₦airaland Forum

niyidenrele:
Just be rest assured that
Any devices or gadgets that don't support climate control
Should be expected in motherland Africa
Trust them

It's surprising how Africans keep surviving despite all these difficulties.

Enginiaman1:
I read in the Bible that the world will remain forever,if the Bible says so and some people believe God will destroy this beautiful earth,is that not contradicting?

Quote the verse, let me see what's there

Enginiaman1:
Wow,that's cool.
But wait,smile.
do you think God will destroy this earth one day?
I want to know ma,I am just been inquisitive though.

Do I think?

What have you been told Mr?

Enginiaman1:
Human activities can cause that, but not human sins sir.take for example.
If you own a house as a landlord,and all your tenants are bad and wicked,will you because of them breakdown your house,NO is the answer because you worked hard to build that house,and it sounds foolish to do such a thing.
You can only chase them or give them quick notice to park out!

They didn't tell you that the earth is God's footstool, right?

Imagine how important a common footstool would be in a giant mansion.

Even Science tells you that the earth is but a blip in our own milky way, let alone in the entire universe. We are actually replaceable, both to the earth and to God Himself.
Yeah, yeah, I get it, humans are amazing yada yada yada, but you are amazing because Someone made you so.

We are only being spared because of God's Mercy, Justice actually demands that a soul that sins should die.

Repent now before it's too late.

P. S. You don't get to tell your Maker how to run things. He's Wise enough.
Know your place, human.

PussyKing:
Who is Oni of Ife by the way?

Don't prostate before a useless king

What does Oni of ife do for a living

It's not your fault.
You have no ancestry.
You will leave no legacy.
Repent, else you will rot, and be forgotten.

Buccalcavity2:
I still marvel at this Ife culture and organization. The king has many king subjects who are still rightful kings in their domain and still run errands within and outside the palace of the Oni. Yet they don't have as much history of revolt like the Oyo empire. Though I think the Oyo empire was bigger and mightier but the dynamics surrounding the Oni seems more complicated.

Don't get it twisted, both royal stools are under one culture. Yoruba is one and same all over the world.

Too bad. These are people who wish to lead the country.

Lies

Are they going to be responsible for the 5 kids when University expenses come calling?
What is their business sef?

This woman has been working hard to get the body shape she desires, and all haters do is insult her with the kind of venom they are breeding in their filthy spirits.
I hope she keeps making successes while haters remain in one spot throughout their miserable lives.

Splendoor:
Money too much but still this is preposterous, at least show respect for your creator nah... see why God said the love of money is the root of evil.. the pastor can't even rebuke him, there's no respect on the Lord's alter unlike those times in Genesis...
God for Don fire the pastor and the sprayer

Not all altars are dedicated to God.

God knows all His altars.

Lostchild:
Mary, Mary

How are you ?

I'm fine, thanks.
How are you?

A lot of women worship their sons and mistreat their daughters, not knowing that the sons will be hampered by their wives when they will need someone to care for them in their old age.
If you're a woman reading this, take good care of your daughters, so that they will be kind to you in your old age.
My two cents.

Goldenheart:
1 out of 10 males have experienced these sexual harassment.

I have one deep down in my memory...


I still don't know if it happen or it was a dream

Set her up, like Princess did, but this time, lure her to confess clearly on secret recording. Then go legal.

Dupalmer:
A man can get sex from anywhere almost at anytime. Even close friends and relatives of a lady can easily dishonor her and offer him sex.
#hardfact

Any woman can get sex from anywhere, at any time.
Sex is cheap nowadays.

CSTRR:
Sperm no dey spoil jor.

Unfortunately for you, sperm is not made of iron.
Educate yourself.

Dottore:
The emphasis has always been in eggs but men have much greater chances than women. For example a 70year old man can easily fertilize the egg of a girl in her 30s and below but most women in their 30s and above may need to tune up with egg boosting medications in order to conceive.

Correction 1: A woman above 30 is not a girl.
Correction 2: You have no medical research to back up your claims.

Most of you wish fertility problems will come from females alone, unfortunately for you, both males and females experience it.

