome. I made a simple post and some had to insult me for no just reason. The kids on Nairaland are becoming too many now. The inventors of this platform must quickly do something about this. Let's have an Option to Block some of these kids pls

If i had a forum I would have my number one rule to be no insults. If you dare insult anyone you are banned forever. You will never be able to come back. The message is to go and be an animal somewhere else, leave the platform for sane people who really want to engage in meaningful conversations.

So heartbreaking. It's painful to read and painful to see people claiming she lied. Just because they don't want their fellow man blamed. I really hope that wherever she is now, she would have healed, and I pray that God gives her justice.

So many times, rape scenes are not at all like you expect. The intimidation, the situation, is not in the way everyone expects it to go. It's something that doesn't have a particular pattern. I really really hope she heals and the old man has been punished somehow.

omooba969:
Give the dog a bad name and hang him. I can read between the lines. 👏

Lol okay.