Please don't reply. I don't want to reduce my IQ abeg.

FalseProphet1:
As the topic implies, I recently told it to a girl whom I felt was way older than the lifestyle she was forcing herself to live, I noticed that her mood changed and she went into a rage and said I insulted her... please house look into it, is it an insult?

And why do many girls see that statement as an insult?

Marry her naw.
Are you not a man?

lawrenzooo:
I have been in a relationship with a lady for the last 6 years and last year and the relationship produce a son last year.
As it stands now I don't intend proceeding with marriage as we have had so many issues along the line.
The problem
I intend sitting down with her to have the conversation and discuss the baby's upkeep.
However some people think I should just keep my distance and she would get the message rather than discussing it with her but then again a child is involved that I have to cater for.

You advice would be welcome
Am a bit confused as to how to go about the whole thing.

If I didn't read all your previous posts, I would have blasted you.
You have been with this lady for so long, yet you have not been able to draw the necessary boundaries.
These are the issues I have noticed:
1. Possible philandering. She probably had someone else at some point in your relationship.
2. Inappropriate closeness with the opposite gender.
3. Disregard for your feelings and inability to make you feel secure as her only partner.

Now you got a baby involved. I personally feel that no one should be forced into marriage, even after having kids. But I still think you can salvage the situation if you can get professional counseling, both of you should stop manipulating each other and grow up.
Six years is not a joke.
Stop using break up to make her change.
Get someone to help you, like her parents etc.
But if you can no longer cope, don't force it. Good luck.

mekusmanuel:
Good evening.
Just now, I didn't greet my dad after eating my dinner. Not that I don't want to but each time I try, the words hook in my throats. Note that I'm not a stammerer, neither does it happen in my mom's case. Just like this morning, I walked past my dad without uttering a word of greeting. He later complained about it not realizing that I actually wanted to, but the words just didn't flow.

Meanwhile, my father is a strict man, and has succeeded in instilling fear in me towards him when I was a boy. He would scold and flog me thoroughly if I make any slightest mistake. This has savoured the relationship I have with him.

Furthermore, he has anger issue, so tends to dish out instructions with a harsh voice. There's no father and son discussion between us. The little talk we do have is usually done standing. I'm sorry to say that he lacks humour too. You might end up annoying while trying to make him jolly.

I'm really concerned because I'm his first child and only son. I need to make things right.

Every morning when you wake up, go straight to him, prostrate and say good morning Sir, that's what a well brought up son will do.
You can't be living in his house and refuse to greet him. His anger issues is none of your business. Do your bit and get out when you're ready.
I can't believe your Mom refused to caution you.

In my opinion, both the man and woman deserve each other.

The Tout and the Street Girl.

muller101:
What else can she offer apart from sex.

I don't know

Vision101:
@Saintmary

Modified:
And next time, be stingy with sex, very stingy. E get why.



@me
Will it change anything? Not in this era where ladies are stranded and there is fierce competition among them for eligible men.

Your information is wrong, eligible men and women full ground. Maybe you're in a village sha.

Oliviajones:
He doesn't even want sex. I'd give him that if that's what it takes.

So, what's your problem?

Move on.

Find your tribe, friends and party with them or go to some religious house or NGO and donate your time.

Wake up already, so much to do.

Kriss216:
Be stingy with sex

She's a Nigerian girl. What else will she be offering the guy? Long life

I don't know, any other thing, these guys are not worth your cookie.

Oliviajones:
He broke up with me over a month ago. We still talk because I keep trying to convince him why we should get back together but he'd rather we remain friends. I've begged, I've cried, I promised changed attitude.
I get panic attacks at night, I can't cope properly during the day. I had built my life around him.

I can't do the no contact thing because I fear he'd forget about me and move on. Please talk to me. This is the worst I've felt.

He's had you, you're no longer new to him.
That's what we call see finish.
If you love yourself, cut off all contact with him, dust yourself up and meet a new person.
If you talk to him, he'll only manipulate you into giving him free sex, you can never win that game.

Moveeeeeeee on.

Modified:
And next time, be stingy with sex, very stingy. E get why.

destiny4luv:
I have been married for 11 years now with beautiful and lovely two daughters. I do love my family with the whole of my heart, they are my world and pride and I bless God for His provision, Grace and love upon us as a family all these years.

The reason I am writing this is because most times I really do miss those single days as a bachelor. Back then I can hang out with my pals in the club especially on weekends and have the best of fun without any thoughts of worrying/rushing home to be with the family. The feeling is so breath taking (un-imaginable), the only thing u think of is just urself and urself alone, do whatever u want to do and go wherever u want to go just like a bird in the air no restrictions. But as a family man all those privileges are gone and gone for good.

My reason for writing this "sometimes I miss single hood" was because my wife got me so upset last night that she almost made me hit her but I didn't (though she has apologize) and I have forgiven her. I was hanging out with some of my friends and colleagues yesterday and it's really been long we had such gathering/fun since everyone is now married with family and responsibilities. My wife called me to know when I will be home because I don't stay out late at most 7:30 or 8:00pm am home, but as at yesterday some minutes past 9:00pm my wife called me to know where I was and when I will be home; I told her am with my pals that I will be coming home late, she can go to bed without waiting up.

Myself and my friends really had good time together, discuss a lot and celebrated each other. And after everything we all parted ways and before I got home was some minutes past 11:00pm thinking my wife will be asleep by then since I told her not to wait up. Lo and behold I got home open the door and saw my wife sitting in the sitting room with so much hanger on her facial expression, I was surprised she was still awake after Ieting her know I will be coming home late. The next thing she does was greeted me with annoying toon, took my bag from me angrily and took it to d bedroom which she always does when I returned from work. I know she was hangry but I didn't expect her to be angry at all, so I went to d room straight to the bathroom and took my bath.

When I was through bathing, I went to Check on my kids in their room they where far asleep, I just gave them good night peck and straight to the sitting room. Normally we always stay together in the sitting room play have fun and watch some family TV shows together before bed time. I was listening to some cool jams on TV because I was a little bit tipsy after the hang out I just wanted to listen to some soft and easy jamz to calm me down before going to bed. While relaxing my wife came from the room and started yelling at me saying I have gotten a new girl outside and planning to destroy our Union. Sincerely speaking I was shocked and disappointed at her shallow reasoning never expected such from her. I thought she was on something (drugs) but she wasn't and she has never been on such before.

After all her yelling and accusations which I allowed her to express herself (though I was almost tempted to hit her but I restrain myself) l asked her if she was through with her accusations but she didn't respond. I told her that I am truly disappointed in her for her foolish and childish behavior/reason. Truth be told I haven't cheated on my wife sine we got married and I don't plan or intend to do that. After talking some sense into her she started crying and apologized which I truly forgave her. All she needs was just that trust and confidence from her man no matter what and which I gave to her.

Sorry for the long write up, all am trying to say is there is joy in single hood and a more greater joy in being married with family, believe me am speaking from experience. As a single guy/lady enjoy ur single hood because that's all u have got now, because when u are married all that will be left will just be memories of good old single days. But trust me u will enjoy martial life more especially when u are married to ur soulmate. Though sometimes u will miss the good old days of single hood which is normal, but it is nothing to be compared with a happily built home.

Tales of a confused husband.
Your wife is the one that can't manage crises.
Just work out a separate night out for each of you per week and everyone wins.

Curious345:
Mr ataga's wife made him who he is.

He was a poor road side boxer until he met this preety lady ,who was a director in the nnpc.

She invested in his dreams ,and look how he paid her back ..

Lesson for Naija women, I have been screaming for years.
Don't expect a man to be faithful to you because of what you have done for him.
He will only make sure you don't find out.

Curious345:
Ok.

PLEASE ladies, allow your men marry as many wives as he wants for peace to reign

If a man marries many women, then he will no longer be the woman's man, he will be 'our husband'.

Seriously, I wonder why women fight against polygamy sef, it will reduce the pressure on the woman to hold a man down, especially these wild untameable humans scattered all over this country.
Phew.

Abegi